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prciouschika:
Please someone should help a sister get a good job... My new year wish

Nice. What's your highest qualification and location?

Should never be done. Except of course, that person is someone you can discuss anything with. It's usually seen as rude... Even asking how much certain things cost.

If I'm gonna do that, then it must be with siblings and close friends.

Only exemption I can think of is say, I wanna interview for a job, and I know someone in a similar role, only then I could be like "Can you give me an idea of what the renumeration is?"

I've been asked that by certain people that had no right to ask, and I felt really weird. The look I usually have on my face is enough to kill the devil.

Funny enough, those that should ask this question, hardly ask. It's those monitoring spirits that won't let one rest!

Twoclans:
I fear who no fear marriage,To imagine that so many more women would have quietly killed their husbands and Framed it on sickness is scary.

Exactly... Our values keep on getting extinct. Men and women alike. I don't blame those that aren't open to getting married.

Alooone:
I got married to my husband in 2013, we are blessed with 2kids (a boy and a girl)

In 2017, barely 2 weeks after giving birth to our son I was diagnosed with puepurium psychosis. A kind of mental illness that afflicts women that have just given birth and since it has been from one medication to another..

Now since after my diagnosis my husband has been a source of emotional, verbal and physical abuse... He blames my parents for everything as he feels "cheated " feeling that they knew all about my "sickness " before we got married and kept it from him.....

He felt I was a liability and feels he is too young to shoulder such... There was nothing my husband didn't do to frustrate me...

So around June this year I left my home for my father's house and have been there since, now since I have been there my husband hardly calls when he does he wants to speak with his children. He doesn't call my parents to ask about my well-being or that of his kids.

Sometimes I feel abandoned, now the issue is that the love I have for him is beginning to reduce, sometimes I feel like letting him go and starting all over. Other times I want to stay cos I think of my children's future.

As for the psychosis ALL the symptoms have gone as am typing this now I have a job with a small private school and planning to either proceed with my masters or start a nursing programme.

So please I need your advice. Should I let him go?

I think you should leave things the way they are, focus on yourself and watch how it goes. Just focus on making money.

It's not like you are in a rush to remarry. Yourself and taking care of the kids should be primary.

Thegeneralqueen:
Looks like those fishes were poison by a guy she refuse to date......Fear men

Or a lady she stole her man

No one needs validation from anyone. Whatever you wanna do, just do it. You came to the world alone, you will die alone. If you believe in judgement, you will be judged alone. Why all these long epistle cos you wanna swap a belief system?

We tend to make life complicated for ourselves.

It's a free world. Make your choices and stick to the consequences if there will be any.

Simple

andrewbaba44:
100k ke

Me that I lost my passport to get a new one cost me 85k at ikoyi

I got it within 2 weeks

What you mentioned and what we are talking about are they the same thing? Is Ikeja and Abuja the same?
What's the difference between 85 and 100?
What was said...Work with, right ?

You guys should try to read to comprehend fully, not just reply.

P.S: Don't use wakanow. I've been seeing a lot of complaints about them.

Using travel and tour companies an individual can get a week's package for 400k-450k. (outside high traffic period). 450k *4 = 1.8m. Let's drop an extra 500k for shopping and miscellaneous expenses, we still have a total of N2.3m.

Now if you are planning to travel in Dec, which I guess not, as it is almost over, that figure will just be about right.

Note that those figures listed includes everything, asides three meals. Some offer two, some complimentary breakfast, while others go ahead to offer buffets.

If you need some names, could give you pointers, and you can go ahead to compare.


If I were in your shoes, I'll also push for a discount. Buying up 4 seats ain't no mean feat

I really don't care.. As long as there isn't any stench, you mind your business and I have my phone fully charged with my earphones plugged in. Music is everything

If I were to advise you, I'll tell you to look for another country to study

Gernny:
Beautiful place o i heard from someone there,you need to learn spanish,,its easy to apply for resident permit once you get there.They have a consulate in abuja,the interview is held on skpe.Once your visa is approved then you can pay for the visa.

This sounds interesting...like somewhere to visit.

Visa application can be done without visiting the embassy?

Good thing I know some Spanish.

A lot of Latin Countries make residency easy, once you are there. Chile, Nicaragua, DR.

No one mentioned that you can only have it done in Abuja. I'm actually gonna have my name on my passport updated next year.

And yes, like they said... It's gonna be expensive... Just work with 100k in your mind. Before things got so bad, my mate was quoted 60k....so was prolly 40-50k it would have been done.

Try to meet a senior officer... Not those small ones that will still need to grease so many people's palms... Making it more expensive.

omokoginimi:
lol. No problem sir. That’s what we want; show people the beauty of the village

Thanks bro. Gonna be in touch when the time comes. WhatsApp ne?

czarina:
It's quite affordable!
You can call any of the numbers on our profile. Thanks!

Which of your numbers are on WhatsApp?

What you need is a friend. Getting married will make your husband and then yourself miserable. If you need a friend to talk to... I'm here.... Sometimes.

omokoginimi:
come with me, I’ll show you things you never seen before in that your Jos place. My village is too beautiful

I'm coming so you can show me too...abi na only women you dey show?

czarina:
Our beautiful Plateau state being so sufficiently represented here! Nice work op.


Make plans to visit Plateau today! You'll love this state!



And while you're visiting, remember to book our delightfully rejuvenating massage sessions.

You'll love every second!

I'll give you a call when I'm in. Hope it's lowly priced though

If I were you, I'll be giving thanks. Better to be single, than deal with all these baggage. You aren't making a mistake... Trust me, he will get worse. Not forgetting the fact that everyone is naturally angry in this Buhari regime... Imagine how angry an angry man will be. If he's this bad, because he thinks you guys are almost in the end zone, imagine how bad he'll be when you guys are married.

As long as you have one or two positives in your life (your business), there is nothing to worry about.

There are still a good few men left... But I did rather stay with my sanity and dignity intact, than marry the wrong man, if I were in your shoes.

People can say what they wanna, but a broken engagement is a billon times better than an unhappy marriage and then a broken one.

Grace can have it. Trust your instincts and don't let your family talk you into shit.

They won't be the one receiving Wilder sized punches then... It will be you, reflecting on how you didn't go with the convictions you had.

Peace and love to you.

LadySarah:
King Tonto comes to mind .The way her son will run to his father later might kill her.

Women Shine your eyes well.slaving while the sperm donor is somewhere enjoying.

You call taking care of your child slaving? Does it matter what happens in the future? Your child remains your child, whether the other is useless or not. Are you doing it for yourself or another?

Humans are amazing.

pocohantas:
Na there problem go start na. Reminds me of one babe wey I see for plane, she come dey ask me how much from airport to XYZ. I say I no know, but lets put it at 5k. She said it is much, I told her she can enter bus.

Next thing she say she wan piss. As she stand, naso nyash full everywhere and she wear those mumu spandex fabric. She was in the center. By the time she brush the man at the aisle seat with nyash. Brush am going, brush am coming back- e no reach 5mins, the guy start to introduce imsef. Me sef know say e no fit survive that nyash brushing. He gave her a ride to wherever

Hahahaha. You are just a problem. Madam smarty pants, I won't be surprised you served as an inspiration.... Based on your posts I see all over the place.

This guy has an envious, dubious look. Hard to believe he is the wrong party. See his belle like politician.

cashreport:
Coded


Information

Wike and Amaechi are ikwere and they still talk and plan behind the back

They agree codely that ikwere must rule for Complete 8 years stretch

So what confusion and court cases you see In the front view has been planned by both the ikwere sons (Amaechi & Wike both still in same cult as I type this )

Well planned script

Wike has already won saturday election with wide margin ( mark my post )

Haha. And then, this their cult runs the South south, and them dey jam steady. I pity those that are dying for for them.

Well she was intelligent when we were in high school. A bit surprised about the caption. She's not a small girl o

kingkakaone:
Some parts of PH are becoming dirty these days, mostly woji axis. They like dropping waste everywhere, though I don't support this extortion from those guys.

I agree with you.

yomi96:
shut your gutter, must every thing be about politics, to the op is it compulsary fee or a fine for keeping a dirty enviroment? and you should channel this to the right authorities like the ministry of environment.

No, not a fine. Simple extortion. Used to bail yourself. They have policemen with them, to make it seem legitimate.

Pls, no need to fight.. I have seen this happen when Amaechi was governor. It's not about politics

My brother, it was still there, but seems they are in new areas now. They won't charge you to any court or anything.... But they will make sure they waste your time. Anything can happen along the way.

One on white is one of the so called "health" people.

They usually collect N5000 from people before they let them off, except you call someone they know or are scared of.

Took them before I came down.

So this is currently going on in Woji. Some guys claiming to be sanitation guys, go from shop/office to the next, claiming the area is dirty, and picking people and putting them into a bus.

Some so called health officials wearing white tops are there, along with two or three policemen, who I don't know how they got them.

They took my staff (about 3 hefty guys) and I almost got into a scuffle with them (about 5 or 6 surrounded me) , and then, they said I must enter. These are well abled guys that should be busy doing something tangible.


Pls push this until it gets to the relevant authorities.

Managed to get two snapshots. One shows the name of the so called organisation they are representing.

Managed to get one of the officers number. It is 409022.