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Webmannigeria:
Which Aba shut DOWN? Shut down for WHO? Rubbish

Uncle, the whole of Aba was shut down today, I was in traffic for more than 5 hours, something that has never happened in Aba!
Truth be told, OUK is loved by Aba people, that can't be said aboutTA Orji and Ikpeazu

In as much as having an earthen pond is the best, the disadvantages are very grave as it is above, you risk loosing everything when there's flood. She should've had concrete ponds as backups

hardbody:
I rep Amannagwu...

Ndewo nwanne!

hardbody:
I rep Amannagwu...

Ndewo nwanne!

hardbody:
He can go screw his airport. We the Aro people detest his lying and supersonic mediocrity. He got angry that we refused to vote for him in both first and second tenure and has consistently shown all manner of wickedness to the Aros and especially civil servants and teachers in that local government. We still don't care.

and we've been surviving! I rep Obinkita

OreMI22:
The first thing to observe that this is a hoax is that they don't have any specific location of the airport.

In truth, Abia does not need an airport.
They only need to make the road between Owerri and Umuahia very smooth as well as the road between Aba and Portharcourt.

However, if Abia must build an airport, it has to be in ABA to have any hope at all of being viable.
It will then be preferable for business community in ABA and Obigbo to use the Aba airport than Owerri and PH.

But Abia is a weird state, so expect the airport to be in Ohafia, Arochukwu or Ubakala
Where it will be overgrown by weeds two days after commissioning.

lol he'll never build that airport in Arochukwu, he might in Ohafia because that's the LGA of his deputy, but Arochukwu? he hates Arochukwu with passion!

The only LGA he couldn't rig in the last election

naijanaso:
This is the height of looting avenue. Indulging in an Airport building when you don't have any good road in the state. Just one tiny flyover took him a decade to build...Pray for Abia

the flyover is still there like that, hasn't even been completed. For 5 years now!

You no for beat am sha. That's a lesson for we guys, when it comes to family and relationships, we need to pay attention to those little things. If you can't stay with or tolerate any member of my family, there's no point being with you. I can't even imagine getting married and having my wife oust my family

Lol, he even had to use the CALM DOWN word...
Anyone found guilty should be punished irrespective of race, religion or even political affiliation. Nigeria and Nigerians deserve better!

This isn't necessary, Mr Governor

ikorodureporta:
stop this market comparison

Why?

peacesampson:
Is still bad no matter how long the effects takes it grants no peace ..is evil

Exactly

peacesampson:
[Pls do not listen to this advise.....no matter how sugar coated it is .. masturbating and pornographic is evil ....be determined to stop and pray and read ur Bible always reading ur Bible can help take ur mind off ....never allow unecessary thought occupy ur mind..best wishes quote author=hopefulLandlord post=92117746] Bullsheet! I know rich men and women that engage in the two acts. It only becomes an issue if it gets out of control just like almost anything in life. Control is key

Masturbation is addictive! though it's addictive effect might take time to manifest in some people!

PLEASE TAKE TIME TO READ ALL

All those scientific measures aimed at stopping masturbation are only temporal, it doesn't even work on most people.
The surest way is to accept Jesus as your Lord and personal saviour willingly and from your heart. If you're already born again but for some reasons you see your self going back to old ways, just rededicate your life to God asking for forgiveness and mean it this time. This is the first step!

Once you're in Christ, you're a new creature, a new being. Old things don't matter anymore. Now giving your life to Christ and allowing Him dwell in you expels EVERY UNCLEAN spirit in your life. Note that as someone who has just given his life to Christ, you've been saved from sin and also been forgiven of your past but then there's still every tendency of going back to sin if you don't invite the HOLY SPIRIT to dwell in you, of course that's why you see most Christians after giving their lives to Christ then go back to sin in no distant time!
The Holy Spirit serves as a daily guide, He will direct you on all things. There's no weakness in your life because the Holy Spirit, the embodiment of all glory, dominion and strength lives in you in His fullness. No part of your body is available for sickness, disease, masturbation, low self esteem. The Holy Spirit in you keeps your spirit, soul and body invigorated and ever alive (Rom. 8 vs 11).

You must also allocate your time to the study of God's word because that's the only thing your spirit needs to be able to allow the Holy Spirit in you function well. That's the spiritual food your spiritual body that is made up of the Holy Spirit needs!
IN SUMMARY
*Accept Christ as your Lord and saviour
*Invite the Holy Spirit in your life
*Maintain this Spirit by continuous studying of the word of God

Once you do abide by all these principles, masturbation or even the thought of it won't ever have access to your life because a new spirit lives in you now

All the best bro

proxillin:
She has been mounting pressure on me to follow her to meet her parents. We have been in this relationship for a year now. Although she is not the only one I am dating. I am not sure of the other lady, but atleast this one is ready to marry me.

I am not sure if I genuinely love her or not, but a part of me love her..A part of me want to treat her bad, whenever I remember what she did to me in the past.

3 years ago, I started noticing and showing interest in her being my junior sister’s friend. I discussed with my sister who encouraged me to approach her that she had no boyfriend. We were on talking terms before which was an opportunity. So I leveraged on that to get closer to her. When she noticed I was getting closer, she started giving me attitudes, stopped talking to me. Finally she stopped coming to our house. She would give my sister thousands of excuses why she was not chanced to come to our house.

We met at a friends birthday party, to my surprized, she warmed up to me, greeted me. I though she must have repented. While the party was on, I asked her to come to my table and spend sometimes with me, she said “ok”. I waited for hours, she didn’t come. I later saw her in the room with the celibrant. I jokingly said to her “You dey whine me abi”. She just went off, started ranting, she said I should say whatever I want to say now infront of everyone..infront of her friends. “Why do you want me to come and sit with you?” say it now “let the whole world hear”. It was so embarrasing for me. I just said to myself “whats there..are they not aldult?..dem never toast all of them before”.

My sister was there, got angry and left us. She had already warned me to leave her alone. That I am interfering with their friendship. On my birthday, she replied to my whatsapp pictures with love and kiss icons. She went to facebook to like all my birthday pix. Facebook was alerting me as she was clicking. She finally sent me happy birthday..where is my cake..we started gisting again. She apologized for what she did that day, that she was not in a good mood that day (someone who met, joked and laugh with me, even agreed to come sit with me on my table).

We continued chattin for weeks, I made sure I didn’t get intimate with her. One day, my sister was playing with my phone, then saw our chats, read through our chats. She was mad at me. She confronted me and nearly slapped her for disrespect. She later calm down and explain to me that if I knew what this girl said about me on group chat, that I would shoot her if I have a gun. She said she didn’t tell me so that I wont feel bad.
She then show me their caucaus group chat discussing me. Tears was just coming out of my eyes. I felt cold. They were just laughing at me. My sister was just fighting for me shutting them off.

This lady said “how come some men behave like he goat. Why can’t he leave me alone?” “am I the only girl on the planet? Oh God I hate that idiot.” “Gosh, I can never be close to such person talkless of dating him” ANOTHER girl said “That’s how those guys are…you need to disgrace him more next time he try something stupid with you. Blahblah.

That’s when I closed her chapter. Blocked her on facebook, whatsapp, instagram. I moved on. My sister did photoshoot for her birthday and some of her friends came. I saw her and just greeted her, minding my business. Then I was dating another girl then, so it’s a win win for all. She stayed behind, when everyone left, she asked my sister to help her beg me. She knelt infront of me started telling me “she was sorry..she was being childish” This was someone that was in her 24 when I was chasing her. I said I forgave due to pressure from my sister. Since then, she will come to my apartment, do my laundary, cook soup inside my freezer. When she is coming from work, she will branch at my place prepare food on my table. At times she offered to sleep overnite, that she cooked till late in the night, which I will refuse.

But one thing led to another, one day, we had sex. And that changed everything. I couldn’t resist her again. But a part of me still hate her whenever I remember those disgraceful moments. Now she is 26, she want us get married. If I marry her, I may treat her bad.

In a dilema seriously and its giving me headache.

Bro, if you don't feel anything enough to marry her, then don't!
And don't have any revenge on her, it's not worth it!

mrchineke:
See useless Christian! Did God ask you to fight someone for him?

Useful Christian, I'd ignore you as well!

gypsey:
NO!! Glory be to doctors, nurses and medics. God is useless.

May God have mercy on you!
That's all I've got to say to you

Glory to God!

allen113:
op, you said you're from a poor home and she still agree to date you even when other guys are wooing her, when you were single you never made 800k, immediately you started dating her you've made over 2m, bros Abeg marry her, she get luck way dey follow her, as long as she is not cheating on you, forgive her stingy nature.

which kind luck?
Didn't you hear him say she only comes around when there's money?
Sometimes I'm baffled at the thinking level of most guys!

The more I read this stuff, the more angrier I become. You know deep down in your heart that your relationship is leading or will lead no where, you still rebuffed that mentality.
You're from a poor background but obviously you're always lucky when it comes to making money. Now my main annoyance is why didn't you invest on yourself first using your background as motivation?
There are tonnes of businesses that you can start up with 500k upwards, but you and your girlfriend squandered 800k! My God!
It'd have been more perfect to even partner with your parents with half of your initial 800k and you'd still see your results and even interests...
With all boldness, I'm telling you that girl doesn't love you!. I mean what is love when isn't reciprocated? What is love when it is one sided?
Lemme tell you bro, people that are this extravagant tend to have limited grace towards making money of which if you don't save up during the rainy days, you're definitely gonna starve during periods of harvest, and when it comes such person is doomed!

At this point in your life, you ought to have known what you want and the type of person you wanna be with!
Bro change your life, retrace your steps, ask God for forgiveness because you've erred!



I still can't imagine you squandered over 1m with someone who doesn't give a damn about you!

kestolove95:
Don't blame them, they wia brainwashed by the lies in the Bible dat says "he who find a wife has found a good thing and obtain favour from the Lord" that is the favour his obtaining from d Lord now..

Hey, you can say anything to credit your claims but don't in your life ever disrespect the Bible!

NerdyRudeGyal:
Awesome!

your personal text got me thinking real hard

Zoie:
Aswear. The sad thing is that the man coming after him might suffer for his sins.

Nah, I doubt that. That girl he explained on that post has got a good heart which is now becoming rare

Mikkymilli:
8-2 actually bros. No deny us our goal.
This one follow too but na normal league match. i de talk of final wey person dn de anticipate for long only to be heartbroken.

bro you funny die!

Mikkymilli:
See eh, my brother this question is not for ardent arsenal fans. I mean Arsenal fans like me that was with them right from when kanu scored that hat trick against Chelsea. If you are such, you won't even think of or feel any heartbreak by any girl. Do you want to know what heartbreak is? Heartbreak is Arsenal vs Barcelona champions league final 2006. Heartbreak is Arsenal vs Birmingham carling cup final. I still have not forgiven Obafemi Martins for that.
And you're here talking about girl, heartbreak, moving on. You never see anything my guy.

lol this cracked me up full time!
you for still add Man United vs Arsenal 8-1

Babanlagenius:
Not so. I only wanted to give her a better life by indirectly allowing someone else to come in cause mine was difficult.

Things have changed now.
You can correct someone without abusing the person.

You bleeped up bro, you just missed out on a few good girls around. I just don't know why most guys throwaway good things on a platter. She never complained or anything, she even begged you to reconsider but you felt you owed her a better life when she hasn't even said anything about. I mean she should be the one breaking up with you and not the other way round. You think at 26 she doesn't know what she wants? This is life bro, you can't have it all!

yankeevibe:
Eyes of lagos interview with designer / entrepreneur CYPAID

1.Tell us a little about yourself

My name is cynosure Neville , also known as Cypaid, founder and creative director of Designed by Neville, but most people call me cynosure because I used to be the editor in chief for cynosure magazine.
Have a bachelor degree in Bio medical laboratory technology and also have an international business certificate from san Francisco city collage.

I grew up in a diversed and mixed background. I was born in Nigeria, raised Jamaica & UK before finaly settling down in the United states, San Francisco to be specific.

So I think being raised in multiple cities has made me open to all different types of people, cultures, food etc. I’ve always felt lucky to be from different sides of the world.

I love travelling and living life to the fullest, like there is no tomorrow. I try to find happiness in small things of life.

I call myself a fashion scribe, because I’m so self conscious when it comes to fashion but I’m not a slave to trend.

2. Did you always know that you wanted to build your own brand?

That’s a big yes, have always loved fashion from infancy. My early curiosity for trends made me to be obsessed with fashion, so that channeled my love toward pursuing a career in fashion, I’ve always been very strong-minded and opinionated about fashion; what I want to wear, what looks best on others, and just about fashion in general.

I love the power of clothing and the transformative quality of choosing the right clothes to wear. When I was in middle school, I will use Sharpie, water color and even screen print my own clothes so as to stand out from the rest kids in class.

I took pride in having the best outfit, or at least making the biggest effort. lol.
So now that I’m much older I said to myself it’s time to turn this hobby or obsession into a full time business.

3 How did you come up with this concept?

I tell people I’m an old soul trapped in a young body, because I love to inspire and motivate people, I have a penchant to imbibe the self independent culture into people, encourage them to hustle hard and believe in themselves. My first collection inscription was “MAKING MONEY MOVES “, and my second collection which will be launched this fall got the ” SECURE THE BAG” inscription, to me fashion is a language. So I wanted to communicate with my designs, bring beauty and positive vibes into the world through fashion.

3.Whats your vision for the future of your brand?

Right now I’m only selling online, I hope to do pop up shops next year, showcase my brand on the runway, and also have my own shop at the mall , I’m also working on collaborating with top fashion houses, I cant really give out names right now, the talk is still ongoing, but as soon as I get the deal sealed you will be the first to know

5.What advice do you have to give to inspiring creatives?

Just don’t give up on your goals, it will eventually pay oneday. Yes I know its not easy, so you have to be passion and goal driven, strivehard to excel and put your best in whatever you do, network with innovative and like minded people and get yourself a dedicated team.

https://eyesoflagos.com/2020/04/24/eyes-of-lagos-interview-with-designer-entrepreneur-cypaid/

Nice and inspiring

hardbody:
Stick to what you know. The Aros are more inclined to the Efiks. Which is why we still have Ibom Eburutu...Eburutu means Efik. Having said that, the Ibibios forayed into Aro territory for a long while leading the Aros to bring in mercenaries called the Akpas to fight the ibibios and permanently keep them at bay. Beyond being an Amadi Aro, i am also blue blood and can tell you everything worth knowing about the history of Aro. Do not paint us with the wrong brush. Please.

Nwanne hapu onye mba ovia, obugi ihe dum ka ima etii onu

Eze Eze Agwu and Eze Ibom Isii, I see una!

ProtectMyMoney:
No...read the FBI case files.

Alright

ProtectMyMoney:
No...he only has UAE residence .

he has a passport too

uunwanaobong3:
Bros,. When mancity won the league in 2018 with 100 points with an all conquering and perfect debrune with highest assist in Europe, WHO Won EPL best player? Salah won it with Liverpool finishing fourth on the table.


In 2019 when mancity won the epl league with 98 points and also winning domestic cup treble the first in history of English football with an all conquering and mesmerizing/ creative Benardo Silva who also happen to won Europa Euro best player of the tornament ahead of Ronaldo beating van Dirk Holland in the final to lift the cup! ......... who won EPL best player that year? Van Dirk of Liverpool who finish second on the EPL table won ..............

My guy that award is political.... It has nothing to do with football or winning trophies........................ If debrune was playing for real Madrid or Barca, by now he would have won world best player.....

Can you compare modric to debrune? U can not, debrune is 10 times better the modric but modric won world best

The year when modric won world best, debrune has the highest assist in the whole of Europe....... But in la liga modric was number 6 on the assist table, even the likes of Suarez we're have more assist than modric............ modric carry Croatia to second place in 2018 world cup............ But debrune also carry Belgium to third place in that same world cup..... People choose to praise hazard because they like him but debrune was clearly the best player and a kingpin in that Belgium team.............................. Even if debrune carry mancity to win champions league, nobody will praise or recognized him because he is playing for mancity, the most hated club in the world.

In 2018 despite having the highest assist in Europe, and finishing third at the world cup, and winning league with 100 points, he was not even recognize in the top 10 of balloon dor list

I give up lol