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BigYash:
You dey mind them.. Most of them are wives in their homes,while the wife is the husband.. I saw one saying he saved his money in his wife's account, on another marriage topic on FP. I just dey laugh am. D day e go happen to am,na here the story go see come..

lol so you saw that dumb post too. I wanted to reply the guy , I just let it slide cos I believe a simp is irredeemable

dacblogger:
No, by the time you eventually marry,cos I'm sure no woman in her right senses will want to marry a fool like you... Na your wife go dey beat you.
He goat

shut up ode.. this clearly shows the kind of stupid woman you are. Just thank God you’re not married to a man like me. See a she Dey talk nonsense with full confidence . You for collect wotowoto
If you can’t guide your tongue and expecting a man like me to swallow your bullsht, body go tell you ..
Mumu omo

Jossyfine:
Banga stew���come with ur starch or semo.

Happy Easter

this soups reminded me of one delta girl wey we follow Dey hostel that time . Oboy she sabi treat we guys to this banga soup ehn.. wish I sabi cook all these things sha

YeyeGbami:
Sapa na ur mate?

oga rest !!

That garri get vitamin pass all those obesere rice

So you finished this magnificent building with less down 5m? Believe you me 10m no fit complete am now with the rise in price of material now

Uprightness100:
Samson was at his peak when he was frolicking with Delilah, but when the Consequences began to flow. Baba lost his eyes and lost his life.
Go and repent and ask GOD for forgiveness. Flee Immorality! It is a Destiny killer.

Even though I don’t always agree with your posts and I don’t attach spirituality to things , I think you’re very right here.. most great men fell because of women, many destiny have been cut short due to 5min enjoyment.. a man that doesn’t fall for money or power will certainly fall for woman …

jrusky:
Oga biko keep quiet we are tired of men with no brain disgracing fellow men all the time.

Are you going to come out before I say you beat her? Even the beast called Peter Ochinahi demonic husband still denying touching her after so much evidence against him.

This is not the right time to go on defense in abuse case the death of Ochinachi still boiling people up so keep your explanation till later biko.

Your trap won't work she had dumped you and the is final go and marry your sister and turn her to punching bag.

Nonsense!!!

SIMP

Nothing

Russia go suffer

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7900 naira
20k
22k
Then 23k
In that order..

We4all:
It is only someone with a very low self esteem that would subject his partner to unnecessary rules and regulations just to massage his ego.

I am a liberalist. I am free spirited. I am an advocate for the emancipation of human beings.

I am of the belief that absolutely no one should lord over another; whether males or females.

If a woman is in a relationship and walking on egg shells, then that relationship isn’t healthy.

If a woman cannot be herself or freely express herself then that relationship isn’t healthy.

Your type would insist a woman must cook and wash for you even if she is under the weather. Why? Because she is your partner and must be submissive.

Whenever I listen to people in their 20’s,30’s or even 40’s speak like these, I weep for this generation. This is because, your mentality is archaic and practiced by our forefathers.

Instead of you to think like a modern man, you are still hinged on the past like your forefathers. This is clear proof that the one who is suffering from low self esteem is you.

The only way you feel like a man is if you can control a woman. Other that that, you’re worthless.

It seems I was right when I said you’re mentally slow. How does being respectful and submissive translate to not having ‘ a say ‘ in relationship?

And why must I imbibe and worship the western culture? Does that me your culture is inferior? You’ve been brainwashed and formatted, I’m sorry I can’t be of help. You’re damaged beyond repair.

Your response is full of whataboutery self

My last reply to you dimwit

Beautiful face and flat yansh are not mutually exclusive nah ..

Pls let me have both .

But but if worst comes shove, I’ll pick fine face o cos of my kids

Shalommy:
A beautiful face with flat butt is ok for me.

so your yansh is flat talk true o. and girls with flat yansh dey wicked ehn

I see you’re trying to play safe. Unfortunately women are not meant to be trusted . That’s the bitter fact. Weather you rent house outside for your cousin or he stays under same roof with her, believe me if dem go kpansh, dem go kpansh..

But then you should play your own part, rent apartment for him and hope for the best .. take your mind off it..

We4all:
Talk is cheap and that is why a beggar once called me ‘broke’ and a mad man called me ‘stupid’.

I will wait for you to marry a billionaire’s daughter then come back and continue with the rants.

It is people like you that make marriage seems very difficult; almost like a woman is in bondage.

Why should any sane man lay down rules and regulations for his partner? Is she your partner or servant? Why should a woman be married and still be walking on egg shells?

Groom your sisters, daughters and wife to be submissive and leave other women alone. Is that too difficult to understand?

Telling me that talk is cheap clearly shows two things about you
1. You compromise a lot and never a man of your own words which means you have low self esteem
2. You are too ’slow’ to think for yourself and set your own standard.,

Also marrying a billionaire’s daughter is not an achievement to me, I can provide my needs I don’t need my in-law financial support ( like you that worship them and their money )..

If we’re to go by our tradition or western religion, a woman is created as a support , of whom you give directive..


And if we’re to go by the new norms, then every man has the right to choose a woman that ticks all of their boxes and not woman to manage with , after all woman too have preferences and are selective..


I don’t know what is difficult in being respectful and submissive to your partner as a woman to guarantee peaceful and healthy environment .. if she can’t compromise for her own family ( husband, kids ), I wonder what her usefulness is..



If my daughter or sister fails to use common sense when it comes to family issues, and she chooses to follow the bandwagon in the name of feminism , then she should be ready to face the consequence herself..

You should give x2 of respect you give to me to your husband ..

Omo workout no easy . Chai..
If I do 40 push up lasan, na the spot I go sleep till afternoon .. na hunger go wake me omo I need to be discipline .., honestly you try but you no get swagger atall see as you pose like person wey dem collect him wife

shantti:
You try but focus more on your throat, I see some fat there that needs to be burnt. Haven't you seen c.ronaldo's throat, I hear say he dey work out his throat daily

I don die oo .. Walai nairaland and Twitter I no no which one get bad mouth pass

Oboy

We4all:
This is Africa and you are the boss entails that a man should bear 100% of the family’s financial responsibilities.

Why then do you men complain if the woman is not bringing anything to the table?

Why do you complain if the woman isn’t interested in working?

Why do you complain of exorbitant bride price?

Why do you wear European dresses and frown when your woman ties wrapper across her chest?

Why do you identify with Christianity or Islam cos they’re religions that was introduced by the west?

You cannot remember to be African when it suits you and cry foul when it doesn’t.

A wife isn’t slave to her husband and mutual respect should be encouraged.

Any man who is polished and sophisticated will not ask his wife to be submissive. Only men who are scums with very low self esteem and inferiority complex demand for such. The late singer’s husband is an example.

If a woman should be submissive to any man, that should be her father and not some goddamn bastard of a man who will still dick another woman behind her back.

And now that I think about it, why is it that most men that want their women to be submissive are either broke or married to broke women?

If you were married to a billionaire’s daughter, would you have the guts to question her to the extent of calling her to be submissive? The answer is no. So stop being a hypocrite by asking that a wife should be submissive when it suits you.

First of all, I am not broke by any standard,
Secondly , wether she’s a billionaire’s or trillionaire’s daughter , I don’t give a damn, she must accord the respect I deserve unless no be me she one marry ..
This clearly shows you suffer inferiority complex and you worship money .., As rich as DJ cuppy is, guys Dey dump her if she messes up , na her papa one Dey feed me




Secondly ,” respect “ is mutual, I’m equally obligated to respect my wife and family in general and to discharge my duty to the best of my ability..

Thirdly , when a woman is submissive, respectful and supportive ( not necessarily finance ) , she’s already bringing something tangible to table. And mind you , if she’s bringing money to table, IT’S for the betterment of the FAMILY and not to myself only . My husle alone can feed me till I leave this world.. if she’s respectful and submissive, it’s also for the betterment of the family not only for me as that will guarantee peace and healthy environment for us and the kids.

So demanding those things , doesn’t mean I’m selfish , it’s because I love my family and I want the best for us..
And common sense demands that she should gladly provide all that except she’s Selfish or doesn’t have the love of the’ family ‘ at heart..


Being respectful and submissive doesn’t translate to slavery ..
Only a mumu with zero reasoning will equate that to slavery ..

Funnily enough , women with those qualities are directly or indirectly in control of their homes..

Males are most mumued gender especially to something that boost our egos ..



Also, I am personally a traditional young man, 90 percent of time I put on traditional / native attires..


And yes, I must tell you, my culture is not perfect same way the western culture is not perfect, so I need to joggle and find balance between the two culture.


I won’t like women tying wrapper upandan ( it’s in our culture ) same way I hate seeing my woman body being exposed ( western culture), she should cover sensitive part of her body .. that’s my own..


More so, I am not the religion type and I’m not a fan of white wedding too. But I associate myself with Christianity and that’s because the doctrine is ok by me even though I’m from mixed traditional and Islam background ..



So??

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JovialJune:
I don't know why you men keep fighting with yourselves, as if anyone force you all to marry the "users, stay single now, who force you to marry women? Marry yourselves life is not that hard.....

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aswani:
The woman just needs to respect her husband and everything else will follow, especially the ability to easily control him.

The word you used "submissive" is sadly like a red rag to a bull for some women so even though it is appropriate, they misinterpret it for something else.

Same as the term "the husband is the Head of the house".

It's the children one feels sorry for.

You’re 100% on point bro.
I’m a man that gets angry very easily most especially if a woman fails to adhere to my direction .. but watch me turn mumu the moment she follows to my directives . Even sometime I’ll end up following her opinions if I discover I’m wrong or hers is the better.


Moreso, if a woman is Submissive and respectful , I personally will find it hard to get mad at her, within me I’ll feel like I’m over doing it and will never take her offense serious .. when I’m not mad or have touch in my head, why would I not cherish such Diamomd?

We4all:
Groom your sisters to be submissive and leave other women the hell alone.

You talk like running the home is all about money. A man provides in cash and the woman complements in kind.

On top of that, one stupid man still wants to control the woman because he thinks he is superior.

The example I gave above is just to illustrate that women assault women just to massage their ego and flex muscles.

They can only bully their wives cos they are cowards and suffer from low self esteem. Like I said earlier, groom your sisters to be with men like that.

I don’t need to groom my sister, common sense demands that a woman should be submissive and respectful in every way to her husband .. that will gurantee stability and peace in their relationship and also will ensure their offsprings are raised in healthy environment.


I am not in anyway supporting domestic violence . And if a woman does the needful ( submission and respect ) and the man still finds fault with her, then she should honorably walk away .


No man in his right sense will want to lose such woman.. you can’t be treating your man like trash and expecting him to treat you like a queen .. you’re not his boss, this is Africa, he’s the boss . And funnily enough , men are easily controlled by women with respect and submissiveness.. ..



And yes, you can’t run a home without money , Only money pays the bills ..

A redpill man can’t be committed to a hoe..




Rihanna is no saint too

tspun:
the bolded got me rolling

it’s the truth bro .

When i was in school, was dating a girl , she was the best thing to me after slice of bread, as in as at then , I felt so lucky dating her and she too like shakara with stupid behavior




We broke up and we moved on.. so recently was surfing on Facebook , saw her profile with all this yeye slay mama post , I said to myself , “chai oboy you fhuck up “


Assuming I married her , it’ll take the grace of not to chase her now that my eyes are opened

wowmenow:
You can not know a submissive woman when you are dating them because they change with time

Once they have kids they change

Once you have money they change

Once you empower them with money they change

You just have to have your leadership role all time once they become disrespectful kick them out fast

You’re 90% right sir. People change , But then no matter how much she hides it, the signs are always there bro .

And sometimes it’s not all about money to control women bro, if you have money and dense, she’ll use you ..

The truth is when one notices the flag, the best thing is to discard them like it’s hot bro . No even need to manage or hope

India is playing with fire

We4all:
Stop justifying domestic violence. If your partner is uncouth, then walk away.

Do you know the number of toxic bosses some of these abusers have? But they choose to keep silent because they are afraid to lose their jobs.

If they can endure their bosses at work, then they should also learn to endure their wives at home.

just shut up . Not every one can refrain. It’s easier to say ‘ walk away’ when you’re not in their shoes. . People react differently and that doesn’t make them less of a human.

Some women will make you lose you patience and sanity , that’s why it’s better not to marry such lady than to marry and manage.
And the example you gave doesn’t make sense, husband to wife relationship is different to employer and employee relationship..
Imagine someone you’re housing, feeding, talking to you with total disrespect compared to someone paying u salary for job you’re doing..
I’m not justifying domestic violence then it’s what it is.


Ladies should learn how to be submissive and respectful.

Marriage is not all about enduring nonsense..
Although there are some beast in human form ( in some men )





To men out there, pls , no matter what , make sure the woman is 100% submissive and respectful before you marry her and be a good husband too.

You know why? If things go south , na u people go blame ..

If you’ve got land, you can start with any amount . Depends on the kind of house you want to build. And good thing about it is that once you start , your mind will be there, you won’t spend unnecessarily again , go Dey fill like make u don complete am sharp sharp ..



My advise to guys not making big money ,


Buy land, and starts buying the materials needed as the money dey enter small. If you’re waiting to get it done once , well , No be every wish Dey come through o,
I actually plan to build and live in estate but my power never reach

darams4all:
What an insightful piece. I really appreciate the time spent to precipitate this.

It's clear America does not want More stream 2 to be completed however, your write up has butress to explain Ukraine's role in making that happen. Because I believe with or without the war in as much as Russia is still economically strong and there are no legally binding sanctions with respect to Int'l relations that could prevent them from completing this pipeline. I therefore don't see how the cold war btw UslS and Russia can prevent that from happening eventually.

Previous explanation given to the Russian invasion of Ukraine was that their alliance with NATO will further expose Russia's military investments in Ukraine considering their history together.

A part of me amagree with you in some areas cos I believe this war is more about economic dominance between these two powerful nation's especially the rejection of Petrodollar Regine by Russia than just for military might. However, am still puting the pieces together to come up with a robust explanation.

Can you pls butress more on the role of Ukraine in ensuring the Bird Stream 2 is not completed? Thank you.

lol the guy you quoted na copy and paste e Dey do . Dem no born am to give you sound response

Lol. See dem talking about passion as if over 90 % of Nigerian students are not in school just to get the certificate for the job wey go get dem the money .,


Na person wey hunger never knack Dey think of Passion


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