lecturer50:
A 27 year old divorced woman with 3 kids came to me to borrow N20,000 to add and pay house rent.

I told her I would give her money in a few weeks time when I get the money.

Last week, she came back from her nursery school teaching job and right from the door of my room, she started shouting " I cannot sell my body for money"

I asked her what happened and she claimed men wanted to sleep with her to give her the N20,000.

I consoled her and told her that some men like giving women such condition before they can help the women.

She answered that if I am among such men who sleep with women before helping them, I should tell her so she could forget about coming to me.

I said that I am not among such men and that I would give her the money when I get it.

She thanked me and left.

I have a male neighbor whom the woman has been having sex with. It was the male neighbor who advised her to come to me because he is not working.

That my male neighbor started giving me attitude. He answered my greetings grudgingly.

I wanted to stop greeting him.

But then I observed that my next yard female neighbors also did the same. They stopped answering my greetings. That divorced woman is living with/near those female neighbors. Other males around were still friendly with me, except my next door male neighbor whom the woman has been having sex with.

So i asked my male neighbor what the problem was because he and the females around were giving me attitude.

He said nothing at first.

Later, he said in a friendly manner that I should have respected myself and not asked the woman for sex, because when he started having sex with the woman, it was she who initiated the move, and not him.

He opened up to me that the woman has been telling people that I wanted to sleep with her for the money.

I was so shocked and ran to go and meet the woman, but he held me and said that the woman strongly warned him not to confront me if he wanted her to continue visiting him.

I told him the true situation of things and he said I should forget everything because she is "just a woman".

I wasn't having any of this, so I confronted her in the front of her female friends in her room.

She answered that she believed we misunderstood ourselves. She said am I not a man? Why must what I heard bother me.

Some males around said I should forget it because the society has given women weapon against men which is rape/sexual assault allegations, because even if women are lying against men, people would still believe the women.

They said that the best a man should do is to hope he is not falsely accused by a woman because there is nothing he can say that anyone would believe him.

Because the society believes a man always wants to have sex with every woman, therefore every accusation from women would be immediately believed.

I answered them that even if a person is a chronic thief who is well known as a thief, he would not keep quiet and just accept it when he is accused of stealing what he did not steal. He would shout and defend himself.

At least let them accused him of what he stole and not what he didn't steal.

They say I am a man and it is nothing to a man if a woman accused him of wanting to sleep with her. One girl there was telling me that there was nothing wrong in a man wanting to sleep with any woman. That there is nothing to be ashamed of as a man, if you have a desire to sleep with any woman.

Can you imagine that?

I believe the society should form a group to cater for men also.

So many black men were falsely accused by white women and were killed because no one cares for the male gender. You cannot just accept false accusations because you believe it is nothing since you are a man. What if you end up losing your life, freedom or happiness because of it?

Men are so ashamed to rise up and defend the male gender. But women always group together to defend a woman who is abused by a man.

Men would rather defend the female gender.

But know that if you are ashamed to defend a follow man against a woman who wants to destroy him, when your time comes, no one would defend you.

What goes around comes around.

Don't think that you are safe when other men are not safe.

Don't think that if a woman accused a man falsely and the man is being imprisoned or killed, that you cannot be a victim tommorow.

If you like abuse me.

lecturer50:
A 27 year old divorced woman with 3 kids came to me to borrow N20,000 to add and pay house rent.

I told her I would give her money in a few weeks time when I get the money.

Last week, she came back from her nursery school teaching job and right from the door of my room, she started shouting " I cannot sell my body for money"

I asked her what happened and she claimed men wanted to sleep with her to give her the N20,000.

I consoled her and told her that some men like giving women such condition before they can help the women.

She answered that if I am among such men who sleep with women before helping them, I should tell her so she could forget about coming to me.

I said that I am not among such men and that I would give her the money when I get it.

She thanked me and left.

I have a male neighbor whom the woman has been having sex with. It was the male neighbor who advised her to come to me because he is not working.

That my male neighbor started giving me attitude. He answered my greetings grudgingly.

I wanted to stop greeting him.

But then I observed that my next yard female neighbors also did the same. They stopped answering my greetings. That divorced woman is living with/near those female neighbors. Other males around were still friendly with me, except my next door male neighbor whom the woman has been having sex with.

So i asked my male neighbor what the problem was because he and the females around were giving me attitude.

He said nothing at first.

Later, he said in a friendly manner that I should have respected myself and not asked the woman for sex, because when he started having sex with the woman, it was she who initiated the move, and not him.

He opened up to me that the woman has been telling people that I wanted to sleep with her for the money.

I was so shocked and ran to go and meet the woman, but he held me and said that the woman strongly warned him not to confront me if he wanted her to continue visiting him.

I told him the true situation of things and he said I should forget everything because she is "just a woman".

I wasn't having any of this, so I confronted her in the front of her female friends in her room.

She answered that she believed we misunderstood ourselves. She said am I not a man? Why must what I heard bother me.

Some males around said I should forget it because the society has given women weapon against men which is rape/sexual assault allegations, because even if women are lying against men, people would still believe the women.

They said that the best a man should do is to hope he is not falsely accused by a woman because there is nothing he can say that anyone would believe him.

Because the society believes a man always wants to have sex with every woman, therefore every accusation from women would be immediately believed.

I answered them that even if a person is a chronic thief who is well known as a thief, he would not keep quiet and just accept it when he is accused of stealing what he did not steal. He would shout and defend himself.

At least let them accused him of what he stole and not what he didn't steal.

They say I am a man and it is nothing to a man if a woman accused him of wanting to sleep with her. One girl there was telling me that there was nothing wrong in a man wanting to sleep with any woman. That there is nothing to be ashamed of as a man, if you have a desire to sleep with any woman.

Can you imagine that?

I believe the society should form a group to cater for men also.

So many black men were falsely accused by white women and were killed because no one cares for the male gender. You cannot just accept false accusations because you believe it is nothing since you are a man. What if you end up losing your life, freedom or happiness because of it?

Men are so ashamed to rise up and defend the male gender. But women always group together to defend a woman who is abused by a man.

Men would rather defend the female gender.

But know that if you are ashamed to defend a follow man against a woman who wants to destroy him, when your time comes, no one would defend you.

What goes around comes around.

Don't think that you are safe when other men are not safe.

Don't think that if a woman accused a man falsely and the man is being imprisoned or killed, that you cannot be a victim tommorow.

If you like abuse me.

But know that if you are ashamed to defend a follow man against a woman who wants to destroy him, when your time comes, no one would defend you.

lecturer50:
A 27 year old divorced woman with 3 kids came to me to borrow N20,000 to add and pay house rent.

I told her I would give her money in a few weeks time when I get the money.

Last week, she came back from her nursery school teaching job and right from the door of my room, she started shouting " I cannot sell my body for money"

I asked her what happened and she claimed men wanted to sleep with her to give her the N20,000.

I consoled her and told her that some men like giving women such condition before they can help the women.

She answered that if I am among such men who sleep with women before helping them, I should tell her so she could forget about coming to me.

I said that I am not among such men and that I would give her the money when I get it.

She thanked me and left.

I have a male neighbor whom the woman has been having sex with. It was the male neighbor who advised her to come to me because he is not working.

That my male neighbor started giving me attitude. He answered my greetings grudgingly.

I wanted to stop greeting him.

But then I observed that my next yard female neighbors also did the same. They stopped answering my greetings. That divorced woman is living with/near those female neighbors. Other males around were still friendly with me, except my next door male neighbor whom the woman has been having sex with.

So i asked my male neighbor what the problem was because he and the females around were giving me attitude.

He said nothing at first.

Later, he said in a friendly manner that I should have respected myself and not asked the woman for sex, because when he started having sex with the woman, it was she who initiated the move, and not him.

He opened up to me that the woman has been telling people that I wanted to sleep with her for the money.

I was so shocked and ran to go and meet the woman, but he held me and said that the woman strongly warned him not to confront me if he wanted her to continue visiting him.

I told him the true situation of things and he said I should forget everything because she is "just a woman".

I wasn't having any of this, so I confronted her in the front of her female friends in her room.

She answered that she believed we misunderstood ourselves. She said am I not a man? Why must what I heard bother me.

Some males around said I should forget it because the society has given women weapon against men which is rape/sexual assault allegations, because even if women are lying against men, people would still believe the women.

They said that the best a man should do is to hope he is not falsely accused by a woman because there is nothing he can say that anyone would believe him.

Because the society believes a man always wants to have sex with every woman, therefore every accusation from women would be immediately believed.

I answered them that even if a person is a chronic thief who is well known as a thief, he would not keep quiet and just accept it when he is accused of stealing what he did not steal. He would shout and defend himself.

At least let them accused him of what he stole and not what he didn't steal.

They say I am a man and it is nothing to a man if a woman accused him of wanting to sleep with her. One girl there was telling me that there was nothing wrong in a man wanting to sleep with any woman. That there is nothing to be ashamed of as a man, if you have a desire to sleep with any woman.

Can you imagine that?

I believe the society should form a group to cater for men also.

So many black men were falsely accused by white women and were killed because no one cares for the male gender. You cannot just accept false accusations because you believe it is nothing since you are a man. What if you end up losing your life, freedom or happiness because of it?

Men are so ashamed to rise up and defend the male gender. But women always group together to defend a woman who is abused by a man.

Men would rather defend the female gender.

But know that if you are ashamed to defend a follow man against a woman who wants to destroy him, when your time comes, no one would defend you.

What goes around comes around.

Don't think that you are safe when other men are not safe.

Don't think that if a woman accused a man falsely and the man is being imprisoned or killed, that you cannot be a victim tommorow.

If you like abuse me.

lecturer50:
A 27 year old divorced woman with 3 kids came to me to borrow N20,000 to add and pay house rent.

I told her I would give her money in a few weeks time when I get the money.

Last week, she came back from her nursery school teaching job and right from the door of my room, she started shouting " I cannot sell my body for money"

I asked her what happened and she claimed men wanted to sleep with her to give her the N20,000.

I consoled her and told her that some men like giving women such condition before they can help the women.

She answered that if I am among such men who sleep with women before helping them, I should tell her so she could forget about coming to me.

I said that I am not among such men and that I would give her the money when I get it.

She thanked me and left.


I have a male neighbor whom the woman has been having sex with. It was the male neighbor who advised her to come to me because he is not working.

That my male neighbor started giving me attitude. He answered my greetings grudgingly.

I wanted to stop greeting him.

But then I observed that my next yard female neighbors also did the same. They stopped answering my greetings. That divorced woman is living with/near those female neighbors. Other males around were still friendly with me, except my next door male neighbor whom the woman has been having sex with.


So i asked my male neighbor what the problem was because he and the females around were giving me attitude.



He said nothing at first.



Later, he said in a friendly manner that I should have respected myself and not asked the woman for sex, because when he started having sex with the woman, it was she who initiated the move, and not him.

He opened up to me that the woman has been telling people that I wanted to sleep with her for the money.

I was so shocked and ran to go and meet the woman, but he held me and said that the woman strongly warned him not to confront me if he wanted her to continue visiting him.

I told him the true situation of things and he said I should forget everything because she is "just a woman".


I wasn't having any of this, so I confronted her in the front of her female friends in her room.

She answered that she believed we misunderstood ourselves. She said am I not a man? Why must what I heard bother me.

Some males around said I should forget it because the society has given women weapon against men which is rape/sexual assault allegations, because even if women are lying against men, people would still believe the women.


They said that the best a man should do is to hope he is not falsely accused by a woman because there is nothing he can say that anyone would believe him.


Because the society believes a man always wants to have sex with every woman, therefore every accusation from women would be immediately believed.


I answered them that even if a person is a chronic thief who is well known as a thief, he would not keep quiet and just accept it when he is accused of stealing what he did not steal. He would shout and defend himself.

At least let them accused him of what he stole and not what he didn't steal.


They say I am a man and it is nothing to a man if a woman accused him of wanting to sleep with her. One girl there was telling me that there was nothing wrong in a man wanting to sleep with any woman. That there is nothing to be ashamed of as a man, if you have a desire to sleep with any woman.

Can you imagine that?

I believe the society should form a group to cater for men also.

So many black men were falsely accused by white women and were killed because no one cares for the male gender. You cannot just accept false accusations because you believe it is nothing since you are a man. What if you end up losing your life, freedom or happiness because of it?

Men are so ashamed to rise up and defend the male gender. But women always group together to defend a woman who is abused by a man.

Men would rather defend the female gender.

But know that if you are ashamed to defend a follow man against a woman who wants to destroy him, when your time comes, no one would defend you.

What goes around comes around.

Don't think that you are safe when other men are not safe.

Don't think that if a woman accused a man falsely and the man is being imprisoned or killed, that you cannot be a victim tommorow.

If you like abuse me.

Piptocoin:
The law is an ass. However, the law does not only protect women as some speculate but the would-be victim of the rapist whether the rapist is a man or woman, husband or wife.

Did anybody read where it is said that the term 'rape' has been expanded to mean inappropriate touch by any gender? This is not limited to the marital institution. It is a general crime. This I approve of wholeheartedly. The extent of dehumanisation to which the female gender have been subjected by men on this basis is grossly despicable. This will teach some manners.

Again, women are their own worst enemy. Women, predictably, will abuse this opportunity which has amplified their scope to falsely accuse men, and as such the provisions of this law should be amended to include false accusations attracting equal penalty as the rapist who is found guilty of rape.

softy:


In fact, tell your Mum and tell your sister today. Tell your Mum first before you tell your sister in that order. This girl in question has a mission. Do NOT let her use you to complete that mission. If u do NOT TELL YOUR MUM NOW, you may not escape what this desperate girl would do' like someone admonished in page 1.

1. It is possible she had been 'testing waters'before coming to your house.

2. Her age is 22 and this is a peculiar age where many girls damaged their future due to ' foolish decisions' and due to hormone rage and youth exuberant. At this age, some ladies make irreversible mistakes that could taunt them for life. Pls, AWESONJNR, DO NOT BE PART OF THAT HORRIBLE TALES.

3. If you are reading this, do NOT waste time. Be bold to tell your mum today.

4. I really thank you and appreciate you for coming out to ask. Many people have lost it in life because they refused to ask 'sensible questions' like this. Also many people are in jail for false rape accusations because THEY REFUSED TO TALK IN TIME.

5. A stich in time saves nine.

6. You are right, in most cultures in Nigeria, IT IS A TABOO. But modernisation of world events makes people erode that part from their life, but cry so much when the irreversible consequences deal with them, later in life.

7. Your Mum would like to work out the modalities with you in which the said girl could be punished. She knows better. She can advice you to get a proof: video or, voice record. You can easily set this girl up by NOT you falling into the trap. Let her do the talking. Record everything. Then present the proof to your Mum, when she comes back. As men, who hates intimidation from female folks because of sex issues, we say: WISE UP!!!

swedbase:
Many people are jail because of false rape accusations.

Newboss:
Na simps dey cause this kind commotion. They jump on the guy at the word of a lady. They no just get sense.

Sense suppose tell those simps that women are not logical people. Most of all rape accusations by women are false. Bloody simps doing what they do best.

softy:


In fact, tell your Mum and tell your sister today. Tell your Mum first before you tell your sister in that order. This girl in question has a mission. Do NOT let her use you to complete that mission. If u do NOT TELL YOUR MUM NOW, you may not escape what this desperate girl would do' like someone admonished in page 1.

1. It is possible she had been 'testing waters'before coming to your house.

2. Her age is 22 and this is a peculiar age where many girls damaged their future due to ' foolish decisions' and due to hormone rage and youth exuberant. At this age, some ladies make irreversible mistakes that could taunt them for life. Pls, AWESONJNR, DO NOT BE PART OF THAT HORRIBLE TALES.

3. If you are reading this, do NOT waste time. Be bold to tell your mum today.

4. I really thank you and appreciate you for coming out to ask. Many people have lost it in life because they refused to ask 'sensible questions' like this. Also many people are in jail for false rape accusations because THEY REFUSED TO TALK IN TIME.

5. A stich in time saves nine.

6. You are right, in most cultures in Nigeria, IT IS A TABOO. But modernisation of world events makes people erode that part from their life, but cry so much when the irreversible consequences deal with them, later in life.

7. Your Mum would like to work out the modalities with you in which the said girl could be punished. She knows better. She can advice you to get a proof: video or, voice record. You can easily set this girl up by NOT you falling into the trap. Let her do the talking. Record everything. Then present the proof to your Mum, when she comes back. As men, who hates intimidation from female folks because of sex issues, we say: WISE UP!!!

awesonjr:
I will never have sexsual intercourse with my cousin that why I open this trend to hear advice on what to do whether to tell my mum or my elder sister

BKsoul:
Hello sir, Do you have sense sir? Show me just one place where i support a rapist..... There was never a place i judge the convicted man as innocent, the only thing i said everywhere in all my comments was if he is TRULY INNOCENT, may he be vindicated, which you also said in one of your comments, so why is bksoul own different? Anyone i BKSOUL used foul language against here did that to me first, and i no be coward... Go confirm every of my claims.... Asking me if i am a mother, no be woman follow born the convicted man... So many stories we have seen about false accusations on rape, no be woman born the females wey accuse the men of rape? Its been established that the rape happened, and the convicted man is saying he is innocent, If he is TRULY INNOCENT, may he be vindicated of the rape case and the true rapist pays for his crime... But if the convicted man is as guilty as charged, he will never be left off the hook.... So please respect your hypocrisy and leave me the hell alone... I no get home training oooh.... I no sabi talk oooh....

Arigbabuwo21:
I was referring to Bksoul. But seeing the quoted posts, I got to say you've been equally depraved.

CHoccolaTE:


Very idiotic statement.

So women who were actually raped should be ignored because you want to protect your fellow rapists?

Truvelisback:
Does this pics or video look like a rape? These white people and their false accusations. They call everything rape, even if it's a consentual act.

Truvelisback:
Does this pics or video look like a rape? These white people and their false accusations. They call everything rape, even if it's a consentual act.

Truvelisback:
Does this pics or video look like a rape? These white people and their false accusations. They call everything rape, even if it's a consentual act.

Hyerin:


Men like you would rather magnify the insignificant 2% of false accusations rather than condemn the disgusting act of rape that has for long, been an epidemic.

You're nothing but a rape apologist.

JESHAL:



[s]The statistics for false rape accusations is also very faulty metric, there is no estimable to get accurate record for false rape accusations,the don't consider unfounded claims, unsubstantiated claims into the record, only claims that were proven false after judicial process of passing a verdict where the woman is proven wrong, these metric doesn't factor cases dismissed by police during their investigation, and cases dismissed by the court during investigation, only case that was pronounced false at final court judgement that are declared false rape accusations

Hyerin:
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false accusations is nothing but a drop in the ocean. Keep deceiving yourself with your incel talking points.

JESHAL:



[s]false rape is not 2% it far more common than the actual case, it's intellectually dishonest to use CDC statistics of rape occurrence when the Metric for sampling the data was very subjective and open to different interpretations, sexual assault occurs no doubt, but to get correct evidence of it's actuality, CDC is incorrect with it's findings, FBI's criminal statistics of rape is far more accurate