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nonsense!

Not everybody wants you to think and write aloud! Mchewwww.

dae:
Girl -- you good joor, he is so confused, better dont involve yaself with a confused being!! -- he plainly does not know what he wants! Those are the kinda men one needs to be careful of -- they give you dumba$$ excuses like
~ I like you but
*I dont wanna set any expectations
*My life is too complicated right now
*I need to concentrate on work OR school (as we will stop them from reading or working)
*I don’t want to rush things( after knowing him for a while, i mean, c'mmon!!)

So my dear, since he actin like one of those dumb people --- F it and leave his sorry a$$.
there are plenty of fishes in the river!!!

Very true hia!

But sis, why can't she have plenty of fish in the ocean? Is the river not too small?

@ Poster, good riddance to arrant nonsense. Don't feel guilty!!

sistawoman:
I dont think the wedding date is the problem. I think the WEDDING is the problem

Gbam!

sucess001:
i think the major problem is that she has anoda weddin date with anoda person

lmao!

@ Poster, yes chat to her sincerely. Personally I do not see why a woman would say yes to a marriage proposal if she in her hearts of hearts does not want to go through with it, it's nonsense. Maybe she feels forced, or she has had a change of heart along the way but does not know how to tell you and her family as you know we nigerians, it would be seen as a big disgrace.

Please when you talk to her, do not seem desperate or appear overly worried (even though you are), because if she is going ahead with it because of fears of other's feelings etc then she may not tell you the truth. Ask her what the matter is? and tell her what you have noticed in her attitude whenever the wedding is being mentioned.

Yep,

I agree with sistawoman here, you both seems to have been trhough alot together already.

Depends,

But would prefer church wedding.

Hackney ke? God forbid bad ting! Lai lai! :p

Lol durrrry south! Peckham sides I take it? :p

Who is stealing whose man? I want hear gossip!! Lol

North! (Decent part of north). U?

Oh ok! Kool.

Tope,

Where are u based hun?

tope5000:
Lmao
So u are going afterall

What are you talking about? ? ? what did you see hia? Put that your glasses back on, I said:

I will SEND some of my pretty girlfriends in replace of me