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I sed absolutely nothing wrong in changing ur surname if ur given dat d family is no longer comfortable with d meaning..Our family surname used to 'Onwunali'..i don't even know d direct meaning of dat name,but just peaking d words out reads,'death-and-suffering'..From d little i hv bn told,my dad's family were severely broke and their families frm generation to generation were always giving birth to about ten children onwing to harsh hunger and poverty..As i heard,my great-grand dad,Onwunali was d last child of his mum who waz very bitter at his birth onwing to d fact dat she had lost five older children to hunger and small deseases..We were bearing dat surname until ten yrs ago during d christmas at our family house when our grandmom called for a change of d surname as d poverty dat dealt with them back then is nw a tin of d past and should no longer appear in our names.so i and all my relatives frm my dad's side now bear 'Onyemaechi',our grand-father's name..The point is,there is nothing wrong with a family changing their surname if the name is attatched to a very unpleasant situation of a curse..Take for instance,a name dat glorifies an family idol..Trust me,d situation under which some surnames where given is just awful...As for ppl given themselves European surnames,i don't knw but i'd prefer if at all d family surname must be changed,let it be ur grand-father or ur father's name.

It was during one of my JAMB-writing years.Ive got this neighbor for lyk 10 years now she and I are d youngest in our whole flat and have played together till we became teens.Anyway,she grew up and turned out really pretty but I neva really had any special feelings for her.This happened a few years ago,I was 19 and she was 17,it was my 3rd JAMB and her first,I was always home-alone,likewise herself..One day she came to my apartment and asked me for a textbook,I told her I didn't have it but she came in anyway,we talked for a while until she started behaving funny,by the time i knew anything she start kissing and robbing and all what not...I was really perplexed but I just played along.After a while she asked me if I loved her and I affirmed it.We continued to my bedroom and start having bare intercourse,then I got scared because I mum's warning about getting a girl pregnant was ringing in my head..After a while i stopped,but she told me to continue as she knew what she was doing..Then we continued till I released the whole damn thing inside her...After that incident I suddenly got really scared cos if she got pregnant my life would be over...I watched her everyday,on the staircase,thru d window,from d balcony...this kept on for weeks.After a few months I was really relieved dat nothing had happened.My question is..Have anyone of u guys been in such a nervous situation b4,and how did un contain it?.

trust me,no matter how much i love my girlfriend,if she beats me to doing d proposal,i might get scared...l mean,it's no more a question of if i love her or not, but as a man,i know why i'm moving at my own pace..so its really unrealistic for her to propose first.To me,i believe dat move would only slow tins down.

i have dis problem with easily disliking girls when they start getting too close so most times too many girls look attractive to me at d same time.I DONT REALLY CARE THOUGH,I HOOK UP WITH ANYONE DAT CARES AND CARE LESS FOR D OTHERS.Girls are too complicated.i have dis problem with easily disliking girls when they start getting too close so most times too many girls look attractive to me at d same time.I DONT REALLY CARE THOUGH,I HOOK UP WITH ANYONE DAT CARES AND CARE LESS FOR D OTHERS.Girls are too complicated.

Maybe some signs,postulated by the bible has been occurring,especially in d middle-east but then again,when you look back at the bible,it states clearly that no man shall know when HE shall come, I hate to border myself with this and I really hope God has mercy on our souls.

funny enough i prefer light to dark skinned gurls

@Rooney86,I own 2 houses on the Island,besides i get paid in $$.Plus I run my father's maritime business, Enough money to buy an esscalade.

@blackmann, I never thought about any of that.Makes sense.

She was older than me so i just stood there feeling lyk one champion, Too fine!!

[color=#990000][/color][size=8pt][/size]WICKED!!

I'm a graduate of elect/elect engineering  from FUTO, presently I work as a systems engineer 4 shell,I'm currently 29yrs.I met my girlfriend at her place of work i.e GT Bank,I was persistent until she finally gave in.We went to so many very expensive places,once I took her too la campaign Tropicana,Obudu,n so on just 4 d weekend and she never complained then. Problems started when i decided to step up my game by buying her a car(which cost me 4.2m)at first she was adamant b4 she finally agreed.but till today she never drives the car and spends so much money on cabs.I didn't talked about that,then I gave her a furnished apartment at Ikeja,where she works but she refused it and told me straight to my face dat i waste so much money on MEANINGLESS things.Now I'm in a crossroad because i already bought her a very expensive ring which she might ask me for the price before she accepts it.I took that advice and started to develop an estate for our future,but she told me again that I'm a horrible businessman.i don't get it,is she allergic to money or is she afraid for me,I'm confused,i need ur help!!!.

Cool,now chuks is out,now he can go n meet wale n tell him straight at his face about how selfish he is, Stupid idiot just dey bush dey run mouth since.

Nonsense!,big nonsense!,If I were Wale,I will neva collect gulder's money cos dat was wickedness at it's peak.First dey take d totem,hide it n den evict him.I'm an Imo state guy n I say dat Bob n his stupid,wicked igbo counsel of elders have ended dis show.DRY,MESSED UP,JUNK!!.Well,may d second best man win,or rather dey can as well crown Vivien d ultimate woman.

unitee you seen lyk a really nice person,don't worry everything will turn out fine,maybe you guys just need a little patching up, if you guys don't work things out then maybe you can contact me,i'm sure you won't have any problems with me, seriously.

guy,best advice,throw dis girl away as far nd as soon as possible because i swear you will not be happy if you er a person of intellect and with ideas n u want to live with a slow paced,backward person, pls i beg you,loose yourself from dis horror and look for someone dat will always see and understand your vision, time flies d world is moving in such a way dat a dull person is just existing, remember if u can't her in two years she will change you and so help you god!!

best:BASKET MOUTH(HIS JJUST TOO MUCH),SEYI LAW IS ALSO VERY GOOD,I GO DYE N KLINT DA DRUNK(QUIT CREATIVE), horrible comedians:A.Y,PRINCESS,DAT IDIOT DAT FOLLOWS KOFFI ABOUT,OMOBABA,LEPA,GBENGA,TEJU AND D HOST OF OTHERS. DEY ARE TOOOOOOO DRYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!

fIRST OF ALL I AM A QUIET PERSON N I DON'T REALLY LYK NOISY PEOPLE, BUT DAT DOSE NOT MEAN DAT I DONT LYK LIFELY GIRLS,ITS JUST DAT MOST OF DEM TAKE WAY TOO MUCH, GO TOO MANY PLACES N DONT MAKE ANY SENSE IN MOST TINS DAT DEY DO OR SAY, I PREFER FOCUSED, THOUGHTFUL,INTELLECTUAL N MAJORLY FUNNY GIRLS, NOT BORING!!!!!

I first scored 233(with 39 in phy) then suddenly i heard dat dey hard remarked d exam den i checked again n scored 260(with 66 in phy), Going 4 elect/elect at FUTO,

bros no try am cos if u do u will probably regret it in d future.

You all er all stupid n jealous of d queen of beauty,BEYONCE ,CIARA LOOKS LIKE A MAN,VIVICA FOXX IS OLD AND ASHANTI CANT EVEN SING,VERY SHORT AND CAN NEVER IN HER SMELLING LIFE DREAM OF POSING 4 ANY PRODUCT.BEYONCE IS JUST TOO FINE.As soon as d others grab a guy like J maybe U can consider dem.And finally u guys need to buy DSTV's and check who is d sexiest pop diva on E entertainment.

As far as the FG is concerned,anyone can be taken down.With the likes of Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala gone and Ribadu who was rather dealt with let us just pray that Chukwuma Soludo is not the next target.Poor old Dora,may God help her.