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RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Seeker3: 10:03am On Sep 26, 2022
LatestgistTv:
Hope your day went well brothers.
Please I need advice.

I met my girlfriend some years back and she has been a good girl to me through all these while.

She comes from a large family of 7. Her father had stroke in 2018 and her mother left them all and ran away, leaving only the sick dad to Carter for the whole family.

She gained admission same year and I stood by her side from her first to final year in the university , sending her money on a weekly basis and sent more money to her when there's need for more money in school.

She has finally graduated last month but the truth is that her demands are becoming increasingly difficult for me and her sick father has become broke as a result of spending without getting back.

I won't really say she's a burden but mehn, it's been too much lately.

I am 27 and I plan to get married at 30 and I honestly don't need this sort of setback.

Dear redpillers, I know I've been a simple man but please I need advice from everyone right now.
I see sunk-cost fallacy affecting you here. Lower your spending on her. Spend only according to your terms and of course what won't affect your financial standing. Alternatively, cut all forms of financing for her of exit if you don't plan going the long term relationship with her
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Seeker3: 9:26am On Sep 26, 2022
JESHAL:
No girls intimacy i.e sex is worth compromising your frame, it's a shit test to see who need the other the most in the relationship, once you fail, disrespect starts and she sees you can't do better than her, don't think you are being sensitive by conceding all the time to her to maintain peace, she's weakening your frame, your ultimate card is your ability to walk away showing you won't tolerate nonsense.
spot on... Very relatable to what I'm dishing out to one girl that has been in constant communication with me for months now. Left her message on read for over a week now and stopped all form of communication with her too when she made some demeaning statement while discussing with her.

Her statement; "gist me nau, I wanna talk with you".

My reply-"so you miss me this much?".

Hers: "Lol"

Mine: "call me then if you wanna talk"

Hers: "like like call you? Really?"

Mine - ghost mood.

Decided to walk away as she was trying so hard to play the "you need me more than I need you" this na a broke ass girl o. Thank God for the Redpill awareness here have adopted the abundance scheme if not, I'd be eager to hold onto her as Queen Elizabeth nau. Abundance mindset really helps us to understand and preserve our self worth and avert inflating those of these girls. Men guard your worth
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Seeker3: 6:29am On Sep 26, 2022
ShaqFu:
very funny girl. You should have edged her on by trolling her. Its nice to play along with them. Lol.
me that was angered by her manipulative wits. Had to hit the block button immediately she started making threats
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Seeker3: 12:26pm On Sep 25, 2022
Emmynator:
See entitlement mentality abeg.
that's how one sent me one model stuff like that, you vote with 100 naira, she sent it to me and said she is expecting at least 20 votes from me, I laughed so hard. cheesy
the matter no be here o grin
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Seeker3:
heartofcity12:
She’s giving all her friends opportunity grin
Naija leeches won’t kee me with laugh grin
you can't make this shit up really... These girls just have similar pattern of thinking. The entitlement mentality to men's money. Very stupid and annoying attitude. Know this, a girl that would be bold to bill you with entitled mindset has least respect for you. This is a girl that we don't even chat each other. Just the perpetual status viewers. Her entitled sense got activated forgetting that you don't force someone to do your biddings simoly because you got hole between your legs. Surprising thing here is that my guyz don't bill me if we're not in touch. What makes these women bold to make financial requests to men they never check up on baffles me till now

RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Seeker3:
JESHAL:
Surprising coming from him
here we go... Hot breakfast in bed

PoliticsRe: President Buhari To Attend 77TH United Nations General Assembly by Seeker3: 1:33am On Sep 18, 2022
Yoighaman:
Very shameful.

Must he even attend such events? Can't he just send someone who is intelligent, instead of going there to disgrace a whole country.

Lifeless dullard.

I'm not referring to PMB o, so don't quote me.
vawulence loaded grin
PoliticsRe: President Buhari To Attend 77TH United Nations General Assembly by Seeker3: 3:56pm On Sep 17, 2022
Is this not the same UN General Assembly summit that most Heads of States develop sudden hatred for their seats when he starts to give his own speech? grin

RomanceRe: Guys I Need Your Advice by Seeker3: 5:31pm On Sep 16, 2022
Billgatessecond:
I have a little knowledge in programing I taught myself d basics ..

With the basics I was able to do some things. Now I am thinking about taking a new course in alt school..

Their engineering department offers

Front end development
Back end development
Full stack development


I want to dive deep into the back end.
What do you experts suggest for a beginner like me.


Is there any Whatsapp or telegram group for developers I can join
hit me up on dm to share you our wasaap group link
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Seeker3: 6:35pm On Sep 14, 2022
LutherSanchez:
That's why i said BROTHERS SHINE YA EYES ��� where i object was in your first statement where you said if it happens to be your sister,you would tell her to lie to her husband too and take the secret to the grave.. I would never do that,even though the husband doesn't find out eventually,i wouldn't Live my life with guilt knowing what transpired and knowing that the man,my supposed Brother in-law is raising a child that's not his ...... It's better than i don't know about such grevious act,than i knew and kept quiet without saying anything.... What of he eventually finds out that the kid ain't hishuh?
this is one notable ish with men, always dealing with women and relationship from moral lens. I bet you women would always consider first whether letting the cat out of the bag be beneficial to her or not before even thinking of the moral consequences
RomanceRe: Why Girls Play Hard To Get, How To Turn It Around & Get Them To Fall For You' by Seeker3: 2:35pm On Sep 13, 2022
You're actually right... In dealing with these baby girls, the way down is the way up. Less is more.. wink
RomanceRe: Why Is It That Nairaland Men Hold A Different Perception Of Women? by Seeker3: 2:04pm On Sep 11, 2022
Because Ubunja happened grin
RomanceRe: Is My Mind Playing Tricks On Me Or This Is A Reality by Seeker3: 1:31pm On Sep 11, 2022
kelspinall:
true talk boss
na so bro
RomanceRe: Is My Mind Playing Tricks On Me Or This Is A Reality by Seeker3: 1:30pm On Sep 11, 2022
Bradford111:
Okay thanks I wanted to bring up the crush topic tomorrow but guess I will just snub
don't even discuss the crush with her. Act like you never even took anything relating to her and another man to heart. In fact act like you've forgotten any discussion you had with her about a certain crush. Concentrate on your goals but be wary of her movements because she has a divided attention now. If you show needy attitude she might just set sail to the other guy. Find another cool headed girl that won't be toying with your emotions and maintain frame for them both.
RomanceRe: Is My Mind Playing Tricks On Me Or This Is A Reality by Seeker3: 10:41pm On Sep 10, 2022
kelspinall:
things like this reminds me of nonsense convos with my ex,when a gal is fed up with you and wants to leave,she starts misbehaving and to make it worst you are a cry cry baby, you take whatever thing she said serious..they know what they want, they know who loves them and who they love but they derive happiness and bossy attitude when they know they have a guy's 100% attention..

set task,set goals and start focusing on them, you see this relationship thing is all waste of time, you are being played and you will feel the pain more because you are pushing something that is no longer working and already crashing slowly,watch out very soon she will start finding faults....no say you know hearam
you're absolutely right. The Op should stop showing this needy attitude and focus on himself. The girl is obviously shit testing him. Believe me, she probably might have accepted the said crush's proposal but subtly wants to tell you that. Playing such stupid game and showing insecure attitude would only validate her decision of leaving you for the crush. To her, you adore her thus you don't deserve a wonderful person like her, but the crush that gives no Bleep about her is golden dude to scramble for. In order words, the Op should lessen the attention he gives her. Whenever she brings up any topic about her crush or anything that gets you jealous act indifferent and like you don't care. Just don't even show any feeling of insecurities. Always maintain frame
RomanceRe: Tell Me Your Date Of Birth And I Will Reveal Your Personality To You by Seeker3: 7:49pm On Sep 10, 2022
Solofresh2:
You possess a strong sense of Personal integrity and the ability to act as a meditator between disparate factions.As a likable individual, you have so much charm that even rivals compliment them. You have the potential to become legendary.
omo.. This is 80 percent accurate
RomanceRe: Why Do People Suddenly Care About Your Love Life Once You Make Money? by Seeker3: 6:20pm On Sep 10, 2022
Wealthbrain22:
My mother has started already, nobody will force me to do what I’m not ready for. Small money wey I get dem wan force their sisterhood on me to milk me dry
thats the spirit bro. Maintain frame gee
RomanceRe: Have You Ever Walked In On People Having Sex? by Seeker3: 6:19pm On Sep 10, 2022
SeaTrade:
lol funny,
The most recent is a good pal of mine in the country I did business in before coming to 9ja.
So I usually stay in his place when I'm in the city I do business.
I don go chow heavy dinner for then returned to his place.
As I dey enter,e dey commot and e no tell me say e dey come back with babe.
Na when I don sleep weh him return with one big yarnsh girl.
I dey bed,them dey ground dey fùck.
I open eye small na so my round headed friend dey untop dey so humm humm humm ,kpa kpa kpa na wetin I dey hear.
grin grin cheesy
Na for morning I see how big the girl yarnsh big,my guy come go market leave me and the gurl for house.
I dey want reason the girl make we knack but guycode no gree me.
I never see yarnsh weh big like that till date,kai..
omo...once the show start, you must be forced to wake up never to sleep back grin
RomanceRe: Have You Ever Walked In On People Having Sex? by Seeker3: 4:24pm On Sep 10, 2022
Have witnessed that several times. All happened in the same room but by different people sha. First experience was when I was in my year 1 still living with my big bro. This my brother's friend came around with his girlfriend and it happened to be this my primary school classmate that I had a crush on back then. We all got along with gist since we all knew one another. Later slept off only to sprang up in the middle of the night by this horney-inducing moaning sound reverberating the room. My brother's friend was humping her and the girl was a screamer. They were lost in ecstasy that they did not even notice that I was awake sitted with confusion written all over me. After like 1 minute, the girl noticed and tried to stifle her moanings while I laid back. The room sha was dark. Woke up the next day to notice that the girl was still naked as she was covering herself with the duvet. Prepared and left for school instantly. I just confirmed say this my primary school classmate no get joy again o. Anyways she's now married. I just dey pity the hubby.

Another scenario was when my distant paternal relative came for a visit from another state with his girl, one day they went on an outing and when they got back at night, I was already seated on my reading desk studying for a hard course we'd be taking the exam the next day. Omo. The Konji wey hold these people no be here o. They entered the duvet and began knacking. I thought it was just ordinary making out sef until I started hearing kpa kpa kpa kpa with increased tempo. The girl did all to stifle her moaning sound sha and she tried. I reduced the brightness of the light on my reading desk and said to me mind that if these people couldn't respect me to ask for privacy, me sef no go respect their private drilling. I stayed till the kpa kpa kpa sound stopped. Anyway sha my eyes were glued to my book but I was just repeating one line for the whole time the knacking session lasted.

Another one was a guy (my brother's friend) that came around when my brother travelled. His babe lived in the same compound with me. They were outside gisting for long while I was inside. Around 12 am, they came inside. I was already sleeping but I'm one that gets awoken by slight sound. So the opening of the door woke me up but I pretended to still be asleep when I noticed that it's the two that came in. 5 mins later they begam knacking while I was tossing around the rug that I laid sleeping. The next day I told him about his sexcapade while we laughed over it.

Another one was my fried that I visited in school. I didn't know that his babe was around(her foot wear was inside), burst into the room without knocking as he's my close pal to surprise him instead I was the one that got surprised. Rushed out with sorry sorry sorry ringing on my lips.

Another one was.... Omo... Lemme stop here
RomanceRe: Why Are Ladies Easily Swayed By Other Men Even In A Serious Relationship? by Seeker3:
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RomanceRe: Why Do People Suddenly Care About Your Love Life Once You Make Money? by Seeker3: 3:12pm On Sep 10, 2022
It's their nature. The sisterhood always striving to make you find their fellow to leech your treasury. Until then, you're not yet "a complete man" according to them grin Even your mother and sisters would soon start the pressure.
RomanceRe: Tell Me Your Date Of Birth And I Will Reveal Your Personality To You by Seeker3: 3:05pm On Sep 10, 2022
February 6
RomanceRe: Tell Me Your Date Of Birth And I Will Reveal Your Personality To You by Seeker3: 3:04pm On Sep 10, 2022
Wonderz1:
Jan 17
long month
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Seeker3: 9:24am On Sep 10, 2022
Agelastus:
You definitely should.

Didn't like the ending though.....bad boy lost his frame and got tamed.
damn!naija still have to bring in the blue pill narrative in this..
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Seeker3: 4:36am On Sep 10, 2022
Odunharry:
The great okafor laws of congodynamics grin grin. That law is very valid till tomorrow.
lol...that movie could be redpilled tho
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Seeker3: 9:48pm On Sep 09, 2022
Just stumbled upon this now... I'm sure seeing it this weekend grin

RomanceRe: Girls, If You Plan To Play Game With Your Mate Avoid Dating Smart Guys by Seeker3: 3:32pm On Sep 09, 2022
ExudeLoveToAll:
What will you do to the person who intentionally repudiated the contract you both entered into?

You leave the person who betrayed you and chase shadows?

For me nothing in this world will make me harm another because of a woman.

I have learnt to use the legal means to send shock and awe to anyone who fails the integrity of the law.

Never will I physically be involved in a brawl because of a woman, my anger is too low for such to occur in my life time.

It's better I repudiate the contract permanently and place all sanctions available at my disposal.No mind the Werey forming macho man
EducationRe: Nigerian Lady Reveals What ASUU Strike Has 'Done To Her' (Before & After Photos) by Seeker3: 7:59am On Sep 09, 2022
mhizandrea1:
If your sister or daughter who was sent to school ended up getting pregnant, how would you feelhuh And she is busy flaunting it on social media....... getting pregnant is one thing but involving ASUU is another. There are some students who used this strike to their advantage and have learnt a thing or two.
You should know better
then make your point right, procreation in general is an achievement. Albeit a limiting factor to other aspirations if done when one isn't ready. The lady in question could be ready for that you know (maybe marriage, monetary wise, she could be her sole sponsor in school) don't conclude hastily. The fact that she flaunted it on social media should have been. A pointer to you that she's really comfortable with her decision, she could even be married self, or better still, striving to secure a baby before hitting the wall. It's high time people even stopped following these unfounded social standards and yardstick in terms of marriage, birth, sex etc.
EducationRe: Nigerian Lady Reveals What ASUU Strike Has 'Done To Her' (Before & After Photos) by Seeker3: 3:06pm On Sep 08, 2022
mhizandrea1:
And she is proud to show it off like it's an achievement undecided except she's married
Well, everybody and their priorities...... las las she just wants to trend ,mtcheeeew
procreation is not an achievement to you? SMH
RomanceRe: Why Do Ladies Normally Pose This Way by Seeker3: 5:23pm On Sep 06, 2022
ExudeLoveToAll:
Invitation to treat.
the law!!! grin
RomanceRe: Why Do Ladies Normally Pose This Way by Seeker3: 5:22pm On Sep 06, 2022
[quote author=ExudeLoveToAll post=116387428]Invitation to treat.[/quoteo] the law!!! grin
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Seeker3: 1:42pm On Sep 01, 2022
Skepticus:
Leonardo DiCaprio is one who I greatly admire as a feral MGTOW playing the gynocentric system to his own advantage. On this thread, I once called him a ghost in plain sight which is the perfect way to go, in a society that will go great lengths to dispose off men, just to make women and pets happy. He supports NPC leftist causes like animal rights and the LGBTQ community to distract the wokesters while living the red pill by dealing with young nubile women and avoiding marriage to protect his life and assets.

Tupac Amaru Shakur was another feral MGTOW that I would have loved to see, win but sadly, he lost his life to male hierarchy squabbles that keep men ignorant in the matrix.
Pac was Redpill as f**k... He just naturally understood the Male-female sexual inter-dynamics. Was focused on his goal, accorded the rich and poor equal treatment, cared less about what people think about him and the bitches too, pushed for equality for all and was fearless of the harsh civil laws against the poor. Just listen to his lyrics and you'd notice his deep underatanding that women love men with the thug vibe. Cash is of course a plus

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