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Agree on spanking a child? Anyway, some good points u nail there.

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Happy birth day my favourite artist! U r in a million!

Tnx 4 de info, can I get ur email so I can ask further question?

wesley80: I love this dish and along with beans are two meals i can beat my chest about. Not to take anything away from OP, but i dont think justice was done to the meal.
Firstly, those onions and the first batch of ingredients should come in as soon as the plantain softens a bit, starting the onions with the plantain limits the desirable taste of the onion to the soup and not the plantain itself. The crayfish comes in last just before the palm oil. Try n see the difference
Secondly, the water level doesnt have to be so full, just enough to cover the contents would be fine. Finally, the key to the porridge is stirring when its ready. Just grab a spatula and stir till the soup becomes a fine thick paste - this is why i'd rather have some good dry fish in it than a fresh one, those reddish dried shrimps also go beautifully. I'll also do without the vegetables, i just see them as getting in the way of my good meal of iron - but thats just me.

exactly the way I cook mine, & I use veg oil, soya bean extract precisely, avoiding calories, cos am wacthing the weight.

Only by asking her, if she lies that she is married, u do not strike her as a potential husband.As for the looks, some married women look hot, without rings & in the midst of single gals, some are even ready to mingle & waste ur time, so just politely ask.

Airtime..

[quote author=Yomieluv]read it again,seems comprehending simple writeup is ur challenge...I don't lie uneccesarry like u...#3million watch indeed...with all level of humility,I am richer than ur boifriend,both ur ex,and current,if u have any.[/quote guy u harsh o #laughing

Untill I hear another version, let me assume this is a movie script! Because this guy gave me a leaflet of a church program and told me he is now full time ministering. May it be a script please!

Cynthia,though I never met u before, but tears won't stop flowing my face over this unfortunate situation, u did not deserve any of the ill treatment given to u, u did not go to meet a sugar daddy, else u wld ve been judged! friendship among peers like this should be valued, adored & even lead to marriage if the devil had not transformed the hearts of some people to stone, then u wld be celebrated! Not considering the little risk u took here or there before announcing the wedding bells! But u are gone now! Painfully, simply because u underestimated the extent of man's wickedness to humanity. May God grant u peace @ His bossom. & for the living, this shd serve as a lesson, there are only a few good ones out there, watch closely!

Very useful information, thanks OP.

Fine girl, but New Omotala? What's the link?

Murder_X: Clear your ex out of your mind as a lover, replace love feelings and infatuations with friendship and move on. Makes no sense having a bunch of "I dont talk to yous" around.
If you really think you are moving ahead without having your ex's as friends, I dnt think thats progress. You truly haven't overcomed them. You overcome an ex, if you can have a decent conversation with him or her without thinking or talking about how it used to be or if you can sleep on the same bed with him/her and talk without thinking about sex not by cowardly running away from the sight of their faces - frankly you are still in their bondage when you do that.
Keep away from them only when they are a danger and detrimental to your life e.g violent exs.

@OP, sorry to burst your research - its IMO.

My ex & I are best of buddies, we are both married with children to our spouses, if there is one. Person that tells me as it is, its him, very supportive, he has my back any day, no sexual feelings anymore. However, there is an ex that I truly don't care if he exits, same as him, therefore, there is no special formular on how to handle an ex!

190: ^young man
you seem to have forgotten that during breakups
one person is always at the receiving terrible end, there are no breakups where
both parties would smile to emselves and laff it off and head their respective ways- so wah r u talking about

There is! There are circumstance where there would be an understanding, and in the interest of both parties, quiting will be the only healthy choice, both parties will grieve and walk away, but the bond will remain. Am a living testimony.

@poster, I understand what your fears are, some are getting the 'salon'funds wrongly, am an african woman, I honestly expect my man to treat me this way, I could even spend more money on him, but he should show signs of been sensitive to my needs, that is being responsible to me. But its not a deciding factor, just let him know your values. As for not being in love with him, I will advise you bUy more time and get closer to him and find out if you will eventually love him, only then, you will marry him, else, free him, you might end up hurting him badly. But you need time before you decide.

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Wow......Cute kids, I love this!

Not even the banner, nor the Daddy bliss himself, the pathetic thing is that, he will attract some desperate women!. Only God knows what the content of such prOcess will be.

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sexkillz: [color=#000030]Gimme the smile and keep your effing hands in your pockets. . . .


Welcome to the most Vibrant state of Nairaland - The Romance Section. . . A smile from me to you. ==> . . Enjoy.


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cldnt be anywhere but here! No dulling. Thanks.

Csami, Val Dee thanks!

tellwisdom: Me na handshake to make them feel welcomed and accepted ..But if u wan add ur own (Yansh) join, u are welcomed

I expected this, its the icing on the cake, can't be complete without. Thanks for the gesture. *smiles*

Thanks guys! Now its the big deal, hearing from directly, I have been doing follow up on your chats, and having fun, @ Dimple, I sure feel warm with that on your cheeks! *hugs*

No room for self pity! The world will celebrate you gal. Keep it up.

nikkyshyne: Welcome darling.

I think I prefer the smile. Especially if it is from somebody cute.. The smile is also healthier because you don't know where those hands have been.(Somewhere dirty, the nose, and u know na )

thanks dearie! I get ur point, concerning the hands. *funny*

@Slimyem, thanks, u just gave me a boost there. *hugs.

Hi fellow NLanders, I am just ushering myself in as a brand new member, so lets talk about welcoming a guest! You get to a place, u are offered a handshake with a rather straight face, then, another gives a smile with the hands in the pocket, which gesture is more accomodating? Your views...

brownlord: The same Uk when ur mate dey go, buy car come build house for nja, omon pack ur tins come house jor, when you people are in Nigeria you want to travel by all means now you don reach there you don start life, ehen start pick pocket as una dey do am here now or better still kidnapping idiot

. he is just a student, probably on scholarship, its not always easy.