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Not that I'm encouraging rude behaviour, is this Ngozi your friend? Does she know you from Adam?

What is your problem. . . .  ever so eager to go on a "Nigerian Man vs. Nigerian Girl" battle

Sigh. . . . NL is really getting boring

tell me about it, I'm out.

WOW, I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT TO SAY. beating the girl for what?!?!?! is it her fault? they should have beaten the man!! i dont blame her for being hysteric. gosh, what a world.

This is so untrue.
Naija men are not animals.

I don't know if that [b]Yaba or Tejuosho [/b]market is still open in Lagos. You can't pass there without these men groping you. There was one day I shouted at a man because he just grabbed my hand. One mumu had the guts to tell me I should take it easy that they can just despoil you here, that I should just quietly go.

Sefago, take a poll here
You don't need to be insulting,I grew up in naija
I experienced it and so did my friends and we talk about it now as adults and shudder at a country that doesn't protect it's young girls.
There are little girls hawking bananas that get fingered by these pervs and nobody says anything.
Men can grab and grope a girl and nothing will happen
Such a charge will ruin a man here but it means nothing in Naija

Men can grab and grope a girl and nothing will happen
Such a charge will ruin a man here but it means nothing in Naija

Look at how quickly this thread has turned into a Nigerian men bashing thread Shocked Shocked

**runs from thread**

Even the chauffered ones,the drivers will be getting the hots for you
look out the car,those dirty smelly men doing contructions are winking at you and making sexual movements with their hips and fingers
I can bet you 99.99% of all girls in Nigeria are sexually harassed at some point in their lives starting from a very tender age
and these men get away with it
traumatizing innovent kids in this manner

here we go again, sigh. . .

As evinced by the testimonies here, perhaps the focus should be on the kinds of men these babes attract.  Isn't it somewhat telling of their standards.  I won't brag or say I've got a unique swag but girls I've toasted have never been visibly apoplectic sha.

Then most of y'all are lower class

last time I heard that, I was like 6. . . . .by a Mallam in Lagos.
Dude was nice though. .  . . free agbalumo.

And I remember this 30-something yr old man that used to bother me, OMG! I was only 10 oo Grin Grin
Good thing he didn't know my name, he kept calling me 'obioma', LMCAO!! Obioma coo Chioma nee.

E pain you?

Unwanted touching and grabbing of females out in the Nigerian market-place doing their shopping is still too widespread in Nigerian society today. Some of these Nigerian men bring it over with them to UK or USA as Kate Ukezue and Elizabeth Nwankwo recounted in their articles about Nigerian men. These Nigerian men are taking a big risk and could end up in police handcuffs.

Some Nigerian men make the mistaken assumption that if they are on friendly terms with a woman it is ok to touch her body – I have had this happen to me and I think it is very wrong. Nigerian men should understand that by behaving this way, they are taking the risk of being reported to the police and getting arrested.

It is also true that some Nigerian men come on too strong – persistently hitting on a girl that has rejected him ten times already and still trying to chat her up. Maybe it’s time to leave the poor girl alone?

Its a pure lack of etiquette and manners Grin Cheesy. Toasting is our right! Whether you accept or refuse is up to y'all but be gracious about it. Some of them would rather act like skeezers just to prove their point

All these GRE nuts.

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Olabowale is from the South and he is a very conservative muslim. Jarus is from the North but he is a liberal muslim. Your response made me recall this thread below:

What difference does it make?

Dont mock me