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CrimeRe: As A Lawyer, How Will You Defend Abba Kyari As Client by selfemployed(op): 6:15pm On Jul 30, 2021
Williams876:
He rather go to jail. That monster
But he has arrested many criminals like Evans. He has some good aspect
CrimeAs A Lawyer, How Will You Defend Abba Kyari As Client by selfemployed(op): 6:08pm On Jul 30, 2021
I'll say my client is carrying out a covert operation with husspupy to unravel his modus operandi
CelebritiesRe: Francis Duru Celebrates His 52nd Birthday (Photos) by selfemployed(m): 8:16pm On Jul 27, 2021
Ahanna in Rattle snake
PropertiesHot Sale: Plots Of Land At Ohiya Estate, Umuahia by selfemployed(op): 3:28am On Jul 24, 2021
6 plots of land for sale. Location: Ohiya housing estate, umuahia, Abia state. Price: 700,000 naira per plot. Attraction: A University to be built in the same area.

Contact: 07030585793
PoliticsRe: Governor Ugwuanyi Inspects Site Of Enugu's Biggest Housing Project by selfemployed(m): 7:07am On Jul 18, 2021
OEPHIUS:
#TheNewEnuguCity…

#Governor Ifeanyi #Ugwuanyi of #Enugu State, accompanied by the State Commissioner for Housing, Hon. Vitus Okechi and his team of engineers and surveyors, inspects the ongoing massive developments at Enugu’s biggest #housing project, ‘The New Enugu City’ sitting on 2,667 hectares of land, in three phases, adjacent to Independence Layout, Phase II, Enugu.

The residential housing project, which is being executed by Gov. Ugwuanyi’s administration through the State Ministry of Housing, has ultramodern facilities such as dual carriageway roads of 24m, 15m and 12m widths with over 20 river crossings/culverts, electricity, hospital, potable water, recreational centres, security network, estate plots, civil servants estate, international market, churches, organised open spaces, shopping malls, mixed used development plots and Central Business District (CBD), among others.

#EnuguStateIsInTheHandsOfGod
#amokelouis
Hope they have plans for floods
FamilyRe: Should Divorce Be Encouraged? by selfemployed(op): 6:15pm On Jul 17, 2021
It's like Daddy freeze is making sense
FamilyShould Divorce Be Encouraged? by selfemployed(op): 6:14pm On Jul 17, 2021
Music/RadioSound Sultan: A Creative Artist by selfemployed(op): 2:59pm On Jul 13, 2021
FamilyRe: Fathers Day: Say A Wish To A Father by selfemployed(m): 8:04am On Jun 20, 2021
Happy Fathers Day to my dad.

Your memory is a blessing forever
FamilyJapan Is Shrinking by selfemployed(op): 8:35pm On Jun 18, 2021
CareerRe: Should Nigeria Civil Service Pay Based On Performance by selfemployed(op): 8:33pm On Jun 18, 2021
Atiwaye:
Lol in some ministry the civil servant are just going to office to play.
Then introducing Performance Based Pay will cause them to sit up and think.


It's just like restructuring
CareerShould Nigeria Civil Service Pay Based On Performance by selfemployed(op): 8:15pm On Jun 18, 2021
CultureSome Cultures That Must Be Abolished In Nigeria by selfemployed(op): 3:31am On Jun 15, 2021
Recently, I read about an Anambra widow that refused to drink the water that was used to wash the corpse of her husband. I was shocked to know such practices still exist.

Why has Africans refused to grow? It is said that "It's good to be a child, but its not good to remain a child" Every child must learn and grow such he or she will do away with childish behaviours.

Forcing a woman to drink the water that was used to wash a corpse in this age is very alarming. Do you realize the health implications of such practices? This is what ignorance can do. Is he there no NGO or something that can help educate people on some of these things?

Not only the above mentioned practice. There are some other practices in my opinion that must be abolished in our cultures as a people.

(1) The practice of denying a woman inheritance of his father's properties. Some say it's supposed to be so because the woman gets married and leaves for her husband's family. What if the woman didn't get married? What injustice?

(2). Excessive marital and burial rites. I don't know what we gain by placing economic burdens on people

(3). Prohibiting people from getting married because of where they came from

(4). Classifying a group of people with derogatory names such as "OSU" in Igbo land

There are quite a number of which I may not remember now.

It's time we allowed love to control our behavior towards one another and outgrow any such behavior that adds no value to our existence.
PropertiesHot Sale!!! Property For Sale In Umuahia by selfemployed(op): 8:55am On Jun 14, 2021
Hot sell!!! This house is for sale. 4 flats of 3 bedroom flats each, fenced with borehole, enough parking spaces and at a highly reduced price. Interested buyers should inbox or call me on 07030585793 for price. Location, Umuahia.

Price: 30 Million naira
Jobs/VacanciesRe: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by selfemployed(m): 6:54pm On Jun 06, 2021
Tjra:
LONG STORY ALERT!!!


Good afternoon Nairaland.

God has been so good to my family this year and a particular blessing has been giving us sleepless night.

I work with a big organisation here in Lagos and currently earn about N600k. I used to work in the branch since my entry level days 6 years ago until I was able to runz the head office movement.

Ever since I join the HQ two years, my life has been at ease. No weekend duties, no sickening pressures from customers. I have been able to develop my self, complete the professional courses I abandoned and can rest well on weekends/public holidays.

The worklife balance now isn't only the advantage of working at the HQ. The career progression and rapid promotion crowns it all.

My spouse earns a little above N400k and we manage ourselves well. Our combined income isn't that much but we've been able to achieve a lot due to our mutual cooperation. She commits her resources 100% into our home. Some people see me as a "big man" outside, no knowing I am actually enjoying the reward of marrying a good wife.

My wife recently got a job very lucrative job. Salary is about N1.5M monthly. She was on the process for close to a year. You can imagine our joy when she was eventually given an offer. This job is a huge one for us as a family and will make life more sweet.

My pain now is the job is based at Abuja and that means she has to relocate there with our kids. Abuja is not where I can drive to considering the security situation of Nigeria. Also, it won't be wise to fly down every week (I also have hidden phobia for heights cry) because of costs and other attendant risks.

I actually want us to live together as a family most especially because of our kids. Some Kids tend to be spoilt when raised almost alone their mothers. As a father, I want to jointly raise them with their mother and also instill discipline lipsrsealed in them appropriately.

The only solution on sight is to ask my company for redeployment to a branch at Abuja. This I fear might return me back to "Egypt". I.e days of stunted growth, no promotions. In summary, I am scared of killing my career by myself.

My wife is okay with us visiting each other every month but I am vehemently against it.

Someone please help cry cry
My advice: both of you should plan setting up your own business and become self employed. This will enable you can stay together and enjoy your marriage.

If your wife agrees with you, you two can save enough money within a year to start a good business, then one of you will resign to manage the business while the other keeps the job
PoliticsRe: A Nairalander take on #Twitter Ban: President Buhari Goofed On The Twitter Ban by selfemployed(m): 6:49am On Jun 05, 2021
Belial06:
Buhari is a clown so ...
Better mind what you write...


It's like you want them to ban nairaland
ProgrammingRe: Thinking Of Dropping Out Of College To Focus On Programming by selfemployed(m): 5:48pm On May 27, 2021
Discord:
Hi Nairalanders, kindly need your advice, please.

I am currently in my second year studying a five years course in a federal university, I have no interest in what
I am studying, I got good grades tho. Just doing it because that is what my parents want me to do. I have no passion for it,
oftentimes I feel I am just wasting my time in school.

I love programming and would love to drop out of uni to focus on it and give my all to it. Seeing a lot of graduates
living from hand to mouth, struggling to earn a living is truly not encouraging.
Better complete your studies.

Don't make a decision you'll regret in the future.

School will not stop you from becoming a programmer. visit udemy.com. download the tutorials and learn at your pace
CrimeDid Fulani Herdsmen Attack Olokoro In Umuahia by selfemployed(op): 8:01pm On May 24, 2021
I heard there was an attack on Olokoro people by funani herdsmen last night.

Can anyone verify?
FamilyRe: Marriage Still Rocks: Two Nairalanders Celebrate A Decade Of Pure Love by selfemployed(m): 1:47pm On May 22, 2021
Drversatile:
Two nairalanders celebrate 10 years anniversary today. The lovely couple and children appreciated all the people who made it possible.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CPIkrSir93I/?utm_medium=copy_link
Beautiful

Congratulations and many more happy years
RomanceRe: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by selfemployed(m): 7:20pm On May 20, 2021
Lilpen3758:
And u are just a sorry virgin
I'm just sorry for you.

You don't even know the kind of risk you're taking. And you're proud of it.

SMH

Don't mislead others.

Live your life the way you want
RomanceRe: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by selfemployed(m): 7:17pm On May 20, 2021
Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady talkless of sex. I stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady. Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast, its so embarrassing, some of my friends think i am impotent or gay.
How will i marry, guys how do u do it?
Nothing wrong with you.

Ask your mom, aunty or sister to help you find a good lady to be your wife.

That's all

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