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CelebritiesRe: Rukky Sanda Wearing Tight Leggings by SELFWORTH: 6:08pm On Oct 15, 2013
Pointless post

NL is loosing it's way. It's turning into a pro-porn site.
FamilyRe: Her Dad Is Attracted To Her - What Should She Do by SELFWORTH: 6:05pm On Oct 14, 2013
Donjazzy12: There is no cause for alarm. No body should be worried at all . @ OP it is perfectly normal for your father to want to be intimate with you. There are well documented cases of many animals who make love to their siblings. It is a natural feeling, he was born that way. It is called Genetic 5esxual Attraction. Google it! When next he comes to you open your arms wide and accept him. That's who you are! God made him that way, so he cant reject himself just like gays and lesbians cant reject themselves. You are blessed to be experiencing this! Shalom grin
This is one of the undiagnosed madd people roaming NL daily!
FamilyRe: Her Dad Is Attracted To Her - What Should She Do by SELFWORTH: 5:55pm On Oct 14, 2013
Tell mummy
Tell a trusted member of the family
Stay awake and alert at night until you find temporary accommodation.
Avoid him at all cost.
PRAY

I have heard of a similar story. The father used spiritual means to subdue his daughter. She escaped only when she fell pregnant for him. Mummy was in the house all the while but would be deeply asleep and never once woke up all the years he was abusing his daughter.

A lot of naive comments on here . These things happen in Nigeria everyday. The world is upside down. Evil is all around us. Shouting it out to everyone may not only save her her integrity but may save her life too.

The title is misleading. Father is not attracted to her . Father is attempting to MOLEST her! !!!!
CelebritiesRe: Fashola To Pay Pa Kasumu's Medical Bill by SELFWORTH: 9:30am On Oct 14, 2013
segend: Kudos to Fashola. But personally don't like this trend of special treatment for celebrities when they are ill, there are people that contributes more to the future and economy of the state, that should also be considered, especially primary and secondary school teachers. They are paid peanuts, and left alone when ill. And besides, celebrities make more than them ( I assume they do)
Totally agree.

What's the big deal? Good health care should be accessible to all.
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Do You Like The Most About Yourself? by SELFWORTH:
I love my dedication to God. My relationship with the God of heaven is a constant source of inspiration to me and those around me.
RomanceRe: From Facebook To My Bedroom (the Sweet Coincidence) by SELFWORTH: 8:47pm On Oct 04, 2013
[quote author=sage_]You should be ashamed of yourself that the 2 hours you spent with this lady yielded nothing. You even took her to a restaurant and spent money on a total stranger. Fool. When I was much younger, I met a lady who just came out of her house in Ikoyi. 30 minutes later, she was already dancing awilo on my bed. Till this day, I can't tell how it happened. Things were so fast and marginal. I have never been able to repeat the feet again. The closest I have been to that record was when I was a youth corps member. It took me 1hour 30min to get done with a girl I met for the first time, from conception to execution.[/quote]You are a big ashewo!
CrimeRe: Jealous Ex-girlfriend Sets Rival Ablaze In Enugu (picture) by SELFWORTH: 10:03pm On Sep 30, 2013
All of them need to give their lives to Christ! If you dine with the devil, you can't complain about the plate you are served with or the company he keeps. Two ladies fighting over a bus driver is sad. The devil will always find work for idle hands.

I pray that all parties come to the knowledge of Christ and find some peace after all these. Amen
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Cancelled My Friend's Wedding Because Of Premarital Sex. by SELFWORTH: 6:50pm On Sep 18, 2013
ifefemi: HYPOCRITES!!!
We deceive ourselves so much, as if pre-marital sex is the ONLY sin. God forgive me, but we never can tell the kind of person the same Pastor is. I personally have had the most of bad experiences bordering on integrity from christians/church members (including Pastor).

Abeg make them go do their marriage in the court jare; God bless their union.
No one is stopping them from getting married but they should go somewhere else but please NOT ON THE ALTAR OF GOD. WHY CAN'T PEOPLE ARGUE WITHIN THE CONTEXT OF THE TOPIC?

PASTOR IS NOT THE ONE WHO IS TRYING TO GET MARRIED after having pre marital sex you silly sausage.!
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Cancelled My Friend's Wedding Because Of Premarital Sex. by SELFWORTH: 6:43pm On Sep 18, 2013
IYA NGBALI: keep decieving yourself as if all the marriages done in churches were without pre marital sex. The guy should bone the so called church,do traditional and go to registry and continue to hammer his wife jare
.....to 'hammer' his madam, you are RIGHT, a righteous church is NOT the appropriate place. Anywhere should be sufficient including your home or the local gutter.
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Cancelled My Friend's Wedding Because Of Premarital Sex. by SELFWORTH: 6:37pm On Sep 18, 2013
Donmichaelz: See these Fool quotin scriptures,did dey tell u d girl was carrying baby jesus?stop using awkward examples to give illustations....If you sleep with a Girl b4 marriage its a Sin,I am still a virgin and proud of It,I guese you guys wount understand wat the bible ment by keeping the bed holy until marriage 95% of you have had SE.X every now and den,dats why when you see the truth you try to cover it..SMH

ITs like most of u slept wit d. W*hore. b4 u married her and dats why you are finding it hard to accept d truth...Marriage in church is ment for Virgins not W**hore(guys included nt just d ladies)
Whhore's don't want to admit d truth
Thank you. ....
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Cancelled My Friend's Wedding Because Of Premarital Sex. by SELFWORTH: 6:35pm On Sep 18, 2013
Abel benker: I wonder oooo!!! Help me ask dem,did the pastor marry as a virginhuh?
So. What's your point?

Because pastor commits suicide so members should also jump in and do the same.
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Cancelled My Friend's Wedding Because Of Premarital Sex. by SELFWORTH: 6:33pm On Sep 18, 2013
ritux: if we are honest, let's take statistic of all the single persons that have commented on this thread.

I am ready to bet my life savings that 90% of us have indulged in fornication.
Plastic Christian with no shame.
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Cancelled My Friend's Wedding Because Of Premarital Sex. by SELFWORTH: 6:31pm On Sep 18, 2013
[quote author=MARK-REN]My take on this is simple we are all hypocrites. How many of us here can swear that we have never engaged in pre or post marital sexhuhhuh

Let he/she who has not sinned speak.

It is because of rubbish like this that I stopped going to church........................

So called pastors and "Men of God" dictating morals to their congregation but do not deem it fit to be judged by those same standards in their personal lives or when they spend their congregations’ funds on opulence.

My question with all the so called churches & mosques all over the place why have things generally not improved in Nigeriahuh??

Rubbish Posts...........[/quote]Don't tar everyone with the same disgusting brush as yourself.

Give your life to Christ before its too late.
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Cancelled My Friend's Wedding Because Of Premarital Sex. by SELFWORTH: 6:29pm On Sep 18, 2013
tayoccu: Its so crazy what some so called pastors do, instead of leading them back to the right path ( by making them realize what they've done is wrong, and making them repent), the pastor decides to cancel the wedding?
SMH!!!
Like the "pastor" has never sinned before in his life.
You are a plastic Christian. Is the pastor the one on trial here?

They have sinned..The church made it's decision. Do they have to be married in a church? Is it by force to be married in church?
FamilyRe: Is My Son's School "Over Teaching?" by SELFWORTH: 8:13pm On Sep 17, 2013
Education is a combination of many things design to stimulate and engage the mind. It's not just art and playing with rubber ducks.

If the child is happy in the school am not sure I understand the fuss. Follow the child's heart not mummy or daddy's.
EducationRe: Photos From A Nairalander's Convocation by SELFWORTH:
SlyIg: Congrats dear!
Your shoe is fine.
huhThe shoes are a mistake with the navy suit she is wearing.

Nigerian girls and their bright red lipstick. That's the only thing that tend to stand out on their face. It makes their head look like humpty dumpty. What happened to nudee colours and blending your make up to your skin tone?

Ladies, please make the most of your natural features and stop slapping on all these fake colours that doesn't suit women of colour.

My opinion lipsrsealed


I expect all those kindergarten kids to start criticising me for expressing my opinion. Before you start throwing tantrums please remember this is a PUBLIC forum and everyone is entitled to their opinion. If you are truly learning anything in your different educational institutions, you should all know that by now but I seek to remind you still cos I know NL is full of half 'baked' graduates and empty barrels!!!!!!
EducationRe: Photos From A Nairalander's Convocation by SELFWORTH: 2:12pm On Sep 14, 2013
Memyselfu2009: This is no news I get nothing against her but better news should take the front page
I thought I was the only one!

NLs editorial and development team are sleeping. One day a better and more interesting forum will jolt them out of their complacency.
PoliticsRe: 23 PDP Govs Endorse Tukur’s Sack. by SELFWORTH: 1:55pm On Sep 14, 2013
What does it matter ?

My prayer is that God gives Nigeria leaders who will seek to please and fear Him in all that they do.
Christianity EtcRe: Why Do You Believe In God? by SELFWORTH: 5:52pm On Sep 13, 2013
In everyday living , all around me I see His works.

There is no controversy. God IS GOD!
Foreign AffairsRe: Vladimir Putin's Letter To America On The Syria Crisis by SELFWORTH: 10:26pm On Sep 12, 2013
Putin himself is a dictator who has killed many who don't agree with him.

He is a hypocrite.
Nairaland GeneralRe: 25 Photo-illustrated Reminders To Help You Find Happiness by SELFWORTH: 6:16pm On Sep 12, 2013
[quote author=emma_best2000]Nice one @ OP your head is there . grin[/quote]This pix is my favourite. Jesus is MY peace.
Christianity EtcRe: Do You Say Your Morning Prayer On Sunday? by SELFWORTH: 1:37pm On Sep 08, 2013
This NL is a funny forum.


This is a site owned by a pagan, ran by pagans, moderated by pagans and FULL of Pagans pretending to know Jesus.

Yet without the grace of God, none of them will be here today.
Christianity EtcRe: What Are The Qualities Of Being A True Christian by SELFWORTH: 1:29pm On Sep 08, 2013
FOLYKAZE: 1 - You vigorously deny the existence of thousands of Gods claimed by other religions, but feel outraged when someone denies the existence of yours.

2 - You feel insulted and "dehumanized" when scientists say that people evolved from other life forms, but you have no problem with the Biblical claim that we were created from dirt.

3 - You laugh at polytheists (those who believe in many Gods), but you have no problem believing in a Triune God.

4 - You feel disgust when you hear of the "atrocities" attributed to Allah, but you don't even flinch when hearing about how God/Jehovah slaughtered all the babies of Egypt in "Exodus" and ordered the elimination of entire ethnic groups in "Joshua" including women, children, and trees!

5 - You laugh at Hindu beliefs that worships humans as avatars, and Greek claims about gods sleeping with women, but you have no problem believing that the Holy Spirit impregnated Mary, who then gave birth to a man-god who got killed, came back to life and then ascended into the sky.

6 - You are willing to spend your life looking for little loopholes in the scientifically established facts, e.g. age of Earth (few billion years), but you find nothing wrong with believing dates recorded by Bronze Age tribesmen sitting in their tents and guessing that Earth is a few generations old.

7 - You believe that the entire population of this planet with the exception of those who share your beliefs -- though excluding those in all rival sects - will spend Eternity in an infinite Hell of Suffering. And yet consider your religion the most "tolerant" and "loving."

8 - While modern science, history, geology, biology, and physics have failed to convince you otherwise, some crazy people rolling around on the floor speaking in "tongues" may be all the evidence you need to "prove" Christianity.
9 - You define 0.01% as a "high success rate" when it comes to answered prayers. You consider that to be evidence that prayer works. And you think that the remaining 99.99% FAILURE was simply the will of God.
10 - You actually know a lot less than many atheists and agnostics do about the Bible, Christianity, and church history - but still call yourself a christian.xx
After this long (stolen) Epistle....what is your point? Apart from displaying that you need prayers. ..not sure what can be discerned from this rubbish you posted. There is no controversy Jesus is LORD.
Christianity EtcRe: What Are The Qualities Of Being A True Christian by SELFWORTH: 1:29pm On Sep 08, 2013
FOLYKAZE: 1 - You vigorously deny the existence of thousands of Gods claimed by other religions, but feel outraged when someone denies the existence of yours.

2 - You feel insulted and "dehumanized" when scientists say that people evolved from other life forms, but you have no problem with the Biblical claim that we were created from dirt.

3 - You laugh at polytheists (those who believe in many Gods), but you have no problem believing in a Triune God.

4 - You feel disgust when you hear of the "atrocities" attributed to Allah, but you don't even flinch when hearing about how God/Jehovah slaughtered all the babies of Egypt in "Exodus" and ordered the elimination of entire ethnic groups in "Joshua" including women, children, and trees!

5 - You laugh at Hindu beliefs that worships humans as avatars, and Greek claims about gods sleeping with women, but you have no problem believing that the Holy Spirit impregnated Mary, who then gave birth to a man-god who got killed, came back to life and then ascended into the sky.

6 - You are willing to spend your life looking for little loopholes in the scientifically established facts, e.g. age of Earth (few billion years), but you find nothing wrong with believing dates recorded by Bronze Age tribesmen sitting in their tents and guessing that Earth is a few generations old.

7 - You believe that the entire population of this planet with the exception of those who share your beliefs -- though excluding those in all rival sects - will spend Eternity in an infinite Hell of Suffering. And yet consider your religion the most "tolerant" and "loving."

8 - While modern science, history, geology, biology, and physics have failed to convince you otherwise, some crazy people rolling around on the floor speaking in "tongues" may be all the evidence you need to "prove" Christianity.
9 - You define 0.01% as a "high success rate" when it comes to answered prayers. You consider that to be evidence that prayer works. And you think that the remaining 99.99% FAILURE was simply the will of God.
10 - You actually know a lot less than many atheists and agnostics do about the Bible, Christianity, and church history - but still call yourself a christian.xx
After this long (stolen) Epistle....what is your point? Apart from displaying that you need prayers. ..not sure what can be discerned from this rubbish you posted. There is no controversy Jesus is LORD.
Christianity EtcRe: What Are The Qualities Of Being A True Christian by SELFWORTH: 1:16pm On Sep 08, 2013
DJDOLA: WELL FOR BEING A TRUE CHRISTAIN IS WHEN U ACCEPT JESUS AS SAVANT OF GOD AND BELIEVE DAT THERE IS NO ANY OTHER GOD EXCEPT CHRIST JESUS..LOBATAN
Had to correct the typo....There is only ONE GOD...He is JEHOVAH.....

There is no controversy. JESUS IS LORD.
Christianity EtcRe: What Are The Qualities Of Being A True Christian by SELFWORTH: 1:11pm On Sep 08, 2013
It is very simple.

Everyone MUST SEE CHRIST IN YOU.
FamilyRe: Girl Commits Suicide Over Mother's Comments by SELFWORTH: 9:23pm On Aug 27, 2013
chaircover: Typical bullyish behaviour. Even exhibited here on this forum. People think the more caustic tongued they are the better & stronger it makes them look.

People talk anyhow to anybody. Its everywhere with an aim to bring them down . . . on forums, homes, markets, on the road, schools, offices everywhere!!!! They forget that people are different and some people cant just brush things off and they take these things badly. A couple of weeks ago a 14 year old committed suicide over abuse she received on an internet site.

In this case to her own daughter. If a child can’t find comfort and succour in his/her own mother then how much more strangers? If you cant be your kids greatest cheer leader and fan, then who will?

I saw this on someone’s facebook wall this morning and it got me thinking . . . .

“Don’t mix bad words with your bad mood. You will have many opportunities to change your mood, but you will never get an opportunity to change the words you have spoken.”

I hope a lesson or two is learnt from this tragedy.

PS I dont know how a 21 year old girl who is a fashion designer is now a failure in the book of a woman running a grinding machine. undecided
Well said but a lot of people on this forum are no better than that mother. They attack strangers in the name of making a point or disagreeing with your opinion. The use of gutter language on this forum knows no bounds. Before you start condemning the mother, I will suggest many NL members examine themselves first before they start pointing fingers.

Many proclaim to know God which makes it even worse but the real issue is whether God knows them.

I agree with many here that suicide was not the answer.
Christianity EtcRe: What Is Wrong With Paying Your Tithe In Church? by SELFWORTH:
chukwudi44: That tithing has got nothing to do with people prospering.How does that got to do poverty mentality.It s people like you who refuse to work hard but rather rely on doling out monies to your pastors hoping on getting financial blessing that really has the poverty mentality
.....and i guess you know me personally to know I don't work hard? I will ignore your comment as ignorance....I still say it that almost all of those complaining here are those who are certainly not well off either physically, spritually, mentally and financially.....POVERTY MENTALITY...
Christianity EtcRe: What Is Wrong With Paying Your Tithe In Church? by SELFWORTH: 6:23pm On Aug 21, 2013
Joagbaje: That's what many are ignorant of. It takes the holyghost to open a mans understanding. Argument can't do it
Only God can convict the heart of Man.

A lot of these people are all living in poverty which can also cloud their judgment and influence them. Because they are poor, they assume every Pastor is also poor and money worshippers like themselves.
Christianity EtcRe: What Is Wrong With Paying Your Tithe In Church? by SELFWORTH: 6:13pm On Aug 21, 2013
Haywhymido: I rather pay my tithe to d needy,poors dat damn need it dan pay it to well fed pastors who don't remember hungry members.
This is nothing but poverty mentality.!! All these pretences. . grin grin grin
Christianity EtcRe: What Is Wrong With Paying Your Tithe In Church? by SELFWORTH: 6:04pm On Aug 21, 2013
Pastor Kun: I look forward to the day you would truly accept christ and delivered from the mamon manifested in your life by your love for collecting tithes.
Amen!
Christianity EtcRe: What Is Wrong With Paying Your Tithe In Church? by SELFWORTH: 6:02pm On Aug 21, 2013
Goshen360: Is tithe a 'commandment' or 'principle'?
What is 'principle' of tithe?
Where in scripture did God instructed tithe as 'principle'?
Am disappointed with this question coming from Goshen.

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