₦airaland Forum

D sage: Wooing a lady is like a game of luck, you either win or get rejected. This's something you must live with, only a coward give up on wooing cos of a mere rejection from girls. If a woman reject you, please don't mind her shakara just go to the next available one you like, many of them are hypocrites, so don't give up.

Men are and can be hypocrites too. Its not attributed to one sex alone.

oluface: He said Headquater!!! Don't u understand his sentence.

....no I don't understand anything not written in a clear and concise manner. Thanks for the clarification.

DailyNews: The fear of getting a NO from someone they will be seeing so often. Imagine if he builds up courage and walks up to a sister he had been admiring in the church, and unfortunately, the sister says: NO! I am taken, occupied, not ready now, etc.

The guy will never be able to cope with the shame, especially when he will be seeing the sister in church always.

You know, after many stories and experiences shared by different guys of how they got turned down or snubbed by some rude and manner-less ladies they cherished and wished to love and marry, guys of nowadays have learnt to keep quiet even when they cherish a lady, most responsible guys always keep that admiration to themselves, most times forever.

Not all guys can handle rejection from a lady they cherish and have fantasize a good future with, hence, many responsible guys in general have withdrew from wooing and and toasting women.

That's the sad situation right now. I know plenty guys in this shoe.

Many guys don't have the courage to even approach a lady....This in itself can be a big problem because the Bible states a man should seek the woman/wife.

I know many of those shy guys too! No one knows what they are afraid of.

[quote author=Vic-jay]i can't. they are beyond what u see them as.[/quote]So is everyone you don't know very well. .....This applies to every stranger.

Meta4element: Lol op u really gat a piont here...seriousLy men dnt lyke d so called "wumen in christ" ladies...seriously u wun't blame i even know 1 gel 4rm awa side...shez fuckinq 37yr old buh lastweek she celebrated ha 28th birthday and dis pesin iz the type dat wil preach,qive u prayerz even 2 the extent of washinq d church...dats life shaaa buT all d same "SHINE UR EYES!!"

......pardon? Please can someone interpret. Am not a Greek scholar.

Mr Bravo: Well, churches are the headquaters of the hypocrates

Please show me somewhere where hypocrites don't exist.

[quote author=Yoshi-Master]Tell me about it!

I went there to buy some crates of hypo, but they were sold out.[/quote]There are hypocrites everywhere. Even on NL. Tell us something new.

...its partly familiarity breeds contempt and partly awkwardness. Sometimes the opportunity is not there to chat with others after church. Everyone is trying to be aloof without being too cold. .

My brother is courting someone he used to work with. When they were working together for 4 years they didn't mix in the same company at work. They didn't start dating until they bumped into each other on the bus back from a singles meeting in church. If they were still working together they will not be courting now.

Edusouls: Nigerian girls re the worst women to love, cos u may hve cardiac arrest at 22yrs, they dont value feelings, they re devilish liars, they date multiple partners with ease and see it as nothin wrong, infact as buisness, thats y most of them re loaded with curses walking timed bombs, and most re unable to get married nowadays..nigerian girls are very bad..anymore explanations needed tell me...

You are a baaad loser . No wonder you were dumped. You sound like a pain in the butt..

Young po413: Love or no love,I don`t care,I spend to get what I want.....
atleast she no go dey shakara for where I dey again.
Both of us may not even be interested in love sef,she comes for my cash,while I go for the pussssy,after the whole thing,she will went back to the one she loves,who cares but personally,I will be relieved cuz I know whats under her skirt and get ready for the next one.

Aids is real! If you keep looking for it, one day you will surely find it and get to keep it forever

Starting a new business and sustaining it takes years and years of hard slog. It is hard work and no reward for the first few years. Nigerians like quick get rich schemes and have no spirit of perseverance.

No business can be super successful overnight and until many so called nigerian entrepreneurs understand this they won't last long.

Chukkasy: nairaland girls appear false

as 4 d guys, they keep making noise about 'bleep', i'm sure 99.99% of them no get morale and confidence 2 approach chicks . 99.9% know nothing about sex.

FULLY AGREE. ...

All the gutter people have hijacked the thread again!

Look at all the small boys commenting and making out that they can't do without sex. Even those who have never had a girlfriend are shouting that sex is everything.

Is sex food? If you were in hospital suffering from an interminable disease, would you still be craving for sex?

Keep deceiving yourself and displaying your small mindedness.

Okaka27: Seriously, i hate dis thread,its annoying.
Even girls themselves knw dat dey make things difficult for guys.Guys try their best to respect dem,but dey must form.Must a guy spend before he shows you how much he likes u?
White girls are more sensible and more beautiful dan black girls,they knw wat d guy wants,and den dey tell him straight if dey return his feelings or not.BLack girls are d foolish ones heRe.
rubbish

Your inferiority complex has contaminated your brain.

Run back to the classroom. This thread is for adults not those who skipped lessons to be stealing a glance on Facebook.

No wonder all of the sensible girls turn you down.

BrightCar: How did they get her age? That AGE cannot be true, if its true then the husband should be charged posthumously for child abuse

Which court?

Hell or in the graveyard?

tintingz: If this man was from the north now probably a muslim we would have been reading different level of insult, now this man was said to be an igbo man all we read is "16 year old girl with 2 kids". Less we Don't forget child-marriage is part of african culture why the fuss?


Hypocrites!

What is bad IS BAD!

Africa or Asia or Europe. The culture is bad and those who partake in it are heartless.

eduson33: This serves as a warning to you guys.stop kid marriage.
All that glitters are not giesha.

It's so pathetic and unsrambled how some individual cannot handle their temperatures.

Don't understand this greek language. If you must use big grammar, at least stick to easy words.

[quote author=Licensed-2-Kill]Sincerely, some women are programmed to bring out the mike tyson in you,[/quote]....The day Mike Tyson comes out in any human being (animal instinct) against another, I pray that the devil (hunter) receives thier soul that day. This 'Mike Tyson' deserves what he got.

She didn't deserve to be living with an animal.

Please can someone teach NL teenagers how to summarise a story!

What exactly do you people learn at your educational institutions?

[quote author=KELVIN-XY]so The virgin mary suddenly felt the urge to Advocate for womanhood indecency in the society just becus of a dancer,Wat of those notorious prostitutes on the roads and streets of Lagos?
What has she put up to help eradicate the art.?[/quote]You have the brain of a 2 year old to gurgle out such nonsense.

Kanwulia: YOUR MORRRRRRRRRRRRRA AND FARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRA!!!!
Prove me wrong!
You 'Hypocritical Closet Phockaholics'!
Awon-Assssssssshawo-OSHOFFA-DEEPER-WELLS!!!!!!

How did your former 'atarodo-seller' under ALHAJI MASHA bridge become DEPUTY GOVERNOR OF LAGOS STATE?

Who let this dog out?

Lexusgs430: Why does the deputy governor and her Government, not provide jobs for them ? Does she not know the amount and level of employment the music industry has provided across board?
If dressing almost nu.de is what sells, that is what we will keep getting !!!

Foolish questions deserves a foolish answer .

you are obviously a fool . So in the western world, the ruling president provides jobs for all citizens? ?

Is this the month of fathers molesting daughters on NL or what?

All of these molestation stories is making some of us physically sick, so enough please.

All of them are madd in that family except the boys who reported this. Family of sickos.

[quote author=Yoshi-Master]I know right, its really more of a status symbol to them I guess.

My "Jesus" piece![/quote]I bet they won't pose with the Koran like that.

A fatwa will be issued in their absence! Shameless Dogs!

[quote author=Yoshi-Master]Not all the guys, case in point.[/quote]What's with the crucifix?

All these fake Christians sha!

Akiika: I wish they can extend all these "MORALITY" preaching to act of Governance.
Is it moral to be corrupt to the teeth?
In fact, i don't understand all these holy holy wey these elderly people dey claim, they brought the youth to this level of desperation......if Govt. run the state well and there are abundant job....that lady will probably not degrade her womanhood like that, but all na to fill her stomach.

Typical Niger response. So the actions of an armed robbed can be justified because of the state of Nigeria?

.There is no justification for evil.

[quote author=-Mr Cork-]..kaki. See nyansh!....that governor must be ga,y...truss me! [/quote]You obviously can't read. ..

Sec5: But higher and responsible one

....and created in God's image.

Only the NL small boys will like things like this.

A mad person is good for visual admiration but not for taking home to your parents. Nigeria is in tatters if as someone on here says , ladies look up to people like these dancers for inspiration. The only thing worth admiring in them is thier ability to act as perfect whoress.

A lot of these girls including Rihanna , Gaga, Milley Cyrus, Nikki Minja and co are the music industry 'whores'. They are victims of their own selfish ambition. These stupid girls are no exception.