₦airaland Forum

chachal: Wish him quick recovery. Reminds me of oscar pistorius's intruder story. Crime rate is so high in SA

bukatyne: I guess a woman pregnants herself. Naija people are filled with sin and Hypocrisy

angelz: Pls does any1 knows goldie's surname b4 she married Andrew Harvey?
For Those of u wu beliv d man is a gold digger, d opposite was what l read on naija gist.
Dat goldie snatched d man from her best friend in london who was married to him with 2 children.
Eloped to Nigeria in 2005 n married d man cus of his wealth before she became a celebrity.
Can som1 pls confirm d veracity or otherwise of dis story.
l also read that she had a daugther, for who, l dont know.
Funnt stories after her death.
For a fact, she was still married to the man until her death.

imperiouxx: Only the righteous rest in peace, without that, na from frying pan to fire.

lacidi: The hypocrisy in your post made you to forget that all you need is to sleep with 1 man and not every man on the block, for you to get pregnant. Can you honestly say you are a virgin? Can you swear you did not have sex with your finacee b4 marriage? Hypocrites.

ceewai lebi: I did pregnancy test a day to my wedding,i was directed to a particular lab-so no fake result;plus i was told that d-test result was to be collected by my Rev's wife.She later called my mum in the evening to tell her congrats.Baptist nor dey take d test play@all.

eastermaris: Ur ignorance speaks in every line.Spare d rod and spoil d child.Are u saying there shld be no rules dat guide d church?. because all have sinned,so everyone shld go on a screwing spree of d opposite without caution? Its either u no christian or u simply a mo.ron!
Every religion kicks against pre-marital sex,wats wrong wit putting measures dat wld discourage it.It dosnt stop people frm getting pregnant b4 marriage,shld d living church(sure some churches re dead) den legalise it so dat people wnt commit abortn? Answer is 'NO'. Dats why some of such churches but measures in place.I wld drop one or two.
The church where my elder sist wedded made it clear to dem during counselling dat dey dnt wed pregnant women,and there was a preg test 3days b4 d wedding.D only option was if u are pregnant,put to bed first dem come to the church for blessing of marriage which automatically replaces a white wedding.A white weddind and dat veil on d woman signifies chastity and purity.If d couples decide to have sex secretly after d councelling b4 marriage thereby building there marriage on deceit,dats left for God to handle,but d church most play its role.
How can u preach against FORNICATION to ur youths in church and wed a 5months pregnant lady in d presence of d same youths?

Stop complicating christianity!
There are many other alternatives...satanism..paganism..hinduism..islam..etc

U cant repaint FORNICATION,pre-marital sex is FORNICATION and pregnancy b4 marriage is FORNICATION...and GOD hates FORNICATION.

d light: The marriage bed is supposed to b kept undefiled that's what d bible prescribes. So for any christian wedding this is expected to be adhered to.

tete7000: . Do u think as a human being u have the right to punish for God? Remember all have have sinned and fell short of Gods glory. Can u judge because ur sin are committed hidden while well exposed to God? U people never take a holistic view of the bible u claim u know. U pick one verse and base ur verdict on it. Christ came to set the sinners free. We are all like sheep each have gone his way but God place upon the punishment for our sins. No wonder heavven rejoice for a sinner that repents. Coming forward with pregnancy is a sign of repentance and resolve to live right henceforth. While does ur church stands betwEen people and their desire to reconcile with God. Maybe u ll choose they abort instaed and commit greater sin? Ignoramus.

rubi96: yes they cancel.

chiteny: PLEASE RE-READ THE SAME PASSAGE USING NIV VERSION AND YOU WIL HAVE A BETTER UNDERSTANDING. THANKS.

tete7000: . It is definitely clear you lack capability to undrstand the issue raised in my writeup no wonder u attend ur church. First no church condole immorality. Secondly a church is not a place of condemnation but of mercy. Thirdly God doesn't condemn, satan and sin do. Fourtly the marital vow even when taken with pregnancy remain a vow between the man and the woman, if u re not sure go to catholic church and obtain one. Names of the man and woman are specifically mentioned and nothing is mentioned of the baby. Finally even when baby starts coming after marriage God view family as a single unit of people, reason why catholic church keeps emphasising importance of raising children within Goddly families. And to add to this will your church accept convert who are pregnant while ignorant of gospel but now want to be born again if I may use ur slang? The bible says my people perish for lack of understandng. This is applicable to you and ur likes. Jesus exonerated the adulterous woman even while mosaic law demanded otherwise. You people are living under the law and not under grace. Too, too sad.

tete7000: . It is definitely clear you lack capability to undrstand the issue raised in my writeup no wonder u attend ur church. First no church condole immorality. Secondly a church is not a place of condemnation but of mercy. Thirdly God doesn't condemn, satan and sin do. Fourtly the marital vow even when taken with pregnancy remain a vow between the man and the woman, if u re not sure go to catholic church and obtain one. Names of the man and woman are specifically mentioned and nothing is mentioned of the baby. Finally even when baby starts coming after marriage God view family as a single unit of people, reason why catholic church keeps emphasising importance of raising children within Goddly families. And to add to this will your church accept convert who are pregnant while ignorant of gospel but now want to be born again if I may use ur slang? The bible says my people perish for lack of understandng. This is applicable to you and ur likes. Jesus exonerated the adulterous woman even while mosaic law demanded otherwise. You people are living [/b]under the law and not under grace. Too, too sad.

Don Tim: Exactly why i said defeated purpose, at the end of it all we are only answerable to God.

It also suffice to say that most churches are only concerned with appearances. My opinion though.

whealthy: in as much as I believe its a cold blooded murder, I think he might come out the winner with the way his defence is tearing the prosecution apart

Don Tim: Weighed the pros and cons

Conclusion :when am ready, wherever i find myself, there's always a way out.

But objectively, not viewing it from religious perspective or yet still, it's like crying over split m milk, preach and enforce abstinence hence no need for controversial test else its looks like a defeated purpose!

tete7000: . If I may ask what wrong has he committed? I am a christian and can't find anything wrong in his question.

naijababe: At the risk of stating the obvious, does it mean that Mary should not have been married to Joseph?! Just asking ni o

bennynaza: Such 'churches' knw naught about d gospel of Christ or even if they do, chose to ignore it.

The essence of marriage is companionship. 'And GOD saw that it is not good for man to be alone...I will make him a helper'It was long after the above was accomplished that he blessed them to multiply.Being able to make babies aint the essence of marriage
sorry i didnt read d post b4 replying. My bad

booqee: In my own church, apostolic, it is absolutely against the doctrine to get married with pregnancy. Dats why during counselling, the couples would be probed on certain question and issues., they would ask if she's not pregnant. If u say she's not and they don't see any indication dat she's pregnant, they don't do pregnancy test,.they would just go on with the marriage. But the way the pastors would ask you these questions, u would not feel inclined to lie. And if u lied, they just believe its left to you and God. But no pregnancy test..no no.

naijababe: At the risk of stating the obvious, does it mean that Mary should not have been married to Joseph?! Just asking ni o

Black Peni5: Yea...better to wait till the child is born before getting married, or preferably, kill the child and get married ASAP.

Afterall, marriage is simply the union of the man and the woman, the child is an obstacle to their love.

Also, since churches are like clubs, you can just walk into next one down the street and get married if the one you attend refuse the union.

#Translation of Quoted post

dammytosh: The last time i checked marriage in the bible, it is a union between A MAN and A WOMAN.

Not a Man , A woman and Her baby.

If you can not abide, look for another church that will allow you marry with 9 months pregnancy. Not a problem.

ayswags: which tribe is this useless girl from ur name sounds funny

onila: mostly Yoruba girls

amiskurie: 18million nigerians;we are talking about you,you and you.
...And Table-leg , Sagamite, Omo_to_dun, ileke-idi, Seunaija, ifeness, revolva, PAGAN 9jA comes to mind.