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[quote author=A-ZeD]If someone paid school fees for you please refund ASAP.
What in the write up was a lie?
Did PEJ not collect the mic from Amaechi?
Does PEJ not shut down any state she visits?

You are nothing more than a sycophant and please don't bring God into this.
PS: Remember even David and Solomon who were anointed by God went astray and were corrected by men.[/quote]....and all the noise you are making here like madd dogs is making a difference? And your small mind honesty think this is the way to initiate change by shouting abuses on a faceless forum? And in your Bible David and Solomon were corrected by noises of some unknown ignorant people? And in your Bible God encourages and support evil under the guise of 'correction'??.......PLEASEEEEEEEEE

And you dare try insulting my intelligence. ...I won't stoop to your level. All you guys know is abuse. Nothing else. What's the point in discussing with kindergartens and ignorant lunatics.

dirtymoney: thank God u're a lady also. With this kinda words, ur not any better than the first lady!

Thank you for this.

Common sense is not common.

People are pointing one finger at PEJ but the remaining 4 is directed straight back at them.

In trying to abuse the woman, she ended up showing herself up as no better than a village girl.

dirtymoney: thank God u're a lady also. With this kinda words, ur not any better than the first lady!

Thank you for this.

Common sense is not common.

People are pointing one fingers at PEJ but the remaining 4 is directly staring straight at them.

In trying to abuse the woman, she ended up showing herself up as no better than a village girl.

pro01: And your point is what? Why not present your mother before Joe Igbokwe for a comprehensive personality evaluation and analysis. I'm sure you would be very pleased with his conclusions, since you respect his views that much.

Honestly my brother it's unbelievable. I expect to see Jessica Rabbit, Mickey Mouse and Donald Duck log onto NL very soon and starting posting derogatory comments about the President and his wife.

The level of ignorance and irresponsibility displayed on this thread is shocking. The sad thing is most of the people on here are no better than the person they so despise.

pro01: Senseless opinion based entirely on idle gossip and beer parlour hearsay. It is now clear why this garrulous fool called Joe Igbokwe was ostracized and banished from his village. What is yet to be clarified is why the exiled outcast chose to pitch his tent with rascals in Mmanuland..

His views are about as important as the incoherent jabberings of a typical village drunkard. Unlike the village drunkard, however, this jester known as Joe Igbokwe fails to provide any amusement.

It's a shame that many people on here ranting like lunatics under the excuse of commenting are actually no better than the person they are abusing. How can anyone educated be condemning someone without having seen any shred of evidence. No wonder Nigeria lies in ruins. These are the product of the education system who have so far been unable to separate facts from fiction or propaganda from reality or sentiment from opinions.

It's disheartening. Some gullible ladies are also on here screaming that he should leave his wife because she is an illiterate. Some ignorant people are calling them names and wishing them evil forgetting that the Bible states as you do evil, evil will never let your home.

I have never seen so many educated illiterates on a forum. None of these people have ever led anything let alone people yet they are all experts in how a country should be ran. Some of them cannot even lead their homes yet they are giving advice on someone else marriage.

Many of the people on this thread are ignorantly invoking the wrath of God on thier heads. He was appointed by God. Instead of praying for him and his family for wisdom, you are all on here cursing and ranting and you expect progress in the country.

pro01: Senseless opinion based entirely on idle gossip and beer parlour hearsay. It is now clear why this garrulous fool called Joe Igbokwe was ostracized and banished from his village. What is yet to be clarified is why the exiled outcast chose to pitch his tent with rascals in Mmanuland..

His views are about as important as the incoherent jabberings of a typical village drunkard. Unlike the village drunkard, however, this jester known as Joe Igbokwe fails to provide any amusement.

It's a shame that many people on here ranting like lunatics under the excuse of commenting are actually no better than the person they are abusing. How can anyone educated be condemning someone without having seen any shred of evidence. No wonder Nigeria lies in ruins. These are the product of the education system who have so far been unable to separate facts from fiction or propaganda from reality or sentiment from opinions.

It's disheartening. Some gullible ladies are also on here screaming that he should leave his wife because she is an illiterate. Some ignorant people are calling them names forgetting and wishing them evil forgetting that the Bible states as you do evil, evil will never leave your home.

Obiagelli: Somebody should tell this woman that her womanhood cannot live forever

As you wish onto others so it shall be onto you by the grace of God who created this woman. Amen. Because you are insulting God for creating her, God's judgment awaits you in due course.

[quote author=E<R>F]

[b] @OP, i hope you wheren't expecting me to read all that?

Buh Nigerians wait a minute ooh - leta all of yhu would call the First Lady a "mere domestic appendage" and a "gbagaurian" but yhu all "wide appendages" and "grammarians" are composing wonderful piece and scripts for just one woman (DM-domestic appendage) !!

Niger i hail ooh, if she is really what you all are calling - why not snub her and behave as if she doesn't exists?


I really respect Jonathan if not for anything but his silence. It proves he is a leader and he is above all of you (me exclusive)

you can't expect a Lion to have word exchange with a fly, its impossible...thats what he is proving by his silence.
Mynd you, if there is anything i fear its "silence" . I prefer yhu insult me or reply me bad than for yhu to keep mute, it shows yhur being higher/wiser than me and it makes you unpredictable.


Now for those of you ranting that GeJ should call PeJ to other - i know yhu all would want him to publicly disgrace his own wife for you all to be self satisfied right? It simply shows y'all have no respect for the women. The woman who suffered with you when yhu where a nobody, strived with yhu till yhu made it to the top, should be left out as a mere domestic appendage now that yhu are the president right? Or because she is the First Lady she is no man's wife?

The woman "over do" her things ...a big "YES" to that, buh you all that understand the female and mankind would be able to know that "the stamarer get angry quicker than the one easy on speech"

The disable when insult feels the pain more when thesame stuff is said to the able. There are things you say to a man, he wil overlook buh the woman would bark. These yhu should put into yhur skull and try to understand what it is. Wole and others should know that its not all about being well known, they should try and have some emotional understanding of what they write. Publicly insulting(thereby calling it an advise) the first Lady does not show yhu a man of integrity, it shows yhu a man that attempt a problem as it is seen - instead of understanding it.
The Life is too short to be a hater, criticizer (whether constructive or wateva), we should learn to be humane sometimes! [/b]

[/quote]Gbam.

I just don't understand what people gain from these constant desperation to belittle another human being and call them names. These are the so called 'Christians' in the religion section. The comments speak more about them than it does of those they are attempting to insult.

You can tell most of them don't come from good homes.

mikeansy: Very terrible first lady, she is the worst in history

Whose history?

...does anyone take the small children who are on here commenting without any facts or figures to back up thier opinions seriously? These are all small undeveloped minds who know nothing about running a complex nation like Nigeria. Its all about making as much noise as possible.

If you are intelligent, you will no they have nothing tangible to say.

devour129: The worst is that she doesn't care what people say and that will make her end worse .aunty get your fat head out of your fat ass n smell the coffee,you really are a disgrace to womanhood. Ask sarikis wife for a lesson on how to behave but I doubt if it will help.you can't clean a pig so we might as well point at it.

Shocking comments from a woman about a woman! You women never support each other. You are always bitchingx about one another.

Some people on NL will die of hypertension over the President and his wife.

I tell you NL is anti-Jonathan!

Is there no interesting news on forum apart from Patience this, Jonathan that. It's getting boring.

lekkie073: u mean u left ur purse in order to go wrestle for bouquet?
clapu for yasefu

You are wicked in a funny way. Can't stop listening

ibiso1986: Its ok to be vigilant but some nigerians go to the extent of blaming the innocent.. Here's my story... This happened at Garison in Port harcourt. An
elderly man(in his 50's) accused me of being a
pickpocket in front of a massive crowd
.It happened around 6pm at Garison busstop..(PH)
They were so many people waiting to board
either a taxi or a bus heading towards rumola..
So once a car stops, people tend to drag or
push each other just to enter any commercial
vehicle.. I waited for a car close to 30 minutes
and decided to do the dragging game. A car
came and I was trying to struggle close to d
back door, then I mistakenly touched one
elderly man(who was also struggling to enter)
by his back(close to his pocket area and not
inside his pocket).. It was a mistake cos we
were all pushing and dragging with our hands..
The guy shouted that I was a theif.. That he
will slap me(see me, see wahala).. Everybody
(close to a 100) focused on the scene.. I
shouted back and explained to him.. The guy
told me to shut up.. I dragged and explained
even to others.. But the crowd seemed to
believe the man(I even heard a lady saying na
so dem go dey dress well dey thief). Can u
imagine the embarrassment.. One of the
agberos wanted to bring out tyre.. But another
agbero stopped him and told me to leave the
man.. He probably saved me. Cos I think I
would have been brutally injured or killed if it
were to be some other places in nigeria(don't
want to mention names).. The man was still
shouting and I shouted back while explaining..
He later boarded a vehicle and I left the scene.
Majority of d crowd started avoiding me after
my explanation.. How can I be a pickpocket
when I'm a graduate. Its so sad.. I JUST DONT
KNOW WHY MOST NIGERIANS ARE NAÏVE AND
SO QUICK TO BELIEVE. So please, if u are
stocked in a bus stop
, be careful how u place ur hand when
dragging with people just to enter a bus or taxi
cos someone might wrongly accuse you..
THAT'S THE MOST EMBARRASSING MOMENT IN
MY LIFE..

This is hilarious! My stomach is hurting from laughing.

nagoma: Who is your mentor ? Is it the Reterdeen himself or his elephantine Domestic appendage?

You sound like one of the 18million undiagnosed madd people passing through NL daily.

Anyone who refers to another human being let alone the president of a nation as you did above need mental examination. I pray your next stop will be Aro Mental Institution where they can commit you permanently. AMEN.

duni04: I'm actually voicing out my opinions about an issue almost everyone is concerned and talking about. I don't have to write a newspaper column to signify my disgust with anything, I can do it right here and that's what I'm doing. If you have any problem with that grab a rope and hang urself. No one gives a flying f-uck

Did your parents raise you to be calling God's creation derogatory names on a faceless forum. Did your parents raise you to be insulting other people's parents ? Please listen to yourself. No amount of insults levied on other people will change the course of their lives. YOU only succeed in showing yourself up as a gutter human being. If you want to facilitate change, please start with yourself.

BlackPikiN: You wouldn't be on nairaland yapping nonsense if your mom raised you well.

True talk!

blink182: see your stewpid president starring like he actually knows how to use his brain.

Yet he remains president of a nation whilst you remain an ordinary NL nonentity shouting over nothing and sending empty abuses to strangers who don't know you exist.

I can't believe you call shouting abuses on NL a good use of your brain?

Who is the stupid one now? Empty barrels make the most. ...

Imagine, these are the supposed 'leaders' of tomorrow.

Chinom: You are the STEWPID one. Product of very dumb parents. HE IS YOUR PRESIDENT. LIKE IT OR NOT.

Don't mind them.

You can always tell the kind of homes people come from by their comments.

Imagine calling your president stupxid. Would you call your parents names because they make a decision about something and you don't agree with them. These are the same people you will see on another thread calling themselves 'Christians'.

This kind of people will never amount to such level in life. They sit on NL all day abusing someone they have never met. Most of them are COWARDS hiding behind a computer .

The key question is:

What is LOVE?

kabba7: I think Nigerians are religionists but Godless people

....because they worship man and money NOT GOD.

Atesunate15: check out dis passage n read 1cor5:1-13

Your point please. ...

Where did God say your pastors rules and regulations is what will save you? A pastor is a pastor. They are human beings and also subject to the word of God. They have never seen God so how can they be stating categorically that thier rules will guarantee you a place in heaven.

Any Christian who base their religous existence on the word of one man is a fool. The Bible says trust in GOD not man.

A lot of noise over nothing.

No one individual owns the church. GOD is the ultimate owner of the church so why are His custodians stressing so much? Why are people eager to please human beings and not God.?

Where in the Bible did God condem.....all the things condemned by Deeper life?

God is not any Pastor; neither is any pastor God so don't see any man made doctrine as that of God. Your sole purpose is to please God not any human being. Please let the peace of God reign. He looks at the heart not all these superficial sacrifices.

dasparrow: Frankly speaking, I will not heed an advice on how to deal with my wife from any Nigerian-bred man. Period. Even those of you who are not divorced treat your wives like crap and cheat on them with reckless abandonment. Besides, the average Nigerian-bred male is a born chauvinist and most of you ought to remain single.

Simple wisdom.

texaco1: What I know is that there have been cooked up stories by all sorts of people to discredit mr president and the first lady,if u have no concrete proof then all the insults on the first lady is absolutely uncalled for.

Don't mind them.

Some people are even reigning curses on her. How can you curse those that God has blessed? God put them in that position so everyone against them is against God.

None of the people on here have seen concrete evidence yet they have already passed judgement. It's not a wonder then why Nigeria remains in ruins. These are the so called 'leaders' of tomorrow. It's frightening to read some of these comments. There is no hope for Nigeria judging from the ignorance demonstrated on this thread.

waybaloo: didnt realise children used this forum

At least 85% of NLders are "teenagers". This is my own observation. I mean; look at all the arguments between those commenting . Someone else wahala is now their own hypertension.

sheniqua: You don't need any more explanations dear,the people you are explaining things to have no interest in your well being,you can tell by their responses to you.Your very first post here painted a gruesome picture.
How many men walk out on a marriage 2 weeks into it and return 4 months later
None that I know of
A man,I believe debosky wrote earlier that it is not normal,believe him,it isn't.ask anyone you know it is a strange behavior.
Then again you tell us he never even saw his own baby for months
What type of a man is that?
After a mere argument?
Refusing to wash dishes or iron a child's shirt is no big deal IMHO but running away for weeks after an argument emanating from that is a huge deal
Many married women here or anyone in a relationship know that couples disagree from time to time and if you discuss with friends you will find out that the most the decent men do when the woman won't shut up is to grab their car keys and drive off till she cools down and they cool down or go into their study and lock themselves in Or go to a bar and hang out with the boys
They don't run off for months to an unknown destination.
And if you were a violent person,he wouldn't come back if he was scared and wouldn't leave a deadly woman with an infant child if he is normal.

Prepare your mind,this marriage may not last no matter how much you want it to
You cannot be in a marriage by yourself
If your partner is not willing to be married and this one has shown you time and again,he isn't ,there is nothing you can do,frankly speaking.He doesn't want the responsibility of marriage. And he couldn't have said it any louder.

Don't allow anybody guilt you into anything and twist this to put you on the defensive
And please for heavens sake stop begging this loser when he wants to leave,it makes him feel powerful
And he has you where he wants you to be,begging for him to stay and fighting to keep him
Don't fall for it,how long will you live your life that way? On your knees for a man who doesn't care about you,your child and your unborn child
The duty of a husband is to protect their territory , animals in the wild know that fact but that husband of yours has no clue and feels no qualms leaving a young wife and a baby alone in a house by themselves because he doesn't know what it is to be a man
Next time he decides to leave,look Him in the face and call him by name and say "look,if you walk out on this marriage again this time rather than sit and talk about the issues in it,please stay out and don't return."
he needs to hear you sound firm and strong and you must mean it,let him leave,He is useless to you.


If you have parents and siblings ,get together with them and tell them what you are facing.His people will do you no good,you already told us he ran away fom his own mother for 5 years rather than do chores so they already know the sort of son they have and may be actually surprised that he has a wife.
You picked a loser
You can't change him
Allow him to walk
Thank God you have a job
If you are a Christian,the Bible says you are free to re marry when a spouse walks out on you
I pray you find someone who will truly love you and cherish you for you.
This eediot Sperrm donor is not the one
Cut your losses now while you are still young.

God bless you for this.

sheniqua: Enough of this please
What is wrong with you?
If you can't help the woman don't put a dagger through her chest
Haba!!

Babyosisi

Don't mind @Efenema-xy

She sounds like a real assxhole of hate. All judgemental and insensitive. Anyone will think she is god and to see so many people voting for such insensitive comments makes my blood boil. The other side of her life is waiting for her and all her cohorts. There is no perfect life. You never know what is round the corner.

[quote author=Efemena_xy]Finish the story. How far does this anger of yours go? And why do you keep avoiding my questions?

Did you date this man before marrying him? If not, why not?

What sort of things do you say to him when arguing? A number of posters asked you this earlier but you keep dodging the questions. Why?[/quote]You sound horrid acting like you know it all. You lack wisdom and compassion. One day, life with throw a bigger challenge your way and when that day comes you will eat your words.

Please remember today. Your own tomorrow is waiting for you.

iamsaved: Let me throw more light on the situation so you guys will feel me.

My hubby is the fine type that believes he is too handsome and that girls will always rush him and he can get married to a thousand and one girls if he chooses to so cos of this, he does not see d need to work on our marriage.

Maybe my choice of word in my opening post is wrong, when I said mild to heavy arguments, what I mearnt is ur normal marriage issues. OK let me give you an example: when we reconciled, my baby was a little over a year toddler whom be never saw even after I gave birth. After the reconciliation and his family visit, of course we starter living together again. I secured a job and had to be droppin my baby off in a daycare centre. One day I was busy in the kitchen and Nepa suddenly brought back the light which was off for some days so I quickly brought out just 3of our son's short leave shirt and pleaded with him to iron them before they take the light again. Well he bluntly refused, said how can he iron a little child's shirt, thy the child should be the one ironing his clothes! that I want to turn him to a laundry boy! na me de wash the clothes ooooooo. He proceeded to switch on the TV and watch a movie. Of course I jadvto squeeze out little time from the kitchen to iron the shirts myself and that is how it has been. He sees it as a taboo to wash our son's clothes even to assist me take care of him (bathing only)in the morning during work rush, he doesn't.

This is what I mearnt by argument in my opening post. He has always acted like this and when I get angry (abeg who wouldn't?), he would start threatening to leave the house and I would start begging him not to.

You are married to a 'toddler'.It won't get any better. One day, he will go and never come back and you will wish you had never let him return the first time .

You are wasting your time. You need a companion not a hangover who is not ready for marriage.

sheniqua: Did he come from a polygamist home and saw his father perambulate from home to home after arguments
He may be modeling the only thing he knows
When it gets rough you run to the other woman or just run
Na wa
Please cut him loose before he transfers the same demons to your sons
Allow him to.run off and close your door.,

A man tells you he ran away from home for 5 years because he was asked to sweep the compound and you picked him as a life partner and presented him to your parents as their son in law

A man leaves you 2 weeks after your wedding to return 4 months later and you are having babies with him
Where did you think he went to?
A retreat?
AIDS is real,you better wake up and smell the coffee

Well said. He will never change. One day, he won't return. You will get the divorce letter in the post with the full support of his so called family.

Sign of end times.

This obsession with sex; only God can deliver the world. Sex is not food. Someone should tell these sickos.

I pray that God will pass His judgment over him and all those who perpetrate such evil. Amen.

Hell must be overcrowded.

Why would anyone want to be with a serial "wife-eater"? It's true sha, eligible men are scarce in Nigeria so the old men are now back on the market.