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Enjoymentgalore:
A Nairalander just shared this with me. I wonder what some men intend to achieve? You know you are married, yet you are calling a lady that is single and praying to have a legitimate relationship, which she believes may translates into marriage. What is their motive?

When they start having problems, they will never know the source. Sex, was not meant to be abused. What do we have today? Worst of all, from married men.

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Hmmm.....

When men with negative intents, meets ladies with same motives, the victim come here to cry...

taioluv:
@Enjoymentgalore I want to share ma own story which is nt encouraging at all...i want a serious courtship wt a serious man .I just met a guy here online stuff at first d chattin was going well.. until he said he loves sex he is sex addict I told him dat is too soon to talk abut sex...he said he is being blunt and dat is hw I kneww dis one na one chance,he said he want to take me to movies and from dis to his kno he house,36year guy was Justin lookin for hw to sex me on a first day we are planning to meet he even told me wt his mouth and I quickly deleted him on ma bbm....imagine such rubbish..36yr imatured fool

You know what, many ladies fail to see the red light, when they desire online relationship. There is no way you will meet a guy either thru internet, or via other online related softwares (using GSM), that you will not know his intentions. There will always be traces to his original intention. All you just need do is WATCH and pay close attention even to the least piece of information from him, and most especially his body language.

Most of these guys, are after sex, and just like what you experienced, many dont want to settle down (even at 40). On my side, I will say, dont be discouraged becos there are still some very small fraction that have genuine intentions. I used to be a pessimist too.

My advice remains, meet at public places, should you have anyone which you believe has genuine intention. Before then, you should have chatted for a couple of weeks, and from there, you will see some traces. When taking another step to solidify the relationship by meeting in a public place, please send someone ahead. She can take another table, and be observing what is happening from a distance. Thats why I always tell people to meet in an eatry. The advance one-man-team will watch your back for you. So, the issue of being charmed blah blah blah, does not come up, as the person will immediately alert you, or stop any strange situation. There are so many methods, I cannot disclose everything here, please.

Nairaland has the good, the bad, and the ugly.

Enjoymentgalore:
I have noticed one trend on Nairaland. People dont come back to testify, which would have encouraged others. Perhaps, they are carried away by sudden change in status. Please, people who have built good relationships from here, should come back and encourage others. Even bad testimonies too are encouraged, as it will help people guide against such re-occurrence.

Just like what I said in another thread, when those that have met their better-half come here to give testimonies, nonbelievers will begin to have faith. So also, those with bad experiences; when they share their plights tooo....many will learn the other side of the internet.

@ Obascoetubi: I am really touched by the story above, and it is a warning to both men and women....seeking genuine relationship on the internet. But then, becos there are so much armed-robbery attacks in a particular town (carried out by boys/men of that town), does that mean that, all youth and men, are are robbers? It will amount to fallacy of generalisation? If not that some persons whom I would have used as examples, visits this site regularly, I would have been more explicit when it comes to finding love on the net.

Many have seen their spouses on the net, just like, a few have fallen victims. That does that mean, becos a couple have fallen victims, then, the whole process should be jettisoned.

A few years back, someone was able to clone a close friend of my fiancee's phone number, and also used it to swindled her of N1,500 recharge card. Does that mean she should stop using GSM, becos of that?

Finally, on my way back to Lagos on one of my trips; just at the motor park at Jabi in Abuja, a beautiful Ghana/Nigeria lady, met my friend, whom I was travelling with. Before I could blink my eyes, they started chatting as if they have met for like 10 years. When the bus (Toyota Sienna) finally departed, the lady was resting her head on the guy's shoulder like long-time lovers. Today, they are on their way to Ghana for their traditional wedding. What baffles me is that, despite all the warnings about how to deal with strangers at different motor-parks, both met, and their body chemistry blended....and that was it. In fact, when we arrived Ojota, she decided to follow us to Ikorodu to sleep overnight becos it was almost midnight (as we left very very late). To you, she might be a prostitue, or maybe a witch, or something, but she risked it, as she later confessed.

So, life itself is a risk, but it can be painful, when all the precautional measures are not exhausted, before condeming a process. In summary, you may be right, but does it rubbishes the entire channel?

Obascoetubi:
u wl soon meet witch or evil lAdy, if u are datin online

Come to think of it, witches, are they not human beings? If you can take any to the church and conduct deliverance on any beautiful one with same compatible features, please go ahead. GOD'S original plan, is for man not to make hell, but to come to repentance.

My neigbhour's son's wife, was from internet. Today, she is expecting their second child. My elder brother's best friend, meet his wife on the internet. Today, they have four children. My supervisor at my place of work, met his wife through 2go (internet). They both have a son.

You had better face your fears, and confront it squarely. Being afraid of wicthes and wizards, will take you no where, as your current girlfriend (the one you met in the church), can be a witch, without you knowing.

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For me, I see it as a win-win situation, so long the lady knows what she is entering into, and the man too is sincere about what he wants.

Hmm....

SpinalCord:
Wetin him do the women first?

That is the right question. Many are fond of adventures, when those funs decides to burn his fingers, they come here to pour out their anger on other ladies.

Obascoetubi:
why searching for husband online instead of offline? wat. of offline guyz? why u refused to mArry dem. wen they are looking for u? searching for husband/wife online, is not gud

For me, one can meet his or her life partner anywhere. A friend of mine, meet his in a place, no one will ever thought it can happen. Yet, he dated several, and none materialised into marriage. They were just after the small change in is pocket...

In as much as I wont be against an existing law, but LASAA should show some restraint during this period. Should they want to work, they should apply the law of equity and fairness....in all they do, during this season.

If the Police where not well informed with so much complaints, they wouldnt have come up with this.

Just as expected....

The Lagos state Police command have directed the Police to arrest anyone who removes any campaign poster. This came after the CP cautioned LASAA officials on removal of campaign posters. More info, on the site below:




http://www.punchng.com/news/police-warn-lasaa-against-removal-of-campaign-posters/

My concern is the battery. Anyway, can I pay N20,000? I need one urgently. If you agree, tommorow, we meet, and the deal is done.

I wish you, your heart desire...Be mindful of the fact that, most men are not ready, but just want to play around (even with this kind of thread). The funny aspect of it is that, even in the mist of 1,000 guys that might call, that very angel you expect, will call you. Just be sensitive, and dont jump into any man's arms. Some are angels of darkness, appearing as angels of light.

I wish you, your heart desire...

Enjoymentgalore2014@gmail.com

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drake2:
Please educational me and my friends. Wetin be "Nigerian Airways" cos i do not know the meaning. Is it a research institute? or a Nigerian NASA equivalent? Where is it located and why the agitation for posthumous salary?. I thought all members of staff of Nigerian Airways died with it.

...lol. You must be a comedian. Anyway, a couple of them are still around. Nigeria Airways used to be one of the best airlines in the world then. I think, it was so good then that, at a time became number 4 in the world. Just like many other govt parastatals, corruption by govt appointees, brought the airline to its knees. Should the workers now pay for the sins of others?

This should go to front page, in sympathy to their plight since 2003 (if I am not wrong)

May HE give to you, as your heart desires.

Have you noticed something of recent? All those who have one way or the other milked this country dry, are having judgement passed right in their presence. Either their child or ward, is being stabbed in Uk, or being killed in Dubai, or the corpse of their child (like that of Nwobodo), goes missing before burial. Whichever way, they all have one thing in common; they are all burying their children with their own hands.
This should serve as a deterent to those currently serving (or do I say, STEALING).

........lol. With such comment, I now believe Koro was rigged out. There is nothing he would have done to salvage his ambition. In addition, Koro accused the electoral body of acreditating 806 delegates, only for the final votes to amount 868. Where did 62 votes emerge from?
He should have listened to the advise from elders. With his status as chief of thugs, and acummulated accusations on forgery etc, he should have bowed out honorably. Alleged forgers in Nigeria, dont attempt to contest elections....else, alarm GO BLOW!

With such comment, I now believe Koro was rigged out. There is nothing he would have done to salvage his ambition. In addition, Koro accused the electoral body of acreditating 806 delegates, only for the final votes to amount 868. Where did 62 votes emerge from?
He should have listened to the advise from elders. With his status as chief of thugs, and acummulated accusations on forgery etc, he should have bowed out honorably. Alleged forgers in Nigeria, dont attempt to contest elections....else, alarm GO BLOW!

Sudan 0 vs Congo 1.

With this result...Nigeria is OUT!

Livescores:

Sudan 0 vs Congo 0
Halftime

ogahope:
Wat are u saying?

What I am saying is that, you visit Yaba left, or Abeokuta, for maintenance.

shortgun:
What is this one saying?

Hey...I think you didnt take your drugs before reading it.

I keep saying it. Until a country is thoroughly dealt with, such events will continue to happen. I even learnt NFF President and others (including Nigerian supporters there) are still in the stadium. Anti-mobile police men, are now heavily deployed to safeguard the Nigerian contigent.
How long shall this continue?