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Segzy22:
Imoney almost got me sacked because they sent message to my Boss calling me a criminal after paying 80% of their money. Oloribuku people

Did you inform your boss that you want to use him as a guarantor for a loan you want to take ?

thesicilian:
It's not the company's fault. The criminal probably dropped your number as a close contact and they are helpless now that he has absconded with their money

It is every bit their fault , how do you not verify a number given to you as a guarantor before giving out a loan , does it make any sense at all

thebosstrevor1:
You are right. Most rich people spend lot of time with their family because they have competent people running their affairs

The funny thing is he chose career first for this to happen

CareerLadder:
Career Vs Family: What would you choose?

I want us to be sincere here...

This is an interactive session to the earlier made post detailing how to balance family and career as a woman.

You can read it here =====>>> https://www.nairaland.com/6787523/how-balance-having-family-career

Men will also find the write-up educating.


One of the challenges facing many people today is balancing career and family. Many people find it easy to defend the long hours and the endless attention they give their jobs. “After all, without the job, the family suffers financially,” they claim.

It is a fact that in order to ensure that a family is taken care of, you need to spend the time necessary to keep your business or career moving forward. But as much as this makes sense; it has led to the breakup of many relationships and families.

You have probably heard stories of women packing their bags and leaving their husbands saying they didn’t ‘marry the house.’

If your career is contending with your time for family, what would you choose?

Let's hear our opinions here.


Folks will learn one or two things.

Career first before family ( against popular opinion ). There are more women leaving men for lack of money/finances

Fahdiga:
Nigerian politics is not for the faint hearted. She behaved like a rascal by stealing the maze and was handled by fellow rascals

Mace or maze

SocialJustice:
Does the Catholic Church support smoking?

You tell me , I'm an atheist

SocialJustice:
I'm baptist, that is not baptist rule. That's just that pastor exercising his foolish power.

So Baptist church accept earrings for men

SocialJustice:
Emancipate yourself bro, you only have one life, do not allow others live it for you.

The church has its rule like many organisations , it is their space and not his space , if the church doesn't want it then he should abide by it or gtfo. Nobody is saying he shouldn't wear his earrings in his house or wherever it's accepted but calling out the church for not letting him wear his earrings in the premises of the church is just stupidity

Simonokeh7:
The official Twitter page throws subtle shade at Mark Zuckerberg's owned apps.

Hello literally everyone .

Nothing subtle about this

advanceDNA:
Paternity fraud people has added beheading to their domestic vices....

Niggas beware

Offpoint1:
I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.

I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.

I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical.
All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

Although I get really busy most times, but I don't
think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.

It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.

How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.

My mum feels I don't love her that much cos I hardly call her , she even thinks I call my friends more than I call her ( she doesn't know I call her more than I call my friends ). I find solitude with myself and myself alone , as long as there's power , food and internet I can remain indoors forever. I could say I'm asexual , I don't hate sex but I'm perfectly fine without it. I'm by no means antisocial , if I have people around I'm actually normal and you may not know I dread having people around me. My brother you're definitely not alone

AmazonTopaz:
First and foremost I don't support cheating and deception I can never support deception or paternity fraud but I wonder why some men are outraged over paternity fraud.

We live in a society or some of us grew up in a society that gave excuse or justified infidelity amongst men under the guise of "men are polygamous in nature"they forget that men can be used to refer to women too and that polygamous is a gender neutral word for men it is polygyny for women it is polyandry.

When you justify infidelity or adultery you reap paternity fraud because these married men sleep with married women who are wives of other men who are at the receiving end when it comes to paternity fraud.

You men cannot always eat your cake and have it you feel bad when cheated on and call women who commit adultery all sorts of names but hail men when they cheat on women what happened to what is good for the goose is good for the gander.Some people seem to forget that the cheating men don't sleep with themselves they sleep with people's wives and girlfriends too so maybe that shows that women are polygamous in nature and two can play a game.

You cannot be preaching morality and chastity on women while failing to hold yourselves to account as well it doesn't work that way because it is a small world afterall if boys are not taught morality, decency and chastity we will continue to hear tales of paternity fraud and infidelity.

As we try to shame and tell young girls not to follow married men let's not forget to tell young boys and married men to leave married women alone it is the same polygamous men that are sleeping with these women and another man is at the receiving end of this disaster men don't sleep with themselves they sleep with women

As for the married men and women depending on your vows if you promised to be faithful try to be faithful and stop cheating beautiful women and handsome men will never finish in this word try to stick to one be contented,committed and try to learn discipline.


I think we should ask men why they are outraged

Very simple , why let a man raise a child who is not his own , if you decide to cheat on a man and in the process end up getting pregnant please give the child to the rightful father. I don't even have a problem if you cheat but please give the child to the rightful father

VEXT:
Igbo women..Fear them...

They can cheat any how...married women sleeping with men outside!!

More Yoruba women cheat

owagbeba:
What’s wrong with you lady? Why this ill manners on someone’s page?
This is really annoying. Let the lady be, for God’s sake. She said she doesn’t need your advice. Why are you trolling her?

Cant you show some courtesy? Pleassssss.

I don't think she's ok in the head , make she no go bite you as you dey try correct her

Missy89:
Yeah.

Thanks

Now I believe you have a mental problem , please check your mental health.

Mstravelindiva:
Unfortunately not many US citizens have a passport (only around 42%), so it’s not everyone’s passion, but I do understand what you’re saying.

Travel is what opened my eyes that not all passports are made equally. Westerners that aren’t well traveled (believe it or not) will not automatically grasp this.

Is Hawaii in a tropical zone ? I wouldn't mind living there if I ever relocate to the US as extreme cold temperatures may be a turn off

Missy89:
Blah blah blah.

Healthy lifestyle is important. Try it

So you think everybody who is chubby is unhealthy and everybody who is skinny is healthy

Mstravelindiva:
Cuba is definitely on my list, just waiting for the right time and from a safety perspective would like for this pandemic to die down a bit.

If you’re on TikTok you can check me out there too (Mstravelindiva_), I post quick travel tips, foodie reviews which you might also find helpful especially if you’re not into watching YouTube videos.

Believe it or not I studied business, travel is just my passion and calling. It provides me the opportunity to see life from their perspective and quickly humbles you as you become aware of life, culture, religion and foods outside of your norms. It allows you to be more cultured, educated, less biased and inclusive of others who may not look, speak or have the same beliefs as you.

Tunnel vision is not an option for me, I want to experience life from the other lens!

Travelling is everybody's passion , money , the privilege to go across borders with a good passport and time is what most people lack.

jaybenugo:
https://igberetvnews.com/1401048/side-chic-jumps-4th-floor-window-wife-married-lover-returns-home-unexpectedly-photo-video/

Jeez! That was painful to watch

Muchmore024:
Religion of piss

All religions are religions of piss

Akporo1234:
Update from

Nigerian internet users have expressed their great surprises towards recent photos of the newly elected SUG President of Delta State Polytechnic, Ozoro, Comr. Choice Christopher with the school Rector Buldr. Prof. Emmanuel A.

The photos appeared online after the pretty lady celebrated emerging the female SUG president of the institution, Siggy reports.

She said, “With my Rector, Buldr. Prof. Emmanuel A. and my humble self. WHAT GOD CANNOT DO, DOESN’T TRULY EXIST. #Choiceberry.”

The photos quickly circulated online for obvious reasons, people couldn’t tell the rector from the SUG president due to their contrasting physical looks.

A Facebook user identified as Comr. Emmy Boo shared photos of the duo with an emoji that expresses shock.

Reposting the photo of the rector and SUG president on Facebook, Oparaji Franklyn wondered, "“Pls who is the Rector and Who is the SUG President?”

Many social media users have since dropped funny comments to the photo on page as they all wonder the same thing

https:///see-photos-of-new-delta-poly-sug-president-that-caused-uproar-online/

This rector na prof so , He may be a Dr. but I highly doubt he's a professor

DrKlever:
That's simply what VIN check is for.

Will the record be available for cars damaged in Nigeria

ahnie:
8 fancy cars





Ego mma ra mma.

Fancy but ugly

siofra:
Tell my friend to hit me in the balls, I want to know how that feels, if these boys have not been lying, crying that it's painful.

Believe me you don't want to try this , I'm already feeling the pain just thinking about it

Nobleman4l:
Finally got my passport from Ikoyi. Partially DIY
I never paid money to any agent.
Started the Process on 17th of July, 2021.
Captured: 22nd of July, 2021
Issued: 10th of September, 2021
Collected 21st of September, 2021.
As at 9th of September, my status was AA. So I followed the advise here to go and see the PCO, but was not able to see him and was directed back to servicom, which I tabled a formal complain with evidence, they took my details and said I should check back next week. I was still not satisfied, I went back to the PCO's office and there I met a lady in the office and explained my situation, she took my details and lo and behold it was issued the next day. Mine was just God's favour and I believe you can be favoured as well.

My advise (for IKOYI command), don't use any agent, and if you must use, they should be in the production room or PCO's office or if you have the funds express service. That should be about N60k or thereabout.

The system is not yet perfect, there are still a lot of issues. One should just pray to God.

For those doing renewal in Lagos and I think Abuja and Port Harcourt , your old passport number and NIN is printed on your new passport datapage with a new passport number.

I wish everyone the very best.

How long does the express take ?

Good morning everyone , I need to get my passport before the end of October , it is a renewal and I believe it shouldn't take more than 3 weeks. My boss has requested I bring my passport a week before the end of October to process my visa for trip to Dubai in November. How much is it and can I do it express and how much will it cost ?. Anyone with any link should please reach out to me as it's very urgent

Fahdiga:
Imagine this happening in Nigeria and this brutal regime. I think Africa is blessed in terms of not witnessing such a devastating natural disasters

I disagree , I believe would be a better place if we face such natural disasters

mabea:
I wanted to answer you but there's no point arguing with people who have little experience about life.

Delusion is worse than not having experience at something. You're clearly deluded my dear friend

Lamasta:
Doctors treat God heals

So why didn't God heal him . God would have made a crappy doctor if he truly existed

armadeo:
Imagine being taken to a hospital and on arrival the doctor says " youbknow what instead of spending this money to treat this person give it to the family he will not make it"

I wonder what reaction Nigerians including you would have.

I don't know why you bother to answers them , let them think whatever they want to think or say

McOluOmo:
[/s] sharap, who wouldn't be, most doctors are thieves






Guys wey no get girlfriend get peace of mind

You must be mentally unstable