Peaceadebu: Good morning Nairalanders. I have been up since 12am and for 1 WK now I am really finding it difficult to sleep.
I am really frustrated and depressed at the same time. I am 30 yrs old and still a student. All thanks to Jamb and worst still ASUU, CORONA VIRUS AND JOS CRISES. I supposed to have graduated last year but the above factors forbidden it.
I am supposed to write my last paper on last Tuesday but Jos crises showed it ugly face again and this time killing number of students so for that reason we were asked to vacate the hostel.
I really don't know where to go to now. Going back to my family house is not an option as I am tired of always going there and being idle.
Right not I am staying with a married roommate of mine though she is nice but I am really not finding it funny being idle too.
I just feel my life is really worthless. At 30 still in school, not married, not in any relationship whatsoever, not working, nothing nothing nothing.
Please I really need a Job right now please bkos I even don't know when we will resume back to school as this crises really affected so many of our students with states evacuating their citizens out of anger.
Please anyone with Job opportunities should please help me with it. Abuja precisely. I don't mind defiling my admission pls.
Mylordmygod1: A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.
Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.
I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.
Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.
Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.
I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?
ADVICE ME WELL
Thanks.
I don't get it , you wanna look good while doing bad ?
Tokskob2008: If I'm to calculate the number of carbonated drinks I have taken this year it won't be up to 3 bottles at all and it all came from the little I begged from my daughter whenever she is drinking it.
I just don't know why I'm not interested in it that much.
But op your case get as e be o... One for breakfast and one for dinner, na ritual
I used to take 4 or 5 a day before , now I take maximum of 3 a day , small small I'll be able to stop it totally
Hybrid600: This is always the case with greedy caterers. They steal more than enough and to think they’ve already been paid to do the catering job I! Similar case happened in Delta where someone dropped a tip and her car was searched… Coman see coolers of rice and meat stashed inside bigger food flasks….
GOD is as real as Real! The Bible is as true as true where I am. I Believe GOD with all my Life I Believe His Word with All of My Life. I Act on HIS Word with all Confidence! It works as Real as it is with Ease.
You need a Switch bro! Christianity is not in Mouth! Christianity is Believing and Trusting in GOD and HIS Word just as you see it.
Bola146: Sometimes I ask this question is there God at all? Does he really answers prayers because I wonder he would have prayed for his wife not to die or he wouldn't have prayed I don't understand. Maybe that is why He is called Unquestionable
That is why your kind will always be a slave to the white man's religion , why isn't an entity unquestionable They tell you this and you keep shut to all your doubts. Any entity which can't be questioned isn't good in my estimation
BadNews: A final year law student of the Taraba State University, Jalingo, Bengha Solomon, has died in a fatal motor accident one month to his graduation.
Solomon died alongside his father Ahmadu Solomon and five other persons in the accident which occurred at Gazabu village in Bali local government area of Taraba State on Saturday, November 6.
The Accident involved an 18 seater Hummer bus conveying the people that went to Baissa, the headquarters of Kurmi local government area of Taraba State, for the funeral of one late Kum Ndola which was held on Friday.
The accident was caused by burst tyre which made the vehicle to lose control and somersault several times.
Six people died on the spot while several others sustained various degrees of injury.
Meanwhile, friends and coursemates have taken to social media to mourn the deceased student. One Maigida Samson Dogon Yaro said they had discussed about life after graduation. He wrote:
"I remember when we were charting and discussing about our life after graduation. You even promised to come to Gashaka with your own personal car during my wedding. Because we categorically agreed that we will hustle and gather resources before our Law School. You even told me that after graduation you will enhance your Banana and Palm Tree Plantation at Ndaforo, Kurmi LGA.
"We are only left with a month to graduate. Just for me to hear that you engaged in a motor-accident and you died instantly. What a gruesome accident. What a gruesome dead. Death why, you took away a vibrant potential Counsel. A young Lawyer in the making full of intellectual momentum and colossus.
"What a great lost 500 Level Students. What a great lost Faculty of Law Taraba State University! What a great lost TSU! In totur what a great lost to incoming generation. I am in dark gloom and deep depression."
Is there ever a good time to die Whether he dies one month to his graduation or 10 years after graduation , whether he dies as an undergraduate or as a carpenter , death is death. The main tragedy is two people dying from the same family
Biglittlelois: I'm not asking of your mum's decisions, I'm asking of your outward emotions and reaction to what she did,
The wife the Op talked about expressed her feelings on what her father in law did, which in her right she is justified, no one will be happy of such a scenario except we want to deceive ourselves, and I for one do not like to deceive myself.
If your mother gets pregnant for your driver, you will not be happy about it, but you just have to accept her decision to marry him.
Madam she's not justified , she doesn't have say over who the nanny sees or who her father in-law dates
Started menstruating and ovulating at the age of three
Even doctors and other medical practitioners believed she Started menstruation just when she was eight months old When you heave a sigh of relief thinking you have heard and seen it all in this gadamnnn life then boom another story pops up
But this story has been around for ages , I first heard about it some 20 years ago
Omoluabi16: Lewandowski's is very achievable if the opposition is poor. Messi and ronaldo is very difficult, but someone might just come along and do it in 40years time. With meaningless friendlies and longer qualifying series, when you play noob teams in the group stages of the champions league. Pele's record, no one will do that. The quality of opposition now, no of teams, Most of these players exert themselves on league campaigns. 3 times will simply not happen.
Iyaebe: Read before you comment this small boy.He's the liability here.
How is he the liability He said he has money but may not be as much as the guys who approach her but he never mentioned if she has a source of income so please enlighten me , how is he the LIABILITY!
daddynasa: Don't lend what you can't afford to forfeit. It's just a simple principle. You might end up not helping people that really need the help
But it shouldn't be like that , we are the ones encouraging such behaviours. If you stand by your words/pledge this country would be a better place. I pay back whatever money I owe , it is the first thing I do when I receive any money ( salary , wages , cash gifts , profit from my business ) , I settle my debts and pledges.
Kajaard: The bold faced. Same story as ever. Nigerians always quick to borrow with no plans to repay.
Most Nigerians can't be trusted with money , I've had friends borrow money from me without them repaying , countless people. Now I don't lend money out again , if you like say your mother needs it for surgery I won't give you. One I lent 15k for him to repay me at the end of the month just kept mute and didn't say anything about it , after a month from the time he was supposed to pay I started asking him for my money , one day he just got angry and said , "shey na because of 15k you dey disturb me like this" , on top my money. Anyways , it's a year now and I stopped asking him for the money after he made that comment , I'm waiting for him to come ask me for money again.
I want to process my international passport. An aunt gave me someone's number at Alausa and the person told me she could only get me 64 passages and it would cost me #55,000.00 that 32 pages passport is not available at the moment.
The #55,000 she's asking for is way too much for me at this time and I need to process the Passport asap.
Please do you advise I do the processing myself? or I rally round for the moment.
The worst of it all is that she said I will make full payment before she starts the processing
If you need it urgently then you'll have to pay but if not so urgent then do it yourself. Avoid the immigration guy at the gate called Bolaji , he collected 75k from me for the passport and express and I still don't have it. I have also been replaced by another person at my work place because I couldn't provide my passport on Tuesday
I don't get it she served a 7 year and 2 months jail sentence and has a 6 year old child , the maths is still confusing or was the warden fuvking her in prison
OnlineArchitect: when a doctor makes a mistake just a soul is lost but when an engineer/architect makes a mistake then ten's of hundreds of souls are lost. Let's pay attention to details as proffesionals and also aviod cutting corners, more-or-so integrity pays.
Most importantly aviod quacks, they maybe cheap but at long last the damage caused by them isn't cheap..
I earnestly pray she's found alive
Are you trying to justify the importance of engineers over doctors You must be a fool , both professions are important and have their role to play , without doctors the casualty from Covid alone would surpass all the causalities from engineering in the past decade
StagethemTVee: The family of a female corner identified as Zainab are seen on the site of the collapsed Ikoyi Building praying she comes out alive. A young man who appears to be her brother is being told he will not become an only child. Please say a prayer for Zainab.
The Lagos state government has not done a very good job with the speed of emergency response. it has been 48 hours and people are still trapped in the building.
Government at all levels across Nigeria must place more value on the life of every Nigerian and provide facilities to reflect this value.
authority2006: Why couldn't he sell himself instead? USA need to release the country's foreign reserve to them so that ordinary citizens are not starve to death. Haven't USA and her allies caused enough destructions in that country already? Wicked people everywhere, like Talibans like USA.
Nonsense as usual, may be you should spit on your mother first.
You'll know them by their comments , pedophilic monsters , I spit on you and all your household.
officialmario: A 300level student of Federal College of Education (name withheld) was expelled after Confessing to the school management of using a fake olevel result.
It all happened that members of the Deeper Life Bible Church student fellowship had preached to her to change from her old ways and she accepted to give her life, she decided to confess all her sins to the college provost who happens to be a deeper life campus fellowship director.
After about two weeks, she was summoned to the Disciplinary committee to come and face panel, She was found guilty and was expelled from the college, and her picture was pasted ot the entrance of the school gate.
I felt bad after hearing her story. What if she had not confess all her sins to the man? That means she could have graduated successfuly without any hindrance. What's your say and opinion on this?
She wins eventually , her conscience will be free now
The Muslims on Nairaland and in Nigeria won't have anything to say to this , if you're a Muslim then you're in support of this regardless of where you reside. I spit on all of you
Romance › Re: I Don't Know What To Do With My Life Anymore. by Semaj77(m): 2:24am On Nov 12, 2021
