Nknate:
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House is furnished already just move in with your bag.
Quote me if you are interested

Interested

You have been given the best answer already, live for Jesus, simple, every other thing will fall into place.

donofdons:
This Charlie boy is a proof that one can live a good life without religion and lying pastors. Has this man not been blessed by Nature with a good family, sizeable wealth, and he is almost 80 years and still strong etc. Did he need any pastor or political power to do it for him? This is one man that has enjoyed his life from the beginning till end and has always spoken out against bad politicians. You will never see him in dirty controversies like sleeping with his house girls or daughter or blood money like other of our church and mosque going elites who will criticize the man’s lifestyle.

Typical ranting of an ignoramus.
Oya tell me, shebi you and Charlie boy shares the same patriarchy abi na ancestry?
That Charlie boy is free from some foundational battles doesn't mean every other single man whose ancestors were snake or demonic worshippers and had sold the destinies of their offspring to the devil will have it easy and smooth as charlie boy. Besides I'm sure charlie boy also have his own personal challenges that we don't know about.
You better leave people who have foundational issues to sort it out in peace and stop brandishing your ignorance in full public glare.

tunjilana:


If that is the case then people should live freely and exercise their natural rights without restraint like animals...why is society restricting a man's sexual mates to 1 why not allow him freely exercise his sexuality to the extent his resources can take him....their is nothing like naturL law again...we are constantly being shaped and made to adapt to new realities....women want men to change when it comes to gender roles that affect women but benefit men but these same women don't wanna change when it comes to roles affecting men but benefitting women...A man providing is part of the tenets of the same Patriarchy that women love to condemn...so why ain't they fighting that

Really? No More natural law? The last I checked the night has once again gone and dawn is almost upon us, that's an example of natural law in operation.
You are free to operate and conformed to whatever level of existence you choose to, no restraints whatsoever.
But the sooner you grasp the understanding of the inherent differences of these two gender, the better for you.
Like I said take a cue from nature.
No need to stress yourself. Just pray that you will be the head of your family in every true sense of the word, otherwise trouble awaits you.

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See mindset.. I shake my head for you. Because the man doesn't need pampering. That he is the head means he's a financial sacrificial lamb. Tufia![/quote
No need to shake your head, this has nothing to do with mindset.
I just helping you to understand a little bit of the thing called natural law.
You go against this law, be prepared to face the consequences.

francisgodstime:
And the man does not have? Who even made this stupid law self

This stupid law is called natural law, the fight against nature is a very hard one so don't expect to win easily.
Now if you really want to win, you might start first by changing the physiological and mental set up of both genders to look same .the rest will follow naturally.

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Women were not created to be pampered and we live in an era of GENDER EQUALITY which is championed by women, so it is not out of place to ask a woman to contribute financially to the running of the home[/quote
Not against each partner contributing financially, but you don't make it look like it's a prenup agreement.
The fact that there's a difference in the physiological make-up of both sexes, suggest that there's an inherent role programmed to each gender.
Men are different from women.
If you want to have peace of mind in your home, then know this, a man wants respect and submission from the wife.
Women on the other hand are good at submitting when the man is discharging his responsibility very well as head.
Now where a man defaults in this regard, there's always trouble, maybe not at the beginning, but a time will come when the woman will be fed up, disrespect and insults will follow, why? because naturally and sociologically women weren't meant to be providers.
I know things are changing as regards gender role, but I want to ask you a question, what do you think about this new breed of empowered women in terms of character?
The bird will one day come home to roost and guest what? Trouble.

I love that your girlfriend,thank God for her life she ran away. There's a reason why men are regarded as head of the family, that's because they are meant to provide for their family, not saying your wife shouldn't contribute to the upkeep of the family, but you don't make it her responsibility like she must do it. The sooner you men realize that women were created to be pampered, the better for you. There's also a reason why God created them last. Everything was already on ground before they came. Now you don't need to wonder again why most women are wired to go after ready made men.

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Did you just say I was quick to insult you?
Obviously it's either your village people are behind your insanity or you are just stupidd. If you ever reply my message again... Thundeeerrrr will killl you. Bastardd. Useless human being. stark illiterate [
For someone looking for solution aren't you too aggressive in your response, this person you're replying wasn't there when you were fornicating. And don't tell me you're aren't the girls boyfriend, otherwise why would you be so concerned?

valnelly:
Doctors in house. I have a female friend who did an abortion sometimes in September and up till now she hasn't seen her period. She went back to the hospital where she did the abortion and she was given some injections and drugs but still yet hasn't seen her period. It's been 3 months and still counting. What advice do you have for her please. Thank you

She's not just your female friend, she's your girlfriend ,admit it. Anyways as kasala don burst, stay with her cos you're an accomplice to this crime of murder.
May the innocent child rest in peace.

Harddiskng:

Many are mad few are roaming.

What kind of nonsense behavior is this.



You are an enabler, you haven’t done any good to the OP. Cuz i am sure he hasn’t learnt any valuable lesson. Instead you have reinforced OP in his wicked ways.

Why would you take a loan you know you have no means of paying back.

Psalm 37:21: The wicked borrow and never repay

Take it easy, don't be an obstacle to someone's destiny helpers.
You don't really know what the op might be passing through now.
A little kindness won't hurt you.

backbencher:


Security where there was bombing , herdsmen crisis , millitancy and kidnapping. Security that GEJ people were blaming Bihari for as if he was in power?

Economy that we were borrowing to pay salaries in the last year of GEJ?We just used high oil prices to hide the cracks.

Unity where the usual North Vs South fighting was ongoing? Where GEJ supporters were calling Buhari and northerners bokoists? Have you forgotten 2011? ( Mostly Buhari's supporters fault in fairness though)

Exchange rate? Yes it was better because we had high oil prices, higher than what Buhari has ever had, and thus more than enough dollars to buffer the naira. We were here before in 1973 to 82 when oil prices were high that one dollar got you one naira in 1978. And bread cost 50kobo per loaf? Didn't mean economy was good. Just oil dependent. Whch is bad.

Mind you Buhari has utterly failed. Security is even worse and the economy is horrible especially since he did not use the tools that the should have used to fix it, eg diversification

But GEJ was a disaster too.As are most Nigerian leaders because they tied our economy not to productivity but to price of oil.

With people who reason like you, I can say Nigeria truly deserve the leaders they elect.

backbencher:


Note that I consider that APC has failed

But for context, GEJ met the reserves at 60 billion dollars and oil prices at 91 dollars per barrel.Oil went up above 100 dollars per barrel between 2011-14

Bubu met the reserves at 32 billion dollars and oil prices at 75 dollars per barrel. Oil has never been above 80 dollars since he took over

But as I said Buhari is still a bad leader because he knew oil was not enough for a nation our size and he knew that he should have diversified from day one.

I'm not supporting Jonathan incompetence, but the question is Buhari was elected to fix Nigeria problems, how far has he gone in doing that? It's so maddening to think that after nearly seven years of governance, you're still blaming your predecessor?
Right now I'm dumbfounded and livid with anger.

ThatFairGuy1:
How would you describe GEJ government who borrowed to pay salary

You are a mighty idiot, I feel like slapping you physically if it can reset your thinking faculties and make you logical.
How can you compare Jonathan's government with the calamity and disaster Buhari government has brought on Nigerians?
This your own zombieism is on another level.
Are you even a human being?

goslowgoslow:

Is that not an empty treasury? Money that cannot sustain a population of over 200 million in 3 weeks what do you call that?
When they say the Treasury was empty it doesn't mean zero Naira.

You are an idiot o, so seven years of misrule with poverty and hardship as legacy, you guys are still blaming Jonathan?
Who do Nigeria this thing?

If you know what is good for you, just run away for your life, na cele people you wan use play? Unless you're are a genuine born again christian which I doubt, na confirmed marine spirit trouble you dey find.

Exactly mission accomplished! your assignment was to produce a son. That was why he married you anyway.

shigishege:
But I think these ibecile Yamirins are shouting here the other time that it's going to be Orji Kalu that IBB will support?? I will support anyone as long as he is a Yoruba man contesting for the presidency.

You people should stop all this tribal politics that won't take Nigeria anyway, I'm from the South south, and I think Osibanjo at the moment is the most qualified candidate not because he's a southerner, but because he's vested with all the requisite qualifications and experience needed for the Job.
Let's stop all this tribal politics and vote in credible leaders before we elect another catastrophe like Buhari.
And yes I honestly and can't stand the idea of Tinubu being the president of Nigeria, reason being one, he helped foisted the calamity we currently have as a leader on us and secondly he has questionable character.
Are you guys not tired of voting old ,wrinkled expired men that should be resting into power?

#5000

Paygram:
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Alone.

Will appreciate any gift from nairalanders, country hard

You guys are not serious, so what do you want ordinary citizens that Buhari has brought hardship on to do? Support the useless government and defend it?, Is the country, north in particular not ravage by insecurity, bloodshed and hunger? What has the government done to curb these evils? You people should just go with your conspiracy theories and propaganda. This government is a failure, that's the truth period!

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oilyngbati:

May God heal the north. I know the north, having realized that supporting evil is wrong, will be peaceful soon and all terrorists disturbing the peace of the people shall be crushed.
Unlike some people in the SE who are protecting their own terrorists, namadi cownu and Ipob/ESN , thinking they’re punishing the president. E don dey clear for their eyes now, as Ipob/ESN is now killing and cannibalizing their victims.

How foolish can you be?
Una no dey learn?
Wetin bring Ipob/ESN come this topic.
Has the North dealth with boko haram yet.
Una eyes go still clear.
In fact una never see anything
In case you don't know, let me give you a hint. The North is under a curse no curses.
I really pity your ignorance.

I know you won't listen or you might want to justify yourself, but you sound so desperate and the truth is that guy doesn't see you as the one. Reduce the desperation, maybe just maybe he might become interested in you. And lastly stay away from fornication so as not to be too emotionally invested.

Kobojunkie:
Recall what I has said earlier about Jesus Christ calling us to do as He says and not as He did?

Ok you just confirmed my suspicion, you are truly not a Christian.
If we are to do only what Jesus command us to do and not do what he did, pray please tell me the difference. If you are truly a Christian you would understand that we are Christ rep on earth. He's our pattern. We follow him not only by words only but also by his deeds.
I think I'm done with you.
If you are sincerely seeking for the truth, Dm me. I know you're a Muslim.

Kobojunkie:
the same God you claim is love is the one who taught to you what is written there in Mark 7 vs 1 - 13 and Matthew 15 vs 1 - 14 and He expects you to Obey Him.

God never asked you, a Gentile, for tithes. Neither did Jesus Christ. His tithing and offering Laws He gave only to those of the blood of Jacob - Deuteronomy 30 vs 15 - 20

The New Covenant has no tithing or offering laws to begin with so such ideas are sin against God.

Are you sure you are even a Christian?
Cos we see Jesus healing the sick on the Sabbath day, this was Jesus breaking the Sabbath law of rest.
Read Mark 3:1-6

Kobojunkie:
Are you certain about this? Because the same teaching is also found in Matthew 15 vs 1 - 14 and what is spoken of Isaiah is easily confirmed. Read the passage from beginning to see if you properly grasp what Jesus Christ is saying at all.
_{** substituted from another Bible translation for better understanding of what is impacted}

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I don't think I can properly grasp what Jesus is saying?
But I know one thing and that is God is love,
I won't watch a sick man die in front of me, if what can be use to save him is my tithe, assuming I have no other money.
What I understand foremost about Christianity is that it's founded on love. I don't know where this hardness of heart or wickedness is coming from. Certainly not from Jesus.
Thank you.

Kobojunkie:


If you had actually considered what Jesus Christ said in context - Matthew 7 vs 1 - 13 , you would have instead seen clearly Jesus Christ's message there to us which is that we reject every doctrines and traditions of men as they are all of them lies, an abomination where God's Truth is concerned.

There's nothing in Mathew 7:1-13 to support your stance, rather it actually gives more credence to my postulations.
Check out verse 12( Mathew 7)of that Scripture, it says we do to others what we except to be done to us, Jesus even went further to say this was the whole summary of the law and prophets.
So let's be sincere in your heart of hearts assuming you were the person in critical need or emergency you are asking for help from a brother who is going to pay his tithe and offering and who has no other money to spare aside from that tithe and money. What would be your expectation? Especially if your needs bother on life and death?
Won't you expect the brother to help you with that tithe money?
Let's be honest.
Please open your heart and reread Mark 7:11-13 thanks

Kobojunkie:
Are you certain the contention here comes from me though? Your quote suggested we are to do as Jesus Christ did. Mine was to correct that notion since it is incorrect.

Jesus Christ lived according to the Old Covenant Law of Moses, this in order to fulfill the Old Law on behalf of all those He was sent to ransome from it, so He did not do as He commanded us to do.

Have you read Mark 7:11-12 ?

Kobojunkie:
Again, Jesus Christ said you should do as He says, not as He did - John 15 vs 14 & John 14 vs 15 - 25. So instead what did Jesus Christ say you should do?

Calm down, why are you so contentious, that Scripture I quoted is also a commandment. That is what Jesus would expect or command us to do. Again, calm down and let the peace of Christ reign in you.

staga:


Stop deceiving people.

If you cannot spare out of your 90% to give to the needy and decide to use the 10% that belongs to God for that purpose, you are a wicked man with an evil and selfish heart.

Can a man rob God? You know how much a cylinder of oxygen costs? Ask those in COVID isolation wards. Then you will know that you cannot rob the One who gave you free air to breathe.

Go back and reread my modified comment. Thanks.