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Congratulations momma

FairyGodmother:
BA! BA!! BA!!!
My Royal Rainbow Princess has arrived!!!
EDD - 22/09/20
DOB - 22 /09/ 20
BW - 4.3kg
V. D with tears
Time - 12:07pm

Cc Mayluv and all September teamies...
Safe delivery to all belleful mommas!

Biko mommas owing Birth stories, do well to sama us with your beautiful birth stories oo at least to encourage us and keep the fun in the thread

October mummies stealing the show from September mummies. Congratulations teamie, may his arrival bring massive Glory to your household

SapphirePRINCEX:
I don port o,
Welcomed my prince charming
21st Sept weighing 3.5kg.
No tears

Bs coming later.

Amen

threegees:
PRAYER MONDAY

Almighty and ever living God, we thank and praise you for the gift of life and the miracle of conception.
We thank you for how far you have carried us in this journey of pregnancy. Your name alone be praised.
We commit all September/October expectant moms into your hands, Lord. May we bring forth our babies safe, sound and healthy in Jesus name. At the time of our deliveries, may there be no complications in Jesus name.
Other pregnant moms, Lord, grant them sufficient grace and strength to pull through the journey and bring forth their seeds peacefully in Jesus name.
For as many of our sisters, relatives, and friends who are trusting you for this miracle, Father grant them their heart's desires in Jesus name.
We also pray for the men in our lives, that Lord you will bless them with wisdom, finances and wherewithal to support us in this journey in Jesus name.
For our health care personnels attending to us, grant them the wisdom and prudence needed to cater for us in Jesus name.
Thank you for answered prayers in Jesus name I pray.
Amen.

May God lay His mighty healing hands on your hubby teamie, I can't begin to imagine the stress of being pregnant and looking after your hubby. Please be careful about herbs especially for some1 that's diabetic or hypertensive, long term effect of herbs could result to a kidney damage. Hope he is getting better

Modupetemmy1:
good morning Mama's in the house, pls is there any herb one can take to reduce sugar in the blood? hubby has been on admission since Monday till date and the sugar isn't coming down,though it was very high before but now it reduced a bit and it's been fluntuating between 400+ to 500+
pls you people should suggest bikonu, the stress is just too much for me.i want to go home.

Congratulations teamie. God will perfect all that concerns you and our princess.

mayysen:
BA BA BA
My beautiful princess arrived yesterday 5th Sept at 33 weeks weighing 1.8kg through emergency CS because of PIH and preeclampsia. Baby is undergoing observation at the NICU. mother is recovering well. Daddy is doing great too.

Oct cappo @ threegees, take note please

Amen

threegees:
PRAYER MONDAY

Our everlasting and eternal Father in heaven,
In the end of it all, let your name alone be glorified.
Thank you our ever living and unchanging God for answered prayers in Jesus name.
Amen.

Ok sis, I will ask around 4 it. Thanks

Anna20:
Yoruba people call it "ewe aroje"...I don't know what igbos call it.
I don't think it's sold because it gets spoilt easily...if you were close by,it's much around here .

Wow, I wish your house is near my house..I for just come cut small

FloraEC:
To think I planted it in my compound when I was pregnant.
I took the stalk with the root and planted it,got it from a friend's compound.

Where can I buy it in lagos? And what should I call it for them

Anna20:
Good morning mommas,I thought to share this with us.
For preggy mamas who have low PCV... One home remedy I know of is "hospital too far" or "blood of Jesus" leaf.
It's a herb that boosts blood level for anaemic patients .
How to prepare:
Boil the leaf with water, you'll notice the water turns red...pour in a cup and add milk to it, the colour will turn purplish after milk is added...To be taken two times daily...before meal in the morning and after meal at night.
I tried it and it worked for me.
NB : You can make your research online about it too before using.
Wishing us all a safe delivery.

34weeks with love. It will end in praise for all of us by the power of the Almighty

Congratulations again teamie. Your BS is a very interesting one. Regards to our lil handsome testimony. May God bless and keep him

bukit05:
Cc October cappo. Thank you all for your prayers, it meant to much to me. My Miracle baby is saying hi to you all.

Please don't, please don't...his outbursts sounds like that's really who he is and not just mere provocation, you are even his guest for crying out loud

Localchampion:
I'm really confused about my boyfriend if hes worthy of getting married to.
We are in a long distant relationship, we hardly see, sometimes thrice in a year, but I believe the reason we are still together is because its a distant relationship, as each time I go to Enugu to greet him and stay for 2weeks, my love for him is always reduced.
So much this time around, we haven't seen for a year, and I had something important to do in Enugu, so I decided to stay in his place and use the opportunity to greet him. The first 4days, we were totally fine with each other, as I was busy with doing the stuff I came to do. Meanwhile, I didn't spend his money, as I came with my money and give him money to buy me food, so for the first 3days he was the one buying the cooked foods we ate, but I would give him 1k. Naturally, I don't eat outside, nor do I eat junks, but because he said he doesn't have money, I just pitied him and did not mention the fact that he should get foodstuffs, I don't want him to start feeling bad that he has no money plus I was even busy, remember I came for a purpose. And I don't use it as attitudes for him, I'm a very happy enduring lady.

Now after the fourth day that I finished the program I originally came for, I lost my money, about 150,000, truth is when I'm sad, im usually harsher, and would not talk much, would become exessively quiet, because if I talk, I may start to cry, this is when problem started between us, he acted unconcerned about my predicament, I just ignored him, trying to see how I can get back my money. And the truth is, if I get the money, I will surely give him part of the money, there's no time I will make money and not give him. So for like two days, I was in depression due to my money, I didnt sweep, I was just sighning, and not cheerful to him, the next day afterwards, was when he bursted, and started talking
1. He said I'm useless to him
2. He compared me with other people's girlfriend, how they take care of their boyfriend, how they cook for them, cook extremely homey food for them.
3. He said his friends couldn't visit him because I'm in his house, and thus hes missing because the fact that I'm in his house I'm useless, not doing anything for him, and yet his friends couldn't come.
4. He said his cousins girl did this and that.
5. He said I'm talking of marriage, he said what is he marrying, he said when I'm not even showing any readiness bla bla bla
6. He said I should look at his house, does it look like a girl is there, he said his friend told him that since I'm around now, his cheeks would become bigger, and in his mind, he knew he would only grow thinner.
7. He said I should leave his house first thing tomorrow morning, since I'm not useful.
8. He said at this point, hes confused, if i want to break up, I should just let him know, because what is the point of our stay together
He said just too many hurtful things and those are the ones I could remember.
I was able to record some of those things, so I can relisten to them later. But he collected my phone and deleted all I recorded.

All through, I was just quiet and smiling because I don't even know where to start replying him and he was very serious, his face was in a fight mood, I don't wanna talk because I really don't like problems or fight. Then later, he said I must say something, he seized my phone, and almost made me loose a deal.

I just kept quiet, later when I started talking, he denied having said USELESS, something he mentioned more than twice and apologized swiftly.

All his accusations were wrong because the reason I didn't cook is because he has no single food at home and hes the one always complaining he has no money, so I just taught that, I wouldn't make my stay to disrupt his life, he knew I hate eating outside, and the fact that we buy food is something I am enduring, because the foods makes me nauseated each time I eat them. He knows how much i cook for him when he comes visiting me, I will cook several things, what I can't even eat myself due to financial problems, I am the one always fighting him to cook that Junks are unhealthy. But just because I was pitying him, I didn't bring up the idea of cooking, he accused me of being useless, he said I'm the one to bring up the idea as a girlfriend, bla bla bla.

Later that day, I brought the idea and he gave me 5k to the market, I cooked and did everything. I didn't buy a single food I could eat (I don't eat pasters), because the money isn't enough, so I just bought foods he likes and made a nice sauce. His friend came visiting, I packed foods for her and did normal. His friend called him to relate how I treated her, this is when my boyfriend started filling extremely happy, and thanking God for meeting me, saying nice things.

Since then, he has been saying stuffs of how much he's been gifted to have me bla bla bla, to me, whatever I have for him has greatly reduced, because I don't know the Essence of the relationship, because to him, its a roleship, where I must do my roles and if I miss, he won't even think why could I have missed it, if its intentionally, was it because I'm sad, the next thing he would be saying is if we should break up or not. Now, this is someone I never compared with anyone, I don't even compare people, I just do normal to him, like I will do to a brother, plan for him, etc, yet he compares me all the time and wants me to live like the other average girls that are using iphones.

I told him yesterday that since he wants a roleship, he would also man up, and for the first time in our 5years relationship, I started behaving like the normal girls, I asked him for money to make my hair, he doesn't have, I asked him for money for cream, he doesn't have and he has been angry because I told him I don't care whether he has money or not, since I must do my roles, he should also do his roles, and for the first time I also compared him and told him what men are doing for their girls.

He has been frowning and sad since I said those words to him, because they are deep, I just served him exactly what he did to me. I'm not happy, I'm doing that to him, I'm even sad I'm telling him all these because this is not me. I'm still going to make him realize how useless he is in my life, absolutely useless, and that is the truth, since he sees our relationship as a role one, then hes useless.

I can't marry him like this, God forbids, someone who can't endure due to the situation of things and understand, and he wants me to understand his own and endure for him, its not just possible for me, and he's good at talking, abusing, bullying, etc. Hes the one that will tell me to snap pictures for him, I will tell him I don't have clothes, he will say ''Go and Buy now'', He will bully me with my hair and compare it with that of other girls. He wasn't broke before the lockdown, but I didn't collect money from him because I want him to achieve and grow with the money, so that by the time we get married, he would be financially very okay.

Please should I marry this kind of Man? I really don't know why I should because it seems his happiness towards me, his affection and romance is dependent on fulfilling ROLES in his head.

Amen in Jesus Name

sugah:
Late Monday prayer..

Lord our heavenly Father, we thank you for bringing us this far in this journey you have blessed us with. We pray that you see us through the end of the journey with our healthy babies and grant us supernatural deliveries and no loses.

We thank you for our August mothers that have welcomed their loved ones so far, we commit the rest of our August mothers into your hands and pray you will be with them in the delivery room and there shall be no loses.

We are going through this journey in a precarious time with a pandemic that's been riddled with job loses and reduced incomes, but we trust that you will provide all that's required to take care of these blessings you have assigned to us to raise.

We commit our ATC mothers into your hands Lord, we know that you have already perfected their testimonies and they will soon come to manifestation for you said none shall be barren, for this we thank you.
Amen.

Amen oo cappo trusting God who never fails, been at a very low point but I know time heals almost everything, Ehen sometimes the pressure and pain makes me wonder wonder and ask myself if I am in labour already lol, it is well ooo.

threegees:
Team October 2020

My people, I trust our ministry is gradually moving to its permanent site
Weeks 34, 33, 32, and 31, right?
Phew...see us, see finish line
God is in control. He who began this good work in us is able to bring it to perfection in Jesus name.
Please, let's welcome another new teamie @Amazingift01


#SupernaturalDelivery
#NoLossNoComplications

I m joining my faith with yours sis, I wouldn't mind joining the group too oo

omavicky:
lol, I understand ur fear, am also going for a Vbac by September, I joined a group on Vbac and their positive story has lifted my spirit..truth be told no two pregnancies are the same, that's why am positive this one will work in my favour.. keeping my fingers crossed and fervently praying to God to let his will be done.

Vaginl birth after Cs

Mumaraoluwa:
what's the meaning of vbac

I m joining my faith with yours sis, I wouldn't mind joining the group too oo

omavicky:
lol, I understand ur fear, am also going for a Vbac by September, I joined a group on Vbac and their positive story has lifted my spirit..truth be told no two pregnancies are the same, that's why am positive this one will work in my favour.. keeping my fingers crossed and fervently praying to God to let his will be done.

Sincerely don't be scared momma, yours is very much better since you ve had aVD b4

Fertilady:
I am scared of trying a vbac too. I just said I would be reading BS and see if I will get any Mama that tried it. My first delivery was vd while the second was cs. I am confused too, my doc has cleared me for vbac cos it's been 4 yrs after my previous cs

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Wow! And my own pelvic region is already doing me one kain sef when labour hasn't even started, chai! May God just make every easy for us ooo

princessKF:
Wow 5.2ft... I'm not up to 5ft tall, I birthed a 3.3kg baby via VD but i won't try that shit again my pelvic almost went for it. I couldn't walk well for almost 3months.

Thanks for the response ma, reason for the previous CS was that baby was measuring big during scan but later turned out he was 2.9kg at birth, the previous gynae also complained about my height being 5.2feet that I was too short

sweetlady4real:
Good afternoon mama, Good that your doctors have cleared you for a VBAC. Some VBAC are successful while some end up being another CS. Why did they section you for your previous CS? I think that will be the first indicator.
I will say try the VBAC if your doctors have cleared you but if you feel you can just go for the ELCS then good too. The difference is that for VB, the pain is before delivery but for CS pain is after delivery.

Greetings to all the belleful mommas in the house. Who else is torn in between going for an elective CS and trying a VBAC experienced and VBAC mamas please help me chook mouth. Note that doctors already passed me for a VBAC but mehn mehn, the fear is real

Congratulations teamie bukit05, God be praised

Thanks and God bless u momma. Trying to be fine, I know it will surely get better

ojantelle:
@serendipityF, how are you holding up? Try and be strong for yourself and your lo. Is only God that will comfort you and the whole family. Remember to always take your routine drugs, take care and stay safe.

Thanks sis

faithlucky:
I lost my dad last year, it wasn't easy at all but u have 2 b strong dear. My condolence

Thank u ma

sugah:
Sorry for your loss.
Be consoled with the fact he's in a better place.

Thank u sis

sweetlady4real:
It is well with you mama, may the great Comforter comfort you. Please accept my condolence.

Thanks so much, appreciate u

ojantelle:
My dear take things easy ohh, there's nothing more precious than you (your life). Whatever will be will be, stay safe sha, is only God that can comfort you. I feel your pain dear. E hug

Amen cappo

threegees:
Oh so sorry, momma. You'll be fine. Just be strong please. That's what your daddy would want too. God rest his soul.

Thanks much sis

khaite23:
God will comfort you. Accept my condolence mama

Thanks ma

pateffy:
so sorry ma God will comfort you ijn