https://www.facebook.com/?sk=nf#!/allnigerianrecipes?fref=ts

Look on there. There are recipies and you can watch them being made on youtube as well.
I suprised my man by preparing some dishes for him. He ate the lot

Mrs.Chima:


So you didn't fall for the "Big Kondo" hype?

nope, thats not what i look for in a man. I look for humour and kindness and intelligence, which shows way before size enters the equasion. Its no good settling for a man who is big if his whole attitude and behaviour offends my sensibilities.

As a white British girl, I can say I dont love to date black guys. I love to date the black guy i am going to marry, but he is the only black guy I have dated. It is HIM i like, not black guys in general. To most people here nowadays, it isn't really a big deal what colour someone is when it comes to dating. At least that is what i see.

It is spelt capiche and it means understand. It is used by Italian Americans.

I call when I have something to discuss. I think it is childish to expect someone to call and text all the time.It annoys and irritates me when I feel someone is expecting me to check in with them every few hours. There is only so much you can say once the relationship is established before you are just calling to boost the phone company's profits.

However did we manage to maintain relationships before we had mobile Phones? Yet somehow we did, and people loved just as much.

If it is a first date, I will get at least one call. This is because I arrange for a friend to call to check I am ok. This is basic safety.

I have my phone switched on because I have responsbilities I have to deal with, date or no date and they will superceed any date.
There is a difference between answering one or 2 calls and chattering away constantly on the phone or by sms.
Personally, if I am on a date and he recieves a call, I would be more concerned if he didn't answer it. I think this shows bad manners. I think at least he should answer and explain he is busy and will call later.

We don't pay bride price in the UK. In the past, the bride used to have a dowery she took to her marriage, this was money and goods from her parents to her husband. If the marriage didn't go ahead or the couple split up, it was expected that the dowery was returned to her parents.

In more recent centuries, the tradition has been that the man presents the bride with a diamond ring on proposing, which should represent approx. 3 months of his income. Traditionally, the bride's parents paid for the wedding, but nowadays, it is more common for the costs to be split among the couple and their families. Most white women here in the UK would be horified at the idea of their father selling her to a husband as it implies she is property.

It may well be, untill she has kids and realises it was really unimportant in the grand scheme of life, and her kids are the most treasured thing she has.

I would choose 5.
I know that even if he is broke now, we can work together to make sure that changes in the future. It is easier to not be broke than it is to make an ugly person handsome, an uncaring person to be caring and an unfaithful person to stop his wandering eyes.

I have put similar things on my profiles, not for because of hit and run in the past, but because i get so many messages from men wanting sex partners or one night stands. This isn't even on a dating site, but on social networks. It is easier to just put the line on your profile that says you are not interested than to deal with idiots who think every women will fall for their crap.

Like any other child whose father, what ever his race, abandons them. Leaving a wife/baby moma is not a phenomenen that is the sole responsibility of Nigerian men. Also, Nigerian men who leave their children, do not do so only to white women, or to women who are citizens of a different country.

Some men are good fathers and honor their obligations to the child, no matter what their reasons for being with the mother were. Other men are just not worthy of the name.

I would vote no. I do not want a man who is submisive, or controlling.
I want a man who can take the lead with out being domineering, who has confidence in his decisions and is prepared to listen to my opinions.

Uncle Trevor,
I have a serious problem.
I am a white grandmother, with with a British passport. What are my chances me finding a handsome Nigerian man who is wanting marriage?

:p

Ask her close friend to advice you secretly. She can 'borrow' one of your girl's rings, which you can then take to have sized.

lol my mum, grandmum and my aunts all do this.

I have known friends go to clubs wearing skimpy outfits an keep money in their bra, so they dont have to bother carrying a bag.

My mum does it because she splits her money and carries it in different places. She always keeps money in her bra, so should she loose her purse or be robbed, she will still have enough money hidden to get her home.

A lot of her friends do the same thing for the same reason.

I'm in the UK and I am white.

1. If it is an e-book, why are there only 20 copies? An e-book doesn't need to be printed, it is simply emailed to open on a computer, so it is silly to say just 20 copies.
2. Why text when an e-book needs to be opened on a computer or a machine capable of opening pdf documents.

@mashnino I have 5 grandkids, does that make me old? and it is my picture.

apparently I get them, my youthful looks and my rear end from my black grandparent,
not one bit shop bought or padded.

and the bf loves them lol.

My man's sis and others here in the UK shake their heads at me when I turn down his offers of money and gifts lol.

They keep saying girl you need to learn how to chop $$ fast lol

I have told him when I come to Nigeria, I will ask for things to waste his money on buying me frivilous things instead of putting it to use to improve prospects.

haha i am white, I am still learning how to chop $ lol :p

lol, my man offered to buy me one of  those and I turned it down. Cars and fame are not what I want.

lol I can cook English, french, italian, chinese foods. I am slowly learning nigerian cooking, my man is teaching me and some of my students are giving me tips ( I teach english classes and some of my students are Nigerian ladies).

I live in Nottingham.

Translation from girl language to boy language : "I have a boyfriend" : " Thanks, but no"

I am always good. I am lovingand gentle and want to please, dont demand attention etc, so I must be ugly by your reasoning

I can only tell you from my view point. Most of the time he is talking in my language. I do not begrudge him being able to relax and talk to his friends in his language . What I do is ask him to tell me words when we are alone. I also found Nollywood movies on my tv, and when i am alone, I watch them to get a 'feel' for the flow of the conversation (subtitles help) . I also found websites that list words and even have sound bites for pronunciation. When he is talking with his friends, i can now understand some (not all) of what is said. I know I am in this for the long haul and I WANT to learn about his people, his foods and his words.

The translation pages I looked at were in English, but you could copy the english words into Google Translate to figure out what they are in your language.


I have heard all the stories about Nigerian men, but being on here, I have heard the bad  opinions of White women, and they make me laugh they are so far from true, so why should the stories told in our countries about african men be any different in their genralizations and exagerations?