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CelebritiesRe: Court Strikes Out Busola Dakolo’s Rape Suit Against Fatoyinbo, Fines Her N1M by seunfly: 5:19pm On Nov 14, 2019
raumdeuter:
Around the time of the sexual encounter, Busola was probably 17 and Fatoyinbo was probably early 20s

I believe from her story, she had a crush on him and that led to consensual sex between them multiple times, she even continued to attend his church afterwards
She was probably hoping to be upgraded to main girlfriend one day
Later when she realized that she wasn't special and Fatoyinbo had others, she became bitter and later turned it to rape to gather sympathy and smear the pastor

Let us even assume they had sex, and some wanted to claim statutory rape the normal question will be how old was she at time of encounter and most importantly, what was the age of consent in the place the encounter took place

How can she prove sexual exploitation?

The 1million fine is a slap on the wrist and should have been something like 50M
What is the definition of minor in Nigerian law?
CelebritiesRe: Busola Dakolo Loses Rape Case Against Fatoyinbo, Court Asks Her To Pay N1M by seunfly: 5:13pm On Nov 14, 2019
grin
CelebritiesRe: Busola Dakolo Loses Rape Case Against Fatoyinbo, Court Asks Her To Pay N1M by seunfly: 5:12pm On Nov 14, 2019
Only fools will think she had a case, by listening to her story alone shows she does not have any legal stand.
However Nigerians usually operates based on emotions rather than common sense.
CelebritiesRe: Court Strikes Out Busola Dakolo’s Rape Suit Against Fatoyinbo, Fines Her N1M by seunfly: 5:05pm On Nov 14, 2019
thorpido:
A lack of concrete evidence is her undoing but that's because of a lack of proper investigations.
I believe there was intimacy between them when she was a teenager as she claimed but no proof.
There is difference between intimacy and rape, if she had claimed sexual exploitation may be the pastor could have been in trouble because the evidence is everywhere and she might likely see corroborators, but she claimed rape which did not happen, no evidence and her testimony is not consistent enough. Infact her testimony does not look like what u want to use for court purpose, it looks like what u want to use to create scandals. This made it easy for pastor to defeat the case. It was a very easy case to be knocked out.
CelebritiesRe: Court Strikes Out Busola Dakolo’s Rape Suit Against Fatoyinbo, Fines Her N1M by seunfly: 4:58pm On Nov 14, 2019
thorpido:
They got evidence only because it's a system that supports investigations.No one here wants to undertake such assignment.
I agree she may not have gone about it the best way but she did the best she knew.
Even though there is no proof,there is a likelihood that pastor slept with jer as a teenager.
Any Ilorin based person from 1998 to early 2000s know the pastor and Busola had a fling, if she had came up in that aspect to questions the pastors moral, it would have been understable and we will judge or question the pastor for that. You can't bring in criminality into moral stuff. Court can't condem pastor for having consensual affairs with another women, his congregations are supposed to do that. The pastor was the bubbling guy in Ilorin and every women and teenage girls want to have something with him. Infact till today, girls are always looking for ways to do things with him.
She lost credibility when she changed the story to rape, when their are many people that knows her story. she was just one of those girls who had things with him and only God knows why she chose to bring it up now and in this narrative, many said her husband got to know and she needed a solid story to cover her track just to save her marriage while others said it was a pay back. Which ever way, the truth is in the open, it does not favour either party and both had alot to loose from the truth and non wants people to know the real truth.
RomanceRe: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by seunfly: 4:12pm On Nov 14, 2019
mysticgal:
That’s the most stupid law that has existed in humanity. A lot of you Nigerians are so good at generalizations it has killed you people, have you met a hundred people who has ever had sex with their ex’s while in a relationship or not? I mean met not I heard. Well, I have met 20 who would never go back or have sex with their ex’s even with guns to their heads...21 if I include myself so drop that stupid law and face reality. Okafors law lo, okorie’s rule ni.

When I get to a hundred I would quote this thread.
Lol my sister I'm not a play boy ooo and I v never done such thing before but the law is in existence, this is what we man see everyday. I can count nothing less than 20 scenerios with my friends and their married and unmarried ex. Certainly not all women but it is so common and rampant that once in a while you wonder if it could happened to u.

I know some women came back to them, some went back to the women, some was accident and some tricked the women.
The worse that I know was secondary school fling, met on the secondary school whatsapps reunion group and the guy came to Abuja, went to the woman's house and the husband was even in the house when he visited for the first time, now they are seeing each other without the knowledge of the husband.
CelebritiesRe: Court Strikes Out Busola Dakolo’s Rape Suit Against Fatoyinbo, Fines Her N1M by seunfly: 2:24pm On Nov 14, 2019
thorpido:
Unfortunately,this is not the US.As long as sex was with a minor,it's statutory rape.
Bill Cosby's victims got justice even after many years.

But this is Nigeria.
But they got evidence and did it in a proper way, her actions from the begginging shown she was not interested in any justice but to create embarrassment to the man.

She really does not has any case and the little she might have has been distroyed by her own deed.
CelebritiesRe: Court Strikes Out Busola Dakolo’s Rape Suit Against Fatoyinbo, Fines Her N1M by seunfly: 2:22pm On Nov 14, 2019
Ok
Christianity EtcRe: Court Throws Out Bukola Dakolo‘s Case, Exonerate Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo by seunfly: 2:17pm On Nov 14, 2019
We all know she will loss in court, only an idiot accused somebody in court without any evidence and good narrative.

She can only win emotional case with masses but not with any reasonable Han being.
Technology MarketRe: Your World Of Smart Tv's Get In Here by seunfly: 5:21am On Nov 14, 2019
I don't think seller is to be blamed for any issues that arises from sales of any used product especially electronics.
Just like uboma said, used TVs, ACs, refrigerators etc are so delicates that u can't predict what will happen next after purchase, to make the matter worse the price difference from the new ones is not too far apart. Why not buy new ones even if it is not that popular brands.
SportsRe: Proof Match Officials Were Against Manchester City In Game With Liverpool by seunfly: 8:09pm On Nov 13, 2019
TheGoodJoe:
You are just evading the truth. The above article clearly highlights the corrupt decision and lies made by the EPL officials.

The VAR officials knew it was a penalty and clearly denied City it. This is why I like VAR, now we know the agenda is clear.
I know u are man City fan and u will look for articles that was written by fellow man City or pep sympathisers.
The replay shows the liverpoool's players hands was in a natural position infact aguero was in the same position trying to return back after man City player deflected d ball with his own hand. The video shown that aguero's hand and Alexander's hand were both stretched out due to physiolocomotive actions. If u paused it as at that time, u will see both stretched their hands to balance their body and Alexander was unfortunate to while aguero escaped it.
AutosRe: Toks 2010 Honda CR-V Going For A Very Shocking Price by seunfly: 10:09am On Nov 13, 2019
Book
AutosRe: N1,200,000 or Less Tokunbo Cars by seunfly: 9:09pm On Nov 12, 2019
Ok
amdman:
Hot Sale

2004 Volvo XC90

No reported faults

154k miles

N1.3m (including shipping and clearing)
AutosRe: *₦✹✹***2019 Current Prices****on COPART And IAA Salvaged Auction Platforms***₦✹✹ by seunfly: 5:20am On Nov 07, 2019
kakakibuy:
cheesy cheesy
Good morning sir, pls how much can I get 2015 and 2016 camry with clearing cost inclusive?

My oga, I need the lowest price u can do.
Technology MarketRe: LG GRAM LAPTOP For Sale (lightest Laptop) SOLD by seunfly: 2:45am On Nov 06, 2019
Ok
EducationRe: Adenyi Theophilus Earned Two Degrees While In Prison, Now Doing His PhD by seunfly: 8:52am On Oct 27, 2019
Ok
Christianity EtcRe: Ese Walter Visits COZA In Disguise, Recounts Experience by seunfly: 8:15am On Oct 27, 2019
I guess people are taking Ese Walter case for Busola. They are two different cases and scenarios.

1StopRudeness:
Wait...what did this girl go through??

I really don’t understand this ese.....Bisola I understand well, she claimed she was raped, the the pstor forced himself on her at 17, perhaps too inexperienced to refused I wasn’t there but I get her part..
Ese never said this man forced himself on her, she narrated series of sexual escapades btw her and the dude but she never even called it rape....so what is this about exactly??
Please what did she go through that u are trying to make a point from if u listened to her confession years ago mayb I missed something. she had an affair with her pastor in full consent....
I don’t understand why women make men evil once a relationship’s final outcome isn’t favourable to them..the reason why I’m saying this is that I’ve never heard any woman speak well of her ex...women are naturally very vindictive..they slip their mind into a revised standard narrative of how they gave u their all, and never did anything wrong and how they trusted u..have u ever heard a girl blame herself of the bad outcome of a relationship??
EducationRe: Share Your Most Embarrassing Moment On Campus by seunfly:
oloriLFC:
all of una wey dey make person laugh so, na midnight we dey o grin grin grin
Exactly, I was laughing so hard that I fear my neighbours will think we are having village people's meeting.
PhonesRe: Redmi Note 8 Pro: Great Phone For The Impressive Price by seunfly: 3:14am On Oct 25, 2019
jubrilcastle:
If the Media Tek chipset were to on tecno or infinix nobody will call it powerful chipset oh. I just dey laugh
It is because Tecno or infinix will never, ever use this kind of mediatek chips. Trust me tecno will dream of this chip in 2023 and it will be so expensive.
Bro u need to read up about this chip and know some fact about it, snapdragon is cooking up something to counter this mediatek chip right now.
PoliticsRe: Nigeria Servicing $460 Million Loan For Failed Abuja CCTV Project — Minister by seunfly: 3:07am On Oct 25, 2019
faithfull18:
Where was it stated in the write-up that the PDP was in power when the contract was given out?
It was done during the PDP regime, it was during the boko haram invasion of of Abuja.
PhonesRe: Sold by seunfly: 3:01am On Oct 24, 2019
Sound bar.
BusinessRe: Q3 2019 Results: Zenith Bank Re-affirms Market Dominance And Leadership by seunfly: 6:35pm On Oct 23, 2019
Anniie4u:
3 years? Graduate trainee is supposed to be a permanent contract and gateway to a career in banking.
For those new generation banks, it is a delibrates attempts not to promote them beyond the trainee, they gives 3years contract and after 3 or so years, only few will be promoted and new trainee will be recruited. It is attempts to keeps the wages at Rock Bottom slave level while they generates huge profit.
For callous organisation, it is very cheap that way, it is better to have trainee with wage of about 1.5m per anum than to have experience at 4/5million per anum, the cost of training them every 3/4 years is nothing compare to the cost of their wages if they are promoted.
BusinessRe: Q3 2019 Results: Zenith Bank Re-affirms Market Dominance And Leadership by seunfly: 6:34pm On Oct 23, 2019
Ok
CelebritiesRe: Uriel Oputa's Mother: "Your Bottom Is Big And You Don't Have A Boyfriend' by seunfly: 9:43am On Oct 23, 2019
See better advertisement from mama her self.
PoliticsSecond Niger Bridge Suffer Setback As Host Communities Demand For "Entitlements" by seunfly(op): 5:03am On Oct 21, 2019
Work stopped at the site because communities are demanding projects worth N500 million, while workers are seeking promotion and increase in allowances.



The Controller, Federal Ministry of Works in Anambra State, Adeyemo Ajani, has said the second Niger bridge may suffer a serious setback if the government does not intervene urgently in the crisis between the contractors and host communities as well as workers.

Ajani, in an interview with Daily Trust, said work had stopped on the second Niger bridge and if there is no quick intervention, it might affect the scheduled date of completion.

According to him, work stopped at the site because communities are demanding projects worth N500 million, while workers are seeking promotion and increase in allowances.

The controller added that the project did not have any issues in terms of funding, but that the communities were trying to delay its completion.

Some communities from Anambra and Delta states stopped work at the site, alleging that the project manager "has not given them their dues".

Ajani, said, ‘‘Each community is demanding a project worth N50 million and by the time it is calculated, it will amount to N500 million. Where can such money come from?

"Even the Works Tender Board cannot approve that kind of money. It is only the government that can address it and that is why we are seeking its intervention”.

He noted that the Memorandum of Understanding (MoU) between the communities and the contractors had yet to be signed due to the demands.

http://saharareporters.com/2019/09/27/second-niger-bridge-may-suffer-setback-due-host-communities-demand-entitlements-federal

PoliticsRe: Governor Makinde Visits Mosque To Inform Worshippers Of Demolition Plans (Photo) by seunfly: 4:09pm On Oct 19, 2019
Ok
PoliticsRe: Border Closure: Nigerians Shun Local Rice, Sellers Lament by seunfly: 7:41am On Oct 16, 2019
carbon1224:
The stone is actually the problem with the Nigerian rice if it’s stone free then it’s okay
That is not true, their are many local rice that is far better than foreign rice, olam, bull, coscharis etc.

People are just too ignorant including you and many are just too negative.
For me I v stopped eating foreign rice for more than 4 years now, I only eat olam's brand mama's choice or pride.
PoliticsRe: Border Closure: Nigerians Shun Local Rice, Sellers Lament by seunfly: 7:41am On Oct 16, 2019
Ok
SportsRe: Salah's Lookalike, Bahaa In Egypt Stands In For Him In TV Commercials by seunfly: 7:39am On Oct 16, 2019
Salah's dad must have played away game with Salah's mother or this guy's mother. Either way, Salah's dad is the real goat �.
PhonesRe: Oppo’s New Reno Ace Phone Can Be Fully Charged In 30 Minutes (Photos) by seunfly: 7:08am On Oct 13, 2019
Ok
CrimeRe: Court Orders EFCC To Produce 106 Boxes Containing Stolen Money by seunfly: 12:34pm On Oct 07, 2019
No be bushmeat want catch the hunter so?
PhonesRe: The New Tecno Camon 12 Pro Specs And Price by seunfly: 6:56am On Sep 23, 2019
yungsmart:
Point of correction: it is first choice of transsision don't generalize that failure
The guy dey do me like to slap him, the proccessor no sensible and serious OEM even remember it existence.

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