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PhonesRe: Is TECNO And SONY Collaborating To Release A New Smartphone? by seunfly:
Damseywizzy:
we have seen time over time that megapixel is not what it takes to build a great camera on smartphone the two best camera on any smartphone which are google pixel 4/4xl and iPhone 11 series has only 12MP camera what makes a great camera are computation photography, good AI & machine learning so let's wait and see what tecno will do with their so called 64MP sony sensor camera
Why do people incorrectly says that iphone is the best camera phone in the world?
All the reviews says other wise, currently iphone 11 pro max is no 7 with 117 points behind OPPO find X2 pro, 2 xiaomi phones and 3 huawei phones in DXOmarks camera ranking.
Google pixel 4 is even very far behind, falling out of top 10 best camera phones.
PhonesRe: The Xiaomi Thread. by seunfly: 7:38pm On Mar 15, 2020
emeraldlife:
The way una dey hype this brand sef. Una come dey make them dey add unjustified plenty money to newer product.
I dey use one now sef and u are here comparing cams. The 48mp I have here bad. My s7 edge cam of many years ago beat am hands down. I don't understand why una turn here to Xiaomi worship centres instead of telling the-would-be users that the only advantage against other smart mid rangers is just the price.

Make una continue o.
I'm not xiaomi user but i dont believe that statement unless u tell us the specific model u are using and we go to DXOmark and other youtube reviews to confirm that.

Their pictures might not be as perfect as the latest flagship but can never be worst than 4 years old phone.
For a midrange phones, u needs to be ready to sacrifice some basic perfection u will normally get from flagship but not as bad as u v painted it.

I çan even amounce to you that right now xiaomi and OPPO phone are at the top of the pile interms of camera with 124 point each followed by huawei in DXOmark ranking.
PhonesRe: The Xiaomi Thread. by seunfly: 7:06pm On Mar 15, 2020
atheistandproud:
Sabi person.

We've said it here before. Na awon clout chasers na full that way. Even their tenants come here to seek for help. No bragging.

Anyone who is well vested in smartphones would not buy overpriced and overhyped stuff when there are better offers on the table that are way cheaper.

But no worry, they'll soon come and say that it's because we don't have money that's why.

Flagship level, I'll rather buy one plus or Mi

Midrange na Xiaomi

Simple.

Disclaimer: I no mention brand name or person name oh. Una do oh.
You are correct, i can use any of those expensive brands if they give me what i want but it doesnt make anysense to buy expensive brand because u want to feel rich. You can't claim another brand cant match those expensive brands because that is a lie. Imagine latest iphone claiming full charge under 1h while my stolen huawei can do that since late 2018 and the realme x2 pro i'm eyeing can do that in 25minutes.
So if u check every box, most top midrange phones can match and surpass what ever those expensive brands can offer.
If u are buying it because u want to feel rich, in 12 months time another one will be released and ur phone will be old and u will feel poor and outdated again.
PhonesRe: The Xiaomi Thread. by seunfly: 2:18pm On Mar 15, 2020
williams2600:
Someone said they dont have camera unless download Gcam

no phone recording

no hope of resale when the fone tire me

[b]No prestige like Samsung users ge[/b]t
At bolded
Personally i see people who use expensive phone for prestige as people suffering with inferiority complex, i dont need to flash iphone or samsung to get prestige. That is why i see those people especially some iphone users as low level wanabe people. What i want is functionality and beauty. It makes no sense for me to pour tons of money on something that will not give me that personal functionality because of what people might think of me.
I was reading DXOmark rating today and i found out xiaomi note 10 pro beats iphone 11pro max hands down, if my objective was camera , why will i buy expensive iphone 11 pro max because i want to make people feel better about me.

In life learn to carry yourself with dignity inside you first and watch how people will carry u with dignity outside, buying expensive things will not give u dignity, u are the only person who will give u dignity.
PhonesRe: The Xiaomi Thread. by seunfly: 2:00pm On Mar 15, 2020
williams2600:
Whats ur price range
Realme x2 pro i saw on jumia is 139k and it has snapdragon 855+, 60 watt charger that fully charged the battery under 30 minutes, super amoled with 90hz refresh, gorrola glass 5 etc the only con is the notch instead of hole punch and no sd card expansion.

My phone was stolen last week saturday and i v been holding on to buy the best phone at bargin price since then.

I just need to make the best sensible decision right now.
My original plan was galaxy s 10 lite but it is not available here in Nigeria.
PhonesRe: The Xiaomi Thread. by seunfly: 1:43pm On Mar 15, 2020
genius43:
The upcoming Redmi K30 Pro or Redmi K20 Pro Premium edition
Thanks for d reply, are they in similar price range?
PhonesRe: Is TECNO And SONY Collaborating To Release A New Smartphone? by seunfly:
What sort of cheap attache by force is this? Sony, samsung, leica etc makes camera sensor and phone manufacturers can buy and use for their phones.
Likewise intel, mediatek, Qualcomm, samsung, huawei, sony etc produce chips which might be exclusive or open for other phone manufacturers to use for their product.
None of this is any special partnership or endorsement of quality which tecno lacks.
I would rather advice tecno to start using better chips even if it is old mediatek P60 and P70 series instead of cheap propagandas and paying some idiots to keep lying to people.
PhonesRe: The Xiaomi Thread. by seunfly: 12:57pm On Mar 15, 2020
Pls house can anybody suggest xiaomi phone that is similar to realme x2 pro? I want to make up my mind b4 Wednesday.
PhonesRe: MTN Introduces New Numbers To Their Network by seunfly: 7:26pm On Mar 11, 2020
Ok
PhonesRe: TECNO Camon 15 Will Be D Real deal With Its 64MP Sony Camera - by seunfly:
drjprince:
I swr

Xiaomi and Samsung better rescue Nigerians quickly from this mumu people
If nobody can rescue us from our politcal and religious mumu, u think samsung, xiaomi and co will be able to rescue us from tecno/infinix/itel mumurity?

Nigerians are extremely complicated, highly unexpose and feels they knows, we are easily decieved by simple propagada by some paid idiot. Just pay some people and publish stupid reason why they should be stupid and our people will swallow it.
PhonesRe: Samsung Galaxy S20 Price In Nigeria & Full Specs by seunfly:
collins88:
You could Imagine Iphone release a phone with Triangular camera shape, next things you ill hear is Samsung has done the same.
The reason is that apple claims to be innovative and original but samsung may claim to be innovative but never claim the tittle of original .Apple fans also go in that direction and trow that lies in the face of non apple fans everytime, so many people who have discover the trick of apple reinvention or copied invention are always on the lookout for such and quickly point it out before apple and apple's fans pushed it down everybody's throat.

We all know that camera design belongs to huawei, infact huawei intentionally patent all rear camera design similar to this so that apple will not pull sony design trick of 2012s on everybody.

seanwilliam:
Samsung sets technology iPhone sets trending...
You can see why people are always on a lookout for apple's stolen technology or designs, this is classic example.

The design is huawie not apple, it has been trending since 2018 and many phone manufacturers has used it including umidigi, elephone etc infact motorola and huawei have similar circular design out there.
Technology MarketRe: The Xiaomi Thread Store by seunfly: 11:54pm On Mar 09, 2020
ssANIKUDIss:
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Mi Note 10 6GB/128GB ₦173,000
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Mi 9T 6GB/128GB ₦119,500
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Dou have samsung s 10 lite? How much?
Technology MarketRe: The Xiaomi Thread Store by seunfly: 9:06pm On Mar 09, 2020
Ifedith:
High quality 11d tempered glass for Redmi Note 7... 1300
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Huawei y9 prime Tempered glass... 1300
Original SanDisk (with scratch for verification) 64GB 100mb/s. Memory card... 4k
Original Romoss Sw20 pro 20000mah powerbank with fast charging of powerbank and device, pd charging, qc3.0 charging...10k...(free romoss medusa cable for first 3 Customers)
Original 3.5A Romoss Medusa 3 in 1 cable... 2500

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Redmi airdots... 7900
Mi band 4... 10k
Redmi 7a...2gb 32gb..29930
Redmi 8a... 2gb 32gb... 36k
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Redmi note 8 4gb 64GB... 63k
Redmi Note 8 4gb 128gb...71k
Redmi note 8 pro 6gb 128gb... 90k
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Mi A3 4gb 128gb...74k
Mi 9t... 6gb 128gb 105k
mi note 10...180k...+ free mi band 10
Galaxy a10s... 2gb 32gb..38500
Galaxy a20s 3gb 32GB.. 51k
Samsung galaxy a30s 4gb /64gb 65400
Samsung Galaxy A50 4GB/128GB 89700
Samsung galaxy A70 6gb/128gb 114k
Samsung galaxy a80 8gb/128gb.. 152800k
Galaxy s10 210k
Galaxy s10 plus 235k
Galaxy note 10 lite...184k
Galaxy note 10 251300k
Galaxy note 10 Plus 293400k
IPhone 11 pro ...384500k
IPhone 11 pro max... 440k
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Umidigi a5 pro 4gb 32gb...37500
Umidigi power... 44900
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Good evening, pls do u have samsung galaxy s 10 lite and how much?
PhonesRe: Mediatek Officially Introduces Helio P95 Chipset by seunfly: 6:04pm On Mar 08, 2020
Op abeg stop mentioning tecno when we are talking about powerful chips, we all know tecno is stock at mediatek p22 andthe besttrasdon can ever use is p35.
HealthRe: Coronavirus: Cameroon Records First Case Of Deadly Virus by seunfly: 3:52pm On Mar 06, 2020
InvertedHammer:
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In 2019, US recorded about 15000 death from flu while about 280,000 were hospitalized for it.

In 2020, so far we have 3412 deaths, 100,678 cases and 55,991 recovered globally from Coronavirus.Globally? Yes!

In other words, flu virus was more deadly in USA alone than Coronavirus has been globally. Why all the fearmongering? I still point to financial markets and wealth-redistribution which happens approximately every 10 years. The noise about Coronavirus is not worth it. New World Order agenda is in progress. When the dust settles, we shall know what they have up their sleeves.

If you have enough equity, load up when the stock market crashes.

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The real target was China, since the uncrollable rise of China, American has been doing all it can to bring China down to no avail, they v even tried to dismantle China manufacturing strength by placing tarif on made in China and by placing supply embargo on American companies from selling some key component for electronic manufacting to China. They plan to replace cheap labour China's industrial capacity with India, combodia, Vietnam etc immediately after corona virus issue the first place Trump visited was India and Modi even brag about replacing China after the visit.
EducationRe: Akin Baruwa Jailed 21 Years For Raping Admission Seeker by seunfly: 5:04pm On Feb 20, 2020
Ok
RomanceRe: CAC Pastor Sleeps With Man's Wife And Tries Sleeping With Daughter (Video) by seunfly: 10:15am On Feb 10, 2020
Ok
TV/MoviesRe: Ultimate Love Reality Show 2020 Thread by seunfly: 8:57pm On Feb 09, 2020
Ok
PhonesRe: Apple Fined For Slowing Down Old Iphones by seunfly: 7:25am On Feb 09, 2020
What do u expect when people's brain has been replaced with foam, they are just plain stupid and will claim loyal. The worst is thinking yours is the best just because it is more expensive yet.
Car TalkRe: Which Car Was Your First Car? by seunfly: 7:06am On Feb 09, 2020
Mine is 307, the car is great but it is too complicated for naija mechanic.
Everything about the car is electrical and it can develop electrical fault at any time. Imagine common seat belt is electrically linked to airbag and small fuse issue will render the seat belt unusable, that is how complex the car is.

I v made up my mind that my next car will certainly be Japanese probably Toyota or Honda, bye bye to European cars, they are just too complicated for our mechanics.
FamilyRe: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by seunfly:
Octopusssy:
She is not complaining that he is eating food. Her grouse is he is going to the pot at will without her permission.
So what can will call that?
How many times will I seek permission to eat from the pot?
Anty I want to go to the pot kindly permit me? How many times in a day, week and so on? Just tell me you don't want me in that house, that is all.

Like I v said before, it seems the op does not have job otherwise you wont even have time for permission to eat.
Like somebody said, she needs wisdom otherwise she is stylishly dividing the brothers and with little time the mother and father too will follow.

Honestly this is the least thing someone should complain about in laws especially brother in law, it is just too petty for me.
To add, any family that sees food or pot as a special place that nobody can go without specially permit is suffering from poverty mentality and needs to grow up, in this day you don't need that old poor thinking where everybody have to wait to serve everybody and people will queue to take their food. Common who still does that? People should enter kitchen to prepare what ever they think suite them provided they are not wasteful and over doing whatever they are doing.

Imagine, she still said she perseved smoke when she came back from market, that the boy has fried yam and washed the yam plate. Does that not ring a bell to you that someone is monitoring brother inlaw's action and brother inlaw's was also trying to cover up his actions so that she would not know he has eaten.
What kind of person does that for God's sake? I don't blame her, I blame the brother in law who can't borrow himself sense and move to his father's house or the husband who can't put a stop to that nonsense.

The question is, will she be happy with her thinking and actions 50 years from now when she is more muture, wise and expose? I really don't think so.
FamilyRe: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by seunfly: 6:31am On Feb 07, 2020
pocohantas:
Not only akwa Iboms, growing I knew a lot of aunties that you dare not enter their kitchen and they were not from Akwa Ibom. Come be to dish from their pot. I don't know why some people are acting woke here, whereas their mothers dished for them and they picked from the eldest to the youngest- in that order. grin

Some women don't care, some do. Their different sentiments to kitchen and private places shouldn't be discarded.

OP should simply tell him her kitchen is personal to her. Not too late to address issues.
The issue for me is not about dishing food or eating, I see op has serious problem and dishing is just the first lame excuse. From her story, the brother in law has been doing this even b4 they married which means that is how they do in thier family. Why did she not correct that before marriage, atleast both husband and his brother would know who they are dealing with and everybody will adjust accordingly.

I got married first before most of my friends and they see how happy I'm in my marriage so they always come to me for advice when they were dating, they will tell me characters of each of their babes and seek my opinion about it. What I normally tells them is that, their is no perfect human bieng, just highlight their strength and weaknesses, check if their strength complement your weakness and if you can cope with their weakness. Imagine a woman that hide something as critical as dishing food, she has really mislead the husband to think she is friendly type. That is why I feel she will bring out more excuse against the mother in law, father in law and her husband in the future.
FamilyRe: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by seunfly: 6:17am On Feb 07, 2020
Octopusssy:
Oh yes I am. What you see is what you get. I don't give shit_, so I don't accept it. I'm very easygoing until you invade my territory.

The reason why some people have problems in their marriage is they pretend to be who they aren't. Let everyone know you and what you're capable of so that all of creation will bear witness that you never hid your true nature.
This is exactly my problem with this girl, she saw what the brother in law used to do before she married his brother, she did not see any wrong in it only for her to starts seeing wrong after marrying his brother. Honestly she is evil to me.
I will gladly convince my brother not to marry you or stay away from his family if my brother decided to marry a woman that is so petty to complain about me eating food in my brother's house.

If she had complained from the begginging, they would have known what she can tolerates and what she can't. Her husband would have evaluate himself to see if he can cope or not before marriage. Honestly I feel sorry for the husband, the brother in law and her entire in laws because this complain will not only ends with brother in law, it will move onto mother and eventually father.
Nairaland GeneralRe: What's Your Most Embarrassing Moment In Public? by seunfly: 9:37pm On Feb 06, 2020
donstan18:
I've got many, but I'll tell one.

During my 100lvl registration then in school. Any graduate or student can relate how stressful, tiring and crowded it use to be doing registrations.

It was so sunny that very day with crowd of freshers everywhere, i got tired at some point and decided to get some rest under a tree. Unbuttoned the first two buttons of my long sleeve shirt for air while getting some rest

Some minutes later, a very big yellow-headed lizard fell from the tree and found its way inside my singlet[Singlet was tucked in my jeans], I screamed so high and got the attention of 99% of students there, while trying to make way for lizard by pulling my singlet from my jean, I ended up opening another way for the lizard to jump inside my boxer. At that moment, I shouted and nervously got confused that I couldn't differentiate my prick from the lizard in my boxer because both of them were dangling and dancing around as I was screaming and rehearsing makossa dance in public, jumping around the tree shouting and behaving like a mad man.cheesy People couldn't help because they don't know how to, rather, some were laughing and shouting in amusement.grincheesy

As God had it, i successfully dragged the lizard out, it jumped out, nodded its head and was there looking at me like a fool instead of running, out of anger of embarrassment, I chased the lizard with my tattered clothes and ended up falling down while the lizard escaped.cheesy People were laughing as I was, just so FVCKING EMBARRASSED and PISSED that I was so ashamed to even stand and clean my cloth.grin

Fortunately, two ladies from the crowd stepped forward, helped me picked my scattered files and cleaned my clothes[Thou they were smiling and laughing while helping], and I had to laugh too in shame.grin

Nna eh! I just jejely gather morale waka comot, find okada begin dey go my lodgegrin

Registration no be by force!!
Very funny scenario.
FamilyRe: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by seunfly: 8:17pm On Feb 06, 2020
Etiyeokwe:
Op, you are not far from a bad woman. From agreeing with your husband that no visitor will stay beyond two weeks in your house to your brother-in law should not go to the kitchen to scoop food when he is hungry. You noticed this when you were still dating but pretended to endure it in order not to lose out. Three months into the marriage, you want him to stop.
Op, what are you?
Do you have parents? What about siblings? If your mother comes to your house, she should not stay beyond two weeks? What about your mother -in -law?
I used to visit my elder brother when I was in school. She would always ask me to go to the kitchen and take food. Today, I am married. I have a cousin brother who usually comes to our house. Sometimes my wife will be in the store when he visits. She usually releases the house key to him and asks him to go the house and eat.
Sorry Op, are you from Mbaise? Those people? Dem sabi only me and my husband.
@ I want peace. Kindly note this.
FamilyRe: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by seunfly: 6:00pm On Feb 06, 2020
Exodora:
He will find his way out of the house and tries it else where.Guuussssh I feel I like slapping somebody already!!!!!
May be they way u were brought up, in our house anybody can cook and you dish yourselves. Infact my wife and mother in law are happy with this and wished they had done that in their family because I go to kitchen anytime I'm hungry and I cook my meal while my younger brother also do thesame thing, infact my wife and mother in law love my younger brother's food more and told me behind my wife's back that he is a better cook than my wife.
I really don't see any problem in this thing, I guess op is jobless and domineering kind of person who always want unnecessary attention and reference. Like I said before op is the one with problem here, you saw him do it before marriage and u did not talk but u want to change it just 3 months after marriage. You lure the man and his family to accept u before showing her colour. Who is next, mother in law abi?
FamilyRe: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by seunfly: 5:51pm On Feb 06, 2020
Ginaz:
I stayed good 6 months at a friend’s family house. I never went to the pot to serve without first asking, sometimes I would wait for my friend to indicate interest to eat and we go together to serve our meal. That is respect. Humans are very funny , you think they don’t notice everything but they do.

I don’t want a situation I go and serve at anytime I want then it would bring talks of me feeling too much at home to the extent I serve food “anyhow” or she likes “eating too much ,” na only food she dey go pot go serve”.

There are boundaries and I try my best to follow them in everything I do. So far you are under someone’s roof, so far you are not the one making important decisions in the house ... kindly respect everything that has to do with the owner of the house.

It shows respect and it’s no way demeaning at all to ask for permission to serve. If it is so demeaning then start brining in money for cooking so you can serve as you want .

Don’t go and serve with reckless abandon a food you don’t bring a kobo for. Show some respect and coordination.
That is friends family not your direct brother or sister.
Remember they have been brothers for 20something years and are used to doing this all the time, the op even said he used to do it even when they were courting which means that is how they v living. If she refused to change it because she does not want to look bad why complain now especially less than 4 months of marriage. You need to know that the brother in law still sees the place has his house and doest need any permission to eat in his brother's house.
I thank God for the kind of wife I have, she is not petty human being that ordinary food is issue in the house. Jesus!!!! Can't believe people like this still exist, it must be poverty mentality.
FamilyRe: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by seunfly: 5:29pm On Feb 06, 2020
Shallypop:
It's not about being tolerant but showing a sense of responsibility. How can a man dip his hand into his brother's wife cooking pot. When I'm pregnant, my hubby cooks at times but tell me to dish it cos he can put his hand in d pot.If it was a SIL, I could tolerate but a man, tufiaka. Let's call a spade a spade, It is all shades of wrong. Some soup get sour if different hands gets into it. Eg Egusi soup. @ OP, just be patient cos I know u are very upset in order no to overreact. Inlaw wahala can actually break a marriage. If u love your marriage, just tolerate him for the time being.
@ Iwantpeace
"Dips hand" made me conclude that the woman is not tolerant and she is looking for any excuse to paint the brother in law bad. Her headline says dips hand but her write up says damaged my spoon. She is just the kind of my hubby, my thing, my property type. Abeg what is big deal about kitchen that she shouting my kitchen, my food, my pot. Some people can really give themselve headache over nothing. In our house, you dish yourself with dignity and satisfaction, provided you are not wasteful and over reaching.

This is one of the reasons family have issues with wife and she did not know she caused it. What the guy has been doing before her husband met her, probably they v been doing it since childhood, just because u married him 3months ago, you suddenly wants to stop it. Why don't u stop it when you were dating so that the brothers will know the kind of woman she is and her husband will decide if he can cope with her.
FamilyRe: What’s The Weirdest Thing A Visitor Has Done In Your House/home? by seunfly: 4:40am On Feb 05, 2020
pek:
Mine was with my elder brother. He visited from Abuja to Lagos just before my wedding. Asked me for a loan that things weren't okay with him at the moment. I promised to help settle him later after my wedding. He asked me how much I was paying for the accommodation. I told him. He asked if he could stay and be paying for one room. I declined.
He came with his family for the wedding and his family was allotted one out of the four rooms in the duplex ( all en suit). Days after wedding, bros didn't go. I had extra five mouths to feed. Unplanned and little prepared for. Four weeks passed, no leave no transfer. The last straw was when I saw the wife's panties on the door. She didn't hang it in the bathroom, on the bathroom door, in the wardrobe or anywhere in their room. But on the door leading to the room. I was mad. Had to go see my uncle who sent for him. He left the following morning.
Okoroawusa:
Your brother was going through a difficult time n you didn't even notice....uwa nka sef
I was crying reading this, you are so insensitive to ur brother. For a man to leave his home and moved his whole family to a relatives/friend's house means a very rough time has hit him which could happen to anybody. You don't have to accommodate him, but the least you can do was to support him in the best way you can.
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo And Wife, Modele Celebrate 20th Wedding Anniversary by seunfly:
Organs:
@Frog12, I guess english comprehension is your problem.


@Seunfly, I know the case was 20 years ago, however, she mentioned at least two sisters and her brother Tunde, she also mentioned two pastors the Wole Soetan (She'd said PH branch) and another minister Flow (Folarin Ogunsola) knew about her reporting the case then and the pastors begged her and talked about how Fatoyinbo was in the cult and lived wild prior and still taming his demons etc. Now, this case was thrown out cos it was 20 years ago. However, the people mentioned did not come out to deny it. Also, Ese's case in london was consensual however she'd said when she met with the pastor again talking about the guilt she felt, he asked for them to meet and tried to come at her again... and she now called a pastor in lagos and reported it. So, in all of this, YOU, Seunfly and Frog12, defending this guy are the unreasonable ones here. For society to function, there is circumstantial evidence for this guy not leading or standing as examples to others and saying enemies of progress etc. That is why we have all the service chiefs and Buhari as leaders today. The best amongst us are not the ones leading and making decisions for us.
Lol... Defend?? Where did you see defence in my statement? If u read properly without bias to judge anybody, ur eyes would have seen where I mentioned that only God knows who is telling the truth.
However you don't judge people based on one side statement and infomation of one party. Ese Walter did not accuse him of rape and he never confirm nor deny Ese Walter's case and silence can be assumed to be affirmation. We can hold him accountable based on moral ground particularly his church members but Bosulo's case is criminal and he came out to deny it.
What I simply said is for her to bring the said witness u claimed knew about the rape case and present to court if it is credible enough.
What u guys is simply saying is that I can claim you raped me, tell my family members and tell one or two of ur friends. Can you call those ones witness? Will court of law convict me with that?
If you deny it, is fair to you that people just judge you or stigmatised because of my mere allegation?

If Bukola had claimed it was consentual like Ese Walter, I would have believed her more because there is precidence which he never deny or confirm.

We should stop all this sentiments and bandwagon judgment, we should look at things as objective as possible not from victim and predator's point of view because sympathy fuels our biases. That is why celebrities, women, anti church establishment etc assumed he was guilty where as pro church establishment, anti celebrity and some men assumed Busola is lieing, this are levels of biaseness which is nature of human being. They always want you to pick a side, either for or against, they don't believe u can be objective, once you disagree, you are against them and in support of the other side.

We still have alot to learn in Nigeria, otherwise our society will continue to be in chaos and leadership in political, religious and media settings will continue to manipulates us to gain whatever they wants.

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