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believer01:
i almost cry while reading your comment like u feel and see what i am going through

andromida:
Buy the Naija girl what she wants. You are buying it for her not for yourself since you know flowers mean nothing to her buy what means something for her.

Monikween:
Giving flowers is not part of d dating culture in Nigeria... nd If u don't buy ur woman gifts another man will... u guys should just grow up

vickylois:
Thanks

komzyb:
Gbam!!so where do we start from now?

misssclassy:
[color=#000050]Since you are using marriage as a benchmark for testing genuine love, are you saying that all marriages that are still standing are doing so on the basis of the genuine love between both partners?
The answer is No.
Most times it's just as a result of other reasons such as the sake of their children, how they would be perceived by their religious institutions they belong especially the ones that kick against divorce..etc
The love they shared has already been long lost.

However, two people could be genuinely in love but due to certain factors, not be able to get married, but yet,the love they feel for each other would be able to wax strong in front of opposition.

Let's take for example two people who love each other but can't stay together because of their religious differences. If they both decide to defy their religion, families and lives they had and run away to live alone in a far away country, and after traveling to this country to live together, one of them suddenly dies on the first day of arrival.
Now since you can't use marriage as a scale to judge, would you still say that they weren't genuinely in love with each other, after all they did?

You made a comment that if you were married, you would never leave your wife for anything. Would you be doing that because you love her or because of the vow you made to be together?

misssclassy:
[color=#000050]Whether the love I felt is dead and buried is no ones business and you have no proof to state such claim.
One thing is certain though. True love abounds and flourishes when it is sustained and reciprocated. When it isn't reciprocated it loses it's value and it fades away.

Yes true love can be tested through marriage but marriage isn't the only means by which it can be tested.[/color]

ronald4lif:
Okay good. Unlike you I don't believe in true love as to me, love is subjected to one's circumstance and their abilities to meet a partners interest. Now this interest varies and pointless earmarking them.

If love is true, it won't ask questions and it won't set standards. But that's not the case as people already have a premonition or a picture of who they're going to fall in love with even before meeting them. True love is parallel to real love and love can't be real if it's dependent on factorables.

As per the topic, I won't bat an eyelid to dump her ass if I'm faced with such option.

laykorn:
Welcome back, sir.

*whistling*

Deejavuu:


Real talk!!

[color=#000030]I always keep it 100% real. [/color]

ronald4lif:
You're wasting your time with these people. Your level of reasoning and probably response to reactiveness to practicality is not in par with theirs. You see, they won't blink an eye if offered half of that amount before dumping their partner. Lying to one's self doesn't equate to reality.

misssclassy:
[color=#000050]My emphasis is not on marriage but on genuine/true love.
Being married doesn't signify that true love abounds. You have reached an agreement, you have made a vow of union.....blah blah blah
But what seals the agreement is the bond of love.
That same love can still be felt by those who aren't married.

You used BBA as an example. But I bet you, none of those ladies or guys were genuinely in love with their partners. If they were they wouldn't trade their love on a platter of gold.

Sexxkillz from every indication It's obvious you haven't truly loved before. [/color]

Midehi:
if both of you aint married yet, that means you both are not sincere to each other, so money can break your relationship.

lets see it this way, assuming a richer dude approach your gf you love so much with 5, 000 000 to quit you for him,she accept, how will you feel? what will you call her?

misssclassy:
[color=#000050]So two people can't be dating each other with the intention of getting married?
Are you trying to say that it's impossible for any couple that's not under the umbrella of marriage to "truly" love each other?

Okay let's use this scenario. Let's say you have a fiance who you "truly love" and want to marry. If you are stuck in this dilemma, would you choose the money over her?[/color]

Midehi:
just hear you..you guys sucks sometimes!