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I miss him a lot. Everything I do reminds me of him even the TV & music I listen to. He used to compile music for me so I still have all of them so its hard to forget. And when he came back & wanted me to take him back I had forced the No. And now I try by all means to avoid him, last he called I didn't pick and he just send me text last night. Anyway now I'm trying to move on(as hard as it is),

alanrewaju:
I'm a graduate while she's in SS3. We got along fine d first few days but after a week i'm just didn't feel that thing anymore probably because our issues are so different. While she wants to talkabout her school peeps i'm thinking of where 2 apply 2 which she finds boring.
the truth is I just want a way out without hurting her. She's kind of so excited about having a Graduate Bf.how do I get out?

The same u told her you are interested.

@ Pinky lady & Ujujoan

What I'm saying is that a person will let u know what they want u to know about them. So u will neva really know someone not that one has to wait 10 years to know a person they gonna get married 2. It might even that six month if you feel like hez d right person. Depends really, no guarantees in this life!

whitesturd:
[b]I quite agree wiht d poster.long courtships are better than short.people nowadays go into marriage wtout realy knowing the other party,,like what he does 4 a living,d kinda family he/she comes from,their likes/dislikes,the kinda disease running in the family,e.t.c.dey end up getting married and realize that dey no little or next to nothing about each other.[/b]d poster is right wn he said girls leave their long time b/f to go afta a millionaire dy just met.it happened 2 a girl i know who left a guy she had been datin for 6 yrs 4 a new guy who jst got bk 4rm yankee 2 get a wifey.d guy is fuckin loaded and my babe jst disharge de long time b/f fast fast and de yankee guy carry am go.d marriage dnt last 6months.believe me

I've realize that it takes forever to know a person. You can be with some for 10 years and not really know that person. People let you know what they want you to know about them, if s/he still want you around s/he will show the side that s/he is nice and everything, and when s/he already got you when s/he wants you then you will see true colors of a person.
You can never really know someone!

Last time i told a guy "i need space/break" was when i had enuf of dt r/s & was breakn up wit him in a polite manner(bt ofcz i had 2 tel it as it was since he didnt get it). So if a guy wud d same 2 me i wil accept it as an end & give him all d space he needs as he wont see my face eva again.

I hate repeating myself each & every time, this seem to be common prob lately.
SexyLemon is right, get rid of her. What happened to pple doing things for themselves these days? But before I call ur gf a gold digger, lemme blame u first 4 turning her into that or allowing her to do that to u. U shud learn to say NO sometimes(eva heard of tough luv). Are u with her bcoz u feel sori 4 her or bcoz u luv her as ur gf, if u luv her as ur gf then start treating her like a normal gf instead of a charity case and tell her to stop asking u money(she was surviving b4 meeting u, wsnt she?).

Gud 4 u. But im curious, how did u work it out if u didnt pay?

Its boring

@ Uju
My prev r/s ended coz my ex cheated on me while we were on long distance r/s, found out abt it six months later when he moved 2 my city & d gal he ws cheatin wit started stalking me & he denied d whole thing.

When i said d new guy is like him, I meant look alike thing like hiz smile & how he speaks even have dimples like ex doesnt mean they have same qualities or act d same way.

U knw wt i used 2 say 2 those wu busy makin sure u not under 18 when u wnt 2 enter a club dt they shud make another rule 4 no ova 40. It shud b from 18-40, so dt grown up men wil b spendin much time wit their families.

Ebonyeyes:
Eggggggzactly. They dont want their wives spending their money but they are prepared to spend money on 25yr old gals.

Guyz like those wu spend their money blv me, even if u nt a wife & u cn provide everytn 4 urself ur guy wil follow those wu only wnt 2 spend hiz money i dnt knw y.

Ebonyeyes:
Me too, gfs seem to be taken care of compared to the wives

They are reli d happy ones, they get spoiled in every aspect . How many men takes their wife clubbing or even out @ all? You will see all these ova 40yrs guyz in a club wit young gals leavin their wives @ home.

Ebonyeyes:
Hunny you are so right. They are confused creatures.

Very. If one were 2 choose 2 b a gf material or wife material, i wud choose 2 b a gf material. Lol!

Was jus thinkin d same thing

africhika:
never settle for a jealous man wth bad temper. it's not worth it

Excatly.

Some gals have suffered. Imagine me havin 2 b some dude's putchin bag, in dis my fine face, HELL NO!!!

sexyLeamon:
o okk now dat u have left him, the second step is forgeting him.

That was i was doing until this fellow wu smiles exactly like him pitched up. Lol, kinda funny!

africhika:
sexybabes, i understand your concern. your afraid this new guy may be like the old one becuz they are so similar. it's understandable.

i would say, try to concentrate on what is DIFFERENT about this new guy and not on what is similar.
let this new guy show u who HE is. let him lead u. don't put him on a comparison table. see him as brand new.

I know it wud b unfair 2 this guy 2 b judge based on some1 else's mistake. I know they are 2 different individuals obviously they have different qualities but they have same features, before i cud read & learn his qualities i have to pass in his features, and d way he smiles @ me & talk to me it immediately  takes me back coz i recognize it. Hope i'm makin sense here.

poster, must u wait until he puts u on d wheelchair 4 u 2 know dt dis r/s in not gud 4 u?

Q U I T!

sexyLeamon:
let get real here hun, you still love him, and don't want hime back

yes dear coz he cheated on me & cnt trust him no more.

Lol guyz, lemme not lie here. I still like(love wateva u call it) my ex bt dnt want him back(he begged me so many times & still). Now i wana move on, met a guy i like but in some way got all his(ex) features. How do i date/spend time with this guy without thinking abt d past.

Ive bn laughin my lungs out readin these replies.

Wht happened 2 buyn urself a fone wn in need of 1? Personally i wudnt wnt any guy wuz nt my broda or my dad buyn me a fone evn if its my bf.