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GEW:
more like why are people in love so confussing or why do people complicate love? love is not confusing.

Still goes down to the confusing part coz if it wasn't like that we wud all be happy and end up with the people that we supposed to be with.

@pc guru
I dont know if i will be settling for less but what i do know is that we have been through a lot together and I wanted him to apologize a long time, he just took his damn time to do that, that is why I was even moving on and the experience i got from this next guy showed me his own wahala was better than this one.

I think I understand this now. Because I broke up with my guy i dated for 2years coz he cheated on me. Dated a very honest guy whom i don't think he will ever cheat on me but he is got a baby mama drama. He just found out that mother of his twins moved in at his house back home and now his parents are insisting that he marry her, they even sending her here to him soon. And im not even interested in fighting this coz its a loosing battle.
So now I'm considering getting back with my guy as he has been apologizing and begging me to take him back. Why is this love thing so confusing?

Romeo4real:
@ammanat - Why do u persist in dragging this story on!!. As i said in my previous post, i suspect there is part of you that does not want this to end. Let him keep them. Its not the end of the world afterall. JUST LEAVE THE THINGS AND MOVE ON!!

Excatly. Mayb she stil wana communicate wit da guy

ammamat:
@ benheart,  yeah  i can't go to police,  even trying to talk to his senior sis,  she was just laughing,  guess he has gone to meet his sister and tell her everything that has happen.

Well when i return from work yesterday, i met him at my place,  with some gift and food stuff which i did not give a dam ,  and he was really looking like someone that has been sick for some days.

I tried not to talk to him but i could not help.

He returns every other things to me exception of my passport, i asked him why  still keeping my pasport, he said  because am still angry with him and my action shows that i don't want him agian blabla bla,

Dont stress about the passport it can be replace easily. Jus let him keep it.

benheart:
Ok. see i told you he still wants you that was why he took does things, just play cool with him for now so that he can return your passport, then show him the door.

[b]If he buys you gift, my dear collect it [/b]but be very careful dont fall for him again if not what he will do next will be worst and keep your things away from his sight when you have gotten your passport.

U r nt serious. U want him collect more things from her?

Moving on is the hardest thing one has to do but have to.
But what do you when you told your self that you are moving on
& even dated someone else and the person you love is coming back
to apologise and you realize you not over him? It is very difficult also
because u dnt knw & not sure about where you moving to if its not gona
be worse than the one you were at. I ges thats why pple keep on goin back.

IFELEKE:
and you, Are you not supposed to be a Jury In Training?

I am suppose to be a Jury In Training, but whose training me?

Is it me or is it hot in here?

Then she can be considered for the post.

She does Your Honor, therefore she is disqualified for the position. Or was she found not guilty?

Don't have pending case anywhr. Im clean. Lol!!!
I give u full permission 2 check my criminal record. Nt evn blacklisted.

IFELEKE:
citizen sexybabes
Point noted and admitted as written suggestion.
I have decided to increase the size of my jury by admitting new jurors that will hold sanity and sanctity in my honourable court. The work is too much for oxone alone so i am placing requests out for new members.
Interested citizens can apply to my office.
On the issue of neglected cases,parties involved are to blame because i remembered giving instructions to honorable oxone to dispatch written notice to all parties with pending cases in my court to bring forth their attorney so we could commence proceedings on their cases.
Any one with pending cases can bring them forth again for judicial intervention.Citizens busy body and Agaba123 can bring up their case now, The Court Is in Full Session.

Thank you Your Honor. Now seems like we are going somewhere.

He used 2 pick, checks my text, call logs, etc without any permission from me & i dnt do dt 2 him.
We once had a big argument abt it, nt bcz im hiding anythn bt hez invading my privacy & smtngs r private.
eg. wt my gf's & i text 2 each other he dsnt hv 2 knw, mayb we discussing him(wt wil he do). or wt my sista text 2 me(family matters).

@IFELEKE
Your Honer, if i may speak!    *[size=5pt]coughs[/size]*
With all due respect Your Majesty, this ur Courtroom is not in Order at all.
Your Jury is doing anyhow except their jobs.
Cases keep being neglected without any follow up, or are u loosing dockets or what?(if so, its an inside job).
Iv been sitn(observing) in this Courtroom since it started, i don tire.
What happened to Busy_body & Agaba123's case?

tenry:
our wedding is 3months from now and she invited this guy to my house whom she claimed accommodated her when she was homeless during her NYSC in sokoto last year .According to her she reported late to her PPA and all the ladies did not accommodate her except this guy that rescued her.They lived together in the same room thrughout the service year.she sees this guy as a perfect being different from others and she invited her purposely for me to appreciate all he did for her.i was very mad with her for keeping this from me while it lasted.fellow nairalanders i find it difficult to believe this story,what do you think?

@poster
Just have 1 question for you:
Was she dating you all the time she was staying with this guy & did not tell you?

@Topic
It is possible to be friends with a guy or even stay with him without being involve romantically or sexually.
So don't jump into conclusions or start doubting your fiance just because of that. Sit her down and ask her
in details about the the relationship she have with this guy, it could be friendship as she said. I'm sure she
will tell you everything.
Since I was young I relate to guys more than I relate to ladies(prolly coz i grew up wit my brodas).
When I was in high school I used to have this close friend of mine who was a guy, and sometimes
we would sleep in the same room, and sometimes in the same bed just look different sides. And he was just a
friend(neva had sex with him & he neva made a move on me, was even a virgin then), and still is just that I moved
to another town so we see each other once a year maybe. And he sees me as a sister he never had. Also depends on
how the guy see her. I don't have to tell my bf about that now not that I'm keeping it from him, I just don't see the point.
That is why I'm asking the question I asked you. Cause if you were together when she was staying with this guy
and she didn't tell you then you should ask her why she kept it from you.

Fighting 4 a guy isn't worth it. Personally i wudnt, there is 2 much fish in the sea. But the poster shud jus say she ws fighting bcz Rose provoked her, she had 2 put her in her place nt bcz she ws fightin 4 a man. Lol!!! I wonda if they killed each other in that house when he locked them in. Lmao!!!

slimfine:
nope! a lady can drink whatever she choose to but in moderation! I can never understand the concept of drinking oneself to stupor. quite irresponsible for both men and women

Gud gal. Then dnt mind wt da guyz in dis forum are sayn.

slimfine:
many of the guys who responded to this topic

And what about you? Do u see anything wrong with it?

slimfine:
for the first time I am re-examining my drinking habit.

I must be bad then since I drink henny without coke

Says who?

erico2k2:
A lady who drinks and sleep arround.

I fully understand that. That means u dnt have a problem with a lady who drinks alcohol.
People shud understand that not everybody who drinks alcohol end up getin laid. And not everybody who drinks get drunk. It differs on individuals.

erico2k2:
@ sexybabes
which of them would bother you most if the reverse was the case eh?

I ges it wud be a guy who can't control hiz liquer & himself when he drinks. If he drinks responsible, i dnt have a prob wit that

C2H5OH:
https://i43.tinypic.com/2vdr1cp.jpg

Yhiooo nw i think we need PG

@ erico & luxiore
Sori guyz im nt tryn 2 spoil ur date. Forgive me!

@GUYZ in da house
Jus a quest 4 u.  Cn u tel me which 1 bothers u da most
1. A lady who drinks alcohol
2. A lady who drinks in a bar
3. A lady who get drunk
4. A lady who drinks & sleep around

Thez reasons why i ask these quests coz thez a difference.If u guyz cn ansa me then i cn tell u da difference.

Tickle her.

kalmebad:
That i agree with

I personally don't drink, and when i do, thats very light
This won't leave me to condem those who does, but how recklessly one indulges in it, should count i think

Exactly.

Two days ago, my girlfriend agreed to escort me to buy a form at a bank a bit far from my house. when we got to the place, we discovered the bank did not even sell the form at all. i was then directed to another branch which was like from one end of lagos to the other end(very far). she then asked me when the form was to close and i told her the next day. so she began to blame me for my non challant attitude towards the form. i tried to calm her but instead she got more angry and blamed even even more. i asked her to stop and not to get me angry cos i was trying to figure what to do next cos going to the prescribed bank does not mean i would get it there. she said "it is better you get angry" and continued. i grew upset and asked her to please go back home. she then i should put her in a bus which i was about doing when i had a rethink and asked her if she was still interested in going home but to my amazement she said if she should follow me, it isn't her father and mother that gave birth to her so she left. eventually, i got the form.

the next morning i went to her place to plead for what i did. after a serious begging session, she said "mo ti gbo". but ever since then her behavior towards me is unusual until this afternoon when i called and she told me she would stop behaving like that if and only if i take her the place i embarrassed her and pleaded to her there. i agreed to do that so i asked when she would be chanced so we could go then she said august 15th and that until then she would continue to act like she is doing now. i was speechless, i just had to cut the phone call. i am confused. i love her very much.

Lmao!!! this part reminds me when my ex called 2 ask when can he see me & i said next year may(simple mean i don't wana see him),

Ournaija:
@poster
You beg to toast her, you beg for her to accept, you beg her to follow you to the bank, you beg her to calm down, you beg her to go home, you beg her to receive your calls, you beg her to accept your begging, you beg her to stop acting the way she is doing, you beg her to take her to the spot of the incident, You beg her into marriage and on and on .

If you continue with this shit of begging your children will stand up and curse you . Abeg wake up and stop begging.

Laughin my lil behind off!!!

@poster
Stop begging bros abeg. Leave her till august 15(that's 2 far) she'll also be tired by then & realize that she made u beg 4 notn & then she will be begging u & u can start ur own shakara then(jokin, Lol!!!).

@poster

I personally don't see anything wrong with a woman drinking alcohol(black or white). Drinking alcohol doesn't make one an alcoholic if its controllable and used responsible. If you were talking about a drunk person(man or woman), I would understand were you are coming from cause that's not pretty picture believe me but saying women only should not drink because they are women, that's rubbish.

I save him as hiz name while he save me as "sweet chocolate"(surprising he neva changed it evn wn we were apart)

@Poster

NO. Why do u wana eat ur frnd's left overs anyway?

@ poster

I don't wana say neva but i don't see myself going there. I have neva dated a guy younger than me or the same age with me, its something i'm just not comfortable with, But hey who knows!!!

I can but i don't have to, in fact i used to do my ex bf laundry and i enjoyed it even though where i stay i use washing machine but when i was at his place i was doing it with my hands(he neva thought i cud coz i luk like those type of ladies who can't do anything, who always make sure they look their best). Anyway we used to do house chores together and it was  fun. What i hate is when a person start to think that its my duty or its a must, when a person start with that attitude i stop.

ThiefOfHearts:
I dont think you should go. If he wants to see him, let him find a way. As for you scurrying over to see him, makes you look desperate

Exactly!!!