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Lerato9: Ok i am a female and my best friend is a guy. We are extremely close and theres nothing we dont share with each other. We are there for each other during our highs and low points. I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. We met during nysc in Nasarawa state in 2006 and have remained close since we both relocated and work in abuja after youth corps.

Recently, though, we have been cuddling alot. When i visit him, or sleep over at his place, we end up cuddling. On the couch, bed etc,. Sometimes he is in only his boxers and i in bra and underwear alone or lingerie.

The thing is we dont even kiss or have sex but he strokes my back, neck, thighs and stomach. I also run my fingers everywhere but never touch his pe.nis.

I derive immense comfort and pleasure from these cuddles and i dont intend stopping. I absolutely trust and adore him and he treats me with utmost respect.

Are we cheating on our partners? Is it a bad thing? Is it a sin as we are both christians and fear God.

OMG i am sooooo confused!!!M

. Just explain to ur boi friend.. U ar not cheating atall, I'm sure he'll understand

[quote author=St_Black]I think you are familiar with the saying "A man is known by the company he keeps.

Sir, no offences meant, but Ill say its no surprise to me if you are one of those born into a family whose hope of living rests on the wheels of corruption, bad philosophy of life, bad governance, wanton criminality, etc that are abominations to human welfare.

It also wont be a surprise, going through your posts & patterns of judgement and contributions, that you are from men who actually will have no hope of good living through hard-earned wealth.

If your comments on NL are one to take note, then I say SORRY for your Nigeria (pls note "your Nigeria" ) . Actually, not all Nigerians are fools anymore like those who your likes have brainwashed.

Dont make a mistake man & I want you to take this from me . Not all Nigerians are the same. We dont have the same reasoning & sense of human perception. Some deem it fit to take their kinsmen of Olubunmi Etteh, Deji Bankole, Bode George, etc to the cleaners for their wrondoing. Others deem it fit to keep diseases in the human environment like Oduah, Madueke, Okonjo, etc all in the name of "He/She is ours" .

So boy, Like the wise proverb saying "All fingers are not equal , all Nigerians are not the same.

Igi Imu Jina Sori. !![/quote]dat sincerenigerian is just a fuvvktard.. Can't believe somebody will reason this way especially when he can write in english

scribble: honestly ur brain needs check up every 20,000 kilometres. I mean are u seeing d nonsense u r saying. When Bill Clinton and Monica were caught, the motive of d republicans was politics to shame him and impeach him. they did not want democrats in office u recall he shamed bush jnr by defeating him.

however bill clinton admitted his lies and apologized to the people and was forgiven.

Oduah should not ignore the electorate, because whether d motive of saharareporters is political or not, public officials should be accountable to the people.

You are saying because of what buhari did in 1972, we in 2014 should allow oduah go free. if i was seun i would ban your ilk from rearing their ugly minds on my forum. u think like a douche.

good reply bro.. Thumb up

Hw come u are so learned but d words dat u speak or write are total gabbage. All what u wrote doesn't even make any sense..

Sincere 9gerian: ^^ These are some of the things that make citizens love their country the more. I'm proud of the speed with which the govt moved in and evacuated Nigerians from that war-torn country.

speed? When did the war started? When did ur govt evacuate.. Darling these people are already saved if not, they should have been dead by now.. Next time, the gov can do better

Paris hilton

Alhamdulilai... Snoop

Pipsland78: ^^^ Even Jay Z, Kanye and Beyonce mention Jesus and even Christ in their songs even though we all know these are Illuminati kingpins.

Dont allow yourself to be deceived sir!

na u suppose be original mr olodo

Best revenge is to be successful.. E dey pain pass anything

Preboy: have u heard Yoruba in a Hollywood movie? Bt Igbo was spoken in xmen; wolverine's origin and the red sun

phat girls

Dyt: Yimu
The one wey talk pass u, we don seduce am
Infact u too small, na ur pastor be my levels

fatoyinbo

Maze of our time! Nobody go tell am b4 e runs back

Tgirl4real

XLR8: This is the thread where you can display your final NL craze for the year.

The thread where you can finally spit out whatever that had been eating you inside out, be it your crush or some nasty secrets.the person you've always admired.

A thread where you can make your final shoutouts, a thread where you can wish your fellow nairalanders happy new year.

This is also the time for those of you who wants to quit NL to bade their final goodbye.

A thread where you can tell a particular nairalander of his/her shortcomings so as to be a better person in 2014. A thread where you can tell us your upcoming new year resolutions.

The first to say happy new year at the appropriate time will surely be admired and commended. I love you guys

. I want to make a request against my mummy and my daddy , iya luku, baba basira, iya haruna, wunshi u hapinuya

I want to make a request against my mummy and my daddy , iya luku, baba basira, iya haruna, wunshi u hapinuya

Ajuran: here you go again, you drama queen. Why do you think Ethiopia and Kenya are inside Somalia? they are the enemies of Somalia and they are using negroids for their purposes of Subduing Somalia. If you had one ounce of blood you would know better.

I am actually very very liberal. That being said I am very nationalist. And I think Slavery ended in Somalia way too soon.

. See as ur fellow somali finish ur life for 31st... Bad way to end ur year

SpicyMimi: For those complaining abt getting a ping or msg and not replying. Bbm chokes atimes, i mean sometimes u just wna stay there widout typing, and sometimes chats could just flood in and u wouldnt even know where to start from...it could b so tiring replying over 30msgs and mre keep x comn in. Mostimes i just swtch my data off, relpy all d pings, swtch it on back....then after a while i swtch d data off back, cause i need to breathe. Reason why i stick to my Nokia phne mostimes.

Whew! Epistle shey? No b my fault.

ur market go soon finish na

funshint: Very valid points up there *guess U̶̲̥̅̊ used 'ur drugs today 'cos I know your head still dey touch. I'm currently treating your brother #Cheifsweetus(Yuzedo). He's also saying "hi" from here; currently giving him cerelac. Choi!

chief awo igba arun

mukina2: Babbbyyyy dadddy!!!!1

fantassssy woooraaaay!!!!!

I no tell u?

mukina2: see Remi and sissoko teaming up again

thanks Chez

ur babydaddy go soon score! Watch

Arsenal go beat dis newcastle!

Lol.. See own goal

Ha! Error, why hin comot fletcher na.. Dis is a disaster

Strange effort by young! Were

Omo rooney yi ngba nkan

Oya now let's go

Getafe vs barca

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[quote author=money-hungry ]haters trying to knock my hustle.
my people make una no mind these haters o, na the koko I yarn una oh.
I'm probably more mature n living better than these foo:ls screaming maturity and money. I go soon drop another point sef. y'all gone learn today![/quote]living better u? Na real faceless forum, now I believe. I know u are as poor as church rat

Reading ur story, I feel sorry for ur husband, first, hw do u want him to be happi without a greencard, obviously he has no live here in d state and I believe u know that, how do u want someone with no life to be happi and be a good husband, u already had it in ur mind dat he is marrying u because of greencard that's why u want everything to revolve around u, u are very selfish my dear. A lot of people here don't know how everything works here, don't listen to them, u have a baby together and he doesn't have a greencard yet? So what is he still doing with u.. We are nigerians and we are always ontop of our game, u think he is gonna just sit around without him having no life? Hw is he working? Hw are u guys paying ur bills? He has family in nigeria that needs money,how is he able to send them money? Put urself in his shoe

[quote author=money-hungry ]are u older than p.diddy. it's a thing of the mind bro. that's how we play.[/quote]. No worry na, when u ar tired, u go come back come write anoda story! And den u will be like den I was young and dum!b..