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truthCoder Best Advice for him...post=106491779:
hnmmm.

first, stop reading blogs that define relationships.

lets go practical. I speak the truth and it might hurt.

your wife and you got married not because you are best of friends but because you both seem to meet certain societal requirements you both set for yourselves. You wanted a virgin and a church girl from a good home. She wants a good man with a good job who will love her.

This is where the problem starts. You and your wife might be married but you are not friends. She needs someone to be free with and currently you are not..the pastor is.

Here is what you should do.

First ball is you. Are you the kind of guy that is not easily approachable by the wife on petty things? If you are, you need to change. She must have access to you on everything. If she thinks about ABC, she must be able to gist about it with you. Be more open. As regards sex, she is a learner...teach her...Sex is not just the penetration. Learn about taking it sloowwwww....For the next few days, make love without penetrating her. make her relaxed, give her a good massage, help her clean her ear, arrange her hair, help her try on different clothes, just lie on the bed and gist, kiss and cuddle, give her head, cut her toenails, do everything that involves touching but no penetration. This will loosen her more.

Take the pastor's phone number. Call him and tell him you are XYZ's husband. Don't allow him to 'pastorize' you. Tell him you have seen the chats and you are disappointed. Tell him he should never contact your wife again or he is going to see hell on earth. Tell him you will come into the church during service to embarrass him if he doesn't stop contacting your wife. Tell him you will report him to Winners Headquarters in Ota and via social media then hang up the call.

Next ball park is your wife. Sit her down and have this conversation with her. Tel her the most important relationship she has is the one with you. Every other one is secondary. Tell her you would love her more if she can make you her friend. If she has any thing to discuss, She should be free to do so with you. Show her love. Show her that she matters. Gist with her.

You will win her back

Barbiturate:
He obviously doesn't understand the context of the clause.

What God cannot do for me, doesn't exist. By this I mean, everything good in life! God can give me a good job, a good wife, house, car.... anything good in life that God cannot do for me, does not exist.

donstan18:
This is how stupid some men can be Always disgracing themselves on media when it has to do with women.

Just imagine, don't be surprise the man in question looks older than Airforce

It's even worse on Facebook. You'll see men of 36-60 years disgracing themselves on a little(16-20) girl' s page with lines below.

-Baby, thanks for acceptation me.
-Thanks for accepted me.
-Thanking for accept me.
-Baby, thanked is accepting me.
-Sweetheart, thanking you for acceptage me.

No respect for themselves atall.

Unibenstudent:
glorified lesbians

nairabetguru:
Mtchew!!!! After seeing her Account balance

Deepfreezer:
I've seen post of you tongue lashing people.

Deepfreezer:
always making trouble.

jingh:
who get d belle

kekakuz:
God save you say you fine
i for yab you
but how sure are we dat your boobs and harss is not fallen and flat

kekakuz:
nonesense
if she like make she no deliver like hebrew,make she deliver like gwari woman.

there are many women in villages where there are no hospitals
how should they deliver am asking you.
as if she needs your prayers.

am just so angry with everything

kekakuz:
nonesense