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Family / Re: My Wife Is Having An Emotional Affair With Her Pastor by shannexon(f): 9:29am On Oct 06, 2021
truthCoder Best Advice for him...post=106491779:
hnmmm.

first, stop reading blogs that define relationships.

lets go practical. I speak the truth and it might hurt.

your wife and you got married not because you are best of friends but because you both seem to meet certain societal requirements you both set for yourselves. You wanted a virgin and a church girl from a good home. She wants a good man with a good job who will love her.

This is where the problem starts. You and your wife might be married but you are not friends. She needs someone to be free with and currently you are not..the pastor is.

Here is what you should do.

First ball is you. Are you the kind of guy that is not easily approachable by the wife on petty things? If you are, you need to change. She must have access to you on everything. If she thinks about ABC, she must be able to gist about it with you. Be more open. As regards sex, she is a learner...teach her...Sex is not just the penetration. Learn about taking it sloowwwww....For the next few days, make love without penetrating her. make her relaxed, give her a good massage, help her clean her ear, arrange her hair, help her try on different clothes, just lie on the bed and gist, kiss and cuddle, give her head, cut her toenails, do everything that involves touching but no penetration. This will loosen her more.

Take the pastor's phone number. Call him and tell him you are XYZ's husband. Don't allow him to 'pastorize' you. Tell him you have seen the chats and you are disappointed. Tell him he should never contact your wife again or he is going to see hell on earth. Tell him you will come into the church during service to embarrass him if he doesn't stop contacting your wife. Tell him you will report him to Winners Headquarters in Ota and via social media then hang up the call.

Next ball park is your wife. Sit her down and have this conversation with her. Tel her the most important relationship she has is the one with you. Every other one is secondary. Tell her you would love her more if she can make you her friend. If she has any thing to discuss, She should be free to do so with you. Show her love. Show her that she matters. Gist with her.

You will win her back
Celebrities / Re: Daddy Freeze Disagrees With The Saying, "What God Cannot Do Does Not Exist" by shannexon(f): 7:17pm On Jun 03, 2021
God Bless You Sir...Some Peeps don't read to understand�
Barbiturate:
He obviously doesn't understand the context of the clause.

What God cannot do for me, doesn't exist. By this I mean, everything good in life! God can give me a good job, a good wife, house, car.... anything good in life that God cannot do for me, does not exist.
Celebrities / Re: Tboss Reacts After A Fan Requested Her To Be His Mother! by shannexon(f): 11:58am On May 23, 2018
donstan18:
This is how stupid some men can be embarassed Always disgracing themselves on media when it has to do with women.

Just imagine, don't be surprise the man in question looks older than Airforce embarassed

It's even worse on Facebook. You'll see men of 36-60 years disgracing themselves on a little(16-20) girl' s page with lines below.

-Baby, thanks for acceptation me.
-Thanks for accepted me.
-Thanking for accept me.
-Baby, thanked is accepting me.
-Sweetheart, thanking you for acceptage me.

No respect for themselves atall. embarassed
Honestly, You just made my day.. Can't stop Laughing, You're so on Point���

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Sports / Re: Mikel Obi A Father Of Twins? by shannexon(f): 2:46pm On Sep 18, 2015
Congrats Micky!
Religion / Re: Girl Gives Birth To Baby Boy In Oyo After Having Sex With Snake (photo) by shannexon(f): 10:16am On Apr 19, 2015
Obara Emma..
Celebrities / Re: Figure 8: Chika Ike Dressed Up In Real African Attire.. Checkout Her Shape!! by shannexon(f): 9:20pm On Apr 17, 2015
Unibenstudent:
glorified lesbians undecided
Are u still on drugs?

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Celebrities / Re: Mercy Johnson and Mary Remy Attend Movie Premiere in London by shannexon(f): 5:35pm On Feb 27, 2015
MJ always looking good...
Celebrities / Re: Muna Obiekwe Buried Today (Photos) by shannexon(f): 2:46pm On Feb 03, 2015
The news of your death is so disheartening but God knows d best...RIP MUNA!

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Family / Re: Banker Who Fell In Love With A Customer & Married Her Tells His Luv Story(Pics) by shannexon(f): 2:38pm On Feb 03, 2015
nairabetguru:


Mtchew!!!! After seeing her Account balance wink

I agree with you because most of these bankers are used to that...SMH!

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Celebrities / Re: Adaeze Yobo Finally Reveals Her Pregnancy In Style.. by shannexon(f): 11:11pm On Feb 02, 2015
Deepfreezer:
I've seen post of you tongue lashing people.
Haba!Dts nt me dude....
Celebrities / Re: Adaeze Yobo Finally Reveals Her Pregnancy In Style.. by shannexon(f): 6:06pm On Jan 31, 2015
Deepfreezer:
always making trouble.
I'm nt making any trouble,jst asked a simple question...
Celebrities / Re: Adaeze Yobo Finally Reveals Her Pregnancy In Style.. by shannexon(f): 3:20pm On Jan 31, 2015
jingh:
who get d belle
Ask ur Boyfriend....Grrrrrr!
Celebrities / Re: Woah ! World's Tallest Man Meets World's Shortest Man Today [PHOTOS ] by shannexon(f): 5:59pm On Nov 13, 2014
After seeing this photo,all i gotta say is thank u Lord...I will 4ever be grateful!!!
Celebrities / Re: Uche Jombo Shows-off Her Baby Bump At ‘The Other Side’ Premiere by shannexon(f): 11:29pm On Nov 01, 2014
kekakuz:

God save you say you fine
i for yab you
but how sure are we dat your boobs and harss is not fallen and flat
Did u miss ur drugs today?
#IMB..
Celebrities / Re: Uche Jombo Shows-off Her Baby Bump At ‘The Other Side’ Premiere by shannexon(f): 5:58pm On Nov 01, 2014
kekakuz:

nonesense
if she like make she no deliver like hebrew,make she deliver like gwari woman.

there are many women in villages where there are no hospitals
how should they deliver am asking you.
as if she needs your prayers.

am just so angry with everything
Pls take ur frustration elsewhere...Mtchewww!

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Celebrities / Re: Uche Jombo Shows-off Her Baby Bump At ‘The Other Side’ Premiere by shannexon(f): 3:17pm On Nov 01, 2014
So happy for her!May she deliver like hebrew women.....

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Celebrities / Re: Uche Jombo Shows-off Her Baby Bump At ‘The Other Side’ Premiere by shannexon(f): 3:16pm On Nov 01, 2014
kekakuz:

nonesense
I dnt blame u...
Health / Re: How Do Some Ebola Patient Survive Why Others Don't? Here Is Why. by shannexon(f): 3:20pm On Aug 06, 2014
May God help us...AMEN!!!
Celebrities / Re: PHOTOS: Actress, Anita Joseph, Shows Off Her Assets Again In Revealing Outfit by shannexon(f): 7:30am On Nov 06, 2013
Wahala dey oo,must ladies show their assets??

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Nairaland / General / Re: Conversation Between A Dyingfather (september) And His Son(october) by shannexon(f): 7:37am On Oct 01, 2013
AMEN,IT IS WELL WITH ME,MY FAMILY&FRIENDS!!!
Politics / Re: Man Arrested For Discharging Semen In 3-year-old Girl's Mouth by shannexon(f): 9:21am On Sep 20, 2013
Wickedness@its peak....
Romance / Re: TRAGEDY: Generator Fumes Kill Newly Married Couple In Calabar by shannexon(f): 8:44am On Sep 05, 2013
Wat a Sad Story...May deir soul RIP!!!
Romance / Re: Pls Help My World Is Crashing by shannexon(f): 10:59am On Aug 22, 2013
OMG!8 yearsSome guys r heartless...Dust urself up my dear,its nt d end of ur life...God ll gv u a beta man...HOLD ON!!!
Romance / Re: Pls Help My World Is Crashing by shannexon(f): 10:58am On Aug 22, 2013
OMG!8 fucking yearsSome guys r heartless...Dust urself up my dear,its nt d end of ur life...God ll gv u a beta man...HOLD ON!!!

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Crime / Re: Woman Pour Hot Oil On Lover For Refusin To Marry Her by shannexon(f): 8:38am On Aug 20, 2013
Stupidity of highest order...Y didn't she hv other options??She s now in jail coz of frustration...Mtchewww!!

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Celebrities / Re: Genevieve Nnaji In Traditional Outfit For A Friend's Wedding (photos) by shannexon(f): 3:57pm On Aug 16, 2013
Sassy lady....U luk dashn...

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Celebrities / Re: See Genevieve Nnaji's Outfit To Sharon Adeleke's Wedding by shannexon(f): 3:53pm On Aug 16, 2013
Genny hawtie,u luk dashing....

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