UnfairLife7:
Shantti i guess this is also a woman.

Bro u are dumb for twisting an argument into team I support the op cos am a woman vs team I don't support the op cos am a man

I labeled u a woman cos u refused to answer a simple question I asked u, instead you deviated from the question and brought in a totally biased perspective which is as different from my question as day and night.


My question: if a man arrests his wife who assaultes him, would u support him?

Expectation: yes or no

Your reply: men have been known to assault women, women don't physically assault men

Study this your reply and tell me why I won't label u a woman. U r a woman ma

UnfairLife7:
women doesn't physically abuse men. But if paradventure it happened the man is free like a birds to get her arrested for violence


Maybe every other men supporting Op on this platform are also women.

Lol
women don't physically abuse men?
Bye

LadyRosa:


Perpetual fear!
Guy preek no be problem oooo
If na that one you won take halla, PREEK NO BE PROBLEM,na women wey no get enough stress already dey carry man for head, not me.

I no marry with that una Nigeria mentality oo.I respect my husband and my husband respects himself. And yes, my husband knows I can lock him up if he abuses me. So it won't come to him as surprise because during marriage counselling I told him outright!

If he wants to be foolish, he should take it out of our matrimonial home.

And yes! He is the bread winner! No be me dey feed am.

Am talking about life after locking him not before locking him,

No matter the kind of mentality you think you have, u will not be comfortable staying under the same roof with him when he leave the cell, u don't know what he has in mind.

Forget Abt all these your rantings, imagination is different from reality. Even me as a man can't live with someone I locked in the cell, he might kill me in my sleep.

The highlight is that such a marriage will be automatically over, that's the truth, the marriage cannot continue.

UnfairLife7:
I laugh at your sorry ass if you think every man reason like you

The fact that I'm a man doesn't mean i should support my fellow man blindly. Not me nor any sensible men out there.

Maybe every other men supporting Op on this platform are also women. Very warped reasoning

Demanding for an answer u have refused to give me means am warped and insensible right? Lol

No man thinks like u
U r a woman
It's apparent in the way you deviate and retort to baseless accusations
That's a woman's signature


So let me ask again
If a husband assaulted by his wife arrests her, will u support him?

Yes or no?

Dennisochampa:
.... Boss, I have seen women given restraining orders when they become violent or abusive in their marriages... Anyone who doesn't have the maturity to deal with marital issues without resulting to violence or aggressive behaviors have no business getting married in the first instance.... This applies to both men and women

Ok

SonofGod231:

Congratulations, I just feel sorry of that clueless thwart that coincidentally married a cancer like you. Animal!

In reality she no go get mind
Forget social media

Dennisochampa:
.... Boss, in a civilized country, an arrest won't just be enough... He will be fined and jailed and prevented from seeing his kids until he gets a psychological evaluation.... Na who Dey alive dey divorce... Some men no need soft hand... That's why I maintain that if what she typed is true, then she did good..... If he no forgive her... He can move on... Marriage no be by force

The marriage is already broken
What I find baffling is that when a wife assaults her husband, she is not condemned cos she is a woman? Will u say that such women too should be arrested cos they don't deserve soft hand

UnfairLife7:
women hardly assault their husband physical. I am a man so i know all these

So I am right?
U will not support a husband who arrest a woman that physically assaulted him. Isn't that hypocrisy?

U are a blatant woman, stop lying

LadyRosa:
Some women dey try sha!

Whats fixcking attractive about a Jobless, drunk, vindictive and abusive husband?

The first mistake was apologising to him. I wouldn’t if I'm in your shoes. And I ain't leaving that station until he sign an undertaking with sureties.

If he feels he is too humiliated to continue a peaceful marriage, well, fine. Life goes on.

Okay a peaceful marriage is one where u can spit all kinds of vile on your husband, tormenting him emotional and mentally and he is expected to overlook cos he is a man? Right?

UnfairLife7:
go to Lagos State Ministry of justice and see for yourself. Even a mad man knows an average Nigerian man has the tendency of violence. These same men drop that trait the moment they get to Murtala international airport.

Keep supporting evil

What r u ranting about
Are we arguing about statistics?

Why can't u answer my question
What is hard in it?

If a man gets assaulted by his woman and he arrests her, would u support that?

Yes or no?

LadyRosa:


I hope he signed an undertaking.

You are a good woman.

I would have kept him there for atleast a week, after which my brothers my likely extend it to a month.

Nah for social media una get mouth

Unless u plan to divorce him after that or do u plan to continue living under the same roof with him after arresting him?

We all know u will live In perpetual fear if u choose not to divorce

UnfairLife7:
women do not assault their husband like men do

1) u aren't even convinced in your biased lie
2) u didn't answer the question

So let me ask again

If a woman assaults her husband, can he arrest her?

Yes or no

BRATISLAVA:


Preach.

The extent they can go to justify their proclivities in others is an eyesore. Imagine where they feel he has a reason for beating her, yet they don't feel he should be imprisoned, because hurting another person against the law is not a big deal? Even if he killed her you would still read that type of daft comment.

The way some people have integrated into society is worrisome.

If a man arrests his wife cos she assaulted him, will u support that?

There was a thread where a woman assaulted her boyfriend cos he cheated on her and girls here were cheering her up.

Does that not constitute as domestic violence.
So he can have her arrested be that

Kobojunkie:
So, even if they both want to, they shouldn't even try to reconcile and mend the marriage? Do you listen to yourself at all?

U r very dumb. like so dumb.
So u are now scared on the op's behalf Abt a divorce. Do u resolve anything with someone who resents u so much. That man won't forgive her. That's the truth, so matter how much lies we tell ourselves, that marriage won't remain the same again should it continue.

For her safety, divorce is the best path to take, a divorce is equally good for the man's mental state cos it is torture living with someone u resent

He was wrong if he beat her, arresting him was the nail on the coffin

Dennisochampa:
.... Does the woman sound like someone who wants to make her husband suffer?
Why don't you see it this way...
If indeed what she said is the right thing, then is her actions right or wrong?
I am basing my judgment based on the assumption that what the woman has said is the right thing.
If it happens that it's not, then I stand to be corrected when the truth comes out

If what she said is true, divorce would have been the best option and not an arrest. That man no go forgive am.

Since she wasnt beaten to death as she was alive to facilitate an arrest, she should have facilitated a divorce, simply or call her brothers to beat him.

It is only kids and single ladies that are arguing about the dynamics of the correctness of her decision, they think reality is hollywood

UnfairLife7:
domestic violence is a No. I do not care what led to that

Of course domestic violence is a no,
I only asked u how u know she is saying the truth and you are saying a different thing all together

Dennisochampa:
.... Good, I don't live with them so I am judging based on the information I have @ hand and also based on experiences... I have seen men who act irrational simply because they don't have jobs and they perceive that their wives is attempting to boss them around simply because their wives stood up to them at one point or another

so a one sided story is now called information at hand, we learn everyday.

I also gave my perspective from my personal experiences cos I too have seen where wicked wives frame their innocent husbands, making him suffer for something they know nothing about

Dennisochampa:
..... How do u know she's not telling the truth? Do you live with them?
What will friends and family do to a violent man that will make him change his ways?
Did he not see his so called friends and family to talk sense into him before he went about drinking and destroying her properties?
Like I stated, if what she said is the truth, which I think it is, then she even Bleep up as she no allow am sleep there for one month.
If he's truly depressed, he should hustle and pray hard, not frustrate the efforts of his wife to provide for the home.....

which you think it is?

How do u know the truth since u don't live with them also

Emily22:


All she said is trash, a man came back home, entered kitchen, started beating you , broke your phone without anything triggering it.


I am sure she must have insulted the living daylight out of the man. Now she is playing the pity card.

Maybe she blocked him from entering his house and he simply pushed her aside, then she intentionally fell down and started yelling that he has killed her and then called the police on him.

It might shock una to know that the op's husband might have just simply shoved her aside as she blocked him from entering the house and she claimed she was beaten.

Women can exaggerate stories oh, I know this cos am a victim.

The both of u are wrong

ikeno:
So all this things you said happened to you just in one day,you must be a very unlucky person.

Back to sender

Arsenal to loose inshallah

Why the fear of 30

TheOldGods:
it doesn't matter if Abuja or Lagos doesn't cover their gutters. Because others are corrupt and doing wrong things doesn't mean you should do it. It only takes a good man to create an everlasting goodness. By building roads and doing proper drainage and covering them will make those roads last for years and also will make the next governor continue doing so. And others can start too. It only takes one sane person who is not corrupt. Alex otti is very great, he should keep doing this. This what abia people voted for. Waiting for court to sack Peter mbah so we can experience such in Enugu

Amen oh, peter mbah needs to go. That man is so clueless

maleekberry:
This ebonyi governor takes everything too serious

OmekaguGCFR1:
Enugupikin can I tell you one thing. You're insulting anambra and if anambra men insult back you and your stupid lots will said anambra men are rude

I don't think the guy is igbo

Why are tinubu's supporters dumb?
Just see wetin IconicR typed.