₦airaland Forum

Ewedegubbler:
All these na gra gra. Emefiele mofo is Gona go to court and win there.

Emotionally charged cases always end bad for the government

He would have done better being a graduate of banking and finance and especially Economics( PhD), moreso as a Deltan / Bendel man as that is what Deltans are good at( ie Managing Financial matters: Banks, Journalism ( eg Newspapers and Law).

He didn't behave at all like a true Deltan boy in managing the CBN well.... I think staying too long made him see himself like a BOSS .....He took orders from PMB instead of advising him on wrong policies, he made many Nigerians suffer, even when he came in and saw some bad policies, he rather added more.... Till date, we can't easily send money via Western Union.... Our cards have limits for online payments and block abroad from withdrawals... Naira redesign wasn't necessary, though some closeby countries did theirs too and we don't know if it was IMF's rule to CBN....Exchange rate could have been single with possibly N100 difference between banks and BDCs but it became dual which of course will encourage a lot of round trippings and self aggrandizement, all these cannot be done by an Ika man alone who should be law abiding and peaceful so his people are waiting to hear plenty stories ....

That an ANIOMA man( Ika in particular) is involved in IPOB abi na Boko Haram sponsoring needs a lot of clarifications and his people are keenly watching the whole drama so it will seem they are quiet now..... Alot will be revealed from his trials and many exposed.... Keeping fingers crossed.

Deltans have successfully run banks over the years, but these days we see a lot of financial apps doing well from Yorubas that became necessary due to Emefiele's policies so, he created jobs in this regard and I don't think a new policy would come in that will make these ones irrelevant.

Ballotelle:
What if the husband dies, is this what she would do ?

Inasmuch as I don't support what the wife is doing but do u know if she has told his family members and friends and finally had to resort to this?

I know some women going through this husband neglect of a thing, they want u to carry pregnancyx3, bornx3, cook/ breastfeed/ back junior/ do homework all at once, do house chores etc ... The women are dying of high BP but their own husband own be say she must work knowing the situation of jobs in Nigeria and he isn't ready to REALLY set her up in business. Sex is what the men care about, not ready to care for that BODY being sexed.

If hubby is DEAD,that is a different case as with the 'badge' of widowhood she can gain pity from people, church, community and government.... But, u can't have a husband and be behaving like a widow.... Who go even help u wen get able bodied man for house?

The job u all are shouting that the woman should get is what the man needs to add to his income as side hustle or multiple streams of income....No man gets disrespected if he plays well his role instead of stylisly dodging it.

Say the man dey see period ni, or has same strength as the woman or has put to bed before for him to slack on HIS provision role? She has already played her role and going out to look for money is going outside her traditional roles, which are already multifaceted. The man's only MAJOR role, he is still failing to fulfill it( Forget about protection because na God dey protect us)... This type of man, I won't be surprised that if anything happens unfortunately, God forbid to the wife, may share the kids to family members or give them as househelps so that he can face his own life and survive.

U men shout feminism wen u want the weaker gender to play your role....When money no dey house, u don't blame woman oooo.

It is a risk marrying a man who hasn't tried to establish himself 1st before marriage rather rushing into it and a greater risk marrying a man who doesn't fully KNOW his God given ROLE.

ACRI:
Train the native doctors now, they can't leave cos of patronage....

We have Skilled/Traditional Birth Attendants SBA/TBA


China, India e.t.c has trado-medical practice as a whole sector

E for good but, how do we regulate these Trado people not "inflicting" their victims( sorry, clients) with what they can't even explain in the court of law or to Nigerians later ( lol)?

Geminis are natural comedians apart from being very intelligent and tend naturally towards the things of God.

Oluromantic:
I kinda like this scenerio. I'm not a bad belle but the fact that something can prove that beauty is not everything and that womanhood is not all about beauty gladens my heart. Some women have revolted against their men because of beauty and make up. The amount of money some women spend on make up alone will make you marvel. When the men they are making up for approach them, they'll still kill his morale with shakara. It's good to make open that some things are deeper to consider than beauty

Lol..... Abeg, their make up is selective of men oooo, better ones NOT any type that will still waste their time since he may not be ready yet.

I thought Madam's husband no dey smile, always looking stern, thought he would be too disciplined for fine girls?

Louis8796:
I don't understand?

Just Google: Nairaland, thread.....( Type in everything) and read up what I have previously posted.

Louis8796:
I am planning of relocating?

Check out pages 34 to 36 of this Nairaland thread. Just Google and add Infront: Nairaland....

Thread For Nigerians In Other African Countries

Ajakaiye83:
In Lagos

Go to Mile 2 Garage/ Park where Ghana etc vehicles used to travel from and ask for Mallam Ali +234 803 443 9969.... Tested and Trusted. That guy has been in that park for about 30 years.

There are some ministries that women should strictly be heading since they go more to the market and empathize more.

Louis8796:
Who can tell me about cameroon,(food,house rent,fuel price,weather)?

Please, why do you need this information and what do you intend doing there?

Ajakaiye83:
Hello folks,

Please I need a reliable source where I can buy dollars into my dom account with gtb.

I need to do an online transaction ASAP to an educational institute for a course.

I don't mind black Market rate. Just a genuine source. I don't trust online virtual card for the amount.

Thanks

Question is: Which State do u live?

Kobojunkie:
Yes, one of the great false teachers and false prophets of our time indeed. He definitely built his empire on the backs of his gullible followers.

If u are NOT deeply spiritual please, don't quote me again on topics like this biko.

I noticed your hatred for things of the Lord and I don't associate with such people giving God's soldiers a bad name. Even if he erred, it is between HIS maker and him....

Come, have u achieved HALF of his exploits? Kilode? U want to lure me into to your sin so I will bash what I can learn from and hate what God can bless me too with?

Great man of God..... Lived very well....

Victor Oladokun, our own worked here too.

May we do exploits on earth too.

JOemmy:
Paying bills as a single mum have resetted her brains most nigerian girls will go to any length to be married to the danjuma family that controls many oil wells in nigeria.

She wasn't that rich when she married him.... Her once boyfriend sef TU no reach Danjuma... Na Dem Park View Estate, Ikoyi area.

Whether divorced legally or coded or not, she CAN NEVER pay bills that will reset her brain after borning THREE KIDS for BOSS Musa Danjuma.....The family is where Agbani Darego our ex Miss World married into and did their wedding in Marrekesh, Morocco.... In the name of getting for her kids, she is still getting for herself and Okafor' law may probably still be working.

This is what women want sef..... My problem with her is that he is not a one woman man/ polygamist ( which she knew)and wanted him all to herself.

Card limits should be increased above $20

Allow Western Union transfers from Nigeria like other countries

Allow use of our ATM cards outside Nigeria

Flexibility in changing money from Domiciliary accounts to Naira and vice versa

Stop dual exchange rate or a difference of N100

Hoping APC guys on this forum relate things that will benefit them and all Nigerians not just campaigning alone.

Creamypie:
this irredentist, una don come again. No square inch of delta and every other southern state belong to Igbo. For your information, asaba is from Igala. Ole buruku. U want to give your criminal friends in east opportunity to extend their evil to delta, by forcefully adding it to your Igbo land. Werey say e come asaba. Try shit if u go last 10 mins

On point....That guy is a dreamer..... That is why they want us to agitate for ANIOMA State ignorantly so that they will fully grab the State and no longer say there are indigenous Igbos in Delta rather Igbo natives in Delta State....

They want ANIOMAS to leave their true brothers in Delta to embrace stranger NRI people using language and name to deceive only themselves.

And Onitsha is so rough, u have to rush to Asaba to sleep

They are also claiming Equatorial Guinea and Cameroon, but those ones at a time chased them so thei body don calm down. Funny people.

Some people will just open the Book of Lamentations ontop tithe giving. What is the difference between tithe giving eg in Nigeria and secret giving in Russia? Is it because of the locations of the countries or semantics? Both are similar. U don't have to give tithe to the church monthly... The objective of any is that the church must not be starved of funds.... U too benefitting from their food, clothes etc should one day( probably after graduation), sow too to that church.

If there were no stored funds by churches during covid, which other religious unit came out enmasse to rescue a people the government literally abandoned?

I don't like childish talks ... Let no one come to my mention that I have been brain washed. If u don't personally know d benefits of tithing, na u Sabi

Lionessza6:
1. Men do the chasing not the other way round, and I doubt a lot if there are any South African men ; whether black or white checking out for Nigerian females; it just wouldn't make any damn sense. And with a growing number of Nigerian females in South Africa, we would be seeing some SA males making a fool of themselves trying to get your attention, but I've never even seen them even trying to have a conversation with your kind.

2. Men are suckers for good looks , charming personalities, and in the case of liberal countries like SA ; women who are not groomed to be only housewives but can carry their own whether married or not. So, why would SA men who are surrounded by millions of women who carry such characteristics go after you ?. Most SA who are in Nigeria are there to look after SA interests ; business and politics, they are not some street hustlers or there to look for wives, so I very much doubt that they care that Nigerian women don't want them when they can import SA women or even SA ho*es to play with. Nigerian women aren't exactly the type that make African men lose their senses or any other men for that matter apart from their own( even your own ridicule and see you as liabilities outside of breeding). The dating scene in countries like Canada and USA seems to indicate that you are one of the loneliest groups of if not thee. We hardly hear this from other African women especially Southern Africans and East Africans.

3. LMFAO, Nigerians and their love for white worship.

Most white SA have never left South Africa. And those who leave SA are doing it legally, and they mostly leave for European dominated countries , meaning they will be better recieved and the most preferred immigrants for jobs and other benefits. So it's funny that you compare their status* to that of your men, when the whole world knows that white immigrants followed by East Asians , followed by South Asians & Arabs, followed by maybe Carribeans are way more preferred and better paid than African men.

Why aren't your men more like white men in building a comfortable country for you; hospitals, roads , running water etc. ? White women including the ones here in South Africa aren't being sold as slaves in 5th world countries or risking their lives to run away from underdevelopment.

So you expect our men to sell their properties ; leave their comfortable lives here to go and slave away in the West like your men? Are you not sick?. The only time a SA man leaves the country is if he has a guaranteed job or leaving for ivy league Universities ,tourism or business not to be a nuisance or slave in foreign lands. We are not confined in South Africa; we are comfortable because we have everything those countries your men run to, so we are not fascinated by anything Westen like you people. We don't see drowning in the Mediterranean sea as an adventure, we see it as embarrassing and moronic behaviour. People whose countries can offer them all they need don't go around paying to be enslaved in foreign lands, know this and know peace.

South African women are trying to copy white people in what exactly?

Oh, so they are disclosing information that they believe might help them get what they want? How bad . But atleast they are not paying traffickers and Madams to traffic them to foreign lands to be ho'es or shyt eaters like we see Nigerian women doing from Europe to even shytholes like Libya and Lebanon for fcks sake.

Answers, I hope this answers for others like u

1) A Nigerian woman would rather stick to a Nigerian man or look outside Africa( most times) ,unless the African man is bringing in VALUE.... U are basing your 5alk on our women being the loneliest based on what u read on social media.... Your BLACK men are NOT telling u the truth, make I no reveal things ... They sometimes beg us to date them....Some of our women are married to your white men, they may not be much afterall, white men are not only in SA......I laugh in Swahili.

2) Hope u are not comparing Naija women in anyway with SA women ... Even our men claiming SA women have asses, it is because they haven't seen the asses of Cameroonian women.... But in all, we make one of the best wives in Africa, ALL what a man needs: brain, we also have beautiful ladies all across Nigeria,adding value, ambitious, hardworking, striving to study and attain the best.... We have Nigerian communities so to speak in these Western countries, with some as Mayors, etc .... Our food is exported globally and our women run 'kitchens' in these countries( even in African countries).... How many SA dishes are outside SA?

3) Your black ladies are trying to copy your whites in seeking jobs outside SA.... Your whites are not only in Nigeria to secure interest of SAfn companies interest.... No be the people wen I know inside Naija? Some are even in countries teaching English hustling.....

4) We do NOT worship the whites but when we see the good in them we laud them.... What have your blacks alone done without involving your whites?.... We built our Central banks, own banks and export them to other African countries and even UK..... I know a white Israel IT guy who said if he builds a website, he looks for Nigerians to break through its firewalls before he can certify that he has done well....So, even in what u termed bad in the men, there are some converting it to good.

5) It is only on Nairaland that our men may not appreciate us we'll, so don't be fooled.... Our women have successfully married foreigners over many decades

6) Inasmuch as our men are trying to hustle and some venture into wrong doings or some of our women, truth still need to be said that NO AFRICAN has the enduring ability and capacity to succeed like us

Renman:
Or have they disvirgined and dump you too

That is why I said u don't deserve any virgin because this is what u will do exactly to that unfortunate vigin when choose to pick u of all reasonable men..
Women of quality don't mingle with your low type.... Get this into ur thick skull..... Na their type go dey laugh women say Dem get fish brain but theirs worse as dickbrains( extremely controlled by their 3rd legs)..

Bye.

Renman:
Are you talking like this because you are no longer a Virgin

U can use virginometer to check from afar naw....

Can u even afford a virgin? Anyway, I blame parents who dash una their virgins less than N1m..... I see why women generally put a price on all their unappreciated efforts when they seek a divorce. Nigeria is gradually getting there. And for those when just like baby mamaism even with a virgin, palimony go soon enter our law, just with time.

JaceBlaze:
A South African man all over you? post a picture of you here and let's see if you're anything that a South African man would want to be "all over"🙄

Sincerely, I will like a thread on this, u can bring on all your people here(lol).

A Nigerian woman KNOWS what she wants in a man and would naturally not gravitate towards a BLACK SA man rather a WHITE SA man..... Some of your black guys (not many in Nigeria), want Nigerian ladies but we don't know if they fit in as HUSBANDS and Nigerian women may not be too adventurous on this. We don't just look at handsomeness ( and not all 'fine'). If we must go for black SAfrs, just the ones with value to offer.

Your white guys are more like my people when it comes to travelling out to seek greener pastures eg work unlike the blacks who love their confinements..... However, these days your women are trying to copy the white SAfs.

It is on SA dating forums u hear intro like: I'm 28yrs old female, single, with one/two( or no child), HIV positive/ negative, want men around Jo'burg( lol).....

A thread on this will be fascinating.

Renman:
Are you a Virgin

Since u asked the question like the cock that crowed 3ce for Peter head, please in simple terms, what will a woman SPECIALLY GAIN from being your virgin? Because, the last time I checked u guys still do all evils to virgins apart from beating them

2mch:
We are not too intelligent but our zones and areas are the most prosperous and safe. Tell me why we should bend and learn the culture or language of inferior peOple that cannot even ensure basic safety for their own people. That they have to come to our areas as refugee with their primitive and unevolved culture and foods? We don’t go to anybody’s place to impose ourselves, or become nuisance. You do, so you are the one to assimilate since you lack intelligence and evolution. At least you will learn a lot in basic human development

U just fully exhibited the close mindedness u people have.... Who told u your region is more prosperous than mine? ( Lol).... And my people are very flexible, adaptable and most welcoming.

There is nothing that beats travelling, it adds to education.... U think your father's farm is the biggest till move out of it to see that of others. Na because of una NYSC dey.

I entered my place for the first time as a full blown adult and needed description to a place, a girl whose mum was busy cooking answered me....small girl.... She spoke her English well( as much as possible) and where she felt I may not have understood well, she added pidgin English..... Definitely, I won't get this from the West( outside Eko) where, the girl will first start with Yoruba, assuming ( unintelligently) that I MUST be one and even when I ask for further clarification, she will answer with ehn and even if not understanding me, will go ahead and assume to guide me based on what she FELT I asked. Na una be one of those when go make us dey write English tests before we get something in Western countries.

On intelligence, I consider my people that naturally.... Wherever we are, we blend easily, speak or even hear the language and live in peace.

LeoDeKing:
Thank you Akinwumi Adesina for making Nigeria proud. Certainly, you were given this appointment based on your records of excellent performance in past.

Nigerians are very happy with you, though we can't rule out the rage and anger currently running in the systems of children of hate anger and perdition.

Stop the nonsense u present on front page always even after warnings from Seun. If dem give u follow up Yoruba version how will u feel? No tribe is more superior than the other in Nigeria

I was rooting for Adeshina or similar for CBN, afterall he is an Economist( though Agricultural Economics graduate)...Though fingers still crossed on this.

Kajaard:
Who says a woman cannot live without being married? Why is the Nigerian society so toxic towards single women?

Look if you have noticed these signs before marriage, just know that it will continue after marriage as well. If you are really saying the truth about him being very controling and domineering, as well as always listening to his family and you having no say in any decision making, then lady you have a serious decision to make. Cheers.

Thanks oooo

Even to rent house sef is kasala, they will say they don't want the woman to turn the house into a brothel, but I wonder whether single men don't bring women into the house to sleep with during weekends and some days?

Nigerians need to do better to women.

Triangles1:
You guys know we feed you.

Niger, Cameroon, Ghana, Togo and some Africa country.

Cameroon ke?

All that side ( Cameroon, Gabon and Equatorial Guinea)are oil rich( Petroleum) apart from Bakassi oil blocks in Cameroon.

From Cameroon sea, u will see 'sea road' easily leading to these other 2 countries.
Count Cameroon out of it though they have also increased pump price of petrol.

Cotonou to enter their fuel stations, fear go dey catch u whether Dem go attend to you as many people sell fuel in bottles ..... Some of this in Cameroon too, though Cameroon has functional fuel stations.

Destroyerofyeeb:
Who wants to learn that useless language. Even the ibos themselves are learning Yoruba to feel relevant 😂

Would have loved a situation where Yorubas too learn other languages and easily absorb other cultures but no, they aren't too liberal in such... There are some tribes that some of its people haven't left it's region but still learn easily another language by virtue of the people with that language he has in his region but not the Yorubas. Even sometimes living in a region away from theirs, few desire to learn language or at least culture of the others( food, dressing etc).....

Outside Lagos, to communicate with Yorubas they speak Yoruba to u and expect u to respond accordingly and if u don't they can begin tribalizing one as omo Igbo even when u aren't Igbo....Even to speak pidgin English which is generally an acceptable language for all in Naija, they prefer sticking to their language.... Even speaking English, they stick more to Yoruba and Mathematics.....

They are brilliant people but may not be seen to be intelligent.

Men will deceive ladies in a relationship and the woman will be so free with him and so the sleeping and over sleeping begins.... When she gets pregnant, she shockingly start hearing stories from the man ... I advise that Sir should help encourage men to marry these women as much as possible , who do u want to leave her for?

Now, the woman gets to start her life all over again despite the shame and abandonment with a child or children, some twins and u come back to say they should pay brideprice to the man.

If we agree that bride price should be returned by women due to traditional consequences, for divorced women( NOT single mum's oooo--- that one is a settled matter as her child belongs to her father especially in places like SS SE Cameroon), don't u think the divorced mum has invariably bought over her head from that marriage and should be able to choose if the son inlaw to be pays bride price to her kinsmen or to the ex( if he still plays his role as a father from a distance such that she herself is almost benefitting like a wife).

Imagine a man I know who pays who pays N500,000 per year for primary school for each of his step kids( 2 children) though they bear his name now, and tomorrow one deadbeat dad feels entitled to the brideprice of the female kid, do u think this is fair? This is why Africa isn't growing as we discourage good men to take care of children abandoned by their biological dad's even when they are better though as Step dads.....The whites don't place unnecessary emphasis on this, they can even will their properties to children not theirs, their pets or orphanages.... But the black man who has this our archaic reasoning will not be able to do such since he feels all will be a waste in future.

Osombo:
OP I know of a situation like urs, lady wasn't picking her Dad's calls even when the man was reaching out each time. I will advise U to see the biological father, meet him and if possible if U can bring him to the mother of ur fiancee and her family to make peace and if possible let them fine him and he pays, then let him be rightful person to collect bride price and he can as well handle same to his inlaws since he wasn't there for the daughter, that's respect and he can bless ur marriage, we men hardly talk, we overlook so many things. Let me ask U, U want to built ur foundation of beef? Don't U think death can be inevitable if U go ahead without his consent, even if he is dead, he has family What if ur children ask after their grandpa, will d stepfather ne their real grandpa when their real grandpa is alive? The fiancee sef no try, don't she know U avn mock her one day, ur blood is ur blood ooo Who knows maybe it was cos infidelity he left the Mom

Biko, if the man is fined and he pays her bride price which he would have done since if he wanted honor from the woman and her child, do we conclude that the woman married 2 husbands?..... We don't even know why the woman and child ran from him, some men can be wicked, deadly... Some don't even mind to wipe any trace that will make them look irresponsible in future incase he desires to seek one higher position or the other....

It will also be very embarrassing if the man doesn't fully welcome this man as inlaw. He is even creating future problems for himself especially if he wants him to be giving him things as in law and this oversabi gives it only to the stepdad, he may even start wishing them problems in the family unconsciously so that they must see him to resolve the issue and 'dash' him things.

I only accept good traditions, anyone that will not benefit me, I dump it.... Imagine bringing ex to matrimonial home of someone u never wished to be married.... He will even be surprised that the woman could get her life back and marry ( because this is NOT even a remarriage).

It is well

Micheal56:
Bro a very long story
Trust none
I didn't knew my roommate mom was a strong witch a very big one for that matter
I say bro my roommate confess Watin he mama dey do Na watin mak am mad
Since then he no leave me rest
Trial upon trail to get me mad so that no body will beleive my own part of story
Before he eventually got mad finally patapata
I Dey live with witch bro I have no choice I don pay house rent
Where I won run go
Porverty Na bad thing




The funniest part about the story Na hookup gal mak he carry first talk say a lot of demons Dey the house I no believe
She started praying
Called her spiritual mom that demons are after her i no beleive
I actually insulted the girl that you that came for hookup Na u Dey see demon not knowing she knew what she was saying
The guy open mouth for bed Dey sleep
Na wen he wake I tell am everything
Say hookup girl call am witch

Things are happening. As a rule, I don't do video calls with strangers.... It is very disrespectful for those I don't know or trust to try that with me besides not being in the mood or properly dressed.

Even this Nairaland, some werey dey ... They will leave Nairaland and begin stalk/'haunt', raining curses on themselves..... This one no be guy oooo, WOMAN.... But people are different .... Good to always be in prayer mood though my 1st thing is to send back the rubbish prayer to the person and block the line..... Dem go still use another line and I repeat same.

This man, in trying to win this case at all cost even had to mention that he has a 1st wife, 1st wife that he may have long had anything to do with

We need more female judges.... Females occupying positions which were usually occupied by men, because if we are relying on our men to do the right things to alleviate the sufferings of married women or women generally in the land, we will just be wasting time.

Why didn't he get consent from the wife. Some people are already psychologically and emotionally attached to a house and cannot just leave it, not even for a wife of 10 yrs or more.

Knew of one man who sold his house and pushed his wife and son ( in his 20s- later had psychologically issues)out. Thank God, downstairs the woman had a container she built. That was were they started living. This is after toiling with the man( whether or not she contributed to buying the house). Some men don't think b4 acting. This man even tried sef to give them a smaller substitute.

More women need to know their rights from day 1 ie marry legally. Don't allow any man sweet talk u against it. Men who foolishly support Hakimi's style( don't has been proven to be a lie), forget that when omen suffer, their children ( including males) suffer too.

2 great stars left the world within 1 week:

RIP Chief R. Dokpesi 71yrs

RIP Mrs Tina Turner Bach. 83yrs( almost 84 yrs)