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 Romance › Re: Ladies Would You Remain With Your Spouse If He Suddenly Goes Broke? by sharone21(f): 12:16pm On May 02, 2023 |
Yes I will stay..... However, as a man u must not just fold your hands and lament over and over about the situation but get to work and praying to God for direction, divine helpers and favor. The devil is happy when u as a man is broke and down: He uses it to weaken the family system and make children wayward.... If the ONLY major role u are to play as a man ( unlike a woman's that is multifaceted eg being pregnant x3, pushing out x3, house chores, cooking/ breastfeeding/ doing home work for junior etc apart from going out to look for money in order for men/ society to tag her a truly virtuous woman) you FAIL, u have indeed failed unless maybe u are incapacitated physically ie being physically challenged.... U need to pity that woman in your life who is doing so much and maybe taken somewhat for granted by u. It is easier being a man than an a woman especially when not doing things illicitly. |
| Crime › Re: Edo Farmer Hacks Wife With Cutlass, Commits Suicide by sharone21(f): 3:48am On May 02, 2023 |
Fuckyoumod:Any woman in these places cheating must be doing it very codedly or already tired of the marriage and separated from the husband even if not physically yet. E no be like those who attend owambe party and brazenly come home in the car of boyfriend while husband raise curtain up dey see who dey drop wife for house almost regularly and the wife just enters the house like that just because probably boyfriend dey feed him family. As a woman in these places, bride price and traditional wedding is highly honored and means one has been 'bought off' the market so the honorable thing to do is to be loyal to your King . Doing otherwise is like playing between living and death and could also be detrimental to your husband or kids( depending on the particular area).... That is y all the DNA paternity stuff u people think is a joke in your area may not sell in other areas.... Mind u, I'm not talking of having a child before marriage or dating boyfriends before marriage... Marriage is different and a covenant. |
| Politics › Re: Sense Of Entitlement Syndrome In Nigeria Too Much – Ngige by sharone21(f): 7:58pm On May 01, 2023 |
Nigeria favored Ngige and his practice. From Day1, he was Doctor to the rich and those in power which he said himself. Even if this policy is implemented, it must not affect those who studied I private universities or outside Nigeria, thee ones should be entitled to having their licenses Once this works for Doctors, they will want to try it on Nurses. Anyway, one way to avoid this is to start and transfer abroad later if the law is stringent.... But come ooo, I hope government can keep these new Medical graduates by paying them well |
| NYSC › Re: NYSC Denies Forcing Muslim Corps Member To Shave Beard by sharone21(f): 10:55pm On Apr 29, 2023 |
AK481:Thank you.... Those in Police force, Military, Civil Defence hardly keep beards. Maybe because NYSC seem compulsory if not, if person say him religious doctrines no permit him to join then, stay out of NYSC. We put ethnic or religious coloration into many things. I wish Nigerian Muslims can emulate Muslims in Benin Republic or Cameroon. Left with me, NYSC has outlived it's usefulness and should be scrapped or reinvented: the money that would be paid out for 1 year can be used to pay graduates to start their lives after some entrepreneurial trainings. |
| Travel › Re: Benin Republic Deports Many Nigerians (Video, Photos) by sharone21(f): 10:45pm On Apr 29, 2023 |
KingOfBoyz1:Benin Republic did same thing in 2018, emphasizing more on Yahoo boys and then those with laptops are checked but there are some people their Security men overlook.....These Security chaps( including staff of embassies) are trained Psychologists and can detect evils, lies from afar. Maybe some people heard some ladies with Igbo tongue ( that is if na Igbo tongue Dem hear cos I can't trust who some people call Igbo) and concluded Igbos were being deported. Make I no burst some people bubbles, we know those specialized in Yahoo yahoo in Nigeria and they are not Igbos..... Unless Dem deport Igbos for hawking..... I don't know why ladies will go to Benin to do prostitution even when cfa didn't have value like Naira.... Those saying our government will retaliate, the Beninoise in Nigeria now are those who probably are doing something far more lucrative than what they will get in their country or based on market size as Nigerian market is bigger, if not most of them have returned since 2015 when the new government came in and Naira got more devaluated. 2 Likes |
| Politics › Re: Abike Dabiri Knelt Down To Greet Tinubu & Emir Of Kano-photo by sharone21(f): 11:34pm On Apr 28, 2023 |
We got gisting and I told my neighbor then that I love the way they respect and greet people having grown up with them.... She laughed and told me that I should pray never to jam de craze type.... Few years after, I started seeing what she actually meant( she too is from same area I was praising). I see that it is as if they mistake salutation with demonstration of it with RESPECT neglecting what respect actually is eg courtesy.... I have seen some not knowing that you don't have to be their close friends before you are greeted .... I have seen those who doesn't know how to use the magical words kids were taught in Nursery school( up to primary 2) which are Please, Sorry, Thank you, Excuse me Pardon as in they deliberately leave it out when they needed to use it profusely ( especially as they claim to champion respect in Nigeria), I have seen how they talk rudely to and behind ( mockingly) to elderly folks, I have seen when their kids refer to those who are 5 and a over years older than them( the kids) by name, this is apart from annoyingly calling anyone who isn't them or Hausa, Igbo. Nigerians are generally well thought of as being respectful by other African countries irrespective of where u are from. |
| Health › Re: TINNITUS: Cost of removing auditory nerves in Nigeria. by sharone21(f): 11:09pm On Apr 28, 2023 |
yemzone:Good to see Nigerians owning up to this health problem..... Even generator sound ( apart from the soot that causes other health problem) is one source of the problem apart from giving other health problems beyond Tinnitus. This washing of ear is good, but not suitable for everyone as some complain of being hard of hearing following it. Tinnitus can linger for many years and could just gradually ease off with some lifestyle changes( including not usings ear piece often, not putting on generator set often, not being in a crowded and loud/ noisy place) and change of environment eg relocating to a more peaceful place. Mine happened because I was ( without option) in a very noisy crowd..... One ear and hurts me whenever I suddenly hear a loud sound and lingered for many years .... The change of environment and ear drops, cleaning of my ear( not often) helped too: Make sure it is a clean, cotton bud......Ear washing should be the last option( medically) before opting for any other major medical option. The ear flushing procedure is actually warm water with sterile liquid in it and with a big syringe like tool, used to remove obstructive stuff( germs laced) from the inner ear 1 Like |
| Health › Re: TINNITUS: Cost of removing auditory nerves in Nigeria. by sharone21(f): 3:28am On Apr 28, 2023 |
kpakpakpa:Tinnitus: Treatment: Pharmacological 1) Zinc 2) Vitamin B12 3) Ear drops Non Pharmacological: 1) Balanced diet 2) Sleep in Fowler position with raised pillows 3) Clean ear wax( don't over clean) 4) Avoid place with too much noise 5) Avoid stress and anxiety 6) Have adequate sleep 7) Drink warm water often  Use warm compresses to massage both ears and their sides...Add painkiller eg Ibuprofen or Diclofenac due to pain from the beating 1 Like 1 Share |
| Family › Re: My Wife Hates My Daughter From My First Wife by sharone21(f): 12:55am On Apr 28, 2023 |
Viltron:Truth is being a Step mother/ Step Father is a Ministry on its own and not everyone is called to it....Same with adoption....One must be called for it..... Some who will even make good Step mum's/ dad's may not be good at adoption: One may adopt a child and the child grows up, heinously and secretly discovers his true parents and makes sure the adopting dad or mum wills most things to them( even through pretence of being a doting child) reverts back to his real parents surname when he knows the adopting parent cherishes a child to keep it's family name..... Also, may not do No 1 but, seriously compete for properties with the legitimate children to the extent of exterminating them.... Problem here is this man wasn't too prayerful and didn't add patience to looking for a wife as TIME is a revealer of intents and secrets. The options are that 1) he endures this whole thing if he feels he is a Christian and doesn't want to divorce or 2) divorce her and remain celibate till he sorts out who he really wants for himself and daughter..... Someone with a child should be more concerned about the new partner loving his child than on just superficial things like marrying a virgin, beautiful woman with right curves etc..... Don't know the kind of job Op does, maybe it keeps him away from his daughter which necessitated his quick remarriage. |
| Sports › Re: Glenique Frank, Transgender Winner At London Marathon Offers To Give Medal Back by sharone21(f): 12:31am On Apr 28, 2023 |
Seems being a woman is lucrative.... Same thing being a man and always vexed and angry when women get favors( even from men), u see anger and jealousy in the voices of men.... Truth is, na being a WOMAN hard pass than being a man. 1 Like |
| Health › Re: My Stepmother Is Suffering From Arthritis And Rheumatism by sharone21(f): 12:15am On Apr 28, 2023 |
Letsbegood:Pharmacological: Buy Tylenol.... Add Calcium, Fefol( Ferrous Folate), Blood tonic/ Multivitamins Non- pharmacological: Warm bath, warm compresses/ massages.... Warm water drinking if need be ...Range of motion exercises ( very important) If it persists, there could be need for some trad 'aromatherapy' but the above should work well. |
| Family › Re: My Wife Hates My Daughter From My First Wife by sharone21(f): 9:26pm On Apr 27, 2023 |
She saw widower and pretended to love both of you.... How was she to your daughter when dating or na family arrange the marriage for una two? I have seen a man whose wife died and he went for a much younger lady in her 20s, virgin. However, just after the wedding, she started her wahala with his 3 young sons.... She was having daughters and later a son... Later, she say d boys possessed.... Dad had to put the sons in another house with time. If not for the wrong perception we have traditionally, sometimes a single mum who LOVES your child/children who will not even want to give birth again is better, so both of you dedicate your time to loving the children at home instead of a seemingly good, single woman coming in and then scatters one's home while one is still alive ooo. 1 Like |
| Crime › Re: Parents Put Padlocks On Daughter's Grave To Avoid Rape In Pakistan by sharone21(f): 7:57pm On Apr 27, 2023 |
Where are those who hate women? They suddenly go mute in threads like this where their male mates are doing negative wonders ( lol). This wan be say God created women oh, imagine say God no even make woman at all, I know say men go dey lay ambush early in the morning for boys and weaker men( strength wise) . A woman is born a Saint, na men mostly dey corrupt dem. 1 Like |
| Politics › Re: Sudan Evacuation: FG To Prioritize Women, Children, Diplomats by sharone21(f): 9:48pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
Prioritized? After the late coming...... Another Titanic movie @ play |
| Health › Re: 3 Girls Who Removed Their Breasts And Transitioned Into Men (Photo) by sharone21(f): 9:45pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
These days online job forms ( foreign) have portions for GENDER......Also, GENDER AT BIRTH..... Things are happening. |
| Romance › Re: Foreign Lady Gives Her Fellow Ladies 5 Tips On Marrying A Nigerian Man (Video by sharone21(f): 9:25pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
KingEarnest:Anything I tell u just accept.... Have u visited other African countries? Wen una take style comot from Naija, u will then appreciate our women in many ways including cooking, support for her man, excellence, achievements, intelligence etc...And all the superficial stuffs u mentioned are other African women immuned from them? REALEST in terms of VALUE.... *Funny enough the men who see wrong in Nigerian women have a lot of things they complain about IN them( their sisters, mum, female relatives ) |
| Romance › Re: Foreign Lady Gives Her Fellow Ladies 5 Tips On Marrying A Nigerian Man (Video by sharone21(f): 4:43pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
KingEarnest:Not as such ... Truth is you guys take our 'not too open eyed' Naija ladies for granted but when u meet her foreign counterparts, u adjust yourselves/ behaviours to be acceptable: all those things u said u will never do for a Naija, dutiful wife, u rush to do it for these foreigners.....Some of our men are to be applauded too for being REAL men to their women, no matter if the woman is Nigerian or foreign..... *Know that Naija women are the REALEST deal in Africa, no other really compares with her( all her strengths)..... U can't choose another African to her, if not u short changed yourself. 1 Like |
| Politics › Re: Dons Udeh Is Dead! Missing Enugu APGA Governorship Aspirant Found Dead by sharone21(f): 4:36pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
Alot of things kill men including Politics, envy/ bad belle, job risks, business issues, village people etc.... Men no go see these ones ooo but will lay emphasis on woman being the cause of death of many men which has made many men not to put in all they have( including their love and affection) for their wife and kids.... Anyway, devil has many ways of destroying family life It is high time Governors pay more attention to helping our men / women in SSS, Police, Military with CCTV cameras flooded in the States, even if they use their security votes for more of that in their 1st tenures not only buying them vehicles to chase criminals that dey no even no where them dey chase dem to/ from. RIP man. |
| Politics › Re: Umahi Sacks Permanent Secretary Who Can’t Calculate Gratuities by sharone21(f): 1:58pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
In as much as knowing Mathematics doesn't entirely in itself suggest that one has a good brain, lack of knowledge of Mathematics has made people: Poorer Appear timid Cheated in house rent, business deals Lured into non- profitable ventures or investments that common gut will push away Have reduced financial intelligence and interest for this. Scared people from at least kick starting their dreams and projects Brought in needless fears in doing worthwhile things Produced kids who are 'Mathematics-less' like themselves ( lol) Created more mouths to cater for and more jobless youths since both their country and them are financially planless. Shallow minded....No future plan in mind: Inshort, no future(lol) How I wish Mental Mathematics is made compulsory in especially elementary school.... I used to know a Chinese girl who told me that in Primary one she already knows 2 times table to 10 times table( U know that countries like China are hard on their kids knowing almost everything as soon as they are born- lol) |
| Family › Re: My Dad's Friend Willed 90% Of His Properties To His Daughters And Not His Son by sharone21(f): 9:27am On Apr 26, 2023 |
The man's initial intention wasn't to be a divorcee or polygamist and such things could be unforgivable especially when u know who knowingly caused it. His real sweet heart was his first wife and his irrational action caused his loss 9f her as a wife and she being too much in love with him did not remarry.... There are some women like late Abiola's wife who when asked if they plan to remarry ( after the death of Abiola, in this case), she asked if it is easy to marry two KINGS in one's life time... The man deep inside knew his heir would have come from the first wife NOT from the 2nd one who he later uncovered as the schemer and fetish ruiner in the family, so giving HER son a landed property to him is enough. The 3rd wife is more like a consolation wife for him, a kind of replacement for the first wife and I believe he loves her. I won't be surprised if while they were having discussion about the evils of the 2nd wife the man revealed some contents of the will to the 3rd wife, though any highest bidder can get a Lawyer to your side if a Lawyer isn't too principles based.... I wonder why he didn't take back his first wife after divorcing the 2nd one? Sometimes pride in men stops them from doing the right thing or he may feel some other men may have slept with her even if she doesn't have re-marriage as partof her plan with the men. If na abroad, all these he is trying to divide would have since been given to the first wife and kids, so the first wife REALLY had long suffering 1 Like |
| Celebrities › Re: Saint Von Colucci Dies After 12 Surgeries To Look Like BTS Singer, Jimin by sharone21(f): 7:10am On Apr 26, 2023 |
Is he partly from SK? If he was denied roles, why can't he go back to where he made the $220,000?... My people will say 'if u don't know where u are going to, u should know where u are coming from'.... Or at least getting more education, investing and re-investing his money instead of throwing it to deceitful doctors. |
| Family › Re: Parenting In The Digital Age by sharone21(f): 8:18pm On Apr 24, 2023 |
Whoknow:This is actually the opposite if u engage it WELL.... There is rather, a vacuum in the life of anyone who didn't grow up with TV. Television was like internet+ encyclopedia to us before the internet actually came in.... Almost everything I know now( including love for cartoons( lol), geography/info etc) is from T.V |
| Family › Re: Parenting In The Digital Age by sharone21(f): 6:07pm On Apr 24, 2023 |
Technology surely will help parenting if we apply it well. As for parenting for good morals: Now even those up to 30years, u see that good morals are missing and for some who culturally are supposed to be known to be more moral, only have greetings as their good morals, neglecting proper behavior and can abuse, talk down, behave agberoishly.... In the entire Africa, Nigeria is still a country that others respect when it comes to having respect for elders and general respect but these days, it seems we are fast becoming like the other Africans who don't pay emphasis to this( our education is EDUCATION with MORALS unlike that of many of our African brothers).... Maybe the 'Get rich quick syndrome' is really affecting us. 1 Like |
| Events › Re: Overjoyed Groomsman Steals Show At Wedding (video) by sharone21(f): 3:28pm On Apr 24, 2023 |
Zonefree:Your thinking is that of a man who has been cheated by life.... To you, why should women still end up marrying up when some aren't even virgins- marrying rich men even if ( according to you) they have a dozen body counts( lol). E dey pain, I understand. U forget that it is easier being a man than being a woman, as your main role is unilateral which is to go ' look for money'... But, a woman's main role is multifaced and in addition , to be a true virtuous woman, men still want her to HELP the man( wen no be say he handicap) to meet financial obligations in the house( though she can voluntarily help with love).... All these subtle envy for women make u guys detest men who love wholly Naija women in TRUE relationship with them. This thinking that women have an edge over men in life na im dey turn some men las las to Bobrisky.... 1 Like |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: Countries Rush High-risk Sudan Evacuation, Amid Fierce Fighting by sharone21(f): 2:50pm On Apr 24, 2023 |
Seems the embassies will be closed for a long while.... But, bia why site embassies in places of little profit to your country ie less bilateral gain, when u can site one in Abuja and another in Lagos owing to our population and bilateral gains? May our citizens arrive safely at least to another country nearby where AirPeace can airlift them with everyone being safe( including crew of AirPeace) |
| Celebrities › Re: Stella Damasus Celebrates Her 45th Birthday Today by sharone21(f): 9:10am On Apr 24, 2023 |
Beautiful babe.... When it seems you have your life all planned out: Actress, married young to a successful man, late Jaiye Aboderin( son of owner Punch Newspaper)... Then death happens and one begins to toe paths that may have never crossed her mind previously just to be in love. Great actors too( Wunmi Obe and Tunde Obe), the latter was a son to a member of Diplomatic corp but death now happened..... Some still see Tunde as one broke guy that married the daughter of Aboderin but they don't know that he actually married from his TRUE cadre/level for a wife. Death knows how to rubbish people and make their offsprings look less than others who they are supposed to be on the same level or higher. |
| Politics › Re: Jumoke Akindele Welcomes First Child At 54 by sharone21(f): 7:34am On Apr 24, 2023 |
BmAe:When she will be 90-100 years, the child will still be strong and agile to take care of her instead of having 2 old people thinking of a 3rd party/person to take care of both( lol). 1 Like |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: Sudan War: Visa Officials Exploit Nigerian Students At Ethiopian Border by sharone21(f): 7:47pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Many of the students may be Northerners... But why is Ethiopia asking us for visa? This is a country we are a major part of in AU and even almost like our National Carrier- seems they only value us for our money--- imagine, they aren't recognising our country's official letter even in crisis? May God give our nationals escape wisdom and keep the safe till they get to Nigeria. 1 Like |
| Crime › Re: Drama As Pastor Builds Church On Land He Borrowed From Woman For 3-day Revival by sharone21(f): 5:23pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
By their fruits u shall know them... Some men of God are only Pastors on Sundays with their families but on other days are very covetous and can murder to own what doesn't belong to them.... Many Nigerians though are covetous. This is why some people are cautious of pledging some things to church for temporary use...That is why also that you must follow God's Spirit in you/guts when choosing to attend a church and preferably, your first time there should be in the full glare of everyone NOT night vigil, till u are fully convinced( lol). Some self their wife( in the Lord) appear toutish/ thuggish ( lol) and some people go still just join the church comfortably without weighing a lot on their brains.... We have had bad leaders in both public/ political and Spiritual spaces and I do wonder where their wives were including their opinions- don't they talk sense to their husbands or their husbands go flog dem? Man cannot be behaving mad and be left without serious caution. |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: Vladimir Putin At The Age Of 5 With His Mom Maria Ivanova In July 1958(picture) by sharone21(f): 3:49pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Russia's sexiest man, Actor, Martial Artist, Intelligence/KG..., Politician... Born poor by teenage parents.... 1 Like |
| Properties › Re: Can 11 Million Naira Build This Kind House? by sharone21(f): 3:48am On Apr 23, 2023 |
Judolisco:In addition, one must not exactly build what is in the picture, some adjustments can be made in terms of roofing( cheaper, beautiful and still quality enough and may not be too raised high up)... Just like a good fine artist, one can see something and recreate a better one....The plan of the 'inner house' too doesn't have to be what it is in the original, a good Engineer who has built one previously at a cheaper cost can use his despite the different 'outside' outlook.... The finishing matters too. It doesn't have to be with exact materials including windows, tiles, iron doors( needed more for front door and back door: REALLY solid ones)/ wooden doors( for other aspects of the house).... Inner security apparatus can be invested in as well( later).... Truth is, one can start with money for materials he has now and later improve on the qualities.... Don't forget to fence your house too. A well dug well ( can still put in water purifiers into it from time to time) can be connected to the house with pump at least for bathing and washing. When there is a will, there is a way. 7 Likes |
| Crime › Re: Abasiesebanga Ikoiwak Accused Of Killing Her Husband, Godwin Ikoiwak by sharone21(f): 1:43am On Apr 23, 2023 |
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