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nelronaldo:
Hello bro, here is a clearer picture.

In October 2015, an ex school mate of mine and his friend decided to venture into blogging and I volunteered to support him with football contents at my own convenience and I did that on a part time basis until January 2018. As at 2015 the company wasn't registered and I didn't know because my ex school mate was not so open about the details of the blogging company and I didn't care either because I was just doing what I like. I was just doing it the same way I come to nairaland to create a topic and post online.

However, sometime last year, after I stopped creating contents for him, he told it was a registered company and that I could include it in my CV if I am job hunting. So I used it in a CV I submitted to a US school, stating I wrote articles for the blogging company from 2015 to 2018 because I was applying to a program that requires good writing skills.

A fortnight ago, I just checked up the company on CAC's public search and I found out this company was registered in March 2017; more than one year after I started writing for him, meaning at the time I started helping him with contents, they weren't registered.

Fortunately and Unfortunately for me, I didn't include the blog company when filling my US Visa application ahead of the Visa interview, I only used it in the CV I submitted to the school to secure my admission.

Now how do I tell CIC I did voluntary activity somewhere from October 2015 till Jan 2018, when the company wasn't even registered till March 2017.

Also I can't add it to employment because I wasn't employed by the company and I have no official documentation to that effect. Even if I was employed, a company which was registered in 2017 can't employ someone in 2015.

In addition, there was no contract stipulating I was doing a voluntary service, it was just me who verbally offered to help him, when he told me about his plans to go into blogging.

In my US Visa application I submitted to the US embassy, the blog company isn't part of my work history and I also stated that I haven't engaged in any voluntary activity.

I feel more comfortable removing it entirely so as not to contradict my US Visa application. I am only worried about this because I have read here that Permanent Residency background check is thorough and I don't know if the check would get to the extent of demanding my CV from the US school I applied to.

i fee that the cac reg website confuses people. I even have a friend who has been working somewhere for over two years and having been paying taxes all those while which he can confirm has been going to the government but it shows it was just registered last year on cac website

BuhariIsBURIED:
Relocate her to anywhere u are going, or go pay her pride price even if u are not set to marry her now, just put a very strong concrete commitment on her head, u are lucky she is a virgin, where u wan see virgin for Naija this days, abeg no fall hand. Thank you

you are not seeing the picture here. Someone wants to have sex with her on the other hand, she wants to use this guy as a camouflage. This girl is nt even pressuring the guy for marriage but for sex. Don’t advice this guy to marry her because he doesn’t want anyone to disvirgin her. A girl who loves you would stay true to u.
And also, what makes you feel virgins are special? I only see them as girls who are yet to have sex but are still girl. Make we no dey too hype this virginity thing.

Kennyprince:
I need good advice on this. I have a girlfriend i want to marry. She is 24, a virgin and about to graduate next month. We are both from benue state but i live in lagos. Now the issue is that she has been on my nake of late that she is tired of being a virgin and needs s×x. Now am about to go see her and she has threatened that if i come and didnt do it, she will get someone else to do it. But on the other hand, am afraid she might misbehave if i should sleep with her and then stay away for long again cos of the distance. She can be so emotional at this stage in her life. I dont want to loose her. What do i do in this case?

she has a bf around her that is pressuring her for sex but she just wants it to be like you are d one that open it then she continues with him. Bro leave her. Tell her that you know what her intentions are that she can do what she likes. I would suggest you don’t marry such a person

chimex8:
Please I had an unprotected sex with someone on Tuesday after 3 days I fell sick the symptoms that i have is headache, stomach pain, my body is little hot, I went to computer lab it said that is typhoid and malaria please am afraid whether I have contact hiv please can hiv show within 3 days or 7 days

did you google symptoms of hiv?

Dats ur problem

Aryin87:
I met my girl branded, factory fitted. I tore the nylon myself. We are still together though and I am so proud of that. I do use that to boast while in the midst of my friends. You don't wanna know how they wish they met their women untouched. I see their faces down whenever I show her off of that fact, but when i realize that could make them develop dislike for their women, i stopped. I am so proud of Fad!!! I love her as I love my gut

lol so u feel u are d only one kpanshin her

joeeee240:
Forget Law and all that nonsense. A 15 year old girl can actually give consent same with a 16 and a 17 year old. They are old enough.

i swear

barbwire2:
So I met this girl in school through a female friend, the friend was my Bleep mate though. So one night she invited her friend over for a party and after that night the girl in question started asking me out and she made sure that i cut ties with that my Bleep mate. We started dating afterwards nd wd both broke up from our current relationshipz then.
But after a month that was when my wahala started, her phone got spoilt some days to her birthday and i gave her mine to use in order to post pictures and invite friends too because she wanted to celebrate it, little did i know dat she was sending nudes and also wanted to go fetch with a politician in town to raise money for the birthday. After i found out she cried and pleaded for forgiveness nd truth is i myself i cried cause I was devastated, but I still forgave her and even sponsored the birthday myself.
After dat three months after i went through her gbwhatsapp and discovered she hid some chats, I was able to decode the password and lo and behold she has been sending nudes to several other men and eveb traveled on a Sunday to havs unprotected sex with one of them and she was planning on going again, the same Sunday she left my room claiming to go to church. I was shocked in my anus. She cried and begged but I found it hard to forgive her which I eventually did but it took me months to get over it because sometimes i would just chat her uo and tell her it's over because I can't harbor the pains anymore, she would plead nd beg and she even involved my friends and my siblings to help her beg. Hmmm. E no easy.
I got over that and warned her that the next time she repeats same I would post her nudes online and tell the world both on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter anx and even here on nairaland. But she assured me she had changed.
Now my greatest fear was that because she was into pageantry and she currently is the face of culture and tourism for one of these pageantry stuffs she would find it difficult to resist this men that will always ask for sex before any sort of sponsorship. Hmmm.
Hmmm. During the ASUU strike we all went home and i was relieved that she would stay clear from these useless men but omo right there at home she still cheated again o. She met her childhood friend and he came to visit her, and whilst they were together in the house alone she threw herself at him and started kissing this dude. And in her chats she was like she couldn't hold herself back anymore, she was soo into him and had to kiss him.. Darn. I was heart broken for the umpteenth time. I called her friend who stays in the same street with her to help me describe the dude and the discription was pathetic. Soo my girlfriend is a LovePeddler and a nympho? I couldn't believe dis. Darn.. I confronted her and all she does is beg, cry, fall sick. Just as usual. Am so done with her cheating ass but she keeps begging. My ex is willing to take me back but this my girlfriend aka olosho is calling and threatening her. See me see case o. Wetin man go do...

they can’t change

X2ksed:
Hello Nairalanders,

I really do not know the best section to post this and so I am settling for the family section as this is about my family . I am 30years of age and I have just a sister . I gained admission into the university at the age of 21 years. My dad is a priest and during my second year in school, my dad had issues with the church and he was suspended indefinitely . This affected my education Badly . I couldn’t even feed and pay my school fees. I tried to engage in fraudulent activities to bypass the school fees team but I was caught 6 times in the exam and I couldn’t write my exams . My landlord in school have me heat and so I had to drop out and hussle . My younger sister gained admission also and my parents complained about money for both of us and so dropping out was the best so as to enable her finish her school. I started hustling just to make ends meet. I started having breakthrough 4 years after dropping out of school and so I decided it was time I go back to school. I was young at the time I dropped out and I couldn’t even think properly about deferring my admission . By the time I realized, it was late . I decided to write jamb again. Meanwhile , when I started hustling , the little I made, I always give my dad to take care of the house . I tried my best even at a very young age . I decided on jamb and I failed jamb twice as I couldn’t meet the cut off mark for my course . I then proceeded to OAU and collected a pedigree form for distant learning . I couldn’t also meet the cut off mark . After trying for 3 years with no luck , I decided to settle for a private school. I took the form and boom , I got the admission to read Geology and petroleum studies . I had to hussle and my first school fees was 438k. I was able to settle the fees and I was happy I am back in school ( delay ain’t denial ) . The course was expensive and so I couldn’t get a place of my own and so I decided to put up with my parents at that age . The course was expensive but that was my dream course . Even with that, I sill tried my best to carry the house along . During my 300 Level, my dad became tired of me staying with him . I am asthmatic and so I couldn’t stay in the school hostel . During my 200 level, my dad owed his family members 350k and at the time , I wanted to pay my fees , the insult was much on the family and so o asked my mum to give him the cash for my fees to settle the family . My mum was my accountant then so I don’t spend money anyhow . Boom, dad came back again that he wanted to buy an Audi car and the car was 750k. He knows my expenses and that I need money for school and especially field works to igarra . I explained to him and the man started carrying face ooo. I then decided to give another 400 and so make him add the balance . At times , I was broke and I wanted to settle some pressing issues in school that needs instant cash , my dad will tell me to meet my mum. My mum and I struggled to make sure I finish the school. There was a particular time I wanted to go for independent field mapping and I asked my dad for 30k as my mum said she would raise 10 for me. My dad said he doesn’t have money, he said I should ask my mum . My mum had to borrow from cooperative . That evening as I was putting my things in order , my dad came and asked me to plug his phone, immediately a text came in with account details . My dad was about to send 60k to a woman and he asked the woman not to call because family is around and so she sent her bank details . I confronted him and he kept quiet . I was able to finish up my school and due to the pressure about school fees and all that as I was not ready to drop out again, I had an extra year. It’s been one problem or the other about my dad . There was a day I wanted to go get things outside , I saw an Audi approaching and I confirmed it was my dad and mum driving to my place . The vehicle was loaded with properties . The church kicked them out and asked them to leave the vicarage . I immediately took them in and arranged the extra room for them . I immediately called an agent to look for a 2 bedroom apartment for me. I removed the aircondition from my house, the fridge I was using , the television I had and also my gotv for them . I purchased a set of chairs for 250k and paid house rent of 240k. Furnished the house and asked them to move in. Even with all this, my dad no want make I settle down . Because I do not have a car to call my own, my dad insults me every minute and reminding me that my mates and juniors are doing better and he calls me a fool because I don’t have money to give him at the moment . I reminded him that yes some of my juniors are better and some are also dead but I thank God for my life . I believe with God I will conquer . I am currently in a depressed mood as there is absolutely nothing to leave for as the only hope I have which is my family , they have all abandoned me . My dad has been building his house for like 20yrs now. He spends so much on girls and refused building his house . Now he is forcing me to finish the house which I agreed but asked him to give me time . My younger sister got a job of 30k monthly and my dad has been on her neck . My dad even call the owner of the company for money . He bugs the man with text messages and calls every two weeks for cash and the man had to sack my sister . I purchased a land and wanted to start developing my own house but my dad calls me a never do well and a useless child. I am trying my best. I am working my ass out but family don’t see any good . My sister had fibroid issues and I had to borrow 240k with my certificate just to please them . I am in a depressed state and just staying my mind and speaking out to this community now I see death as the only option as I type this with tears . I see death as the only hope . I have two bottles of sniper and I have been having thought to just end my life . I am depressed .

you dont have sense. Na because you dey smile with am na why him get mind they do all this. Change am for am, him head go correct

Mimi1999:
The timeline is scary o.
My VO is Ottawa as well. Criminality passed and background check hasn't started.

pls how did you find out about your criminality

johnoj24:
I don't think I have reasons to do HIV test

what you have might not be typhoid. Try doing stool test

DirectReporter:
Hello everyone. My girlfriend just informed me that she missed her period. I love her but am not ready to father a child yet. Besides, we started dating about 3 weeks ago. Please advice me with the best abortion pills because i tried postionor-B but no effect

how do you guys even do it? You started dating someone barely three weeks ago and u are doing raw

Trolla:
Just Imagine the nonsense....
I had no idea this girl is shameless like this.... because of 50k..



no be she beg timaya money before?
Honestly, I thought she had class, but she's no different form those olosho actresses giving My breast is my selling point Interview upandan.
Thank God we still have actresses like Adesua repping us from Edo, except she probably doesn't know what bo dia ye is but edo na edo las las

ladies oooo. U guys are so quick to castigate you fellow woman. You don’t know what really happened and you said she did it for 50k. You say she begged timaya meanwhile na him voluntarily dash her

wetdick:
On a more serious note

parents need to force their children out of the home once they graduate university, they also need to support them financially until they get their first job.

in life, we all need support to succeed.

so how do they support you when they force you out

oghenerobo91:
There's this tenant that moved into our compound about a year ago. This man is married and living with his wife, both who are presumably above 40.
The thing is that, a friend of the wife is having an affair with the husband. She comes to the house daily when the wife must have gone to work, because from all observations, the man doesn't work at the moment.
I think I should just keep mute but my conscience is thinking otherwise.

mind your business

Wheezy123:
Hello house, I am a male nurse by profession, Stay in same house with a fellow colleague and here is my problem.. I will be so brief as possible... This my friend and colleague does not have a girlfriend, he is just the "bang and leave" type of guy... He brought home a new girl 2 weeks ago and since then, she gives me some kind of gaze.. And when i turn around and notice, she quickly removes her face.. This has been goin on ever since her first visit.
Fast-forward to today, she came around again today. this time i got so uncomfortable. My colleague went to get snacks from the fridge, and she turned to my side and gave me a very big and seductive wink. My friend got back, sat beside her but she kept staring at me but this guy doesn't know or noticed. I decided to leave them in peace, turned to my colleague shook hands with him, and suddenly she said i should shake her too... I did just that and she quickly tickled my palm and winked at me again..... Please, i need an advice cos i don't want to loose my friendship with him.

that kinda girl will leave your friend soon. Its better you bang your own and leave her make e no b like say you carry last because last last your guy no go marry am.

Chikpat:
They are angry with the emperor for his poor performance and his enslavement initiatives. And to bring the emperor down, they chose a man who has a wealth of experience in inactivity, poor performance n laughing out loud.
The messiah is still far from them....as deputy speaker what did he achieve? He was in HOR for 12years, mind you!

Is it wisdom or folly that makes Imo people think they can turn the wheel on which they turn?

....from iberibeism to iberibeism

atleast let them try another iberiberism. If he fails too, he goes. Government is not family business

Generalnomercy:
Inconclusive pussy

so do you mean it has been rigged?

Doomed:
I've not been tested but the symptoms are obvious on me

bro go get tested joor. Nothing is wrong with you. Hahahhahahaha funny man
I thought it was unprotected self. I can bet you are safe

If i walk up to a girl and tell her I would like to get down with her, do you think she would say yes? It would make her feel irresponsible and cheap even though she might want to. So the best way is to woo her first, then strike. If you still like her after striking, fyn but if not, u just move on. Before I even talk to a girl, I would have madr up my mind on if to leave her aftersex or still be with her.
Ps: i can never be in a relationship without sex

incogni2o:
Thanks Be To God, My Beautiful Wife just gave Borth to a Beautiful Baby Girl this Morning.

The Hospital say I should buy Baby food so as to give to the child pending when the Milk is expressed.

I am currently having the issue with my wife as she is a Nurse and also wants to give the baby the Baby food at first.

Is it wrong to insist the Baby waits until milk is expressed as I know the first milk - Colostrum
is very beneficial to the Baby.


Pls I will appreciate honest answers

Thanks

are you a medical practitioner? If not, go with the hospital’s advice

prettysassygirl:
mine happened years back when I was still in school,I stayed with a rommie in my year 2,then in yr 3,we decided to look for another house, I got the house myself and packed in,she couldn't join immediately as she was doing her it for 3 months. the day she joined me,was in march,so I stayed in the house for 3 months alone. That day I was so happy as she bought so many thing for me from abuja including kirishi. I ate plenty plenty things then slept off. she was praying when I did, i didn't even utter a word of prayer that night. she brought back anointing oil which her mother gave her, she mixed it with water and sprinkled it round the house,when I woke up around 11 pm,she was still praying,I was surprised then went back to my sleep, that was the last day I slept facing the ceiling. The next time I was waking up by 1 am ,my roomie was sitting astride me with her two hands on my neck choking the life out of me,I was calling her by name but she was like a demon on top of me,there was light so I could see her clearly, then I saw death,everywhere was dark and I could feel my spirit was leaving my body,then strength from no where came into me and I pushed her off me,I ran to the door and she ran after me clawing at my back,the door that used to be easy to open became hard,she clawed my back and tore my dress and there was blood everywhere, my hands and back. Finally I succeeded in opening the door and breeze came into the room and touched her,it was then she got herself and started calling my name and asked me where I was going,I told her that she wanted to kill me and she is asking me where I was going. she begged me to stay telling me she didn't know what came over her. I closed the door and stayed back. we now prayed together and called our mothers. That event has forever remained in my memory

u even tried to go back and pray with her

martowskin1:
All this advert here is really getting out of hand

i swear

Might be a swollen lymph node

Mrbolt565:
I'm fvucking sick of it! I'm just suffering for nothing. MA fvucking GPA on 2. My course just rubbish boring shit! There's nothing I've learnt there that can better my life! Most of the things I know and learnt is from personal research! But here it's just rubbish read and pass syndrome. It's so fvucking useless to be in Nigerian universities. U don't learn shiit, just be wasting money that can be used to capital a good business. Told my father, he say just finish anyhow and just have that goddamn degree! Make it worse, I'm in a Goddamn church school filled up with fvucking fuckboys and small girls! WTF! After this semester finish my dropout is pending! I can't stand this bullshit anymore!

have dat degree bro

Bishopvic:
Pls am not a good writer.
My sister( in her late 20s) she has known this guy for about 4 years when the guy has been struggling and traveling one country to another and the guy been wooing her all along suddenly after 1 yeah they lost contact they later reconnect and viola the guy is permanently in Nigeria and super rich they started dating at last(he promised marriage). also he claimed he has properties whort at least 20 million. He got my sister a phone of 250k and also dash her money especially when she was sick he gave her 50k and other goodies under 6 months after their started dating he is been spending little more on the babe he drives a car of 4 million. Suddenly for the past 6 months he been claiming so broke the last business he invested 4 million(said it's his last money) am a witness of that investment he lost alomost 2 million on it now for the past months he claimed broke my sister has been helping him and giving him pocket money total I can encounter if she is telling me truth should be over 400k she has spent on the guy which the guy promised to give her back but haven't given her still he is still asking my sister for a loan of 800k now she has raised 400k but the guy called her today and be asking of 30k how his 2 cars broke down and at least he need 30k to fix one of the cars my sister be like he has to give her time to raise the 30k out of the 400k but the guy went bizzare with insults and bitter words saying my sister is taking him for granted and don't want to help. This is same my sister that she is in her late 20s and she really want to settle down secondly she has made all her money with no help cuz she is an ofan asin the girl really suffered to become a millionaire. Now what is an advice you have to give to her as she is worried about the realationship already.

when he was spending those money on her, u didn’t come here to ask questions ooo, now she’s spending her own, u are asking questions.

ferrariLaferrari:
Anytime am approaching them on bushy areas of the road,i quickly hide my FX trading app. But if it’s inside town, no bastard can check my phone.

lol y hide in bushy areas?

It depends
If she just rubs her clitoris, she’s still but if there was penetration, she isn’t

ClassiqKufor:
I don't know why some guys invest more in a relationship. The money you suppose to be saving/invest for your future
See your life now

some times, when u love someone so much, u would do certain things for them. Don’t blame the guy for that i just blame him for begging