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Nelochukwu:
My brother I'm just so weak at the level of minds that comment on this thread. See. I used to earn 3.5m per annum in Skye Bank 2014. After doing training school at Onireke Ibadan in 2013 skye Graduate Intensive Training SGIT after 6 months and confirmation I started earning and with quarterly 13thmonth etc 350k per month. Now a bag of rice then was less than 12k. At that level I should be earning like 2.5m in present day by the standard of inflation in 2014 cause then I have recall my house rent was 300k. I would usually wait for one quarterly and pay rent.

Here we are 10years later. I'm. Business owner also hustling and my mates in the same stream are either SBOs or AMs how much do they earn. None. I repeat NONE of them earn more than mein a month.

Now an Uber guy is gifted 5m plus a toks car and someone said his not smart. Lol. Can salary earners boast of 500k in their accounts? I mean a whole5m ans a toks corolla to further make money. Mehn iz like someone working in corporate world given a better job(toks corolla) I mean better than whatever he earns and also 5m. Even if u gift davido 5m he will thank u.

Truth is iz poor minds with broke inferiority complex who have nothing to their names and feel threatened by their own natural instincts to make money on d streets instead being paid all their lives to forget their own lives.

Abeg live and let live

Anyone who's against the guy for collecting that offer isn't in his/her right senses, collecting that offer was the best move for him to die the case, if he pursue the case further, he may end up regretting why not taking the offer and for someone in power, they can do anything to him while Nigerians will only clamour for justice they may not even get for him.

If I was in the guy's shoe, I won't even blink once I get such offer to, nah 3 slaps make that guy a millionaire overnight and someone somewhere is saying he doesn't have dignity, I laugh 😂

2RightHands1Coc:
Never posting here again, will just be reading anonymously

Ese o

Adios Amigos

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The environment looks so toxic...

Pearl1910:
Some people just want to be unfortunate in this life sha. Can't count 9-5 people begging me for money. I bought cloths for one of them the other day, infact one of them is an accountant, na me give am tp still give am pocket money make him take see road before salary enter. All these accountants are very unfortunate, they are only exposed to other people's money, shi shi no dey their pocket. Even when they travel, they can't afford food and drinks or even dry cleaning where company lodges them. Aje 9-5 people are rag tags. So penniless they stoop low to do driver work, infact they can even do cleaner work, just to see extra change.

You know this is a very insensitive statement. You don't get to generalise things, just because you assisted a struggling accountant doesn't mean other accountants or salary earners are struggling...


You don't badmouth something all because you want to justify something...

Welcome back to Nigeria in advance

Tinubu will eventually drain everyone...

WareLogMan:
In addition to what Doris4ever said, no road side parking's pls, only use approved parkings. When you take riders to the airport, just drop off, don't pick riders anywhere around or within the airport, not even airport road except airport park where you will be charged per hour. Always look up for one way routes especially yaba. Don't outsmart vehicles while traffic is moving gradually, you might be held for illegal change of lane.
Hotspots for pick ups on mainland. Ikeja City Mall and environs, Unilag, Yaba, Shomolu, Ojodu berger, Magodo, shangisha, ketu ikosi, Simbiat Abiola way. Let me add Festac and alimosho sha
Don't park anywhere around Governors office, mind the do not turn signage there too. When you get an order from there, let the security guys know somewhere order you from inside.

Avoid orders going towards Ikorodu, Magboro, Ibafo, Ilupeju, Gbagada express. You might not be lucky to get anoder rider from those locations back to metropolis, hence waste of fuel. Avoid any Otta destination no matter how juicy the offer lol.

If being held by police men and you were faulty, negotiations shouldnt be more than 5k
Lastma, negotiations 20k
CBD negotiations 10k when taken to their office 15k
VIO less than 10k but pray make you no jam dem. They can stop you for a document you have and ticket you for another irrelevant document you shouldn't have. All to extort.

Learn to use the Google map.
Always use the express way.
Avoid Mobalaji Bank Anthony way in the late evening.

All the best.

Thanks so much for this piece...

Doris4ever:
Do you already have a car? If yes, you can start with Google map. Make sure all your vehicle papers are complete.
No matter how you try, you will definitely pay your dues to LASTMA, VIO, Road Safely, police, CBD and possibly touts.
Good luck.

Yes, I have a car, it's camry spider.

And, I'm aware of Lastma and other road para militaries, my papers are complete.

Conner44:
I see you already follow cheerfulgiver via your profile.

Send an email to giveranonymous @ gmail . com and request to join a telegram group where like minds can assist you asap

Pls, how do I join the group?

Good evening bosses, pls i intend to go into uber just to keep me busy pending when I will sort myself out, I'm not so familiar with Lagos route and what are the likely challenges to face on Lagos road....

I met this beautiful innocent girl, she's so friendly and outspoken, she's 16year old.

I made my intentions known and told her I could nurture and wait for her after school, she loves me and I love her but sometimes I think of her age but then, I told myself I won't have anything to do with her until she's matured enough and probably after her school...but something just struck my mind to ask her if she's still a virgin and to my surprise, she said she's no more a virgin, I was shocked cux at age 16, I expected her to still be a virgin, tho, she doesn't look her age, she's way grown like an adult above 22...

I asked her how she got to loose her virginity and she said her jamb tutorial teacher invited her over to his place and he gave her alcohol and took advantage of her, I asked if they were dating but her response doesn't sound like they were dating and even tho they were, she's still underage to be taken advantage of.

I felt bad cux I believe the guy took advantage of her innocence.... now, I don't know if I should let it slide or report the guy for rape and forceful penetration of a minor...


What do you guys think
Note: I'm in mid 20s and I don't have intention to do anything like body intercourse with her, I just want to nurture and wait for her...

Bloommax:
Wonderful evening to y'all.

I just discovered Nairaland few weeks ago and I've read so many informative things and people's story. Some get advised and some get bashed when they drop their stories here, I hope I wouldn't.

Let me cut to the chase.

I'm 19, I'm a virgin and I'm a 300lvl student. I have a boyfriend that is 15years older than I am and he's sexually active. We met on online. We've known each other for seven months. We both love each other really well, even with the ups and downs that we've had in our relationship. This relationship is a long distance relationship. Now the thing is my boyfriend who is sexually active hasn't had sex for almost a year and lately he's been craving for sex. Sometimes I'll tell him I'm ready to have sex and other times I change my mind because of fear. I've been undecided about having sex. I thought about having sex with him maybe it'll make our bond stronger. He isn't married, he has no kids but he says he wish to marry me as soon as I graduate from the university. To be a virgin in a university isn't easy, there are temptations everywhere. Sometimes I get so tired of being a virgin and just want to have sex but other times I just want to keep it. One of my friends who is also my age had sex in 2019 and she has been sexually active ever since, she told me sex with males aren't really worth it, that if I'm ready I should try having sex with my gender because it's freaky.

I need advice please, should I have sex with this guy and hope that he'll marry me. Or I shouldn't and just be patient. He coming to meet me in two weeks time.

Never make the mistake to have sex with him when you're not married to him or else, thats the beginning of many body counts....

Seun
Lalasticlala
Mynd44


Pls, I will appreciate wider range view and opinion...

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A well known Native doctor in the heart of mainland has taken to social media to rant about olamide's decision to quit music, and he warned him not to quit music, or else, he will send one of his deity to kill him.

Below is the video of the native doctor.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FIMylzscCfs

Icolosis:
Don't know exactly, the exchange rate is not static, can change within minutes

Aliexpress Cainio(Speedaf) is the fastest (Not Cainio standard for special goods)
Most times it is shown as Aliexpress standard shipping for sellers on the Mainland
But since it is a phone you're buying, AESS will most likely be SingPost which can take forever

Okay


What advice do you have for someone who wants to be buying in bulk and sell in retail here in Nigeria

Icolosis:
Exchange rate depends on your bank.
How long it'll take depends on the shipping method used.

Pls whats the exchange rate for GTbank and which shipper is the fastest on the platform.

Good day guys

Pls, this will be my 1st time buying off aliexpress,
I want to purchase Samsung note 10+ with charger from a seller but I have no idea how to purchase from aliexpress.

What's the current official exchange rate and how long will it take to get to me.

Another thing I need to know, pls put me through..

M

Antoinemercer:
And how the Bleep are you so sure they're virgins true true?

99.9% sure they were virgins...

SportsHD:
You're double dating and you are complaining about breakfast, you are kinda mad shaa

Read my post again,

Dated them separately..

I dated one of them in 2013 for 2 years, she was a pastor daughter, full of moral and ethic, she was really into me and was already daydreaming of how beautiful our family would turn out, our love was out of this world and people were jealous of us.

Some even used us as prayer point then, issues arise when she started inviting me to come visit her around church, I didn't buy the idea but because I don't want to reject her request, I obliged.

We were meeting inside the church as we were both into each other so much, tho, nothing was going on between us, we were just enjoying each other's company and love gisting, one faithful day, her dad saw us both and her dad knows me too well as we live on the same street, that's when issues started.

I was out with my friend one day and a call came in from unfamiliar number, turns out it was her dad that called me, he threatened I leave his daughter or he meets my dad who is an Alhaji, I was shocked to have received call from him, like how did he get my number, later that same day, my girl called me to tell me what went down with her parents, turns out they beat her seriously and her mum naked herself in front of her to let go of me, I asked why they hated me that much and she said because I'm an Alhaji son and born Muslim, religion has really affected so many love stories.

I will say I've been so lucky so far to meet ladies who were virgins with good character, both of them were smart & intelligent, and they were law students, one is currently doing fine in her career as she has been called to bar while the other is in 300l with a very outstanding grade.

I got attracted to their intelligence and not just their beauty, I call them 'beauty with brain' they fell in love with me at first but few months to our relationship, they both drifted.


I'm really heartbroken loosing these 2 gem, it hurt badly as I remember how I would have been the luckiest man to have someone like any of them...


I pray the other lady to succeed in all her endeavors in life, seeing them succeeding in their endeavors gives me this joy my heart can't contain...

zed7:
You are not only, foolish, you are also a poor and wretched fellow. See as a small girl is using you like a rag. Get some honour and drink poison. Your likes are not fit to live.

You don't know that you are not loved? Who will love a deluded fellow? You want to sponsor a girl abroad while you can barely feed. No wonder she abandoned the face me I slap you shack you're bragging with.

I don't have time for a fool..

zed7:
See someone who wants to sponsor a woman abroad. A guy that hasn't gone for service and can't sponsor himself. Stupid folks everywhere.

You are a fool.

I don't have any explanation for you.

The sensible ones have contributed tangible opinion, this post is too sensitive for someone like you...

thatthickgurl:
I need the thrill speaking to a new person brings.
I need the positive emotions

If you're able to start up conversation, I'm good at flowing along but I can be silent when there's nothing interesting to talk about.

If you up for friendship without seeing, should I do?

Mordecai:
Very childish.

You mean it's childish to try reconcile with someone you love by patching things up or what?


You guys just open mouth and want to talk when you ain't putting yourself in similar position.

Justkatty:
See some persons saying move on as if it's easy

If you've ever been clingy to someone ehhh, you'll know how important the person's every second is to you.
Love is a sweet thing and become sweeter if reciprocated.
Being in love with someone who doesn't give a damn about you can be killing I swear.

Everything you wrote here, from the look of things your own love is times 3of hers.
I'll advise you get to meet her and explain how you feel, when doing that, you look out for her body language
Try spicing your relationship not just with money
Something could be bothering her, try finding out and if it's something that could be sorted out maybe through words of encouragement you can do that.
Don't always think all women are moved with wealth(money)
Just try finding out what isn't going right and speak up often but with love.
You'll be fine but just call her and apologise
Pele.

Thanks for this,

She actually made a statement, she said I killed her energy for me and I made her never to want to go into any relationship again.

I was even trying to adopt a new lifestyle for us to spice up things before all this happened, but now...

Hziyech:
Op is actually childish

Am glad the girl left

How?, back your claim with explanation

Perfectman91:
You sound like this is a your first brakeup, everyone can be replaced (the sooner you know this, the better for you) besides, as man it's better you marry a woman who loves you more than you love her else you'll spend the rest of your life trying to win her love. Let it go, go out and have some fresh breathe

Nope,

This isn't my 1st breakup, and trust me, i know what's best for me.


She's actually best for me considering many things, all I just want from her is her love and affection.

She actually love me and I know that for a sure but it's just so difficult for her to show it and I've tried telling her how to show it in a little way but it's not changing anything.

Her mum even complained of samething, she can do 2 weeks without hearing her mum voice until her mum will call her and it's not like she doesn't have call card, I even recharge her many times since I know she doesn't work yet, but nothing changes from her.

Samchik:
Why do you love this girl?

I see happiness and good future in us...

Tejumola856:
Don’t be a simp there are many girls in the world. Forget her and move on.

I don't get, is there anything bad in being a simp to someone you dearly love?


You people now makes it look like it's bad for someone to fall in love genuinely...

Skullano:
No offense bro, are you NORMAL?.

Why did you ask that?