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koboko69: [s]Dunce...how many of the weddings did you attend? Na una go say she ugly, na una go still talk say she get plenty husabands....ugly person dey get several husbands? You people are really confused set of dogs. Leave the woman alone and face the work u are being payed to do. Or do u get more pay for attacking APC supporters peraonally? Agbaya jatijati[/s]!

STFU! you fhool.

Yes i get paid for fhucking all your edo sisters, while they justle for who to go first on my attention after sucking on it. Say me hi to them. ok!

Omo ale radarada!

Only haters will not agree that GEJ administration has been more democratic than any other govt in nigerias history

We yolobas are highly sophisticated. I know Igbos from the south east will be jealous of us because they only deal in motor parts where as we deal in human parts.

berem: senseless comment! I am shocked you are a married man with kids. I hope you're not like this in real life or else you're a complete failure to your generations.
Stop attacking a woman!

SHUT UP!

Did you also not claim to be a mother, or you think we don't know you have been the wife of several husbands? Your advice should be kept to yourself, trust me, you need it more. So that you are a woman gives you licence for a wanton display of stewpdity and iddiocy? And you think you are better than the guy you quoted?

Infact you are a shame even to your generations to come.

stewpid, iddiottic woman! To her tuwon masara brain, she has made sense abi? mgbeke feeling funky. Your disguised appeal for sympathy for your Buhari husband will not fly.

And its the same woman that her power drunk husband truncated Nigeria's democracy in 1983.

Fvcktard!

Yes Asari was right, Jonathan should not have made that comment, More important people have died and Nigeria did not boil, so i don't see how the death of one power drunk, serial presidential aspirant, and religious extremist will set Nigeria on fire.

superstar1: Northerners were killing igbos, the only way their stup1d compass directed them to was west instead of north, their GPRS was seeing Lagos as kaduna.

Liverless bunch of id1ots.

Face your albatross for once. We faced y1bos, we defeated them, we faced northerners during June 12 crisis, we defeated them.

Igbos should face the northerners for once and re-write the history of never winning any war, whether pre, during and post colonial days.

Even the south-south people are taking on the north, why the shameless chestbeating cowards are hiding behind them to hurl stones.

Defeated slaves of the Nigerian state.

foo..l! which war has the yoloba coneheads ever fought and won? and against who? fvcking lying hypocrite.

Your coward and iddiott tribe always get orgasm wherever Igbo is mentioned and involved, do you mind your business and your useless tribe is mentioned? ofcours not! oh, i forgot you are the perpetual slaves and eternal butt lickers of your northern masters, and fyi, boko haram kills everyone irrespective of tribe.

And its only in your ewedu infested brain that you think boko haram bombs kill only igbos or there are no yolobas in the north

Jack arze!

This news is disturbing

The most annoying things about these so called Nigerian feminist is that most are a bunch of annoying hypocrites, they dont practise the nonsense they preach as many of them still depend on men for most of their needs yet they want to be seen as equals with men.

Not until you lots starts start advocating that you want to start paying groom price, then we men will start taking you seriously and gladly accept we are equals. You all have been asked 'in what areas have you not been given equal opportunity as men' and non is able to provide a reasonable answer, i pity the young, unsuspecting females you all are trying to mislead.

Feminism has no place in Nigeria and indeed Africa, and i guess Nigeria has its own version of feminism against that of the western world, cos its only in Nigeria you will see a jobless girl forming feminist. Only in Nigeria you will hear feminists say they want a real man who will take care of them.

Silly, annoying wannabes and bunch of brainwashed irritants who want to eat their cakes and have. Nonsense!

joomiegirl: My dear, really didn't see anything chuavinistic about his post, nor intellectually derogatory about women.




The bald truth is; we africans tend to jump on every western bandwagon that rolls along without fully contemplating the pros and cons.
If the whites think its cool, then we must too? the LGBT issue is a perfect example...I don't condone hate for any reason whatsoever, but what is not good, is not good. Just because the western world thinks its the new "cool"; must we? But I digress.

I agree FULLY. I would lend my voice, and pen and any other thing to advocate against gender discrimination in the workplace; for example.
I believe in merit..irrespective of gender. Educating the girl child. All of that.

BUT It really IS quite another thing to advocate for equality in everything.

Trying to do so is a TOTAL fallacy.

And I believe with all humility that I'm in a position to speak on this matter.

I'm in a field that is predominantly male. About 95% male.
I work hard. I get recognition for my input. As a matter of fact, there are responsibilities that get handed to me by my boss, simply because he believes I'm far more meticulous in those areas than my male colleagues.

But my dear, let me tell you; there are some areas in my field in which even I; would NEVER dream of hiring a female. Areas that require BRAWN.

Areas in which a female can spout till she's blue in the face, but she cannot do what is required...she CANNOT deliver..in those areas!!

Me sef, Ah get muscle? no!

In light of that alone, what equality are we shouting about, really?

How about the men start a campaign AGAINST maternity leave, for example, since we want equality? Why should we get 3 months off, simply because we put to bed?

In the same vein, how bout the women start campaigning for men to start getting pregnant and carrying babies (I'm sure science can somehow arrange that, now)...

We are talking equality now, abi?

Do you see the confusion?

In relationships, the feminist makes it all a dreary power tussle. She wants to be head.
It throws the family system out of whack.
How about protection? Spiritual headship? Leadership, a father figure?

While it is true that some single mothers have done great jobs in raising their kids, those women certainly would tell you it would have been a lot easier if they had a strong, responsible father figure present.

I don't know about you, but I certainly shudder at the way both sexes are said to relate to each other in Finland.

I may be in a man's world, career-wise, BUT I'm no feminist.

I LIKE chivalry.

I EXPECT it.

Sounds crazy, but If I'm taking a walk with a guy, and I'm closest to the road, I expect him to swap positions with me. Yep.
Those little things say a lot...some automatically do it, and some don't. but then again not every man even knows what it is to be a real man, in the sense God meant him to be.
A man should protect his woman, and his children.

If we go on a date, I expect him to pay. Absolutely. It does NOT mean I cannot buy my own dinner.

If once in a while, I say, "hey, let's do lunch--my treat".... ehen, I know I'm paying. And even at that, does it diminish my sense of worth or independence; if he insists on picking up the bill?
I'm not some helpless female.
And yet, I wouldn't have things any other way than what God designed it to be.
BECAUSE and SIMPLY BECAUSE I have my own roles too. And I'm expected to support him. Allow him to be the leader. Of course I have input. But there can be no two captains in one boat.

Bottom-line, i think this dude pretty much summed it up:






My brother, I really don't know. Seeing as I'm not a feminist. All I see is a lot of man-hating and rage, especially amongst the "radical feminists" or wetin dem call deirselves...
We can talk till we're blue in the face...let everyman do what seemeth right unto him. That is the chaos we live in, in today's world.

Biko, that popcorn don finish?

1,000,000 likes!

ISpiksDaTroof: But it took 45yrs of begging to build a simple bridge?

IspiksdaTfool, how does that affect your miserable life?

@post, Well done the prince Anambra moving forward, haters and iddiots are poke nosing and lamenting

GEJ my presido, MAN of the people. Carry go.....nothing do you

haters are vexing

Congrats to him, lets see how h perfoms

clowns everywhere

Good development, we need fresh airrrrr

When i neva start life whish kain yeye will i wan write

4! preferably a mixed twin, then 2 others of different gender will follow.

TGBTG!!!!

It takes a dirty and shameless girl to expose such a grotesque selfie

#spits on her armpit

Sophyrocks: Okies.

I'm good. Hope you are too.

Yes i am!

Thanks for asking

Chillisauce:
You are right. Go shizzle, go shizzle.
Even if they are not same page, they should have the zeal to learn.

It's well.

AMEN'O!

Sophyrocks: What is it about the bolded that interests you?

The PDA part.

How have you being?

Chillisauce: Not necessarily. Maybe bored too. You know sometimes when dem marry the zombie ( "gentle" ones, [/b]you get bored easily and she can't seem to know what to say in public that may annoy you[b]. They answer, yes sir, only to smile even when something isn't funny.

funny but serious! Such marriages can indeed be so boring. This is why people should marry partners with whom they are on the same page intellectually, socially and otherwise. Cant imagine having a puppet as a wife, someone you cant even be proud, you don't want to be seen in public with her or cant attend social functions with her cos you feel she could just embarrass you.

A zombie for a wife, God forbid bad thing!

Sophyrocks: Bad Belle pikin. Your mind no dey ever get positive thoughts. Na so so negative negative. CAVE MAN!! You dey jealous me? You never get over your obsession with me for this Nairaland? Feel free to burst your veins while you look on with Envy. wetin you even sabi sef? ROMANCE and PDA ZERO. Too rigid! Cave man like you. To be romantic to you means to be a weakling. Shame! I go do PDA for your front make you piss for your boxers with Envy.

So-so, i am interested in this'o

Chillisauce: Most of them go dey frown face esp when their wives dey with them.

Some of my ex colleagues those days, very jovial guys when at work, but when with their wife, there face go change. Them never frown finish na to kiss. You go wait tire.

maybe it's the environment. The dust go don settle for the lipstick mouth, hence when you place mouth on the dusty lips you will be sure of traces of carbon monoxide .

Anyway, not in the culture of Africans, they are trying. At least they do it now on their weddings, small small we will get there.

LMAO!

Honestly what that simply tells me is that someone is having an unghappy/non-peaceful marriage

softsparkyy: I hate all these public display of affection.
Some people that kiss in the public fight a lot in private.

How did you arrive at this? mind sharing an experience?

Sophyrocks: I've also thought about it too and asked myself same. Because Nigeria is such a ridiculously conservative country where PDA between couples is seen as western culture. Couples in western countries no send anybody message o. PDA is a perfectly normal feat over there.
By the way, I love PDA.

I dont mind PDA too. Do you agree with the bolded above in red?

5minsmadness: Pls feel free to kiss your husband anywhere o, market place, on the street, while pricing cocoyam, after all its done in western countries not ridiculously conservative countries like Nigeria. Also feel free to fvck him anywhere too cos that is the vogue in western culture too. All na affection.
SMH.

Africans and inferiority complex.

LWKMD

some people actually succeded in in altering the supposed course/original intention of this thread, reference here is single mums and not single parents.

Well i cant tell if i can marry a single mum until i meet one

the second pix is off for me, whats with the excess make up? for Jah sake Angela is a beauty any time anyday without unnecessary/excess make up. she ought to know better

cococandy: Help him analyze those other areas.
I've done one.
It won't be bad if you do the others

lol...seriously i see the op as a nerd, a highly introverted individual who needs to come out of his shell, be outgoing and socialize more. Its amazing that he is hardly interested in fun. Basically speaking, he needs to change his orientation and perception about certain things in life, otherwise i forsee a bigger problem in future especially pertaining to a spouse.

One important thing is he realises he has a problem, an the willingness to overcome the challenge(which gave birth to thuis thread) is another big step, he can actually modify his weird ways if he works on himself by especially boosting his social life. All i can say now is God help him.

cococandy: Yes there's something wrong with you

You need to learn to respect your body and stop dipping it into every hole that's open.
You no dey shame?

you also need to learn to respect women and stop seeing and using them as sex objects.
At least if you must, let the women know at first that you're all about the sex instead of lying your way into their hearts and running away once you get sex. That's evil and low.

And you have the guts to say you don't do wh0res.
What are wh0res for if not for straight no-strings-attached sex?
You woo a clean young girl and lie like most of you do only to dump her when you get sex.

You're asking if there's something wrong with you.that fact that you don't already know that there's something wrong with you is a problem on its own

You are being judgemental and too fast too. Why did you choose to see only the 'sex' aspect of his comment ignoring every other things he said?

he said a lot of other things, not being able to watch even movies he bought, staying on the internet almost 24/7 etc, not being able to hang on for much longer with a particular is just one of several issues he raised, why put so much focus and energy to it, giving a blind eye to others?.

Konmight: Thanks Bro. Just trying to be myself. I'm done being what nairaland made me. Say the truth and shame the devil.

Cheers.

Not easy being one self out here, sometimes you just want to give it up but some unfortunate elements wont let you be and will always say things that gets to one's skin.

I still reserve a lot of respect for a hand full of yoruba's and you happen to be one of them.

Cheers bruv!