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chinolization: Just take a look at the person you are arguing with? Doesn't he look sickly and malnourished?

the cretin is such a deranged, miserable fellow, i have told him severally, his mum must have been very callous to let out so much misery on him from birth

chinolization: I will not stop until he tells me where he bought this trouser jean and purple shirt!

nwanne ride on, have being lmao like mad as the imbecilic fvcktard is being dissected like no man business

anago9010: join the fray my footmat and let me stamp your already signed death certificate.

cretin, havent you got enough beat down already? who flogs a dead horse?, you are down and out, dont wanna add to your misery, you know how i give it to you dont you, dumbfvck?

Dayumm! the accursed lilliputian aka tunde salam from osun state being dissected left, right and center.

What a sore, pathetic loser.

My igbo brothers slaying yoloba coneheads for fun on nairaland since 2005

Innocent Chukwuma, oga n'iru bu nkegi, buru nke ndi Anambra, buru kwa nke ndi igbo n'ile. Ya gaziee!

Igbos are moving ahead, Anambra is progressing, haters are hissing, mtchweeing, dissing, lamenting, derailing and hopefully, they will get heart attack soon, especially the APC women chief harlot leader

theLORDreigns: You can't take a joke! Huh?!

You kinda sounded serious.....my bad then!

Your man is on the wrong side in BOTH recounts.
My woman is exempted completely with the second recap.

I never at any instance exonerated him from blame(s), i only underlined the fact that both have a share of the blame. @bolded, don't make seem like a gender thing, I'm a rational being, I dont do the 'we' vs 'they' ish.

I'm hurt that Hooper24 may lose a very good woman. He tried 'showing-off' with the wrong kind.
...hitting a woman (who knows her worth) in front of a mutual friend (or anyone else) is the dumbest thing any man can do...

Now i understand the angry emoticon, i agree! he test ran his masculinity on the wrong person which proved to be a costly mistake.

Good morning!

theLORDreigns: I will not have any word from you on my change of stance... just zip it!

Like i have the time to even bother...shows you draw conclusions that are not well thought out, you obviously sound very hurt thou.

berem: the prick don pafuka no ni! na to cut am troway.

MUMU

Hmmm! This is not marriage. This is one of several cases where marriage is not for better for worse. smh

Sophyrocks: Good. They both made decisions but who has marital vows to keep? The man or the single lady? This is why married men are largely to blame. Thats my opinion. we must not agree on this anyways.

I may just have to agree with you after all.

oya smile small for me naa

Sophyrocks: Whether broke or not, the quest for material pursuit makes single ladies chase these men. And i will repeat myself, if you dnt allow predators into your marriage, No one will come in to destroy it.. If you oppen doors for predators, be prepared for the consequences. Married men will continue to take the greater blame as long as they defend cheating with their lives. Single ladies do not force you to cheat or force a gun on your head to do it. You cheat because you want to. Its a choice.Kpomkwem.

Nne calm down joor! we are saying the same thing, in your comment i quoted, you made it sound like it takes a broke girl to chase after married men, i simply clarified that broke or not, it only takes a materialistic woman to do so.

On your last sentence, its not only the man who has a choice to cheat, the woman also made a decision as the man didn't force her either, so they both made their choices...not sure about who takes the larger blame but its certain that it takes two to tango.

Dont get too emotional here, I thought my comment was self explanatory

Sophyrocks: I wonder. True talk. I wonder why karma is usually remembered only when females are involved. why must karma only visit females? Is Karma that selective? I dnt think so. People whether male or female have sown and reaped their fruits. My bible says whatever you sow you shall reap.

Anyways, karma isnt always the case when it comes to men cheating on their wives as you rightly put it. Promiscuous men who are poorly trained with disgusting lifestyles will always cheat regardless of whether they married a virgin/wife material/none of the above. Its all a mindset thing.

As for ladies going about with these married men, Yes they will reap what they sow as they unrelentlessly cause emotional pain and depression for the wives involved simply because of their greed for material pursuits but the men themselves share the greater blame because these ladies do not force these men. These men believe it is their full right to cheat. They defend it with their lives. The society backs them up. That mentality alone gives them the larger blame. Many times, the men do the chasing. Only very broke, greedy girls chase these men. They know why they chase these men. MONEY. Thats all!! Not because these men are special. They are just atms, magas to fill their bank accounts, puppets to use as tools to do whatever they want with witchcraft sometimes. This is why you see a very bold jezebel able to chase a wife away to take her place. It happens no matter how we wanna deny that witchcraft doesnt exist. The married men become tools to destroy marriages with their self entitlement mentality towards cheating. The married men are the ones with marriage vows to stick to NOT the single girls. Your marriage will not be destroyed if you dnt allow predators to come into it. Its as simple as that. How can you allow predators to prey on your marriage and expect the marriage not to crash?

You LIE!

greedy and covetous YES, but not necessarily broke, however if there are no excess of willing girls, married men who cheat will have their work cut out. Take a case study of ladies asking them who they will prefer to date, and you will be shocked to your bone marrows as to what their response will be, infact some will even tell you the prefer a man almost as old as their father, believe it or not. Thou this would make a thread on its own

wow!

Today i have found someone who thinks like me. Thou i am still a bachelor and trust me i cook my meals a lot of times particularly weekends. I think about it almost all the time, asking my wife to chill and stay out of the kitchen while i prepare our meal without any assistance from her no matter how little, and the thought of this idea just gives me instant smile.

This is one of the best ways to bond in a family setting, it doesnt not in any way mean swaaping of roles, its something that if done occasionally, wifey will always appreciating you and youl will infact earn more respect from her, and its another way of igniting the warmth of a happy couple.

Op well done! you are not alone on this.

beeevan: Don't be surprised ooooo, these shit happens every now and then. At least that would explain why they are so fired up that they can't wait to tear each other limb by limb, they hoped to hide under the guise of " my darling bro/sis inlaw .


Nah who no know humans, no know wetin dey fit do.

very true! they must have been having phone intimacy

ANAMBRA11: This 500 gp Is one of the most dumbest goat on nairaland after tunde salami

Absolutely!

obiano is working, coneheads from the South West are hating

These

mtchewww

I believe the best candidate won, congrats to him

Good news! other wise a generation of brilliant footballers would have been lost at least at national level, the likes of the Manu Garba lads led by the talismanic Kelechi Iheanacho. Glad the boys will have the chance to prove their brilliance and mesmerize the world once again at the youth level, this time the U-20 world cup

lamentations of a frustrated and sad yoruba bigot and loser

#spits on the op

Not sure how this is supposed to be news, have those lawmakers no been anti-jonathan and pro amaechi for ages? so what difference does it make, just a change in party name daz all

MOD's front page material pls, don't let this great news evade the attention of NIgerians

yoruba style sophistication since 184BC

Mellin: u must be a hippopotamus @op for mentioning Igbos...anu ohia... ezi bida..how does those names resemble Igbo name?even the mugu above me no read the post ..he just comment because he saw Igbo dia......umu anu ohia

calm down, i think the op is deliberately being mischievious, try to understand

His idea is to expose yoloba people from the South West

Naetochukwu: Funny... I wish I can get the honest truth if such question is asked to whom it may concern.
A friend has womanisers around him and claims such ppl can not influence him. For me I had to limit the closeness because all of me concludes he is worst than them.

Now i see! is this what inspired you to open this thread?

well if you feel convinced with your conclusion, then its up to you

Naetochukwu: Such a man is insecured.

True, some men just cant stand the challenge, to such men, the risk is better avoided.

BTW, i hope you found my tip useful?

shizzle11: ok! erm op, simply walk up to the person and ask 'will you cheat'?
hope it helps

Failing to give your spouse attention is a risk, lest he/she gets it elsewhere. Also learn to respect his/her wish for a lonely moment