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Romance › Re: What Is Cheating? by shizzle11(m): 3:52pm On Dec 13, 2013
Subom1: [s]Sir wtf are you talking about? I never even stated what happened between my friend and her boyfriend so where did all your assumptions and conclusions come fromhuh[/s] Anyways I never said collecting a number is cheating, besides if am in a relationship, why do I need to collect numbers of different strange men I meet unless I have an ulterior motive. To each their own.
I'll let it slide
Romance › Re: Crushed Married Women Crushing Moi by shizzle11(m): 3:33pm On Dec 13, 2013
190: grin grin grin

follow your username grin
gringrin
Romance › Re: Is Falling In Luv With Two People At The Same Time Possible? by shizzle11(m): 3:22pm On Dec 13, 2013
[size=22]YES![/size]

Its actually possible to love two people at the same time.
Romance › Re: I Want To Marry Her But She Is In Love With Someone Else by shizzle11(m): 3:06pm On Dec 13, 2013
Never wait for a girl for marriage.

[size=18]NEVER[/size]

Since you're not fully ready for marriage now, try to take your mind off her (know its not easy), concentrate on your work and making more money till you're ready while also looking out for other girls with the qualities you desire in a woman. There are too many girls out there, why give yourself hypertension over somebody you're not even sure of?

In the meantime, let the girl be, let her enjoy her youthful days (after all at 18, she is still too young for marriage sef). By the time she gets to 20/21, she will be more matured, reasonable, responsible and would have learned some bedmatics skills from her relationship(s).

If by 2015, when you are more likely to be ready for marriage (according to you), and you've not found any other girl that suits you, if you happen to still have her in mind, hopefully she would be in year 3 at the university, then you can make another move. This time, with more intent and purpose.

If you are lucky, by then she would have parted ways with this her school boyfriend, then if God want to butter your bread the more, she may not be into another relationship....[size=18]BANG[/size]

What a perfect time to relaunch your marriage interest and remind her that you actually waited for her (even if its not really true). At this point, she will have little or no excuse. In fact she will even respect and appreciate you for 'waiting for her'.

Meanwhile like I said before, take your mind off her. There could 'someone' out there waiting for you to notice her, but because you're busy chasing a shadow (possibly), you couldn't take note.

[size=18]GOODLUCK![/size]
Romance › Re: I Love My Girlfriend But She Is Sexually Not Attracted To Me. by shizzle11(m): 2:32pm On Dec 13, 2013
[quote author=Go_n_Die]Konji never wire am[/quote]gringrin
maybe Johnny boy no dey respond to stimuli grin
Romance › Re: I Love My Girlfriend But She Is Sexually Not Attracted To Me. by shizzle11(m): 2:20pm On Dec 13, 2013
cute bobo: Now, I'm not talking of her keeping her virginity till that day, what I'm saying is even if she requested for sex, I'm not always arose (I mean being erotic) to her
You are you own problem. Do you have low self esteem for whatever reason as not to be aroused? Go figure out yourself
Romance › Re: What's Your Relationship Status ? by shizzle11(m): 2:07pm On Dec 13, 2013
Op,

I am confused as to why some people will prefer to remain single than be in a relationship because they are scared of being broken hearted, rather they keep waiting to be engaged to Mr/Mrs right, forgetting that even some married couples later divorced because they lacked the mutual understanding required to hold their marriage together, as a result, many of them decided to remain forever alone, instead of falling in love again making it all the more complicated

angry angry
Romance › Re: What Physical Appearance Turns You Off A Partner? by shizzle11(m): 12:08pm On Dec 13, 2013
Jan8: hee hee. . . .na fight?
Its just so uncool if there's nothing to grab or hold on to. angry
Politics › Re: Audu Ogbeh's Letter To Obasanjo; Lest We Forget. by shizzle11(m): 11:59am On Dec 13, 2013
omenka: And why should they move it to the fphuh
To expose Obasanjo and his hypocrisy

omenka: And then....huh
Obj should just STFU!
TV/Movies › Re: Celebrities At AMVCA Nominees Party (Pictures) by shizzle11(m): 11:33am On Dec 13, 2013
Please who is that babe that on the pics with urrgly Karen?

She's fine I swaarr. But.....

Her bweasts too have low self esteem naa, not only Uche Jombo's. Or is our sense judgement beclowded by her facial beauty that we do not notice it?
Fashion › Re: Will Crop Tops Become A Street Fashion Trend In Nigeria??? by shizzle11(m): 2:01am On Dec 13, 2013
Nomski0: Crop tops are sexy. But most Nigerian girls have potbellies. Their midriffs are unflattering
cheesy
True that. grin
Fashion › Re: Will Crop Tops Become A Street Fashion Trend In Nigeria??? by shizzle11(m): 1:58am On Dec 13, 2013
igbsam: Is this not Vina ? The Vina dat represented us at the big brother show with Karen. Since when did her boooobies become this big ? She pump am ?
My thought s exactly.

Her guy must have been nourishing her with plenty of vitamins from seminal fluid. gringrin
Fashion › Re: Will Crop Tops Become A Street Fashion Trend In Nigeria??? by shizzle11(m): 1:56am On Dec 13, 2013
Lilimax: Crop top will definitely not fit ladies that are bulky except you have an an athletic stature. I can't imagine how a fat person with protruding stomach will look on this type of outfit. I would rather wear what fits me than following trends smiley
Sensible!
Nairaland General › Re: The Execution Of 'Doctor Oyenusi' A Notorious Robber by shizzle11(m): 1:43am On Dec 13, 2013
deltateam: I believe Onyeanusi was looking for his girlfriend that inspires him to steal.Unfortunately she was nowhere to be found in his trying times.
That is woman for you. Mttchew.
Oyenusi

Don't be stewpid.
Romance › Re: What Is Cheating? by shizzle11(m): 1:39am On Dec 13, 2013
Subom1: yet you are still here. If you dnt like this topic then pls vamouse and stop derailing the thread. This is quite a problem because I actually have a friend in a situation when she feels her boyfriend has cheated but he does not feel same way because that is not his "definition" of cheating. Some people think if its not sex then it"s "okay" am just "flirting" or its not cheating cheating
That your friend (that is if its not you), is too possessive. Why is she giving herself unnecessary hypertension? Its obvious she's the jealous type and this can destroy any relationship.

If collecting the number of the opposite sex is termed cheating by you, then you too must have been guilty cos you can't claim you've never had a guy's number after you met your boyfriend
Nairaland General › Re: The Execution Of 'Doctor Oyenusi' A Notorious Robber by shizzle11(m): 1:22am On Dec 13, 2013
[quote author=gcfr.com]pls, you mods shuold edit the heading of this thread, and add a warning to it or something, cos this is very bad, n offensive![/quote]Don't get you. how exactly is the heading offensive to you.?

@op nice one. thanks for taking us down memory lane
Romance › Re: Please Come In And Advice Me On What To Do. by shizzle11(m): 1:16am On Dec 13, 2013
Capisco: I met this pretty girl called joan(not real name) through my nephew over 2 months ago we got talking and we met after a while and her body language was encouraging,so i was thinking she will be mine in no time only for her to have refused my love proposals saying she is not ready for any relationship right now,but anytime we talk on the fone she sounds so interested in our friendship but she does not want to [size=18]inaugrate my reign of love in her life[/size] and am getting really tired and frustrated with the whole thing,i really like(love) her but am getting really fed up...plz i need ur candid and sincere advice,do u think she is playing hard to get and i have hope or i shuld just let her go and move on though it will hurt.
LWKMD!

Nothing way person no go hear for Nland
gringrin
Romance › Re: Was I Wrong To Reject His Money? by shizzle11(m): 12:19am On Dec 13, 2013
op, I'll like to know when you rejected the 'unreasonable' amount he gave you, what was his reason for giving you such a 'ridiculous' amount. Has he been giving you excuses for his stinginess?

About him wanting to come and see your parents, do you think he is serious or just paying lip service to deceive you? please read his lips very well.

I wonder how a mam will claim to love his woman and still be stingy to her. Common, if you don't spend on the woman you claim you want to be your wife, who then will you spend your money on? Don't just understand why some men are naturally stingy even when they have enough to share. Pathetic!
Romance › Re: "Take Home To Mama" Nairalander Of The Season by shizzle11(m): 11:52pm On Dec 12, 2013
He opens thread and goes AWOL gringrin

op can and start with yourself
Politics › Re: Obi Commences Construction Of 10 Maternity And Child Health Centre(pictures) by shizzle11(m): 11:31pm On Dec 12, 2013
My governor is working.

Haters will hate anyways.


Obi carry goooo......
Romance › Re: What Physical Appearance Turns You Off A Partner? by shizzle11(m): 6:04pm On Dec 12, 2013
I hate a plain Jane
angry
Romance › Re: Ladies: Do You Still Send Unclad Pictures To Your Lovers? by shizzle11(m): 5:46pm On Dec 12, 2013
so girls that have unclad pics of your boyfriends kondo, what do yo do when looking at the pics? like which part of your body do you touch? Don't be shy to tell wink
Romance › Re: Ladies: Do You Still Send Unclad Pictures To Your Lovers? by shizzle11(m): 5:28pm On Dec 12, 2013
nekaa: you are asking if I "still" send? have i ever sent before?
grin
Romance › Re: Did I Beg You To Marry Me? by shizzle11(m): 5:16pm On Dec 12, 2013
addictiv: Pls give us ur definition of a roaster cos if its the same as where Oga Jonah prepares egusi soup on monday then Madam jonah cooks beans on tuesday. On Wednesday madam jonah reminds oga jonah that it is his turn to prepare jellof rice and he jumps from his solfa to go boil rice.......then Oga jonah is finished for life. Infact na inside handbag him manhood de.
gringrin
It beats me.

Sometimes arguments are better avoided.
Romance › Re: Did I Beg You To Marry Me? by shizzle11(m): 5:08pm On Dec 12, 2013
Mondisweets: you are the one with the wrong mentally, a roaster can serve for the purposes of reminding someone on what still needs to be done, why look at it like a military decree? So u are telling me you would do it but the problem is putting it in ink on a piece of paper? undecided but either way with or without the paper is the job still not being done?
So because of piece of paper you will cause help to break loose? grin
Break loose ke? Close your teeth joorr. grin

Fact is the op didn't go about this the right way. I continue to emphasize, look at the topic of the thread, so disgusting!

Family matters are so delicate and needs to be treated maturely by both parties. Have a heart to heart talk with your hubby, sweet talk him into understanding your challenges and difficulties. He will surely reason with you without having to talk about some gawddamn roaster, after all he is human.
Romance › Re: Did I Beg You To Marry Me? by shizzle11(m): 4:56pm On Dec 12, 2013
jhidey08: dis comment will only touch me if only I'm nt studying my course of choice, and I'm a proudly ABUSITE! Naturally ahead of u. tongue
My alma meter grin
Romance › Re: Did I Beg You To Marry Me? by shizzle11(m): 4:53pm On Dec 12, 2013
[quote author=imsu.boi] so 'cos of our little misunderstanding on this thread, you unfollowed me undecided


Talk about being immature & childish
[/quote]gringrin
Romance › Re: Did I Beg You To Marry Me? by shizzle11(m): 4:51pm On Dec 12, 2013
Mondisweets: you simply discuss and agree on who does what and when it will be done...pretty much like a roaster undecided
No!

Talking about it is more civil like a peaceful dialogue. A roaster from my understanding has to be written and pasted somewhere.... more like a military decree angry

Mondisweets: so if u have a wife and she calls you to tell u she will be coming home late (say after 9pm) because her department has a deadline to meet before the auditors come in ( you dont have a house help) and you are already at home, what would you do?
[s]Starve yourself because you believe u are too sexy to me standing in a kitchen cooking[/s]or would u just cook whatever you can make and eat on time?
Mondicheek for the umpteenth time.... I can cook and will not wait for my wife. I'll gladly prepare a meal for two.
Romance › Re: Did I Beg You To Marry Me? by shizzle11(m): 4:37pm On Dec 12, 2013
Mondisweets: my parents jointly own a farm together the equipment used on that farm they bought it together, from the irrigation system, tractors and the other farming equipment used on the farm. They both take turns to oversee the farm and paying the workers.
My parents jointly pay my fees, my dad takes care of the allowance and my mum takes care of the flight fares. My dad is responsible for servicing the cars and putting fuel in them and my mum is responsible for insurance payments.
My dad taught all of us ( the girls) how to change a flat tyre and how to connect and disconnect a car battery. He taught me how to use a lawn mower. I never objected to it or call it a man's duty.
My dad was the one who taught me how to make okra soup and pudding properly.
My dad normally buys the essentials such as oil, soap, sugar while my mum buys the things that perish quicker you vegetables etc.
That's wat I call partnership, a healthy marriage. So what wrong with equality again? undecided
Nothing is wrong with a marriage where both spouses help out and compliment each other in the home. But how you go about seeking that 'equality' matters a lot.

Good to know your parents are living a very compatible life and even imbibed most of them on their kids. But i am sure your mum didnt arrive at that equality by carrying an air of arrogance and rudeness like she did your dad some favour by marrying him

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