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Mondisweets: Again no on can say what's degrading or lame about creating a roaster both spouses will agree to and abide by

Mondisweets: Whats insulting and very lame about jointly maintaining your household or cooking for each other. Last time I checked a roaster makes you much more organized. E.g

I call home and tell my husband I'm doing overtime.
He can decide to prepare the easiest and quickest meal he can make for 2 so that when I get home we can eat together I will do the dishes and then maybe we can take a long bath together afterwards and talk about how we spent our day

Or if come back home after him he can just cook whatever he can make e.g. Pasta or boil yam or something
Then I will come back and make a quick and easy stew.

What's wrong with creating a roaster that we will stick to in case I come home late because of a meeting, traffic or working overtimeor he comes home late because he had a meeting or had to work overtime or when he is stuck in traffic

jhidey08: Thank u 4 expatiating dis tin 4 dis Mondisweets, is lyk she has problems in understanding simple language, and guess wot... She is in law skul! Funny

lertee: You are not good at argument and you are only trying to twist matter after you have seen the glaring truth.
The OP asked if it is cool to draw a duty roaster with her hubby all because they both work.
The answer is NO,it is not cool. It is only cool for the man to help her out at his own discretion.
[size=18]Now when she said duty roaster,what is the definition for duty roaster[/size]? It means i will do some and he will also do some like division of labor right?
So stop making it look like i wrote that the OP said she wants her hubby to do ALL house chores.

Mondisweets: and the reason for Creating turns to cook will be
dumb dumb!
Isn't working longer hours to make more money a responsibility a woman will have towards her family?

lertee: Madam i don't want to bring religion into this,i bet you don't want to know what sharia says about a woman and man in marriage. A woman does not even work the man does everything to the point of going to buy foodstuff in the market and the wife takes care of the home.
Now in my previous post,see i didn't say a woman should be left to do all house chores couple with her usual office work NO. [size=18]A man may or may not help out with house chores,it is done at his own discretion.
That a woman works same hours as her husband is not enough to draw up a duty roaster in the house for housechores.
Monday: husband cooks n washes toilet
Tuesday: wife cooks n arrange the house
Wednesday: husband baths the kids and cook...and so on....ahan reason am na[/size].

Mondisweets: did u care to read that part?
Only a stupid man would divorce a woman because he doesn't want to stand in the kitchen for less than 1hour! Thats what i call being idiotic! Did u not cook for to urself when u become a bachelor?
Who do u know died from cooking because his wife had to work overtime to help him pays bills and buy food?
So u would rather starve until she comes back to cook because u call yourself a man?
Some people only grow physically but i tell u they dont reason any better than a 2year old dyslexic boy

Dadymonso: Since the house help does everything, let the madam of the house allow her to finish up her wifey roll, some women are just too lazy. I have a house help, her work is restricted to washing the dishes, sweep her room and help to bring my kids back from school. I do laundry for my husband and kids, cook his meals and ensure everywhere is neat, which he also help to do sometimes, and still have time for ourselves and the kids despite our tight schedule. It's a matter of planning yourself and knowing what to do.

Enegod: this should be in joke section

Jman06: But opposition becomes useless when they resort to desperation and cease to criticize constructively like APC is doing. The truth is that APC is toeing a very dangerous path that will not augur well for the nation. Imagine a post such as this by an obvious APC supporter. Does this op even understand the gravity of impeaching an elected president?

Sirniyeh: With reference to all manner of accusation levelling against President Goodluck Jonathan, most particularly the grand exposure of corruption by the CBN governor, Sanusi Lamido Sanusi, some members of house of Representative and the Senate (even among which are PDP members) have shown body languages of why it's a necessity to impeach the president.
We gather from reliable source that the speaker of the house of Rep is massively upset against GEJ body language against corruption in this country and he is influencing others to impeach Dr. Gej.
The house is set to write Mr. President for the ultimatum given to execute all the reports that come from house of rep chamber to his office.
Any moment from January, GEJ may face tough time of impeachement...said a Senator.

Will Nigerians be happy if Gej impeached?

KenGali: [size=16pt]Wow,[/size]
It is from the little things that people say that you get there real mindset!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So according to this clown, minority tribes are second class citizens.

GEJ should be very grateful to TribalEast and Mr Obasanjo and worship them since they are first class citizens and he is a second class citizen who was allowed power. Only in Nigeria will a man be called a slave in his own country!

Slncere 9gerian: Ask google

ilugunboy: Re-elected by SS & SE 100% votes.

I laugh in igbotic way...

wesley80: These Animal Peoples Congress members no gree sha, it's like they vowed to bring down the GEJ government before 2014 or loose their balls. So far, they are doing very well eediots keep testifying.

zomby: Without any doubt, the shoe-less president shouldn't have been the president. A 2 yr old could tell that this dude has nothing to offer. He reminds me of a claw-less cat sitting on a throne that belongs to a LION.
But we also must not forget that Obasanjo created this failed state. He remains part pf the root of all these problems we are experiencing on a daily bases in Nigeria

This Obasanjo's letter is nothing but a smart way to exclude himself from the mess Jonathan and other PDP thieves have found themselves.

Everybody wants to be Nigerian Mandela, but this letter is a little bit too late, too customized and too insincere.

Sorry, I am not impressed sir.

ilugunboy: GEJ will relocate back to Otuoke in 2015 and nothing will happen

dan jalingo: Obj used tugs and AIG Ige to remove a sitting governor (Ngige) in Anambra state, ordered the arrest of Orji Kalu's mother in Abia state for whatever reason. killed Bola ige, levelled the whole of Odi and Zaki biam (he didn't talk about carrot and stick), among other atrosities. Some time ago he told the whole world (when Bode George's case was on) that Jonathan can't fight the level of corruption in Nigeria. If Nigeria was an honourable country of honourable men, Obj should have been the last person to speak.

superstar1: Yea you are right. Ethnicity/tribalism is also a monstrous issue confronting our dear country. The truth is, ethnicity is only well pronounced among the informed middle class. The poorer of end of the ladder is more concerned and preoccupied with daily livings and basic needs to have time for such, except when caught in the web. The upper end of the ladder comprising the elites politicians army officers careless about such, in as much as they are all eating and assisting each other one way or the other to perpetuate themselves in the corridor of power.

Ethnicity threatens the unity of a country, while Corruption threatens the soul of the nation

Corruption magnifies ethnicity.

InvertedHammer: /

This is sad!

That 50 years after independence, we are still apotheosizing the faucet origo of a presidential

aspirant is reflective of the fact that Nigeria still wallows in a state of medistinal statism,

cantekerous tribalism, egocentric chauvinism, syphilitic parochialism, epileptic nepotism,

catalyptic Kparakpoism and state brigandish of the bluest die.

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