₦airaland Forum

Charleys:
Have you been to other African countries.

Nigerian women are the most entitled women on Earth.
The offer nothing and are not even beautiful compared to other African women..

See, you can find a very beautiful lady that will love you for who you are and is willing to marry you even though you have nothing. Unlike Nigerian women... I don't want to talk much.

Then go and date those foreign women.

You people should Stop coming here to disturb somebody over girlfriend issue. They didn't force you to date them. Haba.

Y'all hurl insults and downgrade female gender here on a daily, yet y'all still come here every day for advice on how to be with them.

Lol. Dear men, marry yourselves or buy Vaseline and keep as your companion.

Women are farm tools, and y'all don't need them.

Harddiskng:
You talk about communication but if you read my epistle you would see where i mentioned these things: communication, understanding.... it obvious you yourself don’t practice what you are preaching.

@FirstBolded. Sister stop assuming, stop jumping into unintelligent conclusions. Did she tell you she tried talking to her husband... Women are so special that with a little wisdom they can subtly control even the crudest man. Sadly many lack wisdom nowadays.

@TheSecondBolded: No man should ever raise his hands on his wife. But how do you know this man hasn’t tried to talk sense to his wife. Lets face man beating his wife (which I don’t ever support) is either given to anger or at the end of his wits.

What you call epistle is essential and the wise would see and adhere. If the bible can dedicate verses upon verses on top the matter don’t you think it would be important or are you wiser than the Spirit of God that inspired these verses.

I read your post. And that's why I'm telling you this. And I'm not assuming anything.
As a husband if you don't communicate with your wife, that marriage won't last.

And it's an epistle to me because it all circles round sex. Sex is not the most important in any relationship no matter how you men want to twist it.

This is why I've decided to stop taking most of you here serious, obviously the only thing y'all after is sex. Very pathetic.

You bring in God and Bible when y'all want to push your agenda. God himself said you should love your companion, did he not? And you don't know that love also means, listening, forgiving, caring and being attentive to your partner? Please please. Leave God out of your narratives.

Who's governor Abiodun? Another Detective?

Harddiskng:
Nwaeze Emmanuel, most times i think you write to look good in face of the world. You are hardly ever objective. (I don’t even know why someone would put up his first name and surname on a faceless forum to start with).

First and foremost. Get this right, I am not in support of the man beating his wife.

Secondly, sex is an integral part of marriage. #Fact - Number 1 of top 3 reasons most marriages fail - sex. When you say there is more meaning to life i want to believe you are talking as a single.

As much as I blame the man I also blame the woman for lacking wisdom (well I blame the man for marrying her too - I would get back to this point). She is not blameless, marriage is about understanding, communication and the most underrate - reciprocity.
Make exceptions for the one you love, she would not always be in the mood, the man won’t always be in the mood, but with understanding and love each is meant to perform their duty.

You form a “I am Christian” and you are not even grounded in your own Christian belief - 1 Corinthians 7:5 - Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. . i know english is hard, so please read as meaning translation as possible. This bible passage talks about denying your spouse sex!

You know why people like you would end up in a bad marriage, you ignore things in the guise of being spiritual or whatever is your current state.

Marry/Have a relationship with only someone that shares your sexual energy.

All these epistle because of 2 minutes pleasure. You people are funny.
You don't know what this woman was going through at this point in time, you don't know if she communicated but the man never cared.

I've seen these things happen, that's why it upsets me. Married women go through lots of emotional trauma, but they'll rather keep it to themselves because no one would understand, especially if you're not married, and some married ones that are in the same shoe have accepted their fate because nothing can be done about it.

Most times it's not really the hubby, but there are some kind of depression that hits some married women after child birth. I just can't explain it. I'm not married, but I've studied lots of married people.

Sometimes talk to your wife, gently ask her questions and understand why she's acting up. It's not always about your right, your right, and what you want, sometimes inquire what she wants too.

Confirmedzombie:
Fake news from Nigerians will make this woman lose this position, mark my words

That's a verified account. Not fake news.

SolutionMee:
Really?

I tap into the Northern influence that got her the position.

She should fly back home to kneel down and appreciate Buhari and other Northern elders.

One Nigeria for ever.

Oh Lord, give me strength for I don't want to do what I'm tempted to do.

Congratulations Mummy. Being an African woman, especially Nigerian, aiming and achieving this kind of goal isn't easy.

Thesole:
crime/mystery

Lol OK email me first.

Thesole:
to write a novel

OK. Tell me what type? Romance, or?

Thesole:
chai!! I dy shame fr guys oo, see what this nice lady is saying. If only that effort and pressure was channel into something else.
By the way I don't mean be an intruder but I saw your signature, and am kinda interested in hw much u charge for writing a story. I want to writing a novel but i don't have the skills.

So what do you want me to do for you?

sammysneh:
she suppose to locate the boy friend

In this society where men deny pregnancy like how Peter denied Jesus? Lol abeg.

PuZZyNegro:
When they are tear rubber, their shakara is to high heavens.

It's only when they become after one that you will see that all those shakara are for nothing but just emptiness.

Fuckinggg irresponsible guys and turning around to expect pity and help.

So vile. Humanity is lost.

Maintain your standard. It is the right thing to do. Unless you've made up your mind to change it, if not, don't let the comments or societal pressure force to do what you don't want to do. There's nothing in sex, just two minutes or 3 minutes pleasure and you're back to factory setting. Then you'll be wondering if all the pressure and effort was worth it.

sammysneh:
These young girls of nowadays dem no go stay one place now you don carry belle drop the baby for church

Na the pastor go take care of the child beside the baby dey died already

I guess it was a ghost that made her pregnant.

Just like the heart of the name of LGA Obi akpor. Meaning wicked heart.

A gift of God should never be rejected, no matter the circumstance you're in. This child was never begged to be brought to this life. Punishing her like this might bring serious punishment to the parents.

Na wa o

Righteousness89:

Oga Deceive Fashola actions were so funny

Let's Condemn and Criticize the evils our Leaders do.
We don't need to insult them...

Lol

"Women" are selfish, yet you married a loving and supportive second wife.

duduade:
At least she wasn't sleeping upandan with men especially married men, pastors and Co...like them Nigerian celebrities and using kayamata like her life depended on it,

At this point, it's just hatred towards Nigerian ladies. Because I don't know what to say again.

This lady here made a sex video which is still all over porn sites till today. Assuming a Nigerian Lady did that, believe she'd have committed suicide by now because of the hatred and curses that will emanate from people like you to her.

Can we stop this hypocrisy please.

Hmm.

Very true.

The guy has failed woefully as a politician.
Doesn't even speak up, a speaker for that matter.

Lol for what?

Lorayne:
My English ain't that good. but, I think it should be ashamed "for" not "of"

Thanks

victorioushands:
If you like, don't read your Bible. Some of you evil lots want to run God down from heaven but can't follow simple rule. So the man will marry you and you want to use sex to control him? If you have decided not to let him touch you or you have gone out like others, simply leave his house and his life. Tell him you have had enough. You can't live in a man's house and think you have right to command him how to run it. You woman can continue the argument of equality till this world ends but the standard is eternally fixed. The many evils today is caused by women who work against nature and against God. Do your findings.

Where in the Bible does it say to beat your wife? Stop using the bible to condone such terrible acts please. And a time where a woman Isn't in the mood for it, simply forgive and hold on. That's a Christian thing to do.

MrFlavvor:
not saying I'm in support but let's be honest if it were a guy beat up would you clamor? And I hope you're not here to give an excuse for being a lesbian?

I'm no lesbian.

It'll be better that way. I'm not going to subject myself to perpetual suffering because I want to answer "wife" a wife is not a slave, she's your partner. A half of you.

A woman posted that she was beaten because she denied her husband sex. And all the comments from men here commended the man for beating his wife. Is this how low men have become because of sex? No atom of sympathy whatsoever! I do hope it's their normal jokes and trolling, becausw if truly this is how all men are, God will surely understand if I decide not to be with one.

Nobody bothered to know what could have led the woman to make such decision. Could it be she was sick, or she was having menstrual cramp, or she wasn't just in the mood! Fgs no matter what, bride price or no bride price, humanity comes first. How could you justify a human beating his fellow human just because of 2 minutes pleasure? Are you all beasts? Oh My God. I am disgusted.

A woman you dated, promised to love for the rest of your life against all odds. Then you turn her into a punching bag because of sex. You never married her for any other reason just for sex. How unfortunate.

Lol

Right

Nigeria has fallen