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Magnoliaa:
Shortayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!

Sup baby girrrrrrrrrrl

The money and gifts and showering of attention

It's 2022 and Nairaland Urchins are still preaching about red pill and alpha mail y'all don't get tired? No one cares about these your ranting, use this energy and go make money and take care of yourselves. Honestly no single person cares!

Sperm nourishes the body, and cleanses the skin. BTW, why East specifically? Other regions no dey do olosho? Ment.

Think9ja:
All I see is a potential divorcee (i.e assuming it later ends in marriage). Feminist or what do you call it?

So because you're financially stable, you think that changes the fact that what you have in-between you thighs is not a vagina?

A woman is a woman, no matter what or who she is. Know your place and position in a relationship. No go de do pass yourself.

What I see here is a woman who doesn't want to submit simply because she can pay her bills. Seven of the ten women I know who had this mentality are all divorced now. With the remaining three in a "quarrelsome" marriage.

A woman is a woman. Know this and have a happy marriage/relationship

Quick question, are you among the SMAN?

Shokoloko:
I might learn something from you. I always tell young men and women to maintain dignity and never stand and allow people to insult them. I advise them to walk away or cut the call when they are verbally abused.

How do you marry that with asking a person to stand in humility absorbing another human being's insults and not doing anything about it.

Does this standing / listening and accepting abuse apply to both gender?

No my dear, a man cutting a woman's call isn't a crime, it's only a crime when a woman does it.

Tribalism123:
Girl u failed in many places o.
U are financially okay. That's good.
But don't exercise it to ur boyfriend or husband tomorrow. A man is very proud and responsible when he is the one taking care of ur needs no matter how ALALIJAD u become. Humble urself before him.
U made ur contact. It shows u have more contact than him.
U made ur prompt payment and clearance.
Girl u just intimidated my fellow man.
In his mind, u don't need him except sex or marriage to have children.
And the way u wrote shows that u can tell him someday to keep his money, u will buy ur own house. Very interestingly annoying.
Allow him to be. I Know u have invested four years already. So he has too.
There are hidden attitudes attached to ur financial Independence that is eating him up.
I KNOW he is fed up.

Sorry o.

That ba truth be this.

A lady's financial Independence most often is a threat to her happiness.

I have a friend that is yet to marry today. But she has money. Men are afraid of her because she can get anything for herself.

Surprisingly. A man will always want to approve what his woman will buy even with her own money.


Learn to seek ur man's approval. Very necessary but if course not for the feminists

Another rubbish

qtx:
I think marriage is really not a game where couples compete to see who wins. That is the problem of nowadays marriages part of the reasons they no longer last.

Where is the place of "everyone's opinions is important in a marriage "?. It mustn't be that one person has a superior opinion all the time rather both parties should contribute ideas that will help. You need both peace of mind and some level of independent mind in a marriage. Each of them is needed, but not in excess though.

Well, you're right, but men only want to have all the say. While the woman just nods her head in agreement like a lizard. Marriages are crashing because women are waking up, and men can't deal with it anymore.

yahjac:
lol.....you're getting it wrong.

good men are just looking for women that will give them peace of mind.

infact we choose peace of mind over beauty sef.....just be average in the beauty department and you're good to go

peace of mind + she's is independent financially is even extra bonus.

men and even boys can sense if they will have peace of mind with you.
if they don't get that feeling from you they will go!....plain truth.

most women hide their dirty personality with "you can't handle my success and independence"


he s not insecure he knows what he wants (peace of mind), the same people preaching online about dumping his ads will do the opposite in real life.

besides the OP said they are both financially stable

You don't need peace of mind, you just need a slave. Someone that will do anything you ask for without questioning you. And only a very poor and dumb woman will do that. A woman who knows what she wants won't oblige to every bullshit you tell her.

Sixfeetbelle:
You still made the same point I highlighted earlier.

Why does a guy need to manage a lady? Why take that risk when thousands of better women abound? If she isn't up to his standards, let him go find someone else. A woman doesn't need to change to accommodate a man. That's bending over backwards. Let everybody find the person that is for them.

I don't need to be resourceful to know a man who's clowning. If a man needs to 'manage' a haughty lady, don't you think it tells a lot about the kind of person he is?

Ignore that dolt, please. He's just like the said guy, a very poor wretched urchin who's intimidated by a woman's wealth, and expects women to bow and worship him even though he has absolutely nothing to offer.

LordKO:
Greed in particular and poverty in general are great diseases. See how almost all of them have crucified the said guy and termed him insecure simply because the OP claimed to be an "independent woman," as if once a woman has a personal ability to cater for basic needs, she has automatically become desirable, precious, and indispensable to all men.

Well, OP, you come across like a woman whose main leverage prior to the misunderstanding between the two of you occurred is her money rather than her independent-mindedness - an independent-minded woman (or man) isn't the same thing as an independent woman (whatever the nonsense mean). The ability to cater for own needs, as a woman or man, should be like the icing on the cake, not the cake itself like any woman who carries around the air of haughtiness in the name of being an independent woman and the poverty-stricken and greedy men and women who support the nonsense notion want everyone to accept.

The guy obviously considered you below his standard and didn't see you beyond a mere girlfriend of convenience. If peradventure he gives you another chance, ask him politely where he wants you to improve. In him, I see a man whose core standard of what a worthy companion/wife should be is based on the woman's strong values rather than mere superficial and material things she possesses.

This doesn't automatically mean that you're a bad person, and, of course, it doesn't mean that he's a saint because his shortcomings are quite obvious. Insecurity, however, isn't one of his shortcomings.

Balderdash.

Bouz:
Can you even imagine a woman problem, how to get wet, like seriously. women no get wahala oh.

And men get high on all sorts of hard chemical just to satisfy a woman, penis enlargement business is booming, I wonder who is patronising them.

Airforce1:
How much is bride price in your state ?.

Don't tell me 2.5 million

I dunno bruh

Goldmaxx:
akuko Mike ejeagha... That's only for poor men, when you are rich like davido, na dem go Carry the girl and child dey offer you free.

As you're as wretched as a street urchin, go try and impregnate someone's child then.

Airforce1:
Dem no born dem well

Dem born them well o. A child isn't yours till you pay your woman's dowry.

Airforce1:
Are you going to be my second baby mama

I want beautiful children, my brother.

NaijaRoyalty:
Shut the fuckup , marriage is not by force .

Lmao, marriage is not by force until you finish raising the baby and the family of your baby mama denies you access to the child.

Na that time your eyes go clear.

Where I come from, a man doesn't own a child till he pays the dowry of the woman.

Use your tongue and count your teeth o

Lmao where is this one coming from

samuelpeters:
Women will never work for their money which is a win for men
If the above is not the case;
Men will still never die of konji so far he still has a hand
"When a man cums, he cums to his senses"and move on to make the world a better place.
He only needs to stroke his phallus and the rest they say, is history.

It's not like your gender contribute anything meaningful sexually sef... you-all stay like log of woods on the bed!

As for duping those women, it serves them right. After all, they all got that money from their men through divorce settlements and other means.
Men are only collecting what rightfully belongs to them.
Innocent women my ass!

In the end, Men will always survive and win!

©️2021.

Point of correction, your mother and sisters will never work for their money. Because over here, we feed ourselves.

kokanepyramid:
At least they worked for the money using their intellect. You didn’t work for your pussy, every female comes with a pussy.
Your mates are working legitimately for their money you are busy feeding yourself with vagina

What a shame

Funny enough if I was the only girl in this planet, men will die of konji. Because even if you offer me your entire inheritance, you ain't getting nothing.

You sweat for which money? Y'all go to Facebook and dupe innocent women of their money, but when women do the same thing, they're are hoes. Bunch of confused gender

If only women will work for their money, and allow y'all to die of konji.

PrinceofAgoAre:
Yet that same money can make ur entire lineage slave 4 him.

No, your sisters and mother slave for money, over here we make our own money. Fvck off dumbo.

kokanepyramid:
men in trouble cos u locked legs?.

If they say it’s only sex you have to offer in a relationship now you’ll take offence.

And men have only money to offer in a relationship. Quite pathetic.

You're sapiosexual and you type like this? Will you geddifok.

Hmm

NextD18:
The biggest achievement of an average Nigerian lady is getting a husband.

Shuttup

Ishilove:
Haha


Thanks. So many new platforms these days

Vine is not new though.

Dapcity007:
Nooo

We have 12 times testerones than women possesses
It responsible for sexual energy in our body
Biological fact

Women posess estrogens and oxytocin hormones which make them natural nurturers

You can research these

Only a psychological and spiritual effort , can make a man stick to monogamy

Lmfaooooo loook at this!!

Godoverevery:
like I said earlier I should have listened to Nazgul.....he warned me against engaging insane people here actually.

Lol you and the nazgoat are irrelevant.

Nazgul:
Ignore certain gibberish on this forum. So many people here are just looking for comfort from the loneliness, rejection and failures of life. If you try to engage them logically, they'll dump their frustration on you.

Just drop your opinion and mingle with sane people here, ignore the emotionally battered ones, and you'll enjoy your stay here. That's what I've learned to do.

Mumu, ever since I put you in your place you've been wailing like a child they took his sweet.

You need to relax and stop crying. Men are the reason for their downfall, if I say it, I will hit my cheat while doing so.

If at all you know how much women suffer in the hands of men, not even me personally, because I have not their time, but other people's experience and the hatred they openly display towards women here.

But any woman that puts y'all in your place is automatically labeled a man-hater.

Dear child, you will be alright eventually.

Keep on lamenting about my life which you know absolutely nothing about.

Godoverevery:
When you get married Bleep another man and if your husband catch you tell him is the fault of the man that came after you for sex..you hear.

I should have listened to Nazgul but I was hoping he wrong about you....Girl stop thinking like fati now..... disappointed

Yeah, I'll fvck anyone I want. Because I see you people "men" as nothing.

Be disappointed in yourself and not me please. I don't know you, and I don't give a fvck about your opinion.