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Once they're about to ghost you, they start calling their innocent parents.

Lol don't ever fall for this. No, their parents never told them not to be with anyone, it was a decision made by them because they're tired of the relationship and they want out.

Here they come with their lies..

Menascum.

A whole alpha males? god of Patriarchy, where art thou?

atmy1:
She brought out a knife and locked the door after calling my new gf that she would kill her if she ever set her eyes on her. She threatened to kill herself if I leave her alone. When I didn't answer she brought out sniper and poured in her mouth. I became scared and started begging her to spit it out. One of our neighbors helped me in taking her to the hospital and she fell sick for two months and I was the one paying the bills. After she got well I prepared to bail out and just leave her with everything in the house but she discovered and went to seize my laptop. I paid cult boys on the street who threatened to kill her before she revealed where she kept it. I left her in the morning crying her hearts out. I came back to pick something in the evening and still saw her crying in front of the house

How do you feel about her now?

Heavensent01:
in which Nigeria movie does people refused breaking up?


Breakup in Nigeria can be so annoying, most time the bf/gf always resort to text not even any confrontation


She will surely find one excuse to justify her wickedness, She will be like Moses I've been suffering with you and I don't see any result coming forth, I can't be like this and age is going. I think the best is to move forward then she cease to reply or pick her calls

The men na dem wicked past, men go don break up with you for many years in the relationship and you go still dey cook, give him the doggy and all style whereas his soul had depart you that's why many old ladies are still singles because they're not observant of their men mood. A man is acting funny, you're the one forcing the relationship and you think such man spirit is still with you? So when he get tired of your Service to humanity, he will find one silly mistake and turn it to big deal then the breakup


Dating in Nigeria can be traumatic and challenging.....

Wow you've said it all!

Pancakeey:
This is funny. Because people react to things differently
Talk to them and try to make them understand.

You should know that they’re hurting too and they’re reacting the only way they know how too.

It hurts when someone who was your everything slowly becomes nothing.
In a relationship there’ll always be a weaker person. Someone who can’t let go of the other person no matter how bad the relationship is.

You need to talk, be there for them.
If they cry, be a shoulder
Make them see why you can’t be together anymore. Explain the bad things that would keep happen if yiu remain together.
Please don’t suggest to be friends because that’s a lie.
[b]People say we can be friends but it’s not possible. [/b]You’ll go back to being strangers no matter how much you try.

Make them see reason. And if it’s that you already have someone else you like, let them know. So they don’t keep hoping that things might work out

You’re welcome!

10000 likes.

lavylilly:
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Please can I call any number regarding this?

Good time to be a Riverain.

Tribalists over to you.

Lol 36

simiamos:
Vacancy! Vacancy! Vacancy!
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1. English Language and Literature teacher.

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Applicants would be considered based on appropriate qualifications and the ability to coach students for terminal exams.

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Hi, has this post been taken?

aduhube:
I pity any job seeker who doesn't place values on himself

Expatiate please?

comsoy:
Nice thread Op. Someone I know very well just got a job with a school at Ikorodu. The pay is 30k per month plus nice accommodation, not to mention other seductive package.

A few days after he got a placement with an infant publishing outfit, to be paid 40k per month plus weekly transport allowance and a little package. It's a marketing job.

Which would you advise him to go for?

Please Sir I need the teaching job, let him go for the later. Please

Lol SMH men and girlfriend wahala

Can never be me.

Magnoliaa:
Do you have money?

Are you submissive and ready to bear my name?

Lastly, do you believe I have the right to sample other men with impunity while I keep you loyal at my home?

Vely important kweshions*. When you answer these, we'll know if to move on to the next phase of testing- your husband-materialness, 5-year plan, and a week-long serving at my parents' house.

Kuku kee me

None. Too much of everything is bad

Who doesn't want good luck in their endeavors?

UjuJoan2:
She's heartbroken, that's the cause of her depression, not her family.

I wonder why she's still talking to you after the way you treated her. She must be suffering from Stockholm syndrome.

And you somehow even made her believe you did it for your own good . . . . genius!

Poor girl . . . She doesn't stand a chance with you hovering around her acting all concerned, after destroying her self confidence and worth.

Men!!

Very heartless beings

goryorhal:
Well said ... God bless you bro

I'm no bro.
God bless you too

Lol na wa. It's not a must to woo a woman na. You're fine jare.

Harddiskng:
So the your conclusion is that this particular man is highly irrational and his wife have no fault and she is justified in not performing her wifely duties by always not being in the mood, I hear you

Please remember to pray before you go to bed, ask for wisdom and commit your marriage into God’s hands (that is if you want to get married).

You need the wisdom more. Good night please.

That's what I'm saying. If girls can, regardless of societal pressure, work hard and fend for themselves. I'll then see how they'll be downgraded every day.

A guy will collect your number only to be inviting you to his house shamelessly. What irritates me is the audacity they have.

If some women don't give them that privilege, trust me they'll be seeing women differently apart from just sex objects.

Even if a woman has nothing to offer you in a relationship, kukuma leave her alone. Don't ask her out, and don't date any of them either. Stay on your own and leave them and their joblessness alone.

Harddiskng:
Where is the place of wisdom and compromise in what you wrote. You are not in the mood (which you concluded yourself without any concern for your husband), fine.

I don’t know what actually went down in this incidence but we both would agree this man would be a mad man to beat his wife for being not in mood at one time, just once in years. Let’s take a wild guess. How many times do you think she wasn’t in the mood for this man to lose his cool and descend on her. Again I don’t support wife-beating but its clear this woman is not blameless.

If you are not in the mood, what about compromise. There are other ways to appease your husband. Do you think the husband is always in the mood to pay schools, leave money for this and that or do this and that? (Assuming this man does).

The same way it goes for a woman not being in the mood, it also applies to a man. Do you know how many men haven’t been in the mood to have sex with their wives for years. How do you think these women feel?

Girl: wisdom, understanding and compromise.

There are men who are naturally angry and frustrated. Small thing, their temper flares up. I don't justify what that man did in any way, and If you do, then good for you. Have a good night.

And youths are here 24/7 defending these people.

Congrats mummy

Harddiskng:
Again for the Umpteen time I don’t support any man beating his wife. It just goes to confirm you say things like communication (cause it sounds nice) while you yourself you don’t listen. You don’t practice what you preach.

You were given statistics & religion but you choose the discredit the importance of sex with “sex is not food” its say alot about you. You are intrinsically selfish, marriage is about two people (common interest, compromise) not only yourself. Please don’t consider getting married if you think everything has to be to your timing or at your whine, you would add to the statistics of bad marriage.

“Sex is not food” do you know how many women are in sexless marriages, desperate, demoralized and unhappy. Again I am telling you this is not battle of the sexes. Check yourself.

You're more selfish Sir. If you think everything in marriage and life revolves about sex. Know your wife first, her concerns comes first before sex. If as a husband you're only concerned about sex and not your wife's affairs. Then you are very selfish.
And yes, you're in support of the man beating the wife, because your argument doesn't make any sense.
And yes, sex is not food. Sometime someone might not be in the mood to have this sex, as a reasonable person, give the person a break.

I'm just having a feeling of déjà vu right now.

People are so selfish. And I mean both gender, this isn't gender based.

You left someone that loves wholeheartedly because you didn't have anything to offer her. Not that she asked you to offer her anything o. She was doing well on her own, managing herself, even though it wasn't enough, she can always go home and have someone to talk about how her day went with.

Then you decided to shatter her heart because of your selfish reasons. Without even considering how she'll feel.

Now she's lost everything and back to square one. All because the only happiness she had has left her. No work, no money, no man. Just empty and staggering to get back to her feet to no avail.

Hmm. Shakes my head. My candid advice. Go back to her, apologize for leaving her and be her strength once more. You'll be surprised how she'll stand on her feet again. She needs you, she misses you.

Forget about what you'll offer her or how you're trying to find yourself. You two should find yourselves together, grind together, hustle together and become a power couple. That is, if you truly love her.

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MhisTahrah:
Shortyy I've come to realize that some male romancelanders say one thing on here and do the opposite in real life.They just type nonsense on here for likes.

Abi sef

Harddiskng:
@Bolded right now you are just being emotional and its affecting your objectivity. First I brought in facts (statistics) and if statistics is not enough for you I also brought in religion.

You want to leave God and His word out of this aspect of your life, Fine. However I would advise you to listen to statistics; may it not end in tears.

Don’t turn this to the war of the sexes and judge the matter at hand appropriately. He is wrong for beating her but is denying him sex an appropriate action. - - - while I was young no matter what offense you committed, in my house you always get your perfect yummy 3 square meals and even more as you require it. Yes, You would definitely eat it amidst your hot tears; Oneday I committed a notable offense househelp’s judgment was that I wasn’t going to eat, mom got back and was furious. In her words “starving a child should never be considered as a form of punishment”. Apply this analogy. - - -

You talk about listening, forgiving, caring and being attentive (to you did the woman practice any of these) If this woman loved her husband like she ought in obedience to God like you are saying would she be denying her husband sex contrary to the words of the same God?

To me, did the woman practice any of these? And what makes you think she didn't? Were you there? She didn't deny her husband sex. If you as a man doesn't have sex in day, will you die? And don't tell me I'm being emotional here, because I'm talking facts.

You're even the one letting your emotions rule you, because of pleasure, you decide to beat your wife. It means you're controlled by your emotions, by your third leg, and not your brain.

You men should check yourselves. Especially most of you that think sex is all that matters in life, and it's only thing you need from your partners. Check yourselves. Y'all have serious problems, and I'm not even joking here.

Bible says "wives submit to your husbands" it never said "husbands beat your wives mercilessly any day she doesn't have sex with you" I'll keep saying it, any man that lays a hand on a woman because of sex or any other reason is no man.