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Kalatium:
You are deviating from what you said initially. You said a woman should drag her man to do a paternity test.

Now you end up saying something different.

Yes, a woman should drag her man to do a paternity test. Very very important.

And I wasn't deviating to anywhere. I was simply answering your question.

Nazgul:
Like I said, everyone is a warrior, Alfa male/female... etc, on the internet.

Reality is a total different ball game. You can say whatever you want to say. It's your opinion and you're entitled to it. So there's no need arguing.

It's not just my opinion but my belief.

Not everyone needs stress in their lives.

Nazgul:
Na so...So you have no plans of setting down, you live your life for yourself, you're the only one that makes yourself happy you'll marry your sister and boss, marriage and love is for the weak and foolish. This your submission has fakenss written all over it.

I know you're just catching cruise....fire on nothing do you.

See this one. You think everyone is intrigued by marriage. You'd be surprised.

This man talks too much these days.

Please allow people to live as they please.

Hmmm. What sort of parents are those?

Kalatium:
Ok.

And you expect the man to raise a child that is not his?

What about if he finds out?

Why did you lie to your wife that you're fertile when you're not? Na wa o.

Abi u no wan make the lady carry her own child ni? Ig a bu ogbenye buru amusu?

What you can't do, another man has done it for you. Be grateful.

Dpsychologist:
Men have suffered in the hands of women and if care is not taken it will remain so forever.

Fair it is not but true it is.

Lmao sorry o. That's not why you people should be crying every day. Embarrassing yourselves upandan, yet y'all call yourselves emotionally strong people.

It's a new year o.

Nazgul:
So you're simply saying you've never fallen in love, you've never loved anyone, you have no friends no one you trust to share certain secrets about yourself with...you know it's so easy to type anything you want on the internet. But reality is a different ball game entirely.

No matter how hard you might want to pretend, you and I know that there's that one guy who has your mumu button, who you'd rather starve and support him with your last Kobo than see him suffer.

That one guy is who my post is referring to.

Bruh, I don't trust no one. This isn't a pretending thing. I only have just one or two people I'm close to. My elder sister and my boss (female).

Like I told you, only an inexperienced girl will fall for that trick, because las las it will end in premium tears.

No one should fool herself or himself around anyone all in the name of love.

Let's not be deceived by telemundo and zeeworld biko.

You can't expect me to fall for you because you're being nice. Kolowerk na.

Me I nice pass you o.
Let everything be neutral. Simple.

If anyone comes at me with that pattern, I'll know damn sure it ain't for real.

BTW, the person wey get my mumu button, dem never born am

Keep crying over women's matter. This is how you'll wail till this year runs out, achieving nothing tangible. While women are busy living their best lives. LMFAO.

Kai women have really dealt with some of you. Every day you wake up, you think of one foolish thing to post about women. People that don't give a fvck about your existence.

Kalatium:
Is that a concrete reason why you will commit a paternity fraud?

Yes, it is.

Nazgul:
Make her fall in love with you naturally.

You can easily achieve this by

1. having interests in what she loves, could be music, dancing, movies... etc. Spend time together with her talking about her likes, make her see you as in interesting person, if she's a working class she'll definitely spend on you. Buy you gifts, hang out with you, loan you money...etc.

2. Good sex, if you're good in bed, she'll definitely wouldn't want to loose you. And you can easily use it to manipulate her into assisting you in solving your financial problem.

Playboys use this trick a lot to hook up with rich girls, they use the girl's parents money to set up themselves then flee.

3. If she's naturally a giver. Some girls are naturally generous, once you're friends with them, they can easily spend on you. If she falls into this category, then sooner or later you'll start seeing her financial efforts towards you.

Only an emotionally weak and naive girl will fall for this. Come at me like this, I'll chop your money instead and vamoose.

They'll trick a woman into marrying them knowing fully well their dîcks can't stand. At the end of the day, they'll be looking for who to pour their frustrations on.

Rubbishhhh.

Bunch of hypocrites.

Ladies, before you marry any man, drag him to the hospital, and do a paternity test, so you don't end up with a mere vegetable as a husband.

Arsenate:
Which is basically most women so the op is right then.

You mean just like assuming what women want. Very pathetic

emusmithyy:
Wow, that's a blow on your own gender because most ladies confirmed this to be really true. Good boys are boring.

Which most ladies? The most ladies are sick.

Adakintroy:
Women always attracting insult to themselves. Then pretend not to know were it's coming from or why it's coming

You could have shared a picture of your family freely without dragging "them" in that beautiful space you already have going.


But by saying " this is why I don't respond"..

You already responded to them. Whoever them means.

Which women? Is that man a woman? Please new year, drop your hate for women. Let it be your new year resolution.

Any woman that likes being mistreated is psychologically not alright.

MrMcJay:
Say God!

Lol

I made a delicious ofe akwu. But I ain't posting it.

jornwhite:
Wow !! finally someone accept nigeria women have been decieving naija most wanted men. however you must have seen naija spec redpill threads all over nl, that is a sign some boyz know better.

If you want to be deceived, you will be deceived. Unless you have no sense.

Emotionless100:
May be u are Linda Ikeji, a friend of hers or family member but to be honest with u any mature African lady who is complete....., will like to marry

Not everyone bruh.

jornwhite:
Read properly, they aint married, its just another complicated r/ship like most nigerian gurls have more than two boyfriends on a normal level the only difference is one @ a time.

But they both know they're with one woman. Unlike Nigerian boys who don't know they're being deceived.

LINTUNE:
lol..like u petting me would add any value to my life, common, i dont know u, i would never care to know someone this bitter,...im just stating the obvious fact here, if u like love men, if u like hate men, i dont really give a Bleep, but atleast keep all ya hatred to ursef, u dont have to show it off online, lest u "infect" good women, with ur sadistic ideology about men....anyways, bye, dont flatter ursef, as far as im concerned ur presence, perception or attention is very insignificant to me, so i dont fuccking need ya pet, or approval...

I can't waste my precious time reading that poppycock you wrote up there. Next time, try writing in full letters, and also paragraghing, so your posts will make sense, and will be understandable.

Well, in his defense, he's actually a car dealer. You should have asked him how he deals with cars.

LINTUNE:
..about self esteem, by god's grace, i have enough the attention from women, have got women, that genuinely love me, which of course i dont need to prove shit to u, believe it or not, im not the kind of guy that approach women, with the mentality of pretending to be rich....u always so bitter about men, is so shocking, i hope it just ends on nairaland...as usual i expected u using cuss words in this discussion, very typical of most "insecure" women...i accept the fact that we men want successful women, but we are not so obsessed about it, a sensible man will rather work towards being successful rather than wait for a successful woman, which of course is very peculiar to a particular gender...

Get your emotional ass out of my mentions.

You don't come at me and expect me to pet you.

When I write here, I write what I'm seeing, what is happening! Go to other sections and see how women are being degraded, I guess I'm supposed to clap and Pat them at the back.

Again, please get lost. I don't care about you getting hundreds women or sleeping with a thousand women.

Ubuja or whatever will create a thread, and y'all will rush and praise him because it's all about how to be cruel to women. But ofcos, I'm supposed to come here and pet you because you're what exactly? Please geddifok.

Chienex24:
And who told you Rich men marry many women for love?
Who told you men wanna be rich because of women??
So if there is no woman in the world, I won't want to be rich again abi?? What kind of fuckery am I even replying to
Am out, Don't bother mentioning me!!!

Your answers lies in your write ups bruh.

Y'all get rich just to impress women and get laid.
What a pathetic life y'all are living. Tueh

LINTUNE:
madam, but let's be realistic her, leave sentiments and emotions aside, a successful man is virtually every woman's desire, even some men get unnecessary attention and respect to such man, this is fact, don't take every statement as an attack on ur gender, have noticed that about u...i believe u are matured enough not to insult though, cos thats what most women do here, when "sensible" guys correct them..

A successful woman is also a man's desire.

Or y'all prefer getting rich, as you obviously can't approach a woman if you're not rich (low self-esteem) then get married to an opportunist who y'all will treat as you please.

I'm not taking anything as an attack Mr Man! Y'all are so fvcking biased and it's disgusting to see!

You expect me to just accept whatever and however y'all treat women?

Oh please! Get lost!

I could write one or two things here and give that balderdash you wrote up there a TKO, but I'll restrain myself.

I'll rather cash out with my ideas than waste them on an already wasted topic.

Chienex24:
Who is biased and stereotyped here? You of course!!

How will you compare someone who is glaringly and officially hitting 7 women with the said women having to sleep behind his back

If he finds out, he can kick them out without blinking while he still has the freedom to even sleep with different ladies entirely and nothing will happen!!

Of course the other time, there were rumors of him getting an 8th wife and all Regina Daniels and co could do is to pray it doesn't happen...

You ladies are too bias even when the truth stares you at the face!!

If you think you are wise because you enjoy his money while cheating, he is a billionaire for crying out loud & only a hopeless spinster hears he has a wife but agrees to be the 2nd.... Up to 7th wife!! Tufia!! He can still f**k u anytime he wants to, as they are legally married to him!!

*Spits*

LMAO see the way he's saying hitting like the man's dîck can even stand.

Just like you said, only a hopeless spinster.

The women who are queing up to go be his baby mamas are obviously hopeless.

But bruh, I worked in a fast food, I've seen rich men's wives come to my restaurant asking my male colleagues out! These women only marry you for your money, aren't you the fvcked up one?

Your esteem is low you have to get rich to get a woman! Like wtf? LMFAO.

Men are really sick.

Angelfrost:
Is it really or actually a mentality or a reality?!!... Think hard about it. Perish any bias, and do some actual research.

Do the Nigerian wealthy not have their pick of the most beautiful of our young dames?!!

I take no sides here, but as hard as we try not to be stereotypical, the glaring facts stare us in the face.

Bruh most of these women end up cheating and messing your lives up! That is the fact.

Y'all need to realize that you're being used and not the other way round.

Don't get rich just to pick the most beautiful girl and marry, that is a very fvcked up mindset.

Get rich just because you want to! Simple!

What am I even saying, Africans see marriage as receiver vs provider kind of arrangement. Bunch of lunatics.

Why do women deliberately go and live with a man they're not married to?

Is it crack?