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StacyO:
Heart attack pillers everywhere.

Bae,this was a tough blow.

Why I said men are soft hearted when it comes to the matters of the heart(love).

Men still very much indulge in it.
Shame.

I'm telling you, sis, forget this their crying. They hate being played lmao. They'd prefer to be the players and the manipulators.

Once you pinch them small, they'd start weeping allover. Bunch of emotional pricks.

PUNAengineOIL:
A man having a child outside of wedlock is different from a woman who tricks her husband to father a child that is not his. The latter is worse.

Men sacrifice a lot to raise up a child (same with women) One day the man will wake up and discover that the child/children he gave everything is actually another man's child/children. If I find myself in such position, I will personally behead the woman and proudly face the consequence of my actions.

There is no difference there Mr man! Just that the woman has no way of hiding hers, while the man does!

Kriss216:
I’m not even surprised.

I commend her boldness. This is the reality of our society now, courtesy of Nigerian girls.

It will be very difficult for a guy earning 60k monthly to keep a stable relationship with a Nigerian girl.

Research shows 99.876899% of Nigerian girls will choose Money over love. In our society today, Love is a word used by two fools to deceive themselves.




Stay away from Nigerian girls if you value your sanity!

You sef, why would you want to be in a relationship when you don't have money? How will you enjoy the relationship? Will your dîck even stand knowing fully well others are blossoming and you're not?

All you gotta say is, make money, but avoid broke women when you've done so! Meet women who are financially stable like you. Simple.

Tloc:
You are a pro in your dad's house bah? Get out there on your own and know what time really says! Small kids these days not as smart as their mothers.

This is the only weapon used against women.
"Clock is ticking" sorry, it doesn't work on me, let it tick!

Men still very much do It! Just that they are very good at hiding it.

Married men have side chics with babies scattered everywhere. Visiting them from time to time and giving them whatever they want.

Forget all these cries they've been crying all over here lately.

In as much I'm not in support of a woman being promiscuous, I'll not take any emotional blackmail from any man. They do that quite well. Always acting like the saints, and painting women black, while they're the masters lol.

Trust me, some men always think they're manipulative and they can get their way through any woman, till they meet a pro at the game, then lamentation starts.

Congrats sweetheart.

What a cute little creature.

Chai.

It is well

KelvinCoaster:
Lol.

Orange is the new black!

Yes! Lol

Goodlyhrt:
quote author=Nazgul post=97679138]God will step in when you make an effort. Don't just sit there praying and expecting God to perform magic for you. He doesn't work that way. Make efforts and he'll crown those your efforts with success.

quote author=Shortyy post=97679205]When you step up yourself.

You cant be doing nothing and expect mana to fall from heaven. And if what you're doing isn't yielding any fruit, maybe you should try another thing.

Ladies if you care to know I am never the lazy type.

I have had a handful of skills that I've got over the course of my existence but maybe I am not that lucky and yet to have my breakthrough.

I just left a job where I teach from 9am till 9pm everyday except on Saturdays and Sundays. Apart from being paid peanuts I have never gotten a full salary at once. It was so bad, I find it difficult to feed sometimes despite working my axs off. I made a decision this year to quit that job and suffer till I get a new job or something..

So you have it. Its not that I am lazy as you guys think. I am willing to work my axs off to get out of poverty, maybe, reason why people take advantage of me.

It's okay, keep pushing and never give up.

Your breakthrough will come.

When you step up yourself.

You cant be doing nothing and expect mana to fall from heaven. And if what you're doing isn't yielding any fruit, maybe you should try another thing.

Nazgul:
Cry me a river...I don't trade words with failures and lowlifes. A useless entity who everyone around her is avoiding because of how useless she is to herself. What was I even thinking trading words with a frustrated soul like you in the first place?

You internet is the only consolation you have that gives you joy and happiness so go on with it.

Awww. Thanks boo

cigwe:
Your are just been bias as in eeh coconut head, So your using Ebonyi State to illustrate your stupidity, So if person dey train his girlfriend for higher institution she must be an Ebonyi okwaya

Whether Ebonyi or not, was just using Ebonyi as an instant, cuz I've met people who do that there.

StacyO:

Ride on sis, we're watching and waiting

Nazgul:
You're obviously deranged, lonely, timid, insecure, unable to keep friends, always pissing people off. That's why you come to the internet to make yourself feel better. But deep down you know that you're as useless to yourself as you are to those around you that's why they all avoid you.

So stop throwing your frustration at me, I'm not the cause of your misery. See all the nonsense you sat down to write just to make yourself feel better. See I don't have strength for your stupidity, today is Sunday and I have better things to do with my life and time than to trade words with a failure like you. If you're tired of life, sniper is affordable get it and end your misery.

Go get a life and fúck off my mentions...I'm done with you.

Chai ya. So this is how the interesting topic ended? Eiya ndo o

Next time, know your mate.

Ramanto:
This post is not in any way aimed at demeaning any gender. I have just been wondering lately with the rate at which women birth baseborn(Bastards) kids and impose such kids on the innocent men that shelter them(husband is too precious to be used here). I feel really sad about this, knowing that any man can fall a victim. My past experience with "an innocent, decent girl" makes me more scared and assume no woman can be trusted.
I have come across a few posts on social media where people are apportioning blames; some blame the cheating wife, while others blame her cheating man partner.
To me, it's normal for men to always feel a little thing for pretty ladies especially when they see frequently as colleagues, but what I don't seem to understand is why women can't simply respect their marital status and resist such rediculous advances. Is there anything I don't understand about women? Is it very difficult to say "I'm married" and stand by that?

To the experienced people on this forum, who is more blame worthy between a married woman who opens her legs for another man and a man who asks a married woman out?. Let's hear your position on this
Lalasticlala

As a man, is it difficult to say "I'm married" and stand by that?

In as much as I don't condone infidelity from anyone, don't just come here and paint your gender as saints.

As that woman has brought one bastard to you, you have thousands of other bastards from your side chicks.

Some of you have 10 side chicks who you're fending for, those with kids and those without.
Yet women are your problem.


A man whose wife is finding it difficult to conceive will go behind her and get another woman pregnant, provide everything for her, while the wife answers wife for nothing.

As I said, I don't support promiscuity from anyone, but don't go about heaping the blame on one person.

Women have endured so much in this society, that at this point, they're just grabbing the bull by the horn, I don't blame them entirely.

Gosh! Men are hurting on this thread!

Premium beans

Lol. It happens both ways.

He should move on.

Nwodosis:
For those in the sex world, it is called Olfactophilia. It is a form of sexual mental abarration!

Youre not far from the truth.

I watched a movie where female prisoners were selling their pants to men. Wand what these men do with these panties is just to sniff them.

Very weird.

Jesus save us all

Dem don dump this one

God has saved me countless times, even when I don't deserve him.

I'm grateful to him forever.

cigwe:
which part of Ebonyi do give out woman on credit biko,
or you just want to ridicule the state because of the hate you have for them of which they don't care, which part exactly or they told you?

I did not say credit. Oh my God! Are you people just deliberately dumb or what?

I have a friend that's currently schooling in Futa, do you know that the husband to be is the one sponsoring her Education?

Jeez. Y'all should try and understand someone before jumping to comment.

Nazgul:
This girl you're truly sick, we're talking A you're just changing the topic anyhow just to suit yourself. Don't they force girls to marry in the towns as well? Or is it only in villages they're being forced to get married. When I talked about the town you changed to the village now you're giving a reference that's synonymous to the town as well. Biko quit jumping up and down like a frog to make a point.

And lol, you're so funny whose sounding emotional. You don't worth my emotions believe me. I just feel disgusted trying to talk sense into a myopic arrogant teenager.

The Ebonyi you're making reference to I did my NYSC there, so there's nothing you'll tell me about that state that I don't know so quit your whining.

No family will give out their daughter in Igbo land to you without you fulfilling all or more than half of the items on the list they gave to you. So quit lying cos you're already sounding so miserable.

Afikpo has one of the most expensive bride prices in Ebobyi state cos of ceremony they do during the marriage can't spell the name properly.

Ngbo isn't left out

Is it Effium

Ezza

Izzi

Tell me where in these places you'll marry your wife on credit. Ebony people that follow tradition to the core would give you their daughter on credit. Go and get your facts right you little teenage liar.

And yes I'm in support of the rights of the female child. Every girl deserves happiness, I've never been against that...

Which topic am I changing?

You're the one who brought up the topic of education, that's your point. And I'm telling you not everyone is as educated as you are to know
What a girl child right is.

And please we're not talking about bride price lmao. You truly did your research as I asked you, but you forgot to finish it.


We're not talking about the price of the bride you dumb , we're talking about the RIGHT. Oya stick it in your brain, THE RIGHT of the girl.

And I never said you're marrying one on credit.

You're so dumb, it bring tears to my eyes.

Now let me give you some instances because obviously, you're very very dumb lol and of course, your fellow dumbos have already started liking your trash a usual lmao.


In a certain family where they're not doing well, and happen to have a girl, this family having nothing to fend for themselves gives their daughter to the highest bidder, in exchange for maybe the education of this child, and overall well being of the family.

Now in this situation, is the girl aware of the fertility of the man? Does the family have time for a fertility check when the man is taking care of them? Are they even that enlightened to know that all these things are necessary? Does the girl even want to marry this man?

Now go back to your google and research again. Don't just read the part that interests you. Read every damn thing.

And PS, all those places you listed there are a bit exposed. Lmao. See his mouth like Afikpo. Afikpo was the capital of Ebonyi state before it was moved to Abakilii. Why won't they be exposed? Yet there are still some unexposed places there. Like Afikpo south.

And no, the township is not a village. Township people are enlightened enough.

And again we're not talking about bride price you dummy, we're talking about a family being enlightened enough to know that a man is supposed to take a fertility test before marrying their child, and we're also talking about the right of this girl.

Don't just jump in and comment, read and assimilate!

Again, I never said, you're marrying someone on credit, read my post please lmao. Stop embarrassing yourself.

Sibtygarr:
Not really, if men stop giving stuff out of ulterior motives then everything about relationship will be fine. This is the main cause of the "Angry white knights on Nairaland"(redpills). They all started out as white knights, giving women gift until they where left heart broken. and now they seek vengance.

But for real men, we don't give things out of ulterior motives. We give it and let it go. If we want something then we ask for it.

You have said it all

Hahaha awon red pillars abi na red pole disgracing themselves

Nazgul:
I won't trade insults with you cos that's the defence mechanism fools use when they're challenged with superior argument and have nothing sensible to say.

So as a mother based in the village even if you don't go to church you'll give out your daughter to a traditional man without educating her on the basics of marriage. Do you even read what you type at all. You'll sell her into marriage in this 21st century without considering her happiness. It means you're more useless than I even imagined.

If you don't know let me educate your myopic brain. Vllages now have electricity,
roads, schools, polytechnics, college of education and even universities. So I don't even know the kind of village you're even referring to, families have educated son's and daughters who can always speak up for the uneducated in cases like this.

You're obviously a child who knows nothing. Data is cheap these days so every teenager can easily access the internet and begin to vomit meaningless comments.

I'm done replying you, when you wake up to reality maybe I'll consider your comments.

Oh please shut it! Just as y'all do here, once someone hits you with facts, you call it insults.

Don't get all emotional on me please, I can't insult you cause you honestly don't worth it lol.

Like I told you, you know absolutely nothing! You might know about your gender, but you know nothing about the female gender.

Women are being coerced or should I say pressured to marry. You think a lady who's pressurized to marry, will care about the fertility of a man? Even the mother won't care.

The main thing is "marry, no time for you again"

"Marry, others are marrying"

You're still here talking about 21st century, like I told you earlier, go to rural areas and see how women are being treated. Don't come here and form shît which you're obviously not!

I'm a child, but I'm schooling you right now. Take a trip to any rural Area in Ebonyi state and ask them about how marriage is done there.

Some even give out their female children on collateral, so when I'm telling you facts, shut the fck up. Your emotional rants won't work on me.

I'm telling him real stuff, he's talking about Educated people. You think it's everyone that's as educated as you think you are?

The day Nigerians realize that the rights of an ordinary girl child is threatened in this country, the better for them.

Please next time, research before you come for me! Peace out!

Nazgul:
You're just struggling so hard to sound logical but believe me, you're doing a terrible job at it. Let me educate you.

Rules in penticostal churches apply to all their branches world wide. Meaning if a rule is issued in RCCG, MFM, depper life or Winners in Lagos, the least branch in that interior village must comply to it.

Churches have what they call marriage comitee, the job of these committee is to ensure that every information you gave them about yourself is true.

They verify your place of work, your house, your medical status, if you've been married in the past, of you have kids already...it has nothing to do with whether you're in the village or in the city. As long as you're a member of the church that's their marriage procedure and you must comply to it.

My church in the village live streams the headquarters program, they obey all the rules of the headquarters in Lagos.

My dear you're the one who needs enlightenment.

I'm talking about reality, you're talking about Church? Are you okay? Is it everyone that goes to your Pentecostal church? You haven't met traditional men? How old are you sef?

Please get lost. You're giving me headache.

I'm talking reality, he's telling church. Mtcheew.
My friend, go and wash plates and sleep.

And please avoid my posts, you're too dul to comprehend them.

Nazgul:
What is this one saying sef.

Are you not aware that in most penticostal churches here in Nigeria you will be asked to do several tests including fertility test before they wed you?

What has that got to do with forming alpha and Omega?

Stop forming what you're not Biko.

Forming what exactly? That is a church believe.
Obviously, you aren't exposed at all. Maybe you're those who grew up in the city and know nothing of what women are facing in the rural areas.
Women have no right in Africa, that's the point I'm trying to make to you.

A village girl who wants to be carried out will have no right to ask her husband to be for a fertility test. It's only the girl that will be tested, that's if any test will be carried out at all. While the man, as the man does nothing.

At the end of the day, no child for years, and this girl starts to face fire from all angles for not producing any child, meanwhile, the man is the problem. Finally, who's to blame?

The way you're seeing this life no be so bros.

I'll stop here for now. Maybe when you're enlightened enough, we'll continue.

Kalatium:
I don't get you. How is paternity test related to the fertility you are talking aboutt above.

Or you mean she should drag her man to do fertility test.

Fertility test! Yes!

Nazgul:
It is the right of every woman to demand a fertility test from any man she wants to marry. If she doesn't do that, then she has herself to blame.

I personally will run a fertility test on any woman I plan to get married to, I must be sure that she menstruate and ovulate and must be certified fertile by my doctor and it's her right to do the same for me to make sure I'm not suffering from weak erection, low sperm count... etc.

Sleeping with other men to correct an error she entered into due to negligence on her part is like trying to make two wrongs to become a right.

Lmao typical of men, doing the blame games. Shebi na for this Africa where men think they're alpha and omega?

Not all women will garner the courage to do that. Even those that do, the men will do everything possible to conceal it.

Nazgul:
Exactly... happy believe and happy stress free life.

Awww thanks