₦airaland Forum

Zzor:
yes ooo, all this Penis people that we have around these days sef LMAO

Westernlove:
I'm Imploring you to always type In pidgin language henceforth because I don't think the conflict between you and english language will ever be resolved.......To read your post na serious headache, No be by force to type In english......

SyberKate:
[s]Like seriously you don't have a better comeback you had to involve my kids, wow[/s]

SyberKate:
Madam spitter
[s]Last time I checked marriage is not by force o, if you don't like the terms and conditions, just don't bother getting into one. Remain single, you will be fine, that way you don't have to worry about a husband who may rape you one day. [/s]

SyberKate:
The [s]way you people throw this word Rape around is annoying.
First of all marriage is not a contractual agreement between two people agreeing to live together.

Marriage last time I checked is the solemnity of two people agreeing to become one. You don't go into marriage with the expectation of my body is still my body, NO in the truest sense of it, a man's body when he is married belongs to his wife, and the woman's body belongs to the husband. That is marriage, I don't know where people are getting this watered down version of marriage that even in marriage NO MEANS NO.

If you don't like what marriage stands for then don't get married, also last time I checked marriage is not by force or by fire.

If you are truly married and you love your husband dearly, why should any of the people in question refuse the other sex, and why should it be taken by force. I believe in a proper marriage setting, the man should have self control for when the woman is not in the mood if he loves her, SO NO I DON'T BELIEVE A MAN CAN RAPE HIS WIFE.[/s]

Capernum:
I [s]know you are popular on Nairaland, but right now, I don't give a Bleep.
Read your comment again. Even if there is something called Marital rape, in your normal moral and God given conscience, do you think it's reasonable? You are saying "you hit them hard with the truth". Which truth? Are you the standard for the truth? Common shut up!

All the sane settings that God naturally programmed in humanity are being eroded daily all in the name of human right.

The world will naturally continue to decline because we are changing the natural patterns that has been from creation.

Judging by the oldest book I know, the Bible, there is no mention of things like Marital rape, gender equality, children claiming human rights at home, rights to choose your gender, marriage being between two consenting adults and no longer compulsorily between a man and a woman.

These days, divorces are too frequent, even for silly, childish reasons, homosexuals are advocating for special treatments. What is this world turning too? See yourself, see the way you are advocating for something really insane, Marital rape.

Now the world is being plagued by a lot of woes such that were never recorded before, several diseases, several natural hazards, sevaral negative happenings. Let me assure you that you are also giving a hand to support what is currently destroy this planet.

Marital rape is nonsense, and divorce is also one of the abnormality of the recent time. Why should you marry if you're not ready for frequent sex? Why should you marry if you don't love your wife enough to understand and ready to accept her sexual libido levels? at least sex is not a proof of love.

My issue with you is you advocating what is wrong and one of the factors currently destroying the world. There is not going to be peace in this world if we keep having matters as this and more importantly, people like you who advocate for cases like this.

I think God has given the earth up to a reprobate mind. If you know, you know. If you don't, care to know. Marital rape ko, martial art ni.[/s]

hardbody:
Rape as defined under the Nigerian Criminal Code law can not be sustained as between a married man and his wife. Even in the English Criminal law, that was the case but courts are beginning to find a basis of fixing guilt on a party who has not consented to sex even in the marital relationship

What is spousal rape? Does the Nigerian Law recognize spousal rape?

Also known as marital rape is the non-consensual sexual intercourse between a husband and his wife. As of today, spousal rape is not an offence in Nigeria and therefore cannot be a cause of action in the courts. The laws criminalising rape in Nigeria specifically provide that sexual intercourse between a husband and wife is not unlawful. Section 258 (3) of the CLL provides that Sexual intercourse between a man and a woman who are married is not unlawful. Likewise section 282 (2) of the PC which states that Sexual intercourse by a man with his own wife is not rape, if she has attained the age of puberty. The Criminal Code in its section 6 also defines unlawful carnal knowledge as a carnal connection which takes place otherwise than between husband and wife. Spousal rape is therefore not recognized in Nigeria until the laws are amended to reflect this. However, a spouse may succeed in a suit for sexual abuse or sexual assault against the spouse who perpetrates those acts.

ume1000:
What then is marriage to the man

Is it slavery to the woman's need ?
Does he have to beg the woman for sex?

Who then is the head of the home the man or the woman?

Pussywar:
This shit doesn't make sense. If you think calling me a hoe is an insult, your existence is indeed a mistake. You're on the internet justifying rape because of money. Your parents did not raise you well.

ume1000:
then marriage is slavery to the man

Sometimes I wonder who pass such nonsense bills into laws

moneyissweet:
What if the ATM machine refused to dispense cash the day u need the Cash most.....I swear u go beg o

Petyprincess:
Koffo dapo Emmanuel! You used your koffos and bighap account to troll me after you were busted you stopped now you with your alternate account nd have started trolling me again lol

See if i should dig everything i know about you I Swear you will cry!! You think you can hide behind different accounts?
Silentgroper=koffos=bighap=princeofagoare
No matter how you try to hide behind your numerous accounts you can't hide your identity nd how you beg for a living!!
Quote me with your alternate accounts okay?

Chii59:
This is true. Nature created patriachy. And it worked for them. Then. Men were at the top, the warriors, the breadwinners, etc and women stayed to care for the homestead.
It worked well.
But time has passed, a lot has changed.
Men are no longer sole providers, women want to do more, to be more, to have more opportunities than just caring for the house.
Gender roles are almost extinct.
And patriachy doesn't work well. Anymore.
What works now is gender equality.

Georgekyrian:
Bro please is not your business like you said already, as you're working now dey earn living, na so the Girlee is working the Oyibo and earning her living. Get away to be far from the Oyibo Nigga. From the way you speak I already comprehend you're not one of those Momma-kid to get visa to US, you know as the suffering goes. Not all Yahoo people ravish money, some uses it to train theirselves to become better and big dream, to help the poor family, to build a big dream and probably leave Yahoo someday. Please you can get a way to advise the Oyibo maybe to stop paying the so called GF, but don't go straight in telling him that is a scammer from Nigeria, just twist his brain and let him be.

femi4:
Mind your biz

FanOfMyself:
The truth is that if there's truly a Nigerian lady ( i.e not a yahoo guy) then you need to see things from the perspective of this lady. Yes she might have lied (we ain't 100% sure that all she have told him are lies), but she might also be willing and ready to meet up with this your patient and even marry him at the end. Nigeria is really messed up economically and people here are struggling.
Let me just tell you this.
I'm in a similar situation also and the only difference is that I am a guy. I met this African American lady online sometime in February and we got acquainted pretty fast. Fast forward to today, she's really been helpful to me in financially and by extension, people close to me. In fact, I have been able to pay for tech skill and got certified all because of her. Yes I do lie to her sometimes ( infact most times) in order to get some dollars, but I really appreciate and I have feelings for her and I hope to meet her in person one day. So please consider the lady.

I have a question... Are you a lady or a man? Just curious oo

mumumugu:
Manufacture a similar story and tell him

Tell him a story of how Nigerians cook stories to deceive foreigners into parting away with their cash.

Tell him the story of hush puppies

Tell him they have spoiled the name of the coui

Tell him without being direct .

ALEX182:
So I have this American patient who I recently came across. He's a fat dude who is like in his late 40s but has a very jolly and likeable character. I introduced myself and we got talking afterwards.

After a while of chitchat, he asked me where I was from. I told him to take a guess and he said said, you sound like you're Nigerian. I told him (regrettably) that I was Nigerian. He started smiling and told me that he had a Nigerian girlfriend and that we both had similar accents.

He then started telling me recent occurrences that had befallen his girlfriend in Nigeria. He said the lastest story was that she was in Abuja and as she was on her way to the airport in a taxi, the taxi had an accident and she was seriously injured and had to be rushed to the hospital. He said that the hospital demanded money before treatment started and he had to hustle about $4000 and send to her in order for treatment to start.

He said that after a week of her being in the hospital, they wanted to discharge her despite her still being in pain. Because she had exhausted all the $4000 on treatment, he said the hospital had threatened to discharge her on the streets and he was trying to borrow more money to see if he could send it to her so they could continue with her treatments.

He furthermore told me that the girlfriend said that she was a Nigerian American citizen who was currently stuck in Nigeria due to her passport having expired and also due to Covid lockdown at airports in Nigeria. He said she had asked him for $300 to renew her US passport from American embassy in Nigeria.

Another thing that he told me was that just before covid struck, there was a similar pandemic which happened in Nigeria early this year and that his girlfriend had contracted the disease and he had to send her $2000 for treatment. Right now he said he's broke but is waiting for like $2000 disability check from the US government next week which he will send to her as soon as the money clears.

As he was telling me this tale, I was so angry with Nigerians and how they take advantage of people in love to scam them. I wanted to swear for the scammers


I'm at a dilemma here. Do I tell him that he's being scammed by Nigerians or do I continue to be professional and just ignore it. Because I don't want him to think I'm involved with it because these oyinbo people can turn everything on your head and accuse you that is your people in conjunction with you that are scamming him. They are that crazy.

The good part of me wants to help him but I'm hesitant that it may turn out bad for me. Please matured responses.

jornwhite:
Naa these kind talk dey piss me off pass .. parasites with pride ... dem dey share money inside your personal space abeg make una shush all these mumu "thank God" talk jare.

Sixfeetbelle:
I mumu ooh. Chai! I been mumu before ooh.

When I first joined, I was replying some pms because I thought I was being a good person. In fact, some even have my whatsapp number and that's my main number. I even sent "extra" things to someone right before I realised some people are not stable mentally. For more than two months now, I've stopped replying pms.

As this thing don happen like this for this thread, na so I don dey bite my fingers like crazy. Who send me message ooh? Na friendship I been dey do when I reply pms but it looks like that shit won't end well for me. If the nigga decides to act like LordKO, na im be say that thread go long pass wall of China.

God of the helpless, I been dey on my knees ooh. No let them drag me for here ooh

tabithababy:
Chaiiiii. Meeting a nairalander offline is very risky.... Have always known this Too many bad boys , they will collect your picture to yank off or collect your personal details so they can use against you in future

Arsenate:
Lol

How da fucckk did I miss this? What an actual shiit show. So these ladies acting all tough to other guys on this forum always go behind to beg guys who seem to have their shiit together for friendships. For real, not that I'm surprised though. This is simply some red pill shiit in practise. .

TransAtlanticEx:
Liar!!
Who dash you Anambra.
We are not primitive and timid or heartless,especially towards family.
This is clearly an mbaise behaviour,thanks.

ensamy:
Why would Bubu even make this delicate statement. Meaning they have been using the Army and Police to over run elections. I see why Nwodo was insisting Igbo Presidency 2023 because he knows it's not by election but by selection by using the Army and Police. I am SHOCKED like Bubu.
Biafra 2023.
Obaseki should watch out .