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Anuoluwapo23:
When you want somebody of Higher class, Does that make you Materalistic?




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victorian:
your eye don clear

Pusyiter:
This OP sounds either frustrated or rejected. Marriage is a beautiful thing only our hearts could make it ugly. It not only makes you focus but responsible. Women/Ladies are doing men the favour by marrying them and not the reverse. ''He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from God'' not she who finds a husband!

BluntTheApostle:
Sorry about my rude comment. It was not intended. I imagine Shugavee only in one direction when it could even mean sugar Victoria.

Ebuka2016:
I will sure try baby

Ebuka2016:
ok oo... I wanna be the richest man alive someday in my life time. How about that?

Ebuka2016:
Goodmorning dear.

nawa oo...

so you'd rather go for the not so rich guys instead??

i bet its only Nigerian guys that behave that way

Bbbbbbbbbbbb:
See your face . Then tomorrow you start creating threads on marriages all over the forum. Funny you

Marriage is highly over-rated these days. I love my single life (don't need no woman monitoring my every move).

XhosaNostra:
Hahaha. You think so? He sounds like a gem, doesn't he?
Perhaps I'd give an exception to that. I mean who doesn't wanna live in style?

XhosaNostra:
That sounds nice too, but sometimes you just wanna be alone. A part-time husband, maybe?

Ebuka2016:
Goodmorning dear.

nawa oo...

so you'd rather go for the not so rich guys instead??

i bet its only Nigerian guys that behave that way

victorian:
I laugh in Portuguese.

Men get happy when u fight over them. Lol.

Well i will never fight over boyfriend, that can walk away at anytime.

Thank God my husband is not a stray dog. And thank God I married my own husband. Nothing will make me fight over a man. My marriage never worse reach that level. God forbid.

Keep fighting. It's good for your body.
Give yourselves upper cut , naked una selves in public and even break bottle sef join. All na to protect your man.

Goddys:
Marriage is a societal and religious construct. I always wonder why ladies always take marriage rites and traditions so serious that atmes they betray their own feelings just to get married.

I am of the opinion that marriage has never helped the male folks except to limit their independence. The worldview that it is to a man's sole benefit that he is survived by his offspring or be considered irrelevant is a fallacy.

The emergence of any new life till adulthood favours the female folks most while the male folks take wholesome responsibility of upkeep and sustainability of the child.

Marriage is a shackle to male freedom. He gives up his independence and emotional stability to a woman in exchange of what please? What does marriage offer to a man aside procreation cos I know a well-to-do man can contract a lady for procreation purposes only and pay her off?

I have observed the life of most married men and discovered that peace, stability, comfort and independence elude them.

XhosaNostra:
Not every lady wants marriage, we like our freedom too. The thought of going to bed with a bag of chips, instead of cooking a big meal for a husband & kids, sounds more enticing to me. Another thing is, when you live alone things stay the same, you don't have to tidy up after someone else. You can also do whatever the hell you want without having to check-in with the "head office" before making decisions or going anywhere. So basically, you're a free bird & life is on your terms.

Sigh. Looks devine from where I'm sitting.

victorian:
Op, you don't fight for what's not yours, especially on boyfriend and girlfriend matter.

The guy u are fighting for? Can move on at any fucvking time and marry some on else, ontop the fight. People will even see the main chick fighting as a kolo mental babe and trust me no guy wants such for a wife.
If he's yours. He will end up marrying u. If he's not your husband, he will leave.

Pray not to fight untop another woman husband and marry him byforce. Cause such union, u won't enjoy

Last last, Na u go jejely pack commot him way.

tiffanyfan:
Even if you use all ur blood to fight for him, if he doesn't love you enough, u fought for nothing

fancy4eve:
For how long will one keep fighting over a cheating boy frwnd. My dear, u only hv 1 lyf 2 live, nd do not allow 1 cheat 2 create eneminity btw u nd Sumone. If he truly luvs u, He will stay wit u, fighting anoda gal 2 get ur man is not d best option for ur own safety nd leta if dey break ur head or eye, He will go out dey nd marry a complete gal leaving u 2 wallow in regret bcus no body send u work. Mind u, Na only u wake come oh

Ebuka2016:
ok...go to bed dear. When you wake up, we'll continue.

I still maintain that a guy being very rich would not make him treat you like trash..of course there are few exception. you obviously met the wrong guy. A yahoo boy? what did you expect

Ebuka2016:


Op I sense lies...being very rich sure would definitely give a NIGERIAN man lots of ego and a little bit of pride but thats about it. if you are worth the guy as a woman....I mean, if you tick most of the boxes in the man's list of what he needs in a woman, he will treat you like the queen that you are.

2mao, I'ma create a thread that goes like this: most very beautiful and sexy ladies do not make good wives

sounds ridiculous to me

Bbbbbbbbbbbb:
Shugavee sorry o, at the bold face, I forgot you came to Nairaland to look for boyfriend or husband. Happy searching

Homeboiy:
I know say I don down ur spirit this night

Dooh

Homeboiy:
See tautological expression


Go back to jss1

stephleena:
hmmm,nawa oo if u say money can't buy happiness then u don't know the right place to shop

Cutehector:
Most very broke girls don't make good wives..

BiafranBushBoy:
most very rich guys

Bbbbbbbbbbbb:
Boyfriend this, husband this----- everytime.

Can't you just focus on your career and let the others fall into place