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BiafranBushBoy:
Most very rich guys dint make good husbands

If I ask you to focus on your post UTME exam, you'll think I am tryna insult you!

Okay ooo

it's don't I know thats an error

I know ladies won't agree with me!! But this is a known fact!! Very rich guys don't make good husbands, most times comfortable guys r better to marry till u both grow together n build an empire!! There is more to a man than his account balance, money isn't everything!! Broke guys ain't good to marry too but not as bad as very rich guys!! Their attitude n character are nothing to write home abt!! Most ladies take their shit cause of their money n status but honestly most of them ain't happy!! Emphasis on MOST

habsydiamond:
u see am talk....imagine if a girl go fight for a guy dem come break bottle for her head....whose body the injury go dey....the worse part na the guy fit even no visit when she dey receive treatment...

everything na brain!!! Nobody get the perfect method for this issue but sha no relax say na u be main chick, do something n know ur ground

lefulefu:
and how does she know she's the first? ...cos the man told her? Take everything some guys tell u at face value. If a guy is hesitating to introduce u to his family, on his social media page he is not enthusiastic to show u off as his girlfriend then forget it u not his main babe.

i gave an example here!! This one we know she was the first!! Everyone knows!!! She was very close to the guys family n everything!! That girl was the side chick to us that knew!!

habsydiamond:
out of 100%na how many boyfriend activist don marry same boyfriend...most dey always lose ni ooo

lol na really boyfriend activist!!! some of them act too late that's why!! When they know they hv lost the guy already after relaxing thinking they r the main chick!! As e dey start that's when u react!! This might not work 4 everyone but when the guy marry e side chick!! No come dey complain say e do me this e do me that

lefulefu:
A lady will always know she's a side chic or a main chic because the signs are there for her to see but some will be willing to turn a blind eye cos of the financial tingy they are gaining frm the guy.

ladies hv this assumption that being the first gf makes u the main chick!!! But funny enough non of them are!! But i feel if na u first dey there hold ur man like skin tight o!! Don't allow him to hv a side chick hoping ur the main chick

habsydiamond:
Una won turn Una sef to Mayweather and MC Gregor..if that's money dey to win now e for better...fighting on top a guy or a lady who fit leave u anything is the beginning of madness the only difference na say the pesin never enter market go display....

lol na story be that!! Babes wey i know dey do am well n them don even marry!!! It's not abt money all the tym!!

habsydiamond:
Una won turn Una sef to Mayweather and MC Gregor..if that's money dey to win now e for better...fighting on top a guy or a lady who fit leave u anything is the beginning of madness the only difference na say the pesin never enter market go display....

lol na story be that!! Babes wey i know dey do am well n them don even marry!!! It's not abt the money

UDUJ:
you created 2 threads with the same subject. Na wah for you

sorry na mistake o!!! N i don't know how to delete one

lefulefu:
What exactly are u fighting for?..if d guy no reason u all ur fighting will be in vain.the day i saw two chicks fighting in the street for my former 74 yr old landlord to be the main chick that's when i knew some girls are really foolish.

lol thats funny but i feel its better to know say the guy no reason you!! Than to sit down dey hope say na u be main chick

Stevengerd:
Keep fighting for Bf, Let other be fighting for their own piece of national cake, sho gbo.

yes o na my own be this o!! Is not all abt money all the tym

So went to see my friend on Saturday in her shop, an argument was going on, n one lady said "I no care if my boyfriend get side chick 4 outside o, as far e dey give me my money n attention!!! N they were hailing her, one girl was not in agreement but she felt like she lost the argument, so let it go!! So i wanna share a story concerning this

When I was in 100l my school mother's best friend who was in 400l at that time, had a boyfriend since her 100l days, the guy was a big boy with a car,SWag n all, they both started together, when he was broke!

So i noticed a girl he was dating in my hostel n told my school mother n my school mother told her to confront the girl now that it's just beginning , but u know naw,,, "them no dey add mouth for boyfriend n girlfriend matter":" she didn't talk to the girl or anything, the guy told her she was the love of his life n the other girl was a fling!! She started Calling herself the guy's "seriouscy" main chick n all that, so my friend got pregnant n the guy told her to get an abortion!! With plenty fights, she did it!!

So later on she heard from her hair stylist that her boyfriend was doing his introduction on Saturday, the hair stylist was congratulating her thinking she was the one, suprised!! She started asking questions, just to find out that that so called side chick got pregnant n refused to remove it n cause she was an igbo girl(the boy is igbo) the guy decided to marry the girl!! That's why the guy insisted she aborted her pregnancy !!! She went into depression so tye babe will be lighting candle n swearing for the girl!!(So na now u wan dey fight)


To the main issue, I feel it's so stupid to just sit down n allow ur man hv another gf n assume ur the main gf, nothing like that!!! We all know most men r cheats but when a particular lady is beginning to share the attention of ur man, my dear fight!! Call!! Make moves to break it!! If that ends the relationship, its better that way!! What's meant to be will be, but its better u had the feeling u fought 4 it but didnt work!! Than u do nothing but he ends up with his side chick anyways!! Girls r desperate o!! If u say the man is urs n u hv done so much!! U don't know what that sidechick is doing to prove herself!!

If you even marry a man u can't control espeacially when it comes to his female audience, it definitely won't be a happy marriage!! Big difference between marriage n a happy marriage!!

That's ur man, protect him! u turn out single with a fight not depressed!!! Tho it hurts both ways but ur dignity is still intact!! Back then i thought the guy was a horrible person but now i realized he picked his happiness!! She would hv stoped the relationship even b4 it started!!!

we hear alot of stories like these nowadays but i hardly feel 4 all, because most of them knew their boyfriends had a another girl but they claimed to the be the main chick!!! As soon as u freely accept another lady to share ur man, just know ur on a gamble table


Futher more i feel its so unfair that a man can push every guy that comes ur way just to hv u to himself but when a lady tries to do same she is seen as paranoid or that she is overreacting!!

Bad thing is most guys will keep off just knowing u hv a man but desperate girls will continue dating ur man knowing he has a girlfriend!!!
So pathetic


#happy girls r the prettiest
Angry n upset girls r the _________
Stay happy always

Harbdulrasaq:
Former Special Assistant to President Jonathan on New Media, Reno Omokri has offered single women advice on how to make their partners propose.

The US-based pastor gave the advice on Thursday morning in #RenosNuggets, his early-morning inspirational piece on Twitter.

Omokri said single women fail to get their men to propose because of giving them pre-marital sex.

He added that denying a man sex would only make him more willing to get married so as to have access to the sex.

He tweeted:

http://newshelm.ng/how-to-make-a-man-propose-reno-omokri/


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i hate when people try to paint sex as the only attribute of a woman!!! I hv sex not just because of him but myself as well!!! Reno hardly says anything based on logic but sentiments!!!

Qsscruz:
Lol.. You got into my head in a blink to decipher what I like. Well, you couldn't be more correct.. Big asses are the icing in the cake.. You got anymore recommendation from that sector..? Seem you like solo more?

nope!! Simply curious!!" U guys really need to let women be n not embarrass them with inappropriate questions!! I should be free to express myself as a woman!!! Good day mr QsScruz

Martin0:
THINGS WOMEN WANT IN A RELATIONSHIP
Women want partners that care.

Women don’t want perfect partners; they want men who are striving to be their best selves.
She doesn’t necessarily want someone who has every step of his life pre-planned, but she wants someone with drive and with goals.

She doesn’t necessarily want someone who cries every day, but she does want someone who has the courage to cry in front of her when he needs to.

She doesn’t necessarily want someone who stays in therapy for his entire life, but she does want someone who has the courage to face his own emotional demons.

So put in the work. End the stalemate. Decide that you want to be in the kind of relationship that most people don’t have and you want to put in the effort necessary to become that kind of man.

The women of the world are waiting for us. And they want us to step up just as badly as we want them to open up.

nice to see reasonable men like u in this section

Gebbson007:
bross forget that 1,who no dey mess

kolo

donstan18:
What if they don't love you.

u just hv to let go of the love!!! They r ur ex 4 a reason!

TheUpsetGirl:
I really don't understand how broke guys manage to summon Guts and start wooing a lady.... broke guys don't deserve to live, they should be slaughtered... I wonder why a lady will accept to date a broke guy in this 21st century or the guys using some kind of magic or something?... I have a male friend who's broke, when I say broke I mean this dude is super broke but how he manages to woo some ladies in town baffles me.... sometimes I do call these ladies as my fellow ladies and advice them only for them to go and tell the broke dude.. ..how can a normal girl agree to date a broke dude in this present age?? magic or what

this thread is so funny!! But i sha agree with the bold part !! My gateman has 3 girlfriends in my area!! I wonder how he does it!! Am like " with his 15k salary?" if na one e get,we 4 hear!!! Three!!!!!

frankkydee:
And they came back all because of either what they were enjoying from you and not for the sake of love?

how would u be sure of that But if u hv doubts as u do now!! Then don't

frankkydee:
Pls,is it advisable for someone to go back to his/her ex?

yes if u still love them!! But please make sure things r over with the present girl