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Lol inferiority complex will not kill some people!!

Grayjoy:
are u an igbo? Anyway shugavee this is d point i have been tryn to make.

u hv been trying to make no point!!

Grayjoy:
are u an igbo? Anyway shugavee this is d point i have been tryn to make.

u hv been trying to say nothing!!!

RuthDaniels:
Igbo guys are good when it comes to marriage. They take care of their wives and family.One of the most romantic people i have ever met.

But then just like in every tribe, there are some bad eggs among them. And a lot of dangers marrying them especially if you are not from their tribe. Remember marriage is not all about my husband and I but my husband, I and his family. "his family " that's where the problem comes in.

true i agree with u on that

femi4:
The use of 'I' and "my" still doesn't change the fact that you generalize.

Next time, follow this pattern:
but after some observation i hv realized some/most igbo guys are awesome people, n these r my reasons:


Emphasis on the use of "some/most"

not some, All i hv met r awesome!!! So speak 4 urself!! Majority will 4ever win the vote

femi4:
You probably have comprehension problem. She did generalize, or

How do you want to interpret this: but after some observation i hv realized igbo guys are awesome people, n these r my reasons:

emphasis on "my" and i" u Yoruba people tho!! No body is fighting with u people!!! I love igbo guys they r the best!!! Cry me a million buckets

Oludon20:
She cannot ask the husband for sex but the man can ask abi? continue. We do not know the REAL root cause of this matter. I am married with 4 Kids and it is very funny that you ask your wife for sex and she go dey form whereas she no go ask. If you lock up you become a bad person who does not know that his wife has feelings. How we go satisfy women for this life? The lady better swallow her pride and like someone said reignite the fire if not na she go loose last last o

lock up 4 2 years really? Smh

Priscy01:
A Nigerian woman shared her marital woes on a Facebook group and the replies she got are quite interesting to read.

According to the woman, her husband hasn't been intimate with her for 2 years though they live in the same house but they are living like a tenant. She said he married a new wife and brought her home and he now gives his undivided attention to his new pregnant wife and cares nothing for her. She's now asking if she should have an affair with another man who is asking her out, seeing as she is tired of masturbating.

Read what the woman wrote below;
NO SEX WITH MY HUSBAND FOR ALMOST 2YEARS, CAN I HAVE AN AFFAIRS?
My husband has not touched me for almost 2years. Is it still wrong for me to look for someone else?
We are in a marriage of 15years with 3 boys.
Almost 5years ago he asked if I minded if he had a second wife.
I told him I did mind because I hate polygamous marriage setting but he had the second wife anyway and has had several several affairs since.
He hasn't touched me since almost 2 years, we live as flat mates.
He wouldn't let me leave with my kids because he wanted to stay in the house together with his new wife who's pregnant and centre of his attention.
A man has shown interest in me, is it still wrong to have a physical relationship with him, even though I still live with my husband.
I haven't had a physical relationship for 2years. I'm tired of masturbation and dying to be touched and pleasure by my husband but he never look at me!!
I wouldn't mind to have sex with my husband but begging him to is not an option!!
I'm only in this marriage because of my children otherwise, I would have long gone!!
I need advice please."

As expected, lots of advice were given to the woman and most of them will leave you shaking your head.

Read their advice below;

https://www.torimill.com/2018/03/no-sex-with-my-husband-for-almost-2years-can-i-have-an-affair-lady-asks-see-advice.html


Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

how i wish i could meet her personally I will tell her she should rather ask herself if it's wrong to be happy!!! Hv an affair!! Yes cheat n when ur caught? divorce!!! Run with ur kids!!! That's not marriage that's bondage!! Some men r just mad!! Why won't u satisfy ur wife

femi4:
You don't sound like one....no apology

thats ur business

femi4:
I m sorry about your poor background. Go and make your own money

i don't need u to tell me i that, i work n i make my own money!!!! Getting ready 4 work btw!! Good day

Goodnight!!! Peace!!

DrinkLimca:
who is arguing with you?

who is talking to you!! Guilty conscience!!!

donstan18:
You didn't get me...Ma nigga

Drinklimca and mhisbliss aren't the same person

Even Amara knows they are not, but she had to fake and held on that to derail and confide herself, and they fell for it.

Didn't you notice, the dissing shii just stopped when she did that, that's mind game.


We all know Drinklimca is different from mhisbliss we all do.

But, it's a game played

they are the same person!!

Bbbbbbbbbbbb:
Any decent married woman is supposed to be asleep or with the family by this time and not fighting over irrelevant topics online. But what do I know? Goodnight all

nothing like decent married woman!! Ur not her man!! So bother urself with ur problems

Amarabae:
I called drinkliimca jobless and you forgot that you are operating a two accounts from two phones, you used your mhisbliss account to reply me on how u are not jobless.
I quoted drinkliimca and not you.

You have been caught.

u dont need to explain!!! She/he knows she/he hv been caught!!! See the way she/he is trying so hard to prove they aint

DrinkLimca:
Tell her to go to bed..

U go to bed!!

Amarabae:
Don't change the topic.

You have been caught.

Sshhhhhhhh

lol

Amarabae:
so you are the same person running two monikers.

I Don catch you.
I quoted your drinklimca and you replied with this mhisbliss moniker.

Make una come o.
Lol

na wah!!!

DrinkLimca:
who is emeka to her?

lol you can't diss..
abeg go and sleep..

nonsense talk

mhisbliss:
lmao volcanic eruption, wake me up when you've something to say retarded warthog, wanted to clapback but realized you're the foolish OP in the first place

keep quite there!! Mtchew

mhisbliss:
housewives are in bed by now, here you're, being a complete jerk,

stop dragging me to your level, its beneath me to prove anything to someone like you who's way beneath me

did you date a doctor to become an axiom nurse? because I'm not getting this nollywood storyline of yours that you're cooking

ur very stupid , i am trying to ignore ur foolishness!! But u must be sick in the head!!! Get A life 4 urself!! Frustrated bitter being!! She got a degree, a man, a home!! What do u hv!!! Ur frustrated self blabing all over nairaland!!! So being a housewife means u shouldn't hv fun n chat with ur fone!!! R some of ur mate not sleeping Shut up abeg!!! Don't tell the whole world how senseless u r!! Don't like igbo guys abeg!! Get out

Amarabae:
Hahahaha see painment.

Amarabae:
Lolx.
She thinks that the "housewife" jab still work.
Not knowing that there are some hardworking housewives who are safe employed and are working in their home.

Her little brain don't tell her that.
Some housewives too are graduates who are yet to find a nice job.

What does a kid know kwanu

nothing my dear!! Be a housewife if u wish, just hv a job n something doing!!! Don't be dependent to no man!! That's music to my ears

Some people dont actually read to understand!!! Abi is it that they can't read!!! Well whatever!!

Amarabae:
Lol.
Her true pathetic colour is coming out.
BTW housewife is not a sin for those who are.

Little raat, I have a Nursing career that I am proud of.

My salary a month being in the federal system will transform your "men-dependent" life throughout this 2018.

You are beneath me in all classification.

Shalap and respect yourself.

tell em!!!

Amarabae:
Lol.
Her true pathetic colour is coming out.
BTW housewife is not a sin for those who are.

Little raat, I have a Nursing career that I am proud of.

My salary a month being in the federal system will transform your "men-dependent" life throughout this 2018.

You are beneath me in all classification.

Shalap and respect yourself.

tell em!!!

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
You are right. Though I've met stingy ones o.

One thing I hate about them is their conservative way of reasoning.

my own is they like male children too much!! Like female child no be pikin?? Rubbish ideology they dont wanna let go

Amarabae:
You don't need to apologize to anyone.
Always pepper them and watch them Burn

Grayjoy:
by generalizing it to all igbo guys. Its a subtle dig. I agree with ur line of thought cause I lodged with an igbo guy who paid all d expensive bills down to d last details. But ur generalisatn pinch me.

now listen, i didn't say igbo guys r the best in nigeria even tho i think they r ., or they r the best to get married to, i said why i love igbo guys n if u can read very well I said it's based on my observation n I recognized the fact u may think other wise!!! I also said they r bad ones as well, so i think u need to read my post again or check the meaning of generalization!!!