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Preshy561:
okay if you say so.how was work??

fine, just stressful thanks 4 asking

TheUpsetGirl:
you're confused. OK some men hate their fellow men especially Africans, do manists insult them?


please don't ever quote my post again because I can't remember the last time I quoted your post, I don't conversiate with kids especially the unintellectual ones. thank you

angry girl u can say all u want to say abt me, but just know u can't tell me what to do and not do!!

Preshy561:
mmmmm,

you have been talking since morning

that can't be possible cause i hv been busy at work!! Met the page this morning at page 25 n so suprised to see it in page 40!! Wow!! N now 42!!!

TheUpsetGirl:
some ladies here keep saying trash. one said that women are made by nature to be enslaved to men(page 3),another one said anti feminist ladies are sex starved now this one is coming here to say women who won't embrace feminism are being subservient to men . I don't know the kind of feminism being practiced in Nigeria or who gave you people this mindset, in America I can tell you that 40% of their ladies don't support feminism how many times have Oprah Winfrey and other feminists come out to insult them? I don't understand these self acclaimed feminists on nairaland

see u dont hv to support feminism, but dont be hateful towards women that do, cause like it or not, it for our own good!! I Said on my post that I know alot of ladies who dont support the movement too but they dont hate on people that do so!!! So conclusively women that hates on feminism , definitely hv something wrong with them, some sex starved n alot more already written here!! No one here is going to apologize to you for saying the truth, n before u think of using vulgar words on me just know I won't reply you!!

Irresponsible men r everywhere, i know girls will still date them but so u girls know the kind of men u r dating, n what u r up against!!


How to spot irresponsible men:

1. They r dirty: being clean n neat has nothing to do with how much u hv, if u can't afford a laundry shop, do it urself!!

2. They r talkatives!! They talk alot without thinking!! Gossip alot too !!!

3. They like social media alot:: they take it so seriously!! Insulting people n making a fool out of themselves

4. They are lazy!!!:: Lazy n broke, hardworking n broke r two different individuals, meanings:: not all broke guys r lazy n not all comfortable guys r hardworking either.sometimes it's just grace

5. They hv no respect for women, they beat up women, insult women,rape women, etc

6. They are still players n hv more than one babymama

7. Guys who are addicted to alcohol n hard drugs

8. They are stingy!!!!

9. Lastly, Most of them r single, they think they are perfectly ok, they dont know their irresponsible character scare women away, people who say stuffs lik " i dont need no woman in my life"
Oh yes we know that, no woman wants u either

men!! if u find urself in 2 of these categories, fix urself!!
To my fellow women, may God help us!!

Women that ain't sex starved should just save it, no needd to be bitter abt it!!! Except indeed u r sex starved! N trying to prove a point, Cause i know most of u guys are Doing husband hunting!! I aint unapologetic abt my statement cause its true!!! Nice discussions tho!! And fights as well!!

franchasng:
help her out, stop being a sidondelook, show her love and watch her delete this thread.

Unhappy, severally heartbroken, sex starved, love starved women carry feminism on their head like gala

Sexy, hottie ladies getting good men's attention and love don't even know what feminism is all about cos it is bulshit to them

lol I knew feminism b4 i started hving sex, so no man can take feminism out of me cause its part of me!!

Bbbbbbbbbbbb:
Shugavee just needs some constant every day good dicking that's all

oh please I hv all the docking I need

franchasng:
I think its the full time feminist ladies that are love starved and also sex starved.

When a woman finds a wonderful man that treats her well, she will forget feminism even fight against feminism.

Sex starved and heartbroken ladies form feminist as a way of revenge against men

lol funny enough I am in a relationship!!

greiboy:
Will do mate, will do

At least, until you learn something substantial like the upsetgirl

Google is still free as Bleep

nothing to learn darling, my ideology is good enough for me!!! Keep up with the good work!!!

greiboy:
How far donstan18 baba Watin they happen

Are people insulting the op of this thread for not knowing the meaning of independent women

I give up, go on with whatever suits ur thinking!!! Troll well!!!

greiboy:
Why are you explaining yourself to me

Was the comment referring to you? Anyways, I am really happy that you decided to own your comment, even though I didn't mention any one's name.

First of all, that is your own thinking not anti or pro feminists thinking. You confused independence with traits such as skinny and so on. You said not every one can be independent women because we have fat women and so on.

Secondly, you said not all feminists should/can be independent women, but they shouldn't be dependent on their husband is what you are advocating. Thus, showing you clearly lack the understanding of the word to begin with.

Hence, until you admit you made a mistake and go back to read and understand the meaning of words synonymous with feminism and feminism itself, I have made it a deliberate task of mine to troll the hell out of you

You just have to live with me

i am a feminist by lifestyle, i am not a feminist to prove am smart or something, i hv come to the understanding that u can't explain feminism to someone who doesn't hv an open mind, like these two discussing!! Unlike when interacting with an anti feminist, u will be frustrated, so u remember my recent thread about fighting for ur man, n sure anti feminist (them no dey hard to know) came up n said " these women that pretend on social media but can't do with out a man in real life", that's their ideology, u can't hv a relationship n say ur independent to them, they hv their own ideology that u can't influence even with a dictionary!! So that why i had to give my explanation to that anti feminist lady based on her ideology cause i know them!! I can't start explaining the meaning of independent women at that point!!! Cause i know exactly what she was thinking!!

greiboy:
Why are you explaining yourself to me

Was the comment referring to you? Anyways, I am really happy that you decided to own your comment, even though I didn't mention any one's name.

First of all, that is your own thinking not anti or pro feminists thinking. You confused independence with traits such as skinny and so on. You said not every one can be independent women because we have fat women and so on.

Secondly, you said not all feminists should/can be independent women, but they shouldn't be dependent on their husband is what you are advocating. Thus, showing you clearly lack the understanding of the word to begin with.

Hence, until you admit you made a mistake and go back to read and understand the meaning of words synonymous with feminism and feminism itself, I have made it a deliberate task of mine to troll the hell out of you

You just have to live with me

that's not my own thinking i am a feminist n i meet anti feminist on a daily basis even right now at work!! If i am talking to a person with good comprehensive understanding of feminism n it's concept that will be a different thing, n real feminist who meet anti feminst regularly will understand my reply!!! Gosh ur here just misinterpreting what i said!!! Not all women will be rich and single(their own definition of independent) just make sure ur not dependent on ur spouse!! troll all u want dear I will be fine!!

greiboy:
People are having intellectual discussions, yet one lady who doesn't understand the meaning of independent women decided to join in

Wonders shall never end

been seeing ur comments around directed towards me, thought u will hv sense one day but i guess not, so am going to give an explanation to u just in case ur brain couldn't understand the reply i gave to whomever!!! This was directed to anti feminists , so i made my comments based on their normal thinking!!! Most anti feminist think independent women means millionaires n rich women! Yes n most of them also belive hving a lover means ur not independent! They tend not to understand the literal meaning of it, so i made my comment in their view (of independent) that feminism is not meant for independent women(single rich women) alone!! But for all women!! I know u won't still get it!! But thats not my problem!!! Hv a nice day!!

WORDWORLD:
The question is to misswrite and for a reason.

i answered it anyways!

WORDWORLD:
further more, misswrite do you agree with "most western feminist historians (who) contend that all movements working to obtain women's rights should be considered feminist movement even when they did not (or do not) apply the term to themselves"? I just qouted that from wikipidia about feminism.

yes it is!! Whether they admit it or not!!! Ladies who say i can fight for women's right n not be a feminist r plainly decieving themselves!! Please naw e do!!!

Please o!! Not all feminst r lesbians!! I dont subcribe to such ideology!! I think this thread has lasted enough

Ladyhippolyta88:
I have heard this argument back and forth.Some people are of the opinion that the destiny of man is in Gods hands and that it is God who controls who a man should or would be as we were created by him.Some others are of the opinion that the destiny of man has always been in his own hands because God does not create a thief,kidnapper and other social vices done by people.They are of the opinion that it is how man decides to live his life which is by choice he either chooses to be of good impact to the society guided by principles or a bad impact to society.The contributions of the religious,atheists,agnostic,theists,deist,pantheists are highly welcomed.So what is your view?lalasticlala,mynd44,Seun,Martinez19,darkchild64,Mrmystr0,butterflylion,Ezedictator and others.

both!!!

Greene66:
Following this post...

https://www.nairaland.com/4406885/hundreds-protest-walk-against-rape

I observed quite a handful of males maintaining that if a woman says No to sex, she should say No to being spent on as well. This doesn't make any sense to me because she isn't a prostitute

Why not go to a brothel or a club to pick a lady of the night and "pay" even less than what you may "spend" to get what you want? Why rape an innocent lady?

A responsible man will spend on a lady from the goodness of his heart because he has love for her. Not because he wants to have sex. If u want sex just tell the girl from the start, or approach a prostitute and pay. Don't be a hypocrite.

You should enjoy spending money on a woman. It is good luck and nature blesses those who spend on women.

Keep calm and love women.

well said!! Not all men are as responsible as u r!!!

Gossip!!

happy200:
I observed that each time i'm out of her sight she 'll put up a fight but when we meet physically she 'll be laughing and wont bring our previous fight issue up. When i'm around everything goes fine. But let me just step out: uncountable rude sms and calls immediately i return home you won't hear any of those, it 'll be new topic and laughter. I'm just confused.

lol she aint immature or whatever!!! At Least I know she allows u do ur work,after work u go to the house n be with her especially if u know she is alone!! Its for bettee for worse so u cant tell her to give u breathing space!!! The only thing I think u should do is get her busy!! Let her meet new friends, a job, a business!! So she has where to go to as well!!!

DonPiiko:
Females cheat more when there are unmarried. Anytime I find a hardcore feminist my passionate plea is do not be deceived most so called feminist champions have good homes there only use it as a cover for populism and to attract attention

okay i think am done!! Aint down 4 any negativity this night!! Goodnight

CastedDude:
Senator Dino Melaye representing Kogi West district - has reacted to reports that two criminal suspects allegedly working for him were arrested and paraded by officers of the Nigerian police force. The police said the suspects have confessed to being provided weapons and financial support by Dino Melaye.

The controversial senator took to his social media pages to share his reaction as he wrote; The venom of a viper does nothing to the back of a tortoise

A statement by police spokesperson Jimoh Moshood said the suspects, identified as Kabiru Saidu and Nuru Salisu, were paraded on Monday in Lokoja, the state capital.

During interrogation, they further confessed they were Political Thugs recruited by some mischievous Politicians in Kogi State to cause mayhem, and disruption of peace, and destruction of lives and property in the State. They also confessed to belonged to the gang of a dreaded and vicious kidnap for ransom gang under a gang leader (name withheld) whose where about is being investigated by the Force. The two suspects were identified by some of their victims.

The development could further complicate the ongoing political crisis that has seen Mr. Melaye and Governor Yahaya Bello enmeshed in bitter confrontations over the state’s political structure.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/03/senator-dino-melaye-reacts-arrest-criminals-allegedly-working.html

it seems to be a set up to me

DonPiiko:
Who cheat more in relationships from your perspective??

men cheat more!!!

DonPiiko:
I think most new school feminist are youngsters with no genuine idea what it means so i like to see how people minds work. Who do you think cheat more in relationships, male or female??

male!!!!! So u mean u hv no interest in feminism but just wanna ask me questions to see how my mind works To what end??

DonPiiko:
Are men scum? How old are you?

most men r scums!! But this is not from a hateful place, but just how men tend to behave n disrespect women, it shows everywhere!! Even here on nairaland!! My age has nothing to do with feminism!! So no comment to that!

DonPiiko:
Is feminism a struggle, doesn't it simply means that both genders be viewed equally? What am I missing?

yes that's what it means but its relevant to know that us being equal does not imply we r the same

DonPiiko:
Good evening I want to become a feminist, will you take me under your tutelage

sure!! What do u wanna know

DonPiiko:
Hello shugavee

hi Donpiiko, good evening

[quote author=Meloshi post=65681260][/quote]i agree with you!! Imo, enugu, delta,cross rivers n edo girls r very pretty!!! Hvnt been to the other places to know