₦airaland Forum

Bbbbbbbbbbbb:
I seriously doubt that Shugavee is a graduate. She be heavy olodo

doubting Thomas!!! I hope this ur plenty talk on nairaland feeds u o!!! Cause If this is all 4 nothing u must be very jobless!!

donstan18:
Bring out your middle finger, dig it into your pussy,bring it out and smell, that's how stinking your brain will forever remain

comon sharap there

Chikita66:
See how the feminists are contradicting themselves .

if u read feminism very well u will know it varies!!!(well I know u dont) Based on the fact it's an ideology!!! It's in ur head n people define their own quest!!! Reasons Why they're more than 10 school of thought of feminism!! U hardly see two feminist that agree in everything!!! Main thing is u belive in the equality of both sexes!!!

donstan18:
Shut up osiso.

What gave you the guts to quote me, are you high?


C'omon getawt

see this ode!!! Pretend like as i tagged u it's not swting u!! Mtcheww!!! I know ur so glad I graced u with a reply after rumbling in my thread 4 hours!!

donstan18:
If only you know how pained people can be while pretending

how r we sure ur not the one pretending!!!

Bbbbbbbbbbbb:
Bro I tire o. Some men are really suffering

Just imagine living with the S H I T for a wife

n u think u ain't shit as a husband Laugh at urself!!

donstan18:
A married woman!


Tufiakwa....Wives of these generation are poo

Just imagine....Someone's mother.


A man's wife

Things are happening ooo !

okay don't get a wife!!! It's not by force!!! Or Get ur own wife n restrict her from her fone when she please, its not of our business!!! Her husband loves her just the way she is!!! So bother urself with ur own problems

Bbbbbbbbbbbb:
Ha this illiterate again? I hope you see how we are dissecting your so called role model? Fake nairaland feminists

lol I know ur a fan!!! NEXT

Amarabae:
Are you trying to run away?
Are you giving up so easily?

Chai Amarabae you are a toughie

all these jobless men r not worth ur words dear

makydebbie:
A feminist that thinks marriage means you've fulfilled every purpose in life, is that one a feminist?

Don't argue with her again. She has concluded you don't have what it takes to be a feminist for reasons best known to her.

lol please u better read all my threads i make it always clear that marriage is not achievement n will never be I know the kinda backlash I got 4 that!!! Marriage is a happy experience we all want male or female but not an achievement

RuthDaniels:
Look here woman, you will save yourself a whole lot stress getting emotional with me, I am too cerebral for that. Hold your emotions!,
The fact is most of you ladies who rants Feminism on Nl know nothing about it.Do you think everyone will blindly follow/accept such shallowness?

Calling female anti feminist sex starved ladies is the dumbest form of objection i have ever read.Even Mswrite helped you out on reasons why some people [women] dont support feminism but here you are confidently defending your garbage! Not that i was expecting anything better.!

My only advice: Understand what you stand for!

i understand exactly what i stand for n i know 4 sure it's not obligatory we stand 4 the same things!!! N whether u like it or not I hv said my peace!! Advice urself!! U hv ur problems to fix

Ladyhippolyta88:
Shuga every movement has it's extremist so does feminism.We have three waves of it don't let any NL hurt you because of your beliefs and what feminism means to you.If they like they call it NL feminist are jokers and frustrated leave them alone.Everybody to their kettle.

true!!!

RuthDaniels:
[b] Lol... You claim some ladies object feminism especially the Nigerian version of it. Believe me you are very right. Especially the Nairaland version, I'd be damned to support mediocrity!

To you lots on here, feminism is a canopy to let out your frustrations, bitterness and hatred. You go about spewing derogatory words at/about the other gender at slightest opportunities because of some bad experiences you have of them.Is that feminism? Feminism shouldn't be borne out of hatred but love. Love for humanity and not for oneself.

Feminism to you here is supporting what is not right so far it is coming from your gender and acting /kicking against it in another gender. Is that feminism?

Feminism to you here is an excuse to show your uncultured, unorganized and improper personalities without being ridiculed. Yeah.. some of us see through that.

Feminism is kicking against your own kind because they don't accept your own view. Lol I thought It is about empowering women.How do you convince /educate people you fight?

I remain on my stand... Any act of defense born out of selfish/personal reasons and not for the love of another is Not Feminism! [/b]

i hope u read my first three sentences!!! I hv no problem with u being a feminist or not that's not my concern!!! But some ladies are so bitter towards them n insult them at every given opportunity!! Just look at this!!!! N the lady was telling me it sucks to be a feminist!! How R u a feminist? How would u know that!!!!Futher more i dont hv to prove myself to you!! What u think abt me is totally ur business!! Am very okay with u hving an issue with this!!! N I repeat unapologeticly most of them r sex starved!! They give anaysis of broke girls to assume they r not broke!!! Saying feminists r bitter to assume they r not bitter!!! Just so men can see them appeasing!! Desperation at its peak!!! Agree with me or not!!! I am totally okay with

greiboy:
Then you should know taking care of you and dependent on him are two different things. Although similar, dependent means he is your only source of income.

You should also know a dependent person cannot provide any support in return.

yes i do n i agree

greiboy:
Read my previous post again and digest its contents

Have a nice day.

i did n that was my reply

greiboy:
@bolded

A lot of what you write is based on assumptions not facts

You can't be a full house Dependant on your husband/boyfriend money and claim to be advocating for equal rights for both sexes, just like I cannot be drunk/chronic womanizer and preach the gospel successfully.

Everyone will see my hypocrisy

You will lack the moral capacity to convince others.

this is my point exactly!!! Most men think we r fighting against them!! We r not!!! So i shouldn't hv a boyfriend n if he chooses to Take care me i should tell him no cause i am a feminist!!! My guy knows I am a feminist n loves it!!! N do u think we dont financially support each other We do!!! Just hv dint be dependent on a man!!!

makydebbie:
Fly out of my mention asap. Shouting like being a feminist, you've bigger and better rights than others. Be shouting feminist up and down here, don't go to the outside world and do what the real feminist do.

who do real feminist do Ur not a feminist n u think ur obligated to tell feminist what they should do n not do!!! Lol!!

highqueen:
your topic is flawed o jareh,,how can you claim to be a feminist when you don't even value people's opinion and by so doing labelling them sex starved..

it portrays the lack of ideology on feminism. ...

i know exactly who i am!!! Read my first three sentence n meditate on them!! N darling I dont expect everyone to agree with me!!

greiboy:
This comment is full of contradictions,

What is your point

You said feminism is not only for independent women what about fat women slim and so on. How does that statement correlate? Can't slim or fat women be independent?

Then you said women shouldn't be dependent on men is what you advocating for. What is the meaning of independent women? Don't you know you just agreed with her observations with that statement.

Anyways I guess you are trolling

alot of women (anti feminist) belive independent means millionaires!!! Whether they admit it or not that's what they mean!!! They belive if u r a student u cant be a feminist!! N am like he'll yeah !!! U can!!!! I didn't agree with nothing!!! I hv passed my comment n am not obligated to understand the way u choose to understand my comment!!

makydebbie:
No ma'am, you said kudos to this thread. That's what I came for. I was expecting you to counter the sex starved issue. This op's write up is full of flaws, I was expecting a feminist to counter it with something much better not clap for her like she has said something reasonable.

I know what feminism is about, I've read on it. I'm talking of the real cause, not the one some 'feminists' have redefined.

no u dont expect anything from feminist lady!! U don't even hv that right!!

TheUpsetGirl:
this lady called amarabae once said her husband must provide financially and in any other way.. for you to be a feminist you must be an independent lady.. what even got me angry is when they said ladies who don't support the movement are single and sex starved.. in America and Europe where it started 53% of their ladies don't support feminism and the feminists there don't say these kinda words. I wonder whether these ladies screaming feminism on nairaland understand the real ideology of feminism
and for their stance that we are sex starved and single... 80% of feminists are single. and they're the ones that are sex starved, yeah you can see their hypocrisy here

it's good u said this here!!! I belive u know nothing abt feminism!!! Feminism is not just 4 independent women but all women , poor or rich fat or slim!!! Its an ideological thing!!!don't be dependent on a man is the thing!!! Hv something doing that's all we preach!!! A market woman can be a feminist!!! Lol so u think once u hv a man in ur life ur no longer a feminist?? U think feminism mean "men dont give me money cause am better than u" No it's not!!! Life is a space 4 all humans n we can help ourselves whether male or female!!! My bf does almost everything 4 me, so because of that, does that mean am not a feminist So am supoose to say"don't give me money because ur a man" ?? Feminism is an ideology that we r human first b4 gender!!! So Beyonce n Michelle obama 4 example!! Do u think they tell their husbands not to give them money cause they r feminist



Feminism is for all women, married or not, fat or slim, rich or poor, student or worker!!!! All u hv to do is agree with the feminist ideology!! There is no rule!!!


Unapologetic feminist

Amarabae:
Tell me one contribution you have made in the fight for girl child right

i saw one anuty taged u n said sisterhood!!! Now they remember sisterhood !!!!! When dey gossip n insult all around abt feminists!!! They don't know what sisterhood is o!!

Amarabae:
Tell me one contribution you have made in the fight for girl child right

lol ask am

U all coming here to gossip!! I see u people

greiboy:
I respect different political views based on concrete ideology, but I detest tribalistic views portrayed as political views

Anyways, I should probably respect our differences. I just felt a little gutted that the hatred was coming from a married woman.

dont expect too much from anyone!!!

greiboy:
Just a thought

Feminists is an advocacy for equal rights among sexes. Thus, feminism does imply that it is fighting for a better world.

Fighting for equality is also noble act that requires having a higher moral grounds than those against the idea. (Manist and misogynist )

Attacking ladies just because they don't see the world in the same way as feminists defeats the whole idea of fighting for fairer world i.e. the world is no longer fair to women anti feminists

i am a very diplomatic person!!! Read my first 3 sentences!!!U don't hv to agree with it but leave me with my opinion, n my feminism n quit being hateful!!! Abi r u surprised with our continuous advocacy we still make it!!! With the insults, we never stop!!!! Like we intimidate them!! Please being a feminist is not by force n can never be but if u choose to be hateful towards it!!! And hv No respect 4 it!! Especially with the fact ur a woman, n with the improvement feminism hv brought 4 all women!! I really dont care anymore!!N this is a well known fact that most of them are single n desperate!!!

Lol funny enough the nairaland guys ur hoping will run into ur DM, will still fu*k u n dump u!!! desperado!!!!

I know u men love anti feminist women!!! So i see nothing new in the response

We all can't be feminist!! I know alot of ladies that ain't feminist but hv no hatred against the feminist ideology, some respect feminism but dont fight 4 it,,, most men r anti feminist n it's understandable!!! But those set of ladies that hv feminist issues all in their mouth in negativity are simply dick starved!!! They are here forming wife materials 4 men that dont give a Bleep!!! So disrespectful over what they know nothing abt!!! Nigerian feminist this n that!!! Is it ur feminismlmoa when I see them on threads trying to talk down on feminist!!! "What's wrong just being a woman" lol nothing !! But i hv choosen to be a feminist woman!!! If it gives u headaches!! Drink panadol!!! Most of them wey dey carry man issue 4 head like akara are normally single as he'll!!! We all know u need a man n we feminist hope ur methods work 4 u!!




# Haters shove it up ur ass

Chikita66:
Whatever that rocks your boat dear.

yesssssssssssss!!!! being a feminist rocks my boat

Chikita66:
I don't have any issue with them, a lady can still be fearless, unintimidated, opinionated without being a feminist especially a Nigerian feminist, it sucks being one. All I see are bunch of bitter folks that take life too serious.

thats to u!!! I love being a Nigerian feminist

8. FEMINIST IDEOLOGIES;

I'm not in any way trying to say that ladies that have feminist ideologies are broke but most of them are broke. Many of the feminists we have in Nigeria are not genuine. for you to be a feminist, you must be an independent lady, you can't be dependent on a guy/man and call yourself a feminist. Yeah, my point now is that 70% of Nigerian feminists are broke/poor or dependent ladies. Believe me, if you are a dependent lady and you're calling yourself a feminist "you're deceiving yourself",the real meaning of feminism hasn't gotten to you yet.


Jointly written by Chikita66 and Pocohantas(now Antibrutus)


published by theUpsetGirl[/quote]lol u ladies must really hv issues with feminist!! I wonder how many feminist u hv actually seen, than just do evaluation based on the hate growing in ur heart!! A lot of ladies feel so intimidated by feminist simply because they dont hv the guts that feminist hv!! Unintimitated! Fearless!! Regradless of the society's insults!!Well u all r entitled to ur opinion!!!




#Unapologeticfeminist4ever