plat0:
What are you on about?

Sometimes you people type as if you live in alternate universes. So ladies don't get the urge for sex?

It will interest you to know that most financially stable ladies seek out guys/men they can have sex with devoid of emotion. Times are changing, there's an army of ladies that will accede to the OP's request without hesitation.

Beer parlour assumptions.
Did any financially stable lady tell you this?

You guys don't even understand what we're saying. The post reeks of pride and sounds condescending. A lady stated up there that even if he meets such a lady, he won't respect her. That's because of how it strikes us women. I'm sure the op has his mailbox full of women who don't measure up to his standard though because to them, he's worth the hassle. Even if he won't pay them, him being in their network or they having bragging rights about being FWB with him is worth their while. That's a reward for them. The op could find one that tickles his fancy though so it could have a happy ending for him.
My point is that his proposal is not rewarding enough for the type of lady his post is seeking. His d*ck isn't enough. If he would lower his standard and pick from the volunteers instead, he should be fine.
However if he were to meet high value ladies, be friends with them and shoot his shot, his chances will be 300% times better.

You Gerrit? If you don't Gerrit forget abourrit

eazzzy1:


Are you saying only prostitutes have sex? Are you saying girls don’t crave sex when they are single? Are you saying the ones who do are prostitutes? You know a girl can be waiting for mr right but having sex with someone because she wants to?

Just because you wouldn’t do it doesn’t mean it’s not getting done. People have different needs at different points in their lives. If a no commitment relationship meets a persons need at the moment, that isn’t prostitution. It’s two people enjoying a friendship and sex.

This isn't a relationship, it's a transaction. Relationships involve some kinda emotions to exist. This is not even a situationship. This is a transaction. Transactions only happen in a brothel or a prostitute's bed. That's my point.

eazzzy1:


Lol prostitution arrangement. There’s no prostitution here.

What’s the difference between a girl who has a crush on a friend and one thing is leading to the other? I think you don’t like the idea that a guy would approach you directly for such. You think it demeans you but many people in the world today are sleeping with their friends.

One thing would keep leading to the other, it won't stop after sex. Many people even married their friends but any woman entering this arrangement is dumb, very dumb.

This is prostitution without payment A prostitute is a woman who engages in S*x or s*xual activities for payment in cash or in kind.
This op now is looking for a very high class prostitute but he has nothing to pay her with because everything he has, she has also... So he can't pay with cash and has stated that there won't be any payment in kind either.

Let's be realistic, a lady who ticks all these boxes will only have sex with you and not expect money or gifts because she's not thinking logically but emotionally. He obviously wants no mention of emotions here. What kind of sexual relationship thrives without an emotional influence if not prostitution?

eazzzy1:


He’s seeking someone who’s like minded, she gets to be in the kind of relationship she wants. Just like in traditional relationships where two people want to date and then date!

How do you know that this prostitution arrangement is what she wants?

Ishilove:

G-Unit

I was reserving space while I laughed my ass off. Nairaland is full of clowns

A pretty lady, who works on the island, is very intelligent, and financially well to do won't be short of guys to date or f*ck if need be.

Out of the numerous guys around her who are professing love and maybe even marriage, why should she pick you who is there strictly for sex (which she doesn't lack) ?

You don't want a lady that's into hookup or prostitution, but you want a decent lady to come be your prostitute. For free

If intelligence wasn't part of your requirements, you might be lucky to find a foolish woman who ticks all the boxes, but since your emphasis is on intelligence , all the best.

ajl:


See this one educating me on what I was born with. Nothing wrong in what I said. Mine was also cut from young age. Same as my younger brother.

U could be born with it but not understand why you were born with it unless you dig deep

ajl:


Dada only refer to children or individuals who were born with or developed dreadlock naturally. Its not to be used for those who choose to develop dreads artificially by leaving their hair unkempt. For the true Dadas, even when your parents continue to comb your hair, the dread continues to develop. I guess most of you are disconnected from your culture. So this crazy views.

Very wrong, I know several born dada that cut the dreads and grew fresh hair. Once you cut off the tangled part, fresh hair grows.

I understand the spiritual aspect very very well but why should I say it? It's not my biz.
Besides it's much deeper than u think, it goes deeper than culture, it's almost like a religion.

Let me not scare you, go to bed

Xavfra:





I like the latter......
But it's true...the latter is much better.....

But at least you ain't got anything

I knew, was just pretending I didn't know

Xavfra:



Sorry for describing yourself......

I'll keep my dada till death.......

Lmao
E pain am

Dream of me giving you a hair cut dear

CAPSLOCKED:


YOU'RE BEGINNING TO SOUND DRUNK, JUST LIKE I EXPECTED. FROM ONE BRANCH TO ANOTHER.
I'M SURE YOU DON'T EVEN UNDERSTAND YOURSELF, SO HOW CAN ANYONE UNDERSTAND YOU?

YOU'RE ALSO VERY LAZY AND DIRTIER THAN A PIG BECAUSE FOR SURE, YOUR BRAIDS WON'T LET YOU WASH EVERYDAY.

Lolz you're very popular for shifting goalposts to suit you.
You're either a pained dada or a semi mental patient or even both.
Dream of me

Nostradamus:
some people don't just like shaving their pubic hairs,not because of dirt but they just hate shaving it.i know three people who hate shaving the pubes..


There's an American porn actor that also hate shaving his pubic hair.he believe it's not right shaving it.


This thread is somehow jare..but in all,there's nothing spiritual about dada.just our superstitious mind at work,i don't like dreads myself.


Some people even hate shaving their beards.the American basketball star,james harden(fondly called the beard) is one who hate cutting his beard

Not shaving is better than not combing and washing hair imo. It's a free world, but as humans we owe it to ourselves to be clean.

Someone can't carry lice factory about and want to hug me, kolewerk.
Spiritual or not, fashion or not, don't be the person that appears and people loose appetite. Those who do it for fashion are the neat ones. But you see those that feel it's conventish, haaa run o if you want to live long

Ghostrye:

And the fact that you are overtly concerned about someone else's looks says a lot about YOUR mental health. Also for the record, you can shove your opinion up your arse.

You walk around looking semi mad and expect normal people not to be concerned? Thats how madness starts before the advanced stage.

I sure won't reply you anymore now I know your mental predicament

Xavfra:


I wash my clothes.....

I keep some of my nails......

Because you don't eat Ukwa and I eat it, doesn't make me bad

The fact you eat housefly doesn't mean housefly doesn't eat shit and I must not be okay with eating housefly

Xavfra:


It's the choices we make...

My hair is heading to dada.....
Just that my profession doesn't allow it.....

Because you're either too lazy to comb it or you're possessed by an unclean spirit.

Xavfra:


Lekwanu onye ocha.....

Taahhh gbafuoooo eggbbbaaaa......

Anuohia nwuru anwu
I yiri Ihe eji achuru ndi mmuo mmiri aja

Xavfra:


Do you Barb the hair on your head

Do you cut your fingernails
Do you wash your clothes?

Xavfra:



[s]Always talking in rubbish
...always talking in nonsense[/s]

Trash

CAPSLOCKED:


OVER 80% OF YOUNG WOMEN IN NIGERIA ESPECIALLY STUDENTS AND HUSTLERS HAVE REALLY SMELLY HAIR. MADAM HOW MANY CAMPAIGNS HAVE YOU ANCHORED TO STOP THEM FROM BRAIDING OR FIXING SO THAT THEY CAN WASH THEIR HAIRS EVERYDAY?

AND FOR YOUR KNOWLEDGE THE LADY IN THAT PICTURE IS THE LEGENDARY ASA. YOU CAN GOOGLE HER OUT BEFORE SAYING HER HAIR IS DIRTY AND OOZING WITH BACTERIA.

A man that bathes smells how much more a man that doesn't bathe. They both smell but on different levels.

Of course I know Asa, let me and there. It doesn't change the fact that the hair is dirty and synonymous with mad people

Ghostrye:

Same way nobody asked you not to shave or tries to dictate how you wear your clothes or trim your beards, your food might just be their poison. Doesn't mean they are dirty or lazy, it just means you should learn to mind your bonking business

Lol, you sound like a pained dada.
Dada hair is synonymous with dirtiness and propagated by unclean/marine spirits.
All mad people left alone have dada. That a normal person chooses to have dada says alot about your mental state and no! I refuse to be cool with seemly normal people who aspire to be like mad people. That's my opinion. Deal with it

CAPSLOCKED:


SEE TWO VERY LAZY AND DIRTY PEOPLE BELOW.
PROBABLY COLONIZED BY UNCLEAN SPIRITS.

The first guys hair looks artificial like twisted wool. So I can't really say.

For the second picture, even though she tries to keep it clean, the dirty vibe is still there and doesn't change the fact that the hair is oozing with all sorts of bacteria

Ghostrye:

ummm I don't know, maybe because the owner of the hair doesn't feel like combing it, because it is his hair and he/she can manage it whichever goddamn way they want?

Because they are dirty simple and short.

Why stop at hair? I hope they don't don't shave armpits too and pubic hairs because they can do whatever dirty rubbish they want to.

CAPSLOCKED:


THERE ARE NO SUCH THINGS AS UNCLEAN SPIRITS. IS NOT COMBING MY HAIR A SIGN THAT I'M DIRTY?

Of course, a very good sign of laziness and dirtiness

CAPSLOCKED:
BY NATURE OF OUR RACE, DADA IS THE NATURAL FORM OF OUR HAIRS IF WE LET IT GROW FROM THE ROOTS WITHOUT COMBING OR TOUCHING IT.

THIS IS WHY YOU SEE MANY MADMEN AND PRISONERS WITH DREADS. IT HAS NOW BECOME FASHION, AS EUROPEANS AND AMERICANS PAY MONEY TO HAVE WHAT WE HAVE NATURALLY. IT'S THE SAME WAY OUR WOMEN PAY MONEY TO HAVE THEIR HAIRS LOOKING LIKE THAT OF EUROPEAN WOMEN.

HOWEVER, I EXPECT US TO ASCRIBE IT TO MARINE SPIRITS AND WITCHES BECAUSE WE'RE STUPĮDLY SUPERSTITIOUS IN THIS PART OF THE WORLD.

Why is it synonymous with mad men and prisoners?
Because it's symbolic with dirtiness. Ever heard of unclean spirits?
Why shouldn't you comb your hair?

junior20202020:
Help Me Recover My Glory
Note: I normally have rock erection Even when a lady sit on my lap, early morning waking up I also use to have rock erection before I meet the first prostitute. From there I went back to masturbation again partially. At the age of 21 I made my first 1.5 million naira through business, but I noticed since I started visiting this prostitute my business collapse I could hardly boast of #200k in my account.

The long and short is that you have a strong spirit wife. A very jealous one. You romanced the prostitute but you didn't penetrate her meaning there's no soul the with her or any woman at that if I get you correctly so your problem isn't from any of those women. But from the minutebyou decided to "cheat" on your spirit wife, she padlocked the d*** and started attacking your business cus she realised you want to leave her.

See each time u masturbate, if God opens your eyes, you'll see that there are spirits that come to enjoy themselves with you. They call them succubbus. Many times, you may see them in the dream giving u madt s*x.

If u don't address that spirit wife, hmmmmmmmm

I pray she doesn't even have children for you if not you'll just be carrying children up and down in the dream.

Signs u have a spirit wife:
- Early sexual activity like masturbation or even prostitution
- Anger
- Inability to settle down especially due to lack of finance or lack of spouse
- Sex in the dream
- Feeling being pressed frequently or once in a while
- Either your dad or mom had a spirit spouse etc.

These are the most common.

There are others like eating in the dream, seeing children calling u mummy /daddy in the dream, seeing snake very close to you/trying to climb u in the dream, getting married in the dream, lack of social skills even when u are friendly, sudden financial crisis when u think of marriage, seeing people having sex in the dream close to you, being attacked by python/cobra, dog, tiger, cow or a masquerade in the dream.
Etc
The spiritual always control the physical.

Lol, that guy is a nairalander. I swear, he's a nairalander.

Reasonabledoubt:


Too much African magic is worrying you. Better not let hunger finish you there!

You're already languishing in poverty that why the thought of helping family scares the hell out of your miserable life. People who can afford it take their parents on foreign vacations and pay them salaries without waiting for the old folks to beg or ask for it.

This is your last attention, cherish it for the rest of your ill-fated life

Reasonabledoubt:


Ode! Runaway from here with your cheap blackmail. I will not need my children for sustenance in my old age, I’m working towards it, just the way my father doesn’t need us before he can eat.

Do not live an unplanned life.

Another silly, stupid child. Thinking everybody is as poor as his stupid self
I definitely will not reply any of your insults because if you meet me, you will be begging to carry my handbag for free

Orchid45:
LOL!
What happens when you outlive the children you are banking on for support in old age?

What happens when they can't support you because they can't support themselves?

I believe looking up to your kids for support in old age, is tantamount to setting yourself up for an old age of disappointment, bitterness, regrets and misery.Whatever your kids gives you should be a bonus not your only hope.

I know life happens, but I don't believe in living myself to fate.

You've prophesied it yourself. Enjoy it as life dishes it to you cold

Orchid45:
I was shocked when I saw her comment. I find it hard to believe people still think like that in this century.

You're clearly a child & clearly scared of the concept of caring for your poor parents who are looking up to you and counting days till when you can step up.

By the time your kids are grown, we should be in the 22nd century, I pray things go the way you planned, I hope you get a job that you never loose, I hope you get employment in a company that guarantees your comfortable retirement because your children will be as shocked to see you expecting them to care for you if things go otherwise

Silly generation

Reasonabledoubt:


Very good question. As if those parents that give their kids the best of education with proper planning in place for their retirement have 7 heads.

I hope you have plans in place for your own retirement cus your children will not give you 1 even if they become millionaires. Afterall, your mates became millionaires.

No be curse na karma

kjv says not only them that do it but they that have pleasure in those that do it

Orchid45:
You believe he should pay his mother for performing her duties?

He must pay for every single sweat.
so its the mothers duty to labour, sweat and raise him but she doesnt deserve his own sweat abi.

If that woman sees this thread how will she feel ?

Put yourself in her shoe. Your son is now a graduate and things arent as good as they used to be. the son you gave all for is now shedding tears to give you #1. If she didnt have him and instead built a house. Will she be broke now?