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Ezkid:
Hello house, though some people have accused me of being an ungrateful child by calling out my mother's unbecoming attitude, I wish to state categorically that I do not belong in the group of people that can be tagged as such. But the burdens that rested on my shoulders is very much for a young guy like me and it has taken its toll on my mental and physical health.

I'm a guy that work 6 to 7 hours everyday and I make little amount I can consider enough to sustain the life someone like me should be living as a young simple guy, but because I've made a terrible mistake of relocating from where I was living alone to live with my family, now it has become obvious that my family have considered me as their sole savior and the first button to press whenever they're in need, they've lost total faith in my father and theyve stop disturbing him like before.

Like I told u guys before, Mum is no longer working since she became born again and Dad is out of town, he only come around whenever he got the alerts, but before my relocation he used to send some tokens even before the end of the month, now it seems to me my Dad have capitalized on the fact that I'm working, and I should be responsible for the whole family's upkeep until his arrival
Jeez! Since I got to this house I've not being able to save a penny, my expenses is twice as much as my earnings. Whenever I go to work, I'll come back to meet my mom waiting for me at the balcony with a story of how she's been praying for someone to buy her favorite dish for her since morning, the funniest thing is no one has ever asked me for one naira since I got there but there's a way they'll start talking about food, money and other things that ll make me dip my hand in my pocket and hand over what I have, also there's these old look on everyone's face whenever they need something from me which will make me to give them what they want without being asked.

I've practically become a slave to them, always waiting for me to come before they'll start talking about what to cook and eat, right now I'm at the edge, I just want out immediately! All my earnings are being used on food for the whole family, every time I give them money I always refuse to eat out of what they cook thinking they'll get the message but its always the same, I always pity my younger ones cos they've got a real battle ahead of the.

Pls house should I leave or remain with them for the time being? Right now I'm thinking of running away from them.

Snizzerkiller:
With the account details and phone number will do the Job, go to homicide unit, alagbon, ikoyi, they will help you.. you will be amazed how he will be caught.

borie4u:
It is very funny how people fall for cheap scam like this. Anyway the deed has been done. Catching these peeps is quite simple. Go to police headquater at alagbon. Talk to an officer in the fraud unit. Good you have the account number. U don't even need the phone number. Send some cash into the account. Of course someone will come to pick it up not knowing that the acc has been marked for fraud. There is always an officer at the back of every bank building. Pronto there are caught. Hit me up if your in Lagos. I can direct u

askibee:
ok try this simple steps

that facebook profile check friends list and observe some of the friends befriend some and check his wall activities

those numbers can be traced,do you have some hackers as friend？they can do that job.send me a mail askirag@yahoo.com lets talk more.

delzbaba:
it's better you drop the full gist so that other desperate ladies can learn.

RealGucci:
naso g bpys take dey work o.
naso yahoo be
once u find maye
men d billing nor be small.
each stage
diff format
diff payments

askibee:
wow this is a very serious case o

my supicion,why didnt you pple report this to the police？what is the occupation of your friend？i mean her source of income？this said person knows her too well its not just a random person.now as for getting your money back and arresting the guy its simple,no money gotteb with your sweat will be taken away from you easily that i promise you,but your story is not adding up,i dont know you location but if this happen in lagos i can send you to some police detective who can follow you up on the case,but thats if you are being sincere,somethings are not just adding up

4reala:
You need advice and u dey drop story like say na suspense Novel. Na wah to you o

AskProf:
Very right because, "it appears..."

ManEnough:
U haven't told us anything

Confession14:
Hey people, I am back after 2 years I began this story. Should I continue it, will u like to know how it has been for the past years?

Before I continue the story, here is a summary 1) October 2015 we got to Italy 2) traditional wedding planned for June 25, 2016. 3) June 18th he was caught cheating with two next door neighbors and marriage cancelled. 4) October 2016 I walked out to Germany being 6 months pregnant 5) November 7 put to birth a succulent baby though born premature due to stress from the father 6) He is still baby's father and my heartbeat but.................

proffemi:
Some educational materials were shipped to my department by an alumnus via UPS on 12/2/2017. The package was held by Customs, pending payment of customs duties. This is normal. Also normal is this: since the enclosed items are for educational purposes, they qualify for a waiver, and my department doesn't have to pay a kobo. The process of obtaining such is supposedly straightforward. We have used other couriers in the past, and the process has usually taken between 1 and 3 days.

These are the sources of my frustration with UPS Nigeria:

1. When the package was held, I initially got no notification from them. On noting on the tracking page that the package was help in the "warehouse", I tried calling their lines TEN times. Each time, the line just rang itself out. No message, nothing. A notice eventually arrived by post SIX days after the package was held.

2. I emailed them, and they requested for the usual letter applying for a waiver. I sent that letter on 6th March, 2017. Till today, 4th April, my package remains seized.

3. My last email to them asking for an update was on 20th March. No reply till today.

What manner of "customer service" is this? This behavior is outrageous. I have used UPS in the US for over a dozen years, and this is definitely not how they operate over there.

Please who knows how to get UPS Nigeria to give me closure on this matter?

cheruv:
1217 Can you explain pls

cheruv:
1217 Can you explain pls

keepingmum:
2015 range was relying 2014. So within 2 yrs he has dropped 2 by 2 ....because 2016 never finish oo
Wife cannot break a fixed deposit unless it was in both names which means it was also her money.

Divorces in 9ja take a minimum of 1yr.

So at what point did u start dating this prince charming of urs? Was it b4 or after divorce? Was it when he was sowing his oats with other ladies?

Mr X is a cheat - keeps X2 or more relationships.....that u know off oh
Mr X is a controller - tells his spouse whom to be friends with
Mr X has no qualms having unsafe sex with random women
Mr X is irresponsible - after his wife took 'alimony', he knew his financial status has changed yet he kept popping babies out.


Madam lover girl kontunue ooo, by the time u marry and he continues sharing been a community pen.is as well as sowing his wild oats wt everybody u will remember all the advice u were given.

No wife is given more alimony than she is entitled to within 9ja law.

boladale:
I thought: if this guy has not changed as he said, why did he tell her of his past? Couldnt he have continued to keep her in the dark? It might seem that everyone is missing this fact Nope. here are the answers i came up with:
1. He was afraid she could find out later esp when they begin to prepare for marriage.
2. He used it to substantiate his past riches story.
Op, at what point did your friend know of his past riches since she didn't know he was married from the onset?
Let her request to meet this guy's family, in order to clear her eyes. I don't think he is from any 'OK' family as he said, whatever that means - and his background will say a lot about his person. Dont listen to any attemt to explain it away.Me self once nearly enter one chance before I marry. Your friend should be careful at this time, let her not rely on her own judgement AT ALL. God bless.

bellong:
@Silverr,

I have just one question before I can give my opinion. Your honest and truthful answer will be appreciated.

When did this man in question repents or was he the one that told you he is God fearing?

Eketem:
My friend stop lying, there is no friend here you are the one who is desperate and determined to marry this lying manipulative man.
So three women are evil and you are a saint


The good part about this is that you will marry him or when he finishes using you and Dumps you, he will give worse tales of you to other women.

I don't buy the stupid set up story.

You keep coming up with excuses and justifications, go ahead abeg.

It is women like you that make men Call us fish brain.


Shebi you read the story of a girlfriend murdered by her boyfriend and thrown in a soakaway. This same man's wife ran away due to violence but he told the girlfriend that the wife was a cheat and the lady was helping him share this story till she became a recipient and ended up in a soakaway pit.

3 women, 4 children yet none stayed with him you are busy using money that you could have used for landed property or to buy small sense to open a shop for him.

Abeg close this thread and go and marry him let us hear word, you will be back with another ID in a few months asking what to do about a lying, cheating manipulative man after " all I have done for him"

TheArchangel:
Babe, I doubt you are looking for advise here. Every of your line is leaning towards this guy while every other poster here is angling on the opposite.
Beta clear your eye. Your guy is like an accidented Dangote truck that leaves trails of mishap wherever it goes.

DBestDoc:
How sure are you @ the emboldened?

This man sure knows how to use women to get what he wants, he's perfected the art of .

Cooked stories swallowed hook and sinker.
I sympathize with other sisters that fell victim to his charms and illusions of perfection he gives.
I wish his current catch all the best!