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Quietboy2017:
Like if you think Op friend is considering the man because of money

eyinjuege:
She should go and get someone else to marry.

He's impregnated 3 women, and none was good enough to marry? Your friend will soon become the 4th baby mama
Even if he's from a rich home, and equally rich himself she doesn't need so much baggage. I won't be surprised that the most attractive thing about him is his wealth.

Let your friend take her eyes off that

HARDDON:
cc Lalasticlala
OAM4J, Mynd44
honeric01, semid4lyfe
Fynestboi Ijebabe Ishilove MissyB3

HARDDON:
Have access to the first wife? said that out of sarcasm... cos those probably where the thing the first wify saw and jump on! only to realise too late that all that glitters aint gold. you friends shouldnt make same mistake.

@ bolded, how can a man that have two kids from the extra worlds, give those reasons and she blivs him?

so is he telling us that he is perfect? it was all her fault? common! slap some sense into her.
and hey, there are always richer men than him, she could have married.


i hate to do this to a fellow guy but here is a lil secret question:

you are a woman Silver, when your man is cheating on you, do you still hold him in regards? that could be why she disrespects him and wano bring down the house each time....She must have been pained.

she didnt object because she was fed up too! and hey, here is the BIG one, did she cater away all his property during the divorce?

she married him for his money,never loved him yet she wasnt the one that initiated divorce so she cud lay her hands on the pie and be free? wow woman!

this is a big deal, any how she wano do it, she must investigate what really happened to his first marriage. look for old neighbors, ex wife's friends, family member, just about anybody. this is very easy. let her ask him his ex wife's full names. facebook is her friend thereafter.

if she doesnt do this and jumps head on, sorry is her case! cos from my ""old player's feelings", the guy luvs soup mixtures!

sisisioge:
Well if it's one, we say sheets happen.
If it's two, we say guy is Stoopid.
When it's three, we call him a serial wetinwetin.

Biko, if your girl is as hot as said let her carry her tent go pitch else where. Although, nobody holy pass o but some of us come smelling like roses compared to others in the sniff factory. Whew, it is well. May God help her .

HARDDON:
her most important question is what caused the first marriage to crash? Why did he agree to the divorce?( dont think he would have if actually he is a christian that truly fears God unless ofcos, she was promiscuous.)

She should not only hear from him , but also other people and the stories shouldnt contrast.

has he truly changed? ( only God can answer this question, so she should ask him)


does she have a large heart and can be mother to all the kids, whether they stay with them or come visit ,without having to be wicked to them?


Kindly tell her: the last thing she should consider now, is those things u listed up there : "very okay, perfect character, handsome, God fearing, good family, financially ok"

if she is in doubt about this advise, let her ask the first wify how far!


May the good Lord direct her steps.

blogAlive:
The mistress has taken full liberty not to leave the house. Even his relatives has started to flock the house as she is almost due for delivery. The man has not said anything since.

Princess2011:
hello friends please lend me you ears. kindly read well before you comment.

Ishilove:
"I want ya puzzay hot and stinky!"

In other words, 'odorfious and wogo-wogo' puzeze's turn him on.

AleAirHub:
Una Good Morning oooo.

Small 104300RMB Dey for sale.

timisco1:
I laff, is like u don't know this ijaw militants, d only ones u can kill can Neva exceed 5, i know what am saying, their god of war "egbesu" can only betray them if they contrary to its rules, i hav encountered them ones in d creek in bayelsa state.
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MarieSucre:
Creamish
Sixix

I am sorry both. I apologize for the deception. If you had only gone through my post history you would have immediately known that I am not only female but also speak out for women. I was trolling with heavy layers of sarcasm.

Ndo, ejo, I am sorry. Hope it has started raining in your side o. This heat no be here.

MarieSucre:
Creamish
Sixix

I am sorry both. I apologize for the deception. If you had only gone through my post history you would have immediately known that I am not only female but also speak out for women. I was trolling with heavy layers of sarcasm.

Ndo, ejo, I am sorry. Hope it has started raining in your side o. This heat no be here.

MarieSucre:
misreal silverr Adaeze003 HaneefahRN EgunMogaji Sixix paschu amokeme

This is first guy to realise my post is trolling of the highest order. For the women insulting. My post is a prime example of SARCASM.

tosyne2much:
Clap 4 urself

MarieSucre:
I swear to God, I am a woman. Why can't you believe that there are women who believe in maintaining the status quo. There are some Nigerians who believed that Nigeria should still be under Britain. The British might have been racist, imperialist, it was really and unequal dynamic, but Britain was clothed us with an air of power.

Sixix:
Ode!

E no go for better for whoever did this to you

tosyne2much:
You will definitely tell him someone else got under ur skirt?

tosyne2much:
What if you were the one who cheated?

tosyne2much:
You are wicked

linusbnn:
I wonder what is big in been submissive. Submission is I go low for other party to go higher. I and my wife will never be equal because she is my companion and helper, I paid her price and I take charge of her welfare. Tell me why you should be loyal to your boss in the office.

tosyne2much:
Yes it's humiliating but you should know two wrongs can't make a right

misreal:
if he finds his wisemen,unwise he can do away with them or simply ignore them..evry wise man listens to his wife,if his wifes counsel is wise.then his decision will be based on what his wife says..a wife should understand that her place is to give wise counsel and try to persuade her husband,not to rule and unrule as she pleases.....

misreal:
it really bothers me that most ladies commenting on this thread are craving for equality in marriage i.e man equals woman..well i dont blame them at all,its just that many of them dont know what it means to be submissive,neither do they know the power of a submitted wife...marriage is like a kingdom ruled by a king(husband).decisions are delibrated by the counsel of elders(wife),where everyone of them is allowed to make meaningful contributions.the final say is with the king.a wise king surrounds himself with wise men,but what do you think will happen if every elder chooses to act as the king?..ur guess is as good as mine....chaos.......women,no matter how hard you debate this matter,you can never be the head of your husband,you can only help him make wise decisions..dont quote me if u will abuse me.